>>>>>The above two Sayings (Hadiths) of our beloved Prophet Muhammad 
peace be upon him tell us that:

> 1- The believing wives of the believing husbands will be as 
beautiful as the maidens or houris in Heaven, and they will be large-
eyed maidens for their husbands<<<<<

---->Gak ada yang matanya sipit? 


>>>> 2- The man can choose from any maidens he desires.


----> Ini dia, jadi lebih sedap daripada dibumi, apalagi kalau 
miskin, mana yang mau jadi istri? Ada uang abang sayang, gak ada uang 
abang melayang...



>>>> 3- The single believing men and women who get admitted to 
Paradise can  marry and live happily in Paradise since there will 
be "husbands" and  "wives". See Noble Verses 52:20 and 44:54 and the 
comments/analysis about them above.

------> jadi yang masih single dibumi, gak usah kawatir, kawin aja 
nanti setelah meninggal...tapi? gak bnisa punya anak dong?


>>>>> 4- A man can have wives and maidens. A woman can have only one 
husband.  The maidens for the man will be of equal age and are never 
touched or seen by any man or jinn. 

Tuhhh, diurga juga wanita hanya boleh satu laki2. Oh mama mia, jinn 
tu kayak apa ya? Kok ikut2 main? Disentuh jinn? Tak usah ya?


Let us look at the following Noble Verses from the Noble Quran:

> "...Of the Gardens will be Near....In them will be (Maidens), 
chaste, restraining their glances, whom no Man or Jinn before them 
has touched. (The Noble Quran, 55:54, 56)"

Syukurlah, kalau jinn gak boleh ikut2 nyolek isteri. 



RMDH


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> Sent: Thursday, October 14, 2004 3:28 AM
> Subject: Re: Membela tp merendahkan Islam Re: [ppiindia] A Nizami 
Re: 
> Mengharamkan Poligami dan Menghalalkan Perzinahan
> 
> 
> >
> > Women and Maidens in Heaven according to Islam.  Will women have 
> > companions?
> >
> Certainly, they need companionship of me. Anyone who you want to 
join? 
> Please send application soonest!.
> 
> >
> > Does Paradise in Islam really have Homosexuality in it?
> >
> > The sections of this article are:
> >
> > 1-  Does Paradise in Islam really have Homosexuality in it?
> > 2-  Lesbians in Paradise?  Will a believing single woman have a 
male or 
> > female
> >      spouse in Paradise?
> > 3-  So what about the married (here on earth) believing men and 
women?
> > 4-  In Paradise everyone (men and women) will live happily.
> > 5-  How come women in Islam can't have multiple husbands if they 
are equal 
> > to men?
> > 6-  Further additions and explanations from Muslims.
> >
> > It has come to my attention that a group of the 
Christian "Answering 
> > Islam" team are trying to spread the false idea that the Islamic 
Paradise 
> > will have Lesbians in it.  They first tried to show that when 
Allah 
> > Almighty uses the word "Righteous" for the Muslims, He is 
referring to 
> > both men and women, which is absolutely correct.  Let us look at 
the 
> > following Noble Verses:
> >
> > "While he was standing in prayer in the chamber, the angels 
called unto 
> > him: 'God doth give thee glad tidings of Yahya, witnessing the 
truth of a 
> > Word from God, and (be besides) noble, chaste, and a prophet,- of 
the 
> > (goodly) company of the righteous.' (The Noble Quran, 3:39)"
> >
> > "He shall speak to the people in childhood and in maturity. And 
he shall 
> > be (of the company) of the righteous. (The Noble Quran, 3:46)"
> >
> > "They believe in God and the Last Day; they enjoin what is right, 
and 
> > forbid what is wrong; and they hasten (in emulation) in (all) 
good works: 
> > They are in the ranks of the righteous.  (The Noble Quran, 3:114)"
> >
> > "The life of this world is alluring to those who reject faith, 
and they 
> > scoff at those who believe. But the righteous will be above them 
on the 
> > Day of Resurrection; for God bestows His abundance without 
measure on whom 
> > He will.   (The Noble Quran, 2:212)"
> >
> > "Recite to them the truth of the story of the two sons of Adam. 
