You obviously dont live in Melbourne, Rhonda - fully booked "sleep schools" not only show the lack of confidence women have in their own ability, but perpetuate these feelings of inadequacy - that babies "should" behave / sleep whatever and therefore mothers must follow these awful perescriptive regimes - While I hear from mothers who have "failed " sleep school, I also keep hearing from professionals who believe they are saving large numbers of families who are "falling apart" due to sleep deprivation by sending them to "sleep school" some of these babies are VERY young. I would be interested in a followup study - I am sure all mothers need support -perhaps more doulas would be an answer -not the sleep training kind!
I am saddened that the maternal instinct to respond to babies is being so clouded by these myths of the sleeping baby - and that publishers keep the myth alive.
 
Pinky
 
 
I----- Original Message -----
From: Rhonda
Sent: Friday, March 14, 2003 10:51 PM
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] "failure to sleep through the night"!!!

 
I guess some women listen to it all but just as well most mothers laugh at the "professionals" and complain about the nurse saying this or the dr saying that - what would they know etc.
Pity that it seems to be that way - but from what I hear on the street ( at school and playgroup etc) women walk out of hospital totally confused thinking that the Nurses, Midwives and Dr's are all off a different planet and have no idea about the reality of being a parent.  Not all - as there are always exceptions but many!
 
Regards
Rhonda.
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Date: Friday, March 14, 2003 17:28:28
Subject: [ozmidwifery] "failure to sleep through the night"!!!
 
I was just flicking through the latest ANF Journal before chucking it out when the title "Frequent feeding clue to disrupted infant sleep"!! It was published in the "Archives of Disease in Childhood" by M. Nikoloulou and I. St. James-Roberts. These researchers identified "at risk" infants during their first week of life which put them at risk of failing to sleep through the night at 12 weeks of age!! Talk about turn normal physiology into an abnormality. They say that babies that feed more than 11 times per day at 1 week were 2.7 times more likely not to sleep through. Duh, aren't they supposed to be feeding frequently. There is no mention of the failure to thrive rate between the "control" group and the"behaviour program group". This program included maximising the difference between day and night, avoinding feeding and cuddling at night and from the age of three weeks gradually delaying feeds when the baby awoke at night!!
When will sense prevail. Those poor women out there, they must be so confused with nurses now taking that line.
Just annoyed
Jackie
 
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