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Refutation to Muslim 
Apologetics against Aisha's Age of Consummation 
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This article refutes modern Muslim apologetics which attempt to distort Aisha's 
true age of consummation. 
 
Contents
        * 1 Introduction
        * 2 The  Arguments 
        * 2.1 The First Argument
        * 2.2 The Second Argument
        * 2.3 The Third Argument
        * 2.4 The Fourth Argument
        * 2.5 The Fifth Argument
        * 2.6 The Sixth Argument
        * 2.7 The Seventh Argument
        * 2.8 The Eighth Argument
        * 2.9 The Ninth Argument
        * 2.10 The Tenth Argument
        * 2.11 The Eleventh Argument
        * 2.12 The Twelfth Argument
        * 2.13 The Thirteenth Argument
        * 3 Conclusion
        * 4 See  Also
        * 5 External Links
        * 6 Acknowledgments
        * 7 References 
 
Introduction
 
Before we begin, one must realize that the majority of Muslims today  (for 
example, Shaykh Gibril Haddad, whose work is referenced here) agree that Aisha 
was  nine lunar years old when her marriage to the Islamic prophet, Muhammad,  
was consummated. However, some modernist Islamic apologists try to cast  doubt 
on the age of Aisha when she married and had sex with Muhammad  despite the 
many sahih hadiths in which Aisha explicitly and directly states that she was  
nine years old at the time. They are clearly embarrassed that their  prophet 
married and had sex with a nine-year-old pre-pubescent child, and they 
sometimes seek to explain that Aisha  was in fact not nine-years-old as the 
Sahih hadiths of Aisha’s own  testimony claim, but some other ages derived from 
misquotations,  indirect sources, fuzzy dating techniques, and downright 
slander. 
 
The most common of these arguments is propounded by the “Learner”, or  Moiz 
Amjad, based on the work of Habib ur Rahman Kandhalwi (urdu) as  presented in 
his booklet, "Tehqiq e umar e Siddiqah e Ka'inat". Other  transmitters of these 
arguments include T.O Shavanas,[1] “Imam” Chaudhry (word-for-word plagiarism of 
Amjad's work),[2] Zahid Aziz,[3] and Nilofar Ahmed.[4] 
 
We will now proceed to show the polemics of Moiz Amjad to be  illogical 
rubbish. The question that escapes the minds of the simpletons  accepting 
Amjad’s polemics is ‘why they would believe sources that  clearly derive 
different ages for Aisha when she first had sex with  Muhammad.’ 
 
When one examines the work of Amjad, one sees that his arguments  contradict 
and debunk each other. His argument No. 5 says she was 14 to  21 years old. 
However, his argument No. 6 says she was 15+, his argument  No. 7 says she was 
17 or 18, his argument No. 8 says Aisha was 14+, his  argument No. 9 says she 
was 12+, and his argument No. 12 says she was  12. 
 
In other words, each and every one of his evidence contradicts and  debunks all 
the others. Which of these so-called arguments is correct?  They can’t all be 
correct. Sadly, Amjad does not have a clue. 
 
The simplest answer is that Amjad has used doubtful data and  assumptions for 
his calculations. In reality, all his arguments are  false. Instead of using 
Sahih hadiths, Amjad uses non-sahih source  material. Instead of using specific 
and clear age testimony, Amjad uses  events that cannot possibly be dated with 
any degree of accuracy.  Instead of using traditions of acknowledged 
authenticity, Amjad prefers  to believe unsubstantiated slander and 
misquotations. Hardly solid  foundation for establishing Aisha’s age when she 
first had sex with  Muhammad. No wonder Amjad cannot provide a consistent 
answer to the  question of Aisha’s age. 
 
His argument appears to be that because he himself, using spurious  
information, derives multiple conflicting ages for the one specific  event in 
Aisha’s life, then we must throw out what we know about her age  at this event. 
In effect, Amjad is saying that just because he is using  rubbish data, we have 
to throw out the sahih hadiths. We're afraid to  inform Amjad’s followers that 
this is not the logical outcome. Rather  than discarding the good with the bad, 
we will merely throw out the bad;  in this case, Amjad’s feeble attempt to 
obfuscate our understanding that  Aisha was aged nine when she married and had 
sex with Muhammad. 
 