Behold! 
> > they each presented a sacrifice (to God): It was accepted from 
one, but 
> > not from the other. Said the latter: 'Be sure I will slay 
thee.' 'Surely,' 
> > said the former, "God doth accept of the sacrifice of those who 
are 
> > righteous.'  (The Noble Quran, 5:27)"
> >
> > "What is the life of this world but play and amusement? But best 
is the 
> > home in the hereafter, for those who are righteous. Will ye not 
then 
> > understand?  (The Noble Quran, 6:32)"
> >
> > "The day We shall gather the righteous to (God) Most Gracious, 
like a band 
> > presented before a king for honours,  (The Noble Quran, 19:85)"
> >
> > "Before this We wrote in the Psalms, after the Message (given to 
Moses): 
> > My servants the righteous, shall inherit the earth.  (The Noble 
Quran, 
> > 21:105)"
> >
> > The above Noble Verses are crystal clear about the 
word "righteous" 
> > referring to both men and women.  The Paradise and Great Reward 
that Allah 
> > Almighty promised and prepared for the "righteous" is indeed 
meant for 
> > both men and women.
> >
> >
> >
> > Lesbians in Paradise?  Will a believing single woman have a male 
or female 
> > spouse in Paradise?
> >
> > This is the section where the Christian "Answering Islam" team is 
clearly 
> > wrong in.  They claim that since Allah Almighty called both men 
and women 
> > "righteous" in the Noble Verses above, and promised them to be 
joined 
> > together as "companions" as shown Noble Verses below, and didn't 
specify 
> > that men will be joined with women only, then He the Almighty 
meant that 
> > He will mix both genders together and allow them to have sexual 
> > relationships together as Gays and Lesbians.  This conclusion 
from that 
> > bogus team is plain dumb!  No woman will be a Lesbian, and no man 
will be 
> > a Gay in Paradise.  Let us look at the following Noble Verses 
that the 
> > Christian "Answering Islam" team had used:
> >
> > "Round about them will serve, (devoted) to them. Youths 
(handsome) as 
> > Pearls well-guarded.  (The Noble Quran, 52:24)"  "...Youths 
(handsome)..." 
> > is written in Arabic as "gilma-nun llahum".  Gilma-nun literally 
means 
> > young males.  This Noble Verse is talking about young male 
servants whom 
> > Allah Almighty Created for the service of the Believers in 
Paradise.
> >
> > "Round about them will (serve) youths of perpetual (freshness),  
(The 
> > Noble Quran, 56:17)"  "...youths of..." is written in Arabic this 
time as 
> > "wil-daa-nun", which literally means young boys.   This Noble 
Verse is 
> > again talking about young male servants whom Allah Almighty 
Created for 
> > the service of the Believers in Paradise.
> >
> > "And round about them will (serve) youths of perpetual 
(freshness): If 
> > thou seest them, thou wouldst think them scattered Pearls.  (The 
Noble 
> > Quran, 76:19)"  "youths of..." uses the same exact word in Noble 
Verse 
> > 56:17.
> >
> > "And for such as had entertained the fear of standing before 
their Lord's 
> > (tribunal) and had restrained (their) soul from lower desires, 
Their abode 
> > will be the Garden. (The Noble Quran, 79:40-41)"  "...Their abode 
will be 
> > the Garden." is written in Arabic as "fa-inna al-jannata hiya al-
ma'wa". 
> > This is a correct translation.  However, it doesn't show anywhere 
of same 
> > genders having sex with each others.
> >
> > "They will recline (with ease) on Thrones (of dignity) arranged 
in ranks; 
> > and We shall join them to Companions, with beautiful big and 
lustrous 
> > eyes.  (The Noble Quran, 52:20)"  "We shall join them to 
Companions..." is 
> > written in Arabic as "wa-zawwaj-naahum bi-hoori-aayn".   The 
English 
> > translation is not quite accurate for this Noble Verse.  The 
Arabic word 
> > "wa-zawwaj-naahum" means to have them marry or get 
married.   "join them 
> > to Companions" is not really accurate, because it doesn't 
necessarily mean 
> > that they would get married if they were "Companions".
> >
> > Very Important Note: It is very important to know that the Arabic 
Noble 
> > Quran is referring to marriage in this Noble Verse, because 
marriage in 
> > Islam is NOT FOR THE SAME GENDERS.  Males can not marry males in 
Islam. 
> > The same applies for females.   So when Allah Almighty used the 
word 
> > "Wa-Zawwaj-naahum", which is derived from the Arabic word "zawaaj 
> > (marriage)", He the Almighty clearly meant to enjoin males and 
females 
> > into marriage, and not to mix the males and females together and 
have them 
> > pick and choose their sexual mates, even if they were the same 
gender. 
> > Let us look at Noble Verse 44:54 "Moreover, We shall Join them to 
> > Companions With beautiful, big, And lustrous eyes."   The same 
word for 
> > "...join them to Companions..." is used in Noble Verse 52:20.
> >
> > As for those whom the believers would marry, "...With beautiful, 
big, And 
> > lustrous eyes...", it is written in Arabic as "bi hoori-aayn".  
This same 
> > word was used for Jesus' (peace be upon him) disciples (al-
hawariyyun as 
> > plural......hur or huri or houri as singular), which both (al-
hawariyyun) 
> > and (hoori-aayn) are both derived from the Arabic word "hoor" 
or "howr", 
> > or "hur".
> >
> > The following comment regarding Noble Verses 52:20 and 44:54 was 
taken 
> > from the foot notes of the Noble Quran that was translated by 
Minister 
> > (Sheikh) Abdullah Yusuf Ali; may Allah Almighty rest his soul and 
make 
> > Paradise his ultimate destiny: "Hur implies the following ideas: 
(1) 
> > purity; possibly the word Hawariyun, as applied to the first 
Disciples of 
> > Jesus, is connected with this root; (2) beauty, especially of 
eyes, where 
> > the intense white of the eyeballs stands out against the intense 
black of 
> > the pupil, thus giving the appearance of lustre, and intense 
feeling: as 
> > opposed to dullness or want of expression; and (3) truth and good 
will."
> >
> > The word "hur" which Jesus' male disciples and the companions of 
believers 
> > in Paradise were given names that were derived from it quite 
clearly is 
> > referring to both males and females.  This means that the winners 
of 
> > Paradise will have their suitable gender of "hoori-aayn" 
depending on 
> > their gender.
> >
> > So when Allah Almighty promised companions to the believers in 
Paradise, 
> > He quite clearly and obviously promised female companions for the 
males 
> > and male companions for the females.
> >
> > Important Note: In Arabic, plurals and pronouns are derived from 
root 
> > words.  In the case of "Quran" for instance as in "Noble Quran", 
it is 
> > derived from the root word "Iqra" which means read. "Qara" 
means "past of 
> > read", "Quran" means "The read".  It could also mean "The 
Revealed" since 
> > the word "Qara" could also mean "Read to him/her" as in "Qara 
alaihi or 
> > Qara lahu", which means "Read to him".
> >
> > Another example to take is "Kitab" which means "Book".  It is 
derived from 
> > the root word "yaktub" which means "write". "kitaba" 
means "writing". 
> > "kataba" means "wrote".  So "kitab" means the "The written".
> >
> > In the case of the word "hawariyyun", which is the word Allah 
Almighty 
> > called Jesus' disciples peace be upon them, it is derived from 
the root 
> > word "hur".   So in the case of Jesus' disciples peace be upon 
them, Allah 
> > Almighty respected them by calling them "hawariyyun", which is 
plural of 
> > "huri", which is derived from the root word "hur" which means a 
very 
> > beautiful human-creation of Allah Almighty.  So the word "hur" 
or "huri" 
> > in the Noble Quran and Arabic can refer to either a male or 
female and NOT 
> > JUST FEMALES ALONE, thus making the hoori-aayn or huri-aayn of 
Paradise be 
> > either males huri-aayn or females huri-aayn, because "huri-aayn" 
is 
> > derived from the root word "hur".
> >
> > Another Important Note: In the section below, you will see proof 
that a 
> > woman can only have one husband.  A woman can't have multiple 
husbands. 
> > Only the man can have multiple wives.
> >
> >
> >
> > So what about the married (here on earth) believing men and women?