The Arguments
 
The First Argument
 
Most of these narratives are reported only by Hisham ibn `urwah  reporting on 
the authority of his father. An event as well known as  the one being reported, 
should logically have been reported by more  people than just one, two or three.
 
Moiz Amjad
 
This is a classic Straw man. There is no requirement in Islam  for multiple 
narrations. Even a single sahih hadith is sufficient to  establish Islamic laws 
and practices. 
 
Teacher of Fiqh at Sunnipath.com and Livingislam.org, Shaykh Dr. Gibril Fouad 
Haddad, who was listed amongst the inaugural "500  most influential Muslims in 
the world,"[5] also debunks the claim that most of these narratives are 
reported only  by Hisham ibn Urwah. 
 
Try more than eleven authorities among the Tabi`in that reported it  directly 
from `A'isha, not counting the other major Companions that  reported the same, 
nor other major Successors that reported it from  other than `A'isha.
 
Gibril Haddad
 
The Second  Argument
 
It is quite strange that no one from Medinah, where Hisham ibn `urwah  lived 
the first seventy one years of his life has narrated the event  [from him], 
even though in Medinah his pupils included people as  well known as Malik ibn 
Anas. All the narratives of this event have  been reported by narrators from 
Iraq, where Hisham is reported to  have had shifted after living in Medinah for 
seventy one years.
 
Moiz Amjad
 
Another Straw man. There is no requirement for a hadith to be  narrated in 
Medina for it to be considered sahih. Also, many events in  the Prophet’s life 
were narrated by single narratives as well. Does that  make them invalid? No. 
To demand multiple, independent narrations from  Medinans is just setting up a 
standard that does not exist – i.e. a  straw man. 
 
Shaykh Haddad also refutes this argument by listing the people from  Medina who 
reported this event. 
Al-Zuhri also reports it from `Urwa, from `A'isha; so does `Abd  Allah ibn 
Dhakwan, both major Madanis. So is the Tabi`i Yahya al-Lakhmi  who reports it 
from her in the Musnad and in Ibn Sa`d's Tabaqat. So  is Abu Ishaq Sa`d ibn 
Ibrahim who reports it from Imam al-Qasim ibn  Muhammad, one of the Seven Imams 
of Madina, from `A'isha. All the  narratives of this event have been reported. 
In addition to the  above four Madinese Tabi`in narrators, Sufyan ibn `Uyayna 
from  Khurasan and `Abd Allah ibn Muhammad ibn Yahya from Tabarayya in  
Palestine both report it.
 
Gibril Haddad
 
The Third Argument
 
Tehzeeb al-Tehzeeb, one of the most well known books on the life and  
reliability of the narrators of the traditions of the Prophet (pbuh)  reports 
that according to Yaqub ibn Shaibah: "narratives reported by  Hisham are 
reliable except those that are reported through the  people of Iraq". It 
further states that Malik ibn Anas objected on  those narratives of Hisham 
which were reported through people of  Iraq (Vol. 11, pg. 48 - 51). 
 
The actual statements, their translations and their complete  references are 
given below:  
Yaqub ibn Shaibah says: He [i.e. Hisham] is highly reliable, his  narratives 
are acceptable, except what he narrated after shifting to  Iraq. (Tehzeeb 
al-Tehzeeb, Ibn Hajar Al-`asqalaaniy, Arabic, Dar  Ihya al-turath al-Islami, 
Vol. 11, pg. 50) 

 
I have been told that Malik [ibn Anas] objected on those narratives  of Hisham 
which were reported through people of Iraq. (Tehzi'bu'l-tehzi'b,  Ibn Hajar 
Al-`asqala'ni, Arabic, Dar Ihya al-turath al-Islami, Vol.  11, pg. 50)
 
Moiz Amjad
 
According to Shaykh Haddad, Amjad’s third argument is either  misrepresentation 
or a lie. Apparently, the slander against Hisham ibn  Urwah is unfounded and 
unsupported by closer reading of Amjad’s own  reference. 
 