> >
> > First of all, we have to understand that when Allah Almighty 
created us, 
> > He created us so we can live in pairs (husbands and wives) in 
harmony and 
> > peace for ever.  "And among His Signs is this, that He created 
for you 
> > mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity 
with them, 
> > and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in 
that are 
> > Signs for those who reflect.  (The Noble Quran, 30:21)"
> >
> > The righteous husbands and wives would live in harmony, peace and 
love not 
> > only here on earth, but also in Paradise as well; "Enter ye the 
Garden, ye 
> > and your wives, in (beauty and) rejoicing.  (The Noble Quran, 
43:70)"
> >
> > Allah Almighty from His very first Creation of Mankind meant to 
create us 
> > to live in pairs (husbands and wives) in peace and harmony; "We 
said: 'O 
> > Adam! dwell thou and thy wife in the Garden; and eat of the 
bountiful 
> > things therein as (where and when) ye will; but approach not this 
tree, or 
> > ye run into harm and transgression.'  (The Noble Quran, 2:35)"  
This GOD 
> > Almighty's System will be implemented in Heaven for the believers 
as we 
> > saw in Noble Verse 43:70 above.
> >
> > Let us look at what Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him said 
regarding 
> > women in Paradise:
> >
> > "This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Abu Huraira 
through 
> > another chain of transmitters that Allah's Messenger (may peace 
be upon 
> > him) said: The (members of the) first group which would get into 
Paradise 
> > will have their faces as bright as stars in the sky. They would 
neither 
> > pass water, nor void excrement, nor will they suffer from 
catarrh, nor 
> > will they spit, and their combs would be made of gold, and their 
sweat 
> > will be musk, the fuel of their brazier will be aloes, and their 
wives 
> > will be large-eyed maidens and their form would be alike as one 
single 
> > person after the form of their father (Adam) sixty cubits tall. 
> > (Translation of Sahih Muslim, Book 40, The Book Pertaining to 
Paradise, 
> > Its Description, Its Bounties and Its Intimates (Kitab Al-Jannat 
wa Sifat 
> > Na'imiha wa Ahliha), Number 6795)"
> >
> > Narrated Mu'adh ibn Jabal: "The Apostle of Allah 
(peace_be_upon_him) said: 
> > if anyone suppresses anger when he is in a position to give vent 
to it, 
> > Allah, the Exalted, will call him on the Day of Resurrection over 
the 
> > heads of all creatures, and ask him to choose any of the bright 
and large 
> > eyed maidens he wishes.  (Sunan Abu-Dawud, Book 41, General 
Behavior 
> > (Kitab Al-Adab), Number 4759)"
> >
> > The above two Sayings (Hadiths) of our beloved Prophet Muhammad 
peace be 
> > upon him tell us that:
> >
> > 1- The believing wives of the believing husbands will be as 
beautiful as 
> > the maidens or houris in Heaven, and they will be large-eyed 
maidens for 
> > their husbands.
> >
> > 2- The man can choose from any maidens he desires.
> >
> > 3- The single believing men and women who get admitted to 
Paradise can 
> > marry and live happily in Paradise since there will be "husbands" 
and 
> > "wives".   See Noble Verses 52:20 and 44:54 and the 
comments/analysis 
> > about them above.
> >
> > 4- A man can have wives and maidens.  A woman can have only one 
husband. 
> > The maidens for the man will be of equal age and are never 
touched or seen 
> > by any man or jinn.  Let us look at the following Noble Verses 
from the 
> > Noble Quran:
> >
> > "So taste ye (the fruits of your deeds); for no increase shall We 
grant 
> > you, except in Punishment.  Verily for the Righteous there will 
be a 
> > fulfilment of (the heart's) desires; Gardens enclosed, and 
grapevines; 
> > Companions of equal age;  (The Noble Quran, 78:30-33)"
> >
> > "...Of the Gardens will be Near....In them will be (Maidens), 
chaste, 
> > restraining their glances, whom no Man or Jinn before them has 
touched. 
> > (The Noble Quran, 55:54, 56)"
> >
> > Here we clearly see that Allah Almighty prepared maidens of equal 
age and 
> > who were never touched by Jinn or Man for the believing men.
> >
> >
> >
> > In Paradise everyone (men and women) will live happily:
> >
> > Let us look at the following Noble Verses from the Noble Quran:
> >
> > "Verily the Companions of the Garden shall that Day have joy in 
all that 
> > they do;  (The Noble Quran, 36:55)"
> >
> > "(Here is) a Parable of the Garden which the righteous are 
promised: in it 
> > are rivers of water incorruptible; rivers of milk of which the 
taste never 
> > changes; rivers of wine, a joy to those who drink; and rivers of 
honey 
> > pure and clear. In it there are for them all kinds of fruits; and 
Grace 
> > from their Lord. (Can those in such Bliss) be compared to such as 
shall 
> > dwell for ever in the Fire, and be given, to drink, boiling 
water, so that 
> > it cuts up their bowels (to pieces)?  (The Noble Quran, 47:15)"
> >
> > "As to those who believe and work righteous deeds, they have, for 
their 
> > entertainment, the Gardens of Paradise,  (The Noble Quran, 
18:107)"
> >
> > "And those who feared their Lord will be led to the Garden in 
crowds: 
> > until behold, they arrive there; its gates will be opened; and 
its keepers 
> > will say: 'Peace be upon you! well have ye done! enter ye here, 
to dwell 
> > therein.'  (The Noble Quran, 39:73)"
> >
> > "They will say: 'Praise be to God, Who has truly fulfilled His 
Promise to 
> > us, and has given us (this) land in heritage: We can dwell in the 
Garden 
> > as we will: how excellent a reward for those who work 
(righteousness)!' 
> > (The Noble Quran, 39:74)"
> >
> > "But those who have faith and work righteousness, they are 
companions of 
> > the Garden: Therein shall they abide (For ever).  (The Noble 
Quran, 2:82)"
> >
> > "Be quick in the race for forgiveness from your Lord, and for a 
Garden 
> > whose width is that (of the whole) of the heavens and of the 
earth, 
> > prepared for the righteous,  (The Noble Quran, 3:133)"
> >
> > "Every soul shall have a taste of death: And only on the Day of 
Judgment 
> > shall you be paid your full recompense. Only he who is saved far 
from the 
> > Fire and admitted to the Garden will have attained the object (of 
Life): 
> > For the life of this world is but goods and chattels of 
deception.  (The 
> > Noble Quran, 3:185)"
> >
> > There are many more Noble Verses that elaborate on the Great 
Reward and 
> > Joy that the Believers (men and women) will have in Heaven, but I 
think 
> > the above Noble Verses are good enough to prove my point.
> >
> >
> >
> > How come women in Islam can't have multiple husbands if they are 
equal to 
> > men?
> >
> > This is one of the things that I personally can't speak on behalf 
of GOD 
> > Almighty.   I can't ALWAYS tell you why or why not He chose to do 
certain 
> > things.   But throughout His Noble Revelations that started from 
the time 
> > of Adam all the way to Muhammad peace be upon them, polygany or 
polygamy 
> > (man having multiple women) is allowed (although it is highly 
discouraged 
> > to a point where it is almost prohibited in Islam to most men), 
where 
> > polyandry (woman having multiple husbands) had always been 
forbidden!
> >
> > Note: The word "polygamy" in the past used to mean men and women 
marrying 
> > multiple husbands and wives, meaning that the man would have 
multiple 
> > wives and each of his wives would have multiple husbands.   But 
today, the 
> > word had been modified to mean "man having multiple wives" only.  
At 
> > least, this is what I meant it to mean in this article.
> >
> > As far as women being equal to men in Islam, well, please visit 
Women in 
> > Islam V.S. Christianity to see the many proofs that women are 
indeed equal 
> > to men in Islam and hold a very dear, respectful and honorable 
place in 
> > Islam, and how women on the other hand are nothing but "sex 
objects" who 
> > have no value in Christianity.  Islam came to liberate and free 
women and 
> > put them on the highest ranks of honor.  I provided quotes and 
proofs from 
> > both the Noble Quran, and the Bible's Old and New Testaments.
> >
> >
> >
> > Further additions and explanations from Muslims:
> >
> > The following addition was sent to me by brother Rizan Bin 
Noordin; may 
> > Allah Almighty always be pleased with him.
> >
> > Regarding the above-said article, I believe the answering-Islam 
team are 
> > mixing their views of Heaven with what they find here on Earth. 