Rather, Ya`qub said: "Trustworthy, thoroughly reliable (thiqa thabt),  above 
reproach except after he went to Iraq, at which time he  narrated overly from 
his father and was criticized for it." Notice  that Ya`qub does not exactly 
endorse that criticism. 
 
As for Malik, he reports over 100 hadiths from Hisham as is  evident in the two 
Sahihs and Sunan! to the point that al-Dhahabi  questions the authenticity of 
his alleged criticism of Hisham. 
 
Indeed, none among the hadith Masters endorsed these reservations  since they 
were based solely on the fact that Hisham in his last  period (he was 71 at the 
time of his last trip to Iraq), for the  sake of brevity, would say, "My 
father, from `A'isha? (abi `an `A'isha)"  and no longer pronounced, "narrated 
to me (haddathani)". 
 
Al-Mizzi in Tahdhib al-Kamal (30:238) explained that it became a  foregone 
conclusion for the Iraqis that Hisham did not narrate  anything from his father 
except what he had heard directly from him. 
 
Ibn Hajar also dismisses the objections against Hisham ibn `Urwa  as negligible 
in Tahdhib al-Tahdhib (11:45), saying: "It was clear  enough to the Iraqis that 
he did not narrate from his father other  than what he had heard directly from 
him". 
 
In fact, to say that "narratives reported by Hisham ibn `Urwa are  reliable 
except those that are reported through the people of Iraq"  is major nonsense 
as that would eliminate all narrations of Ayyub  al-Sakhtyani from him since 
Ayyub was a Basran Iraqi, and those of  Abu `Umar al-Nakha`i who was from Kufa, 
and those of Hammad ibn Abi  Sulayman from Kufa (the Shaykh of Abu Hanifa), and 
those of Hammad  ibn Salama and Hammad ibn Zayd both from Basra, and those of 
Sufyan  al-Thawri from Basra, and those of Shu`ba in Basra, all of whom  
narrated from Hisham!
 
Gibril Haddad
 
The Fourth  Argument
 
Meezaan al-Ai`tidaal, another book on the [life sketches of the]  narrators of 
the traditions of the Prophet (pbuh) reports that when  he was old, Hisham's 
memory suffered quite badly (Vol. 4, pg. 301 -  302) 
 
The actual statement, its translation and its complete references  is given 
below:  
When he was old, Hisham's memory suffered quite badly (Meezaan al-Ai`tidaal,  
Al-Zahabi, Arabic, Al-Maktabah al-Athriyyah, Sheikhupura, Pakistan,  Vol. 4, 
pg. 301).
 
Moiz Amjad
 
This is another slander in which the slanderer does not correlate  Hisham’s 
memory loss with the ‘Aisha’s age’ hadiths. Hisham was born in  61 A.H. and 
died in 146 A.H. at Baghdad – meaning he was 85 years old  when he died. He 
moved to Iraq when he was 71 years old. When did his  memory fail him? The 
slanderer provide no answers. 
 
In fact, Shaykh Haddad accuses Moiz Amjad of outright lying. 
 
An outright lie, on the contrary, al-Dhahabi in Mizan al-I`tidal (4:301  #9233) 
states: "Hisham ibn `Urwa, one of the eminent personalities.  A Proof in 
himself, and an Imam. However, in his old age his memory  diminished, but he 
certainly never became confused. Nor should any  attention be paid to what Abu 
al-Hasan ibn al-Qattan said about him  and Suhayl ibn Abi Salih becoming 
confused or changing! Yes, the man  changed a little bit and his memory was not 
the same as it had been  in his younger days, so that he forgot some of what he 
had memorized  or lapsed, so what? Is he immune to forgetfulness? [p. 302] And 
when  he came to Iraq in the last part of his life he narrated a great  amount 
of knowledge, in the course of which are a few narrations in  which he did not 
excel, and such as occurs also to Malik, and Shu`ba,  and Waki`, and the major 
trustworthy masters. So spare yourself  confusion and floundering, do not make 
mix the firmly-established 
 Imams with the weak and muddled narrators. Hisham is a Shaykh  al-Islam. But 
may Allah console us well of you, O Ibn al-Qattan, and  the same with regard to 
`Abd al-Rahman ibn Khirash's statement from  Malik!"
 