In the 
> > Qur'an it is said:
> >
> > "And of every thing We have created pairs: That ye may receive 
> > instruction." - surah adh-Dhariyat 51:49.
> >
> > and
> >
> > "And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from 
among 
> > yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He 
has put 
> > love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs 
for those 
> > who reflect." - surah ar-Room 30:21.
> >
> > Thus it is clear that for men there are women and vic versa. The 
ideas of 
> > gayism or lesbianism are not from the commands of Allah, but from 
the 
> > whisperings of syaitaan.
> >
> > "And (remember) Lut: behold, he said to his people: "Ye do commit 
> > lewdness, such as no people in Creation (ever) committed before 
you. Do ye 
> > indeed approach men, and cut off the highway?- and practise 
wickedness 
> > (even) in your councils?" But his people gave no answer but this: 
they 
> > said: "Bring us the Wrath of Allah if thou tellest the truth. He 
said: "O 
> > my Lord! help Thou me against people who do mischief!" When Our 
Messengers 
> > came to Abraham with the good news, they said: "We are indeed 
going to 
> > destroy the people of this township: for truly they are (addicted 
to) 
> > crime."" - surah al-Ankabut 29:28-31.
> >
> > "Those of you who turned back on the day the two hosts Met,-it 
was Satan 
> > who caused them to fail, because of some (evil) they had done. 
But Allah 
> > Has blotted out (their fault): For Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most 
> > Forbearing." - surah al-Imran 3:155.
> >
> > "From the mischief of the Whisperer (of Evil), who withdraws 
(after his 
> > whisper),- (The same) who whispers into the hearts of Mankind,-" -
 surah 
> > an-Nas 114:4-5.
> >
> > There cannot be any whisperings or evil in heaven. Thus the 
essential 
> > force that pushes men and women towards the revolting acts are 
removed. 
> > The Earthbound idea of having relations with servants, or with 
people of 
> > the same sex are no longer in the equation of human tendencies. 
Our minds 
> > will be free of such thought, thus the answering-Islam team's 
allegations 
> > that there will be the base desires in Heaven is absurd. It is 
clearly 
> > revealed in surah al-Jinn.
> >
> > "'And we[the jinn] pried into the secrets of heaven; but we found 
it 
> > filled with stern guards and flaming fire." - surah al-Jinn 72:8.
> >
> > So I believe the initial argument from the answering-Islam team 
is already 
> > wrong. They are arguing semantics while throwing out the 
essential message 
> > of the whole Qur'an.
> >
> > "O Messenger! let not those grieve thee, who race each other into 
> > unbelief: (whether it be) among those who say "We believe" with 
their lips 
> > but whose hearts have no faith; or it be among the Jews,- men who 
will 
> > listen to any lie,- will listen even to others who have never so 
much as 
> > come to thee. They change the words from their (right) times and 
places: 
> > they say, "If ye are given this, take it, but if not, beware!" If 
any 
> > one's trial is intended by Allah, thou hast no authority in the 
least for 
> > him against Allah. For such - it is not Allah's will to purify 
their 
> > hearts. For them there is disgrace in this world, and in the 
Hereafter a 
> > heavy punishment." - surah al-Maaidah 5:41.
> >
> > That is all from me brother Osama. I hope however little my 
efforts, I 
> > have helped in your cause. Please carry on your noble efforts in 
the 
> > spirit of Islam. I hope Allah protect us from speaking untruth 
and shelter 
> > us from the lies of those with an agenda against His teachings, 
> > InsyaAllah.
> >
> > Allah Ma'ak.
> >
> > rm_danardono <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> >
> >
> >>>>>>jadi lu bener nggak sedikitpun terbersit keinginan nakal untuk
> > tidur dengan banyak/berbagai wanita cantik? kalau begitu lu orang
> > hebat..... orang pilihan<<<<<
> >
> >
> > wahhh...nggak adil nihhh, gimana dengan wanita2 kita yang mimpi 
tidur
> > dengan laki2 ganteng ala Tom Cruise dll? Masak laki2 melulu yang
> > boleh mimpi indah?....disurga katanya ditunggu bidadari yang 
perawan2
> > terus...lah yang wanita saleh ditunggu siapa? masak iya ditunggu
> > Mullah2 yang sudah meninggal?