Gibril Haddad
 
The Fifth Argument
 
According to the generally accepted tradition, Ayesha (ra) was born  about 
eight years before Hijrah. But according to another narrative  in Bukhari 
(Kitaab al-Tafseer) Ayesha (ra) is reported to have said  that at the time 
Surah Al-Qamar, the 54th chapter of the Qur'an ,  was revealed, "I was a young 
girl". The 54th Surah of the Qur'an was  revealed nine years before Hijrah. 
According to this tradition,  Ayesha (ra) had not only been born before the 
revelation of the  referred surah, but was actually a young girl (jariyah), not 
an  infant (sibyah) at that time. Obviously, if this narrative is held  to be 
true, it is in clear contradiction with the narratives  reported by Hisham ibn 
`urwah. I see absolutely no reason that after  the comments of the experts on 
the narratives of Hisham ibn `urwah,  why we should not accept this narrative 
to be more accurate. 
 
The actual statements referred to in the above paragraph, their  translations 
and their complete references are given below:  
Ayesha (ra) said: I was a young girl, when verse 46 of Surah Al-Qamar,  [the 
54th chapter of the Qur'an ], was revealed. (Sahih Bukhari,  Kitaab al-Tafseer, 
Arabic, Bab Qaulihi Bal al-saa`atu Maw`iduhum wa  al-sa`atu adhaa wa amarr)
 
Moiz Amjad
 
The precise date of the revelation of Surah al-Qamar is unknown. Ibn  Hajar, 
Maududi, and other traditionalists said it was revealed 5 years  before Hijrah 
(muslimhope). Zahid Aziz said it was revealed before 6 BH.  Khatib said it was 
revealed in 8 BH. Amjad does not name his source for  his claim that the verse 
was revealed in 9 BH. The point is that the  precise date of revelation of 
Surah al-Qamar is unknown, and using an  imprecise date to calculate Aisha’s 
age is not only ridiculous but  stupid. However, if an estimate must be used, 
then why not use Ibn  Hajar’s estimate which is more authoritative and 
traditionally accepted  than Amjad’s unnamed source? 
 
Shaykh Haddad confirms this. He also proves that the traditional  estimate of 
the revelation of Surah al-Qamar is consistent with Aisha’s  age being nine 
years. 
 
Not true. The hadith Masters, Sira historians, and Qur'anic  commentators agree 
that the splitting of the moon took place about  five years before the Holy 
Prophet's (upon him blessings and peace)  Hijra to Madina. 
 
Thus it is confirmed that our Mother `Aisha was born between  seven and eight 
years before the Hijra and the words that she was a  jariya or little girl five 
years before the Hijra match the fact  that her age at the time Surat al-Qamar 
was revealed was around 2 or  3. 
 
A two year old is not an infant. A two year old is able to run around,  which 
is what jariya means. As for "the comments of the experts"  they concur on 6 or 
7 as the age of marriage and 9 as the age of  cohabitation.
 
Gibril Haddad
 
Thus, Amjad’s attempt to throw doubt on Aisha’s age by using a  non-traditional 
(i.e. spurious) estimate for the date of revelation of  Surah al-Qamar is 
easily debunked. 
 
This is what Amjad later said, which totally debunks his own argument  above. 
 
The incident of the shaqq-al-Qamar (splitting of the moon) that has  been 
mentioned in it, determines its period of revelation precisely.  The 
traditionists and commentators are agreed that this incident  took place at 
Mina in Makkah about five years before the Holy  Prophet's Hijra to Madinah. 
 
Ibn Hajar in his commentary "Fath al-Baariy" has indeed mentioned  that the 
incident of the splitting of the moon took place around 5  years before the 
Hijrah. Nevertheless, this statement does not  qualify as an "agreement" of 
'traditionalists and commentators'.  Maududi's referred statement, in my 
opinion, is not adequately  substantiated. A more accurate statement would have 
been that all  the commentators and traditionalists agree on the point that the 
 incident of the splitting of the moon took place while the Prophet (pbuh)  was 
in Mekkah. 
 