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > --- In [EMAIL PROTECTED], Suhiro wrote:
> >>
> >> siapa bilang poligami urusan horisontal saja...disitu ada 
tanggung
> > jawab
> >> kepada TUhan.....
> >> lagian, umat yang meyakini poligami atau hukum poligami itu dari
> > tuhan
> >> sehingga hanya bisa dipake logika Tuhan, bukan logika manusia,
> > walaupun
> >> ada yang tidak, yaitu yang percaya tidk ada hukum Tuhan.
> >>
> >> jadi kalo urusan vertikal boleh pake logika Allah, horisontal 
tidak
> >>
> >> kawin Mut'ah...boleh-boleh saja kalo mau mengambil hukum itu, 
islam
> > syiah
> >> katanya membolehkan
> >>
> >> jadi lu bener nggak sedikitpun terbersit keinginan nakal untuk 
tidur
> >> dengan banyak/berbagai wanita cantik?
> >>
> >> kalau begitu lu orang hebat..... orang pilihan
> >>
> >>
> >> On Wed, 13 Oct 2004, jksutan wrote:
> >>
> >> >
> >> >
> >> >
> >> > logika Allah mengatur urusan vertikal
> >> >
> >> > poligami itu urusan horisontal yaitu manusia dgn manusia lain
> >> >
> >> > achh gimana pula kau ini BAH!
> >> >
> >> > kenapa kawin mutah tak kau imani saja sekalian...? itu baru
> > wuenak
> >> > tenan...
> >> >
> >> >
> >> >
> >> > --- In [EMAIL PROTECTED], Suhiro wrote:
> >> > >
> >> > > bagaimana kalo Logika Allah dipake dalam kasus poligami ini?
> >> > > juga iman seperti kata Bung Fisdens,
> >> > >
> >> > > kalau pake keduanya kan tidak ada masalah lagi to?
> >> > >
> >> > > iman dan logika Allah pernah saya baca di sejarah Tuhan, 
sewaktu
> >> > > ditanyakan,"
> >> > > Dimanakah Tuhan Bapa sewaktu Yesus disalib, diman juga Roh
> > Kudus,
> >> > > apa TUhan Bapa dan Roh Kudus ikut di salib?
> >> > > kalau ikut disalib dan mati, siapa yang mengatur alam semesta
> > pada
> >> > waktu
> >> > > itu?
> >> > > bagaimana yang berbeda bisa berada di tempat dan waktu yang
> > sama?
> >> > >
> >> > > itu hanya bisa dijawab dengan IMAN
> >> > >
> >> > >
> >> > > On Tue, 12 Oct 2004, Fidens Simanjuntak wrote:
> >> > >
> >> > > >
> >> > > > Dear Nizami,
> >> > > >
> >> > > > > Maaf bung Fidens,
> >> > > > > Ini logika orang awam ya,
> >> > > >
> >> > > > Tidak apa-apa mbak Nizami. Saya juga dulu sering bertanya-
> > tanya
> >> > dengan
> >> > > > memakai logika orang awam. Dari situ iman saya berkembang.
> > Tapi,
> >> > dari
> >> > > > pengalaman saya, logika "orang-orang awam" itu tidak 
sanggup
> >> > > > mengikuti/memahami logika Allah.
> >> > > >
> >> > > > > Jika Allah melarang Abraham dan Yakob berpoligami, 
bukankah
> >> > Allah akan menegur langsung pada saat itu juga (mis pada surat
> >> > Kejadian/Raja2)? Lagi pula Abraham dan Yakob itu setahu saya
> > adalah
> >> > Nabi.
> >> > > >
> >> > > > Saya tidak tahu apakah ada ayat yang menunjukkan bahwa 
Allah
> >> > menegur
> >> > > > nabi-nabinya karena polygamy. Tapi ada ayat-ayat lain 
dimana
> >> > Allah
> >> > > > menegur nabi-nabinya, misalnya
> >> > > > Musa ditegur karena tidak menuruti perintah Allah -->
> > akibatnya
> >> > Musa
> >> > > > tidak bisa masuk ke tanah perjanjian. Daud, ditegur sewaktu
> > dia
> >> > > > melakukan perzinahan.
> >> > > >
> >> > > > Kalau saya boleh memakai logika orang awam juga, pada saat
> > Allah
> >> > itu
> >> > > > punya rencana penyelamatan yang besar dalam diri Yesus. 
Allah
> >> > ingin
> >> > > > menyelamatkan seluruh orang, bukan hanya nabi-nabinya. 
Allah
> > itu
> >> > BIG
> >> > > > BOSS kita manusia. Adakah seorang BOSS perusahaan
> > multinasional
> >> > yang
> >> > > > sedang merencanakan investasi besar-besaran ke seluruh
> > pelosok
> >> > dunia,
> >> > > > mengurusi hutang tukang sapu gedung kantor cabang
> > perusahaannya
> >> > di
> >> > > > Pulo Gadung, tiap kali si tukang sapu nunggak kredit ?? Ini
> >> > contoh
> >> > > > saja.
> >> > > >
> >> > > > Coba mbak Nizami lihat Kejadian 2:24
> >> > > > "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and
> > be
> >> > united
> >> > > > to his wife, and they will become one flesh. "
> >> > > >
> >> > > > Orang yang menikah akan jadi "ONE FLESH", satu daging. 
Kalau
> >> > begini,
> >> > > > apakah polygamy tidak mengacau-balaukan rencana Allah ??
> >> > Jawabannya
> >> > > > saya kembalikan pada mbak Nizami sendiri.
> >> > > >
> >> > > > > Jika larangan itu diturunkan pada surat Korintus, apakah
> > tidak
> >> > terlambat? Setahu saya Korintus itu turun pada zaman
> > Paulus/Yesus.
> >> > Sementara antara Abraham dan Yakob dengan Yesus/Paulus ada
> > rentang
> >> > waktu ribuan tahun.
> >> > > > > Jadi jika larangan itu diturunkan terlambat, bagaimana
> > nasib
> >> > Abraham dan Yakob? Masuk neraka?
> >> > > >
> >> > > > Tidak terlambat, karena sudah ada ayat di Kejadian 2:24 
tadi.
> >> > Kenapa
> >> > > > mereka polygamy ? Karena kurang percaya pada Tuhan Allah.
> > Abraham
> >> > > > menikahi pelayannya karena ingin punya anak dan karena
> > Istrinya
> >> > sudah
> >> > > > mulai tua, yang menurut logika dia, sudah tidak mungkin
> >> > melahirkan.
> >> > > > Tuhan Allah sudah menjanjikan bahwa keturunannya akan 
banyak
> >> > seperti
> >> > > > bintang-bintang di langit.Tapi dia mulai ragu, dan akhirnya
> > patah
> >> > > > imannya.
> >> > > >
> >> > > > Nasib Abraham dan Yakob ?! Saya yakin mereka diterima di
> > Surga
> >> > meski
> >> > > > mereka berdosa.
> >> > > > Masak sih Abraham, yang dijanjikan Tuhan Allah menjadi 
bapak
> >> > segala
> >> > > > bangsa, masuk neraka.
> >> > > >
> >> > > > Sebelum Kristus, manusia diberikan Hukum-Hukum, Larangan-
> >> > Larangan agar
> >> > > > mengetahui mana yang baik dan mana yang benar. Setelah
> > Kristus
> >> > datang,
> >> > > > kita cukup percaya pada-Nya dan menerimanya sebagai
> > juruselamat
> >> > agar
> >> > > > diselamatkan. Kekristenan bukanlah agama, tapi hubungan
> > pribadi
> >> > antara
> >> > > > seorang manusia dengan Yesus Kristus. Seorang Kristen 
adalah
> >> > seorang
> >> > > > yang memiliki hubungan pribadi ini.
> >> > > >
> >> > > > > Dari surat Korintus itu, saya lihat sebaiknya tidak
> >> > menikah...:)
> >> > > >
> >> > > > Ya. Itu yang terbaik. Seperti pastor-pastor di gereja
> > Katolik,
> >> > kalau
> >> > > > saya boleh ambil contoh. Tapi berhubung saya manusia yang
> > lemah,
> >> > saya
> >> > > > akan menikah :-).
> >> > > >
> >> > > > Salam,
> >> > > >
> >> > > > -- 
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