As for the time of the revelation of Surah Al-Qamar, it can be  estimated 
through the sequence of the revelation of the Surahs as  given in Ibn Shihaab's 
"Tanzeel al-Qur'an"[2], Suyutiy's "Al-Ittiqaan"[3],  and Al-Zarkashiy's 
"Al-Burhan fi Uloom al-Qur'an"[4]. According to  each of these sources, the 
period of revelation of Surah Al-Qamar  was the same as that of Al-Balad (90), 
Qaaf (50), Al-Humazah (104),  Al-Tariq (86), Al-Jinn (72) and Saad (38 ). All 
of these Surahs are  generally held to be revealed during the initial period of 
 prophethood. Maududi, in his commentary, has acknowledged that each  of these 
Surahs was revealed during the initial period of the  Prophet's ministry.
 
Moiz Amjad
 
So now we have Amjad backtracking on his claim that the date of  revelation of 
Surah al-Qamar can be determined precisely. Initially he  claimed it was in 
9BH. Now he says it’s some undefined time in the  Meccan period. Thus, it can 
be seen that Amjad himself has finally seen  the absurdity of his own argument. 
 
The Sixth Argument
 
According to a number of narratives, Ayesha (ra) accompanied the  Muslims in 
the battle of Badr and Uhud. Furthermore, it is also  reported in books of 
hadith and history that no one under the age of  15 years was allowed to take 
part in the battle of Uhud. All the  boys below 15 years of age were sent back. 
Ayesha's (ra)  participation in the battle of Badr and Uhud clearly indicate 
that  she was not nine or ten years old at that time. After all, women  used to 
accompany men to the battle fields to help them, not to be a  burden on them. 
 
A narrative regarding Ayesha's (ra) participation in Badr is  given in Muslim, 
Kitaab al-jihaad wa al-siyar, Arabic, Bab karahiyah  al-isti`anah fi al-ghazwi 
bikafir. Ayesha (ra) while narrating the  journey to Badr and one of the 
important events that took place in  that journey, says:  
When we reached Shajarah. 
It is quite obvious from these words that Ayesha (ra) was with  the group 
traveling toward Badr. 
 
A narrative regarding Ayesha's (ra) participation in the battle  of `uhud is 
given in Bukhari, Kitaab al-jihaad wa al-siyar, Arabic,  Baab Ghazwi al-nisaa 
wa qitalihinna ma`a al-rijaal.  
Anas reports that On the day of Uhud, people could not stand  their ground 
around the Prophet (pbuh). [On that day,] I saw Ayesha  (ra) and Umm-e-Sulaim 
(ra), they had pulled their dress up from  their feet [to save them from any 
hindrance in their movement]." 
 
As far as the fact that children below 15 years were sent back  and were not 
allowed to participate in the battle of `uhud, it is  narrated in Bukhari, 
Kitaab al-maghaazi, Baab ghazwah al-khandaq wa  hiya al-ahzaab, Arabic.  
Ibn `umar (ra) states that the Prophet (pbuh) did not permit me to  participate 
in Uhud, as at that time, I was fourteen years old. But  on the day of Khandaq, 
when I was fifteen years old, the Prophet (pbuh)  permitted my participation."
 
Moiz Amjad
 
Dr. Ali  Sina, founder of Faith Freedom International and author of 
"Understanding  Muhammad", refuted this argument: 
 
This is a weak excuse. When the Battle of Badr and Uhud occurred Ayesha  was 10 
to 11 years old. She did not go to be a warrior, like the  boys. She went to 
keep Muhammad warm during the nights. Boys who  were less than 15 were sent 
back, but this did not apply to her.
 
Ali Sina
 
Women and young children went to the battlefields to perform other  functions. 
 
The women and young children went on the battlefield after the battle  and gave 
water to the wounded Muslims and finished off the enemy  wounded. al-Tabari 
vol.12 p.127,146. During the days of the battle,  the women and children were 
there to dig graves for the dead. al-Tabari  vol.12 p.107.
 
Muslimhope
 
Therefore, it is clear that the fifteen-year age threshold applied  only to 
boys, and Amjad’s line of argument is clearly false. 
 
Shaykh Haddad also showed that Amjad had used false or incomplete  information. 
 
First, the prohibition applied to combatants. It applied neither to  
non-combatant boys nor to non-combatant girls and women. Second, `A'isha  did 
not participate in Badr at all but bade farewell to the  combatants as they 
were leaving Madina, as narrated by Muslim in his  Sahih. On the day of Uhud 
(year 3), Anas, at the time only twelve or  thirteen years old, reports seeing 
an eleven-year old `A'isha and  his mother Umm Sulaym having tied up their 
dresses and carrying  water skins back and forth to the combatants, as narrated 
by al-Bukhari  and Muslim.
 
Gibril Haddad
 
So, Aisha did not participate in Badr at all, despite Amjad’s  assertion. It is 
also illuminating to know that Amjad had partially  quoted the Uhud hadiths to 
falsely convey the impression that Aisha  participated at Uhud when the hadiths 
are clear in that she was merely  carrying water skins to the combatants. The 
last part of the hadith was  omitted, either deliberately or inadvertently, an 
act some people may  consider disingenuous. 
 
Narrated Anas: On the day (of the battle) of Uhad when (some) people  retreated 
and left the Prophet, I saw 'Aisha bint Abu Bakr and Um  Sulaim, with their 
robes tucked up so that the bangles around their  ankles were visible hurrying 
with their water skins (in another  narration it is said, "carrying the water 
skins on their backs").  Then they would pour the water in the mouths of the 
people, and  return to fill the water skins again and came back again to pour  
water in the mouths of the people.
 
Sahih Bukhari 4:52:131
 
The Seventh  Argument
 
According to almost all the historians Asma (ra), the elder sister of  Ayesha 
(ra) was ten years older than Ayesha (ra). It is reported in  Taqreeb 
al-Tehzeeb as well as Al-Bidaayah wa al-Nihayah that Asma (ra)  died in 73 
hijrah when she was 100 years old. Now, obviously if Asma  (ra) was 100 years 
old in 73 hijrah she should have been 27 or 28  years old at the time of 
hijrah. If Asma (ra) was 27 or 28 years old  at the time of hijrah, Ayesha (ra) 
should have been 17 or 18 years  old at that time. Thus, Ayesha (ra), if she 
got married in 1 AH  (after hijrah) or 2 AH, was between 18 to 20 years old at 
the time  of her marriage. 
 
The relevant references required in this argument are provided  below: 
 
For the Difference of Ayesha's (ra) and Asma's (ra) Age: 
According to Abd al-Rahman ibn abi zannaad:  
Asma (ra) was ten years older than Ayesha. (Siyar  A`la'ma'l-nubala', 
Al-Zahabi, Vol. 2, pg. 289, Arabic,  Mu'assasatu'l-risala'h, Beirut, 1992) 
 
According to Ibn Kathir:  
She [i.e. Asma] was ten years elder to her sister [i.e. Ayesha].  (Al-Bidaayah 
wa al-Nihaayah, Ibn Kathir, Vol. 8, pg. 371, Arabic,  Dar al-fikr al-`arabiy, 
Al-jizah, 1933) 
 
For Asma's (ra) Age at Her Death in 73 AH 
According to Ibn Kathir:  
She [i.e. Asma] witnessed the killing of her son during that year  [i.e. 73 
AH], as we have already mentioned, five days later she  herself died, according 
to other narratives her death was not five  but ten or twenty or a few days 
over twenty or a hundred days later.  The most well known narrative is that of 
hundred days later. At the  time of her death, she was 100 years old. 
(Al-Bidaayah wa al-Nihaayah,  Ibn Kathir, Vol. 8, pg. 372, Arabic, Dar al-fikr 
al-`arabiy, Al-jizah,  1933). 
 
According to Ibn Hajar Al-Asqalaaniy:  
She [i.e. Asma (ra)] lived a hundred years and died in 73 or 74 AH."  (Taqreeb 
al-Tehzeeb, Ibn Hajar Al-Asqalaaniy, Pg. 654, Arabic, Bab  fi al-nisaa, al-Harf 
al-alif, Lucknow)
 
Moiz Amjad
 
Amjad’s objection to Sina’s analysis is similar to that of the  previous 
argument. 
 
When someone gets that old, people don't care too much about her exact  age. It 
is very easy to say she was 100 years old when in fact she  was only 90. The 
difference is not noticeable to the younger folks  and 100 is a round figure. 
Assuming the Hadith is authentic, it  could be an honest mistake. Since in 
those days people did not carry  birth certificates, it is very much likely 
that the person who  reported her age to be 100 did not know that she was 10 
years older  than Ayesha and did not sit to make the calculations and 
deductions.  She was not an important person and it did not occur to anyone 
that  1300 years later it would become the subject of a controversy. This  
could be a genuine mistake by the narrator of the Hadith.
 
Ali Sina
 
Once again, the author is only pointing out towards a possibility. It  should 
be kept in mind that the author is trying to establish that  Ayesha (ra) was 
nine years old at the time of her marriage with the  Prophet (pbuh). The author 
should be reminded that pointing out mere  possibilities of error in the given 
information would not serve his  purpose. Obviously, contrary to what the 
author contends, it is also  "Possible" that the information given in the given 
in the cited  paragraph is correct. The author should also keep in mind that 
the  target of my writings on the issue is not to "prove" that Ayesha (ra)  was 
"X" years old at the time of the consummation of her marriage  with the Prophet 
(pbuh). On the contrary, my objective was merely to  show that the generally 
held view regarding Ayesha's (ra) age at the  time of her marriage with the 
Prophet (pbuh) is not based upon  contradiction-free information.
 
Moiz Amjad
 
Apparently Amjad is not worried that his arguments all derive  conflicting ages 
for Aisha, thus debunking each other. 
 
Shaykh Haddad also challenges the accuracy of the information, thus  casting 
doubt on Amjad’s source material. 
 
Well, Ibn Kathir based himself on Ibn Abi al-Zinad's assertion that she  was 
ten years older than `A'isha, however, al-Dhahabi in Siyar A`lam  al-Nubala' 
said there was a greater difference than 10 years between  the two, up to 19, 
and he is more reliable here. Ibn Hajar reports  in al-Isaba from Hisham ibn 
`Urwa, from his father, that Asma' did  live 100 years, and from Abu Nu`aym 
al-Asbahani that "Asma' bint Abi  Bakr was born 27 years before the Hijra, and 
she lived until the  beginning of the year 74." None of this amounts to any 
proof for `A'isha's  age whatsoever.
 
Gibril Haddad
 
Using inaccurate data, Amjad assumes Asma was older than Aisha by 10  years 
when a more reliable source says the age difference is up to 19  years. Taking 
this more reliable information calculates Aisha’s age at  around nine years 
old, completely in accordance with the sahih hadiths  where Aisha herself said 
she was nine years old. 
 
The Eighth  Argument
 
Tabari in his treatise on Islamic history, while mentioning Abu Bakr (ra)  
reports that Abu Bakr had four children and all four were born  during the 
Jahiliyyah - the pre-Islamic period. Obviously, if Ayesha  (ra) was born in the 
period of jahiliyyah, she could not have been  less than 14 years in 1 AH - the 
time she most likely got married. 
 
The original statement in Tabari, its translation and reference  follows:  
All four of his [i.e. Abu Bakr's] children were born of his two  wives - the 
names of whom we have already mentioned - during the  pre-Islamic period. 
(Tarikh al-umam wa al-mamloo'k, Al-Tabari, Vol.  4, Pg. 50, Arabic, Dar 
al-fikr, Beirut, 1979)
 
Moiz Amjad
 
Shaykh Gibril Haddad says that the evidence Amjad provided above is  false. 
 
Al-Tabari nowhere reports that "Abu Bakr's four children were all born  in 
Jahiliyya" but only that Abu Bakr married both their mothers in  Jahiliyya, 
Qutayla bint Sa`d and Umm Ruman, who bore him four  children in all, two each, 
`A'isha being the daughter of Umm Ruman.
 
Gibril Haddad
 
There is also no need to make oblique calculations using Tabari when  Tabari 
explicitly states Aisha’s age several times. 
 
These are Tabari’s direct accounts. He reported it at least four  times, making 
it clear that this was what he deemed authoritative. 
 
‘Aisha was 6 (or 7) years old when she was married, and the marriage  was 
consummated when she was nine years old.’ Muhammad b. ‘Amr is  one of the 
transmitters.
Al-Tabari,  Vol. 9, pp. 129-131
 
‘My mother came to me while I was being swung on a swing between two  branches 
and got me down. My nurse took over and wiped my face with  some water and 
started leading me. When I was at the door she  stopped so I could catch my 
breath. I was brought in while Muhammad  was sitting on a bed in our house. My 
mother made me sit on his lap.  The other men and women got up and left. The 
Prophet consummated his  marriage with me in my house when I was nine years 
old.’
Al-Tabari,  Vol. 9, p. 131
 
‘Aisha was 6-7 when married, and came the marriage was consummated  when she 
was 9-10, three months after coming to (sic – from) Mecca.’
 
Al-Tabari,  Vol. 7, p. 7 The chain of transmission includes an unnamed  man 
from the Quraysh
 
‘The Prophet married Aishah in Shawwal in the tenth year after the  [beginning 
of his] prophethood, three years before Emigration. He  consummated the 
marriage in Shawwal, eight months after Emigration.  On the day he consummated 
the marriage with her she was nine years  old.’
Al-Tabari,  Vol. 39, pp. 171-173
 
The Ninth Argument
 
According to Ibn Hisham, the historian, Ayesha (ra) accepted Islam  quite some 
time before `umar ibn al-Khattab (ra). This shows that  Ayesha (ra) accepted 
Islam during the first year of Islam. While, if  the narrative of Ayesha's (ra) 
marriage at seven years of age is  held to be true, Ayesha (ra) should not have 
been born during the  first year of Islam. According to Ibn Hisham, Ayesha (ra) 
was the  20th or the 21st person to enter into the folds of Islam (Al-Sirah  
al-Nabawiyyah, Ibn Hisham, Vol. 1, Pg. 227 - 234, Arabic, Maktabah  al-Riyadh 
al-hadithah, Al-Riyadh) While `umar ibn al-khattab was  preceded by forty 
individuals (Al-Sirah al-Nabawiyyah, Ibn Hisham,  Vol. 1, Pg. 295, Arabic, 
Maktabah al-Riyadh al-hadithah, Al-Riyadh).
 
Moiz Amjad
 
Muslimhope shows that even if we were to believe that Aisha accepted  Islam 
before Umar, it doesn’t mean this took place during the first year  of Islam 
since Umar converted in 617AD, about 4 years after Aisha’s  birth in 613AD. 
Thus, Amjad had made a miscalculation here. 
 
1. Nobody today really knows the order. In general there is lengthy  
disagreement on the order of who accepted Islam, as al-Tabari vol.5  p.80-87; 
vol.12 p.38 discuss. If they cannot even agree on the first  five men, how can 
they know the 21st? 

2. A’isha never converted to Islam, because she never remembered a 
                        time when Mohammed did not come by twice a day and her 
parents were 
                        not Muslims. This is prior to the first migration to 
Ethiopia (617 
                        A.D.) (Bukhari 5:245 p.158). 
 
3. ‘Umar became a Muslim just after the first migration to Ethiopia  (617 A.D.) 
according to Ibn Ishaq p.155,156. So what Ibn Hisham  counts as A’isha’s 
"conversion" could be between birth and three  years old.
 
Muslimhope
 
Besides disputing the claim that Ibn Hisham reported that Aisha  accepted Islam 
quite some time before `umar ibn al-Khattab, Shaykh  Haddad also casts doubt on 
Amjad’s logic. 
 
Nowhere does Ibn Hisham say this. Rather, Ibn Hisham lists `A'isha  among 
"those that accepted Islam because of Abu Bakr." This does not  mean that she 
embraced Islam during the first year of Islam. Nor  does it mean that she 
necessarily embraced Islam before `Umar (year  6) although she was born the 
previous year (year 7 before the Hijra)  although it is understood she will 
automatically follow her father's  choice even before the age of reason.
 
Gibril Haddad
 
The Tenth Argument
 
Tabari has also reported that at the time Abu Bakr planned on migrating  to 
Habshah (8 years before Hijrah), he went to Mut`am - with whose  son Ayesha 
(ra) was engaged - and asked him to take Ayesha (ra) in  his house as his son's 
wife. Mut`am refused, because Abu Bakr had  embraced Islam, and subsequently 
his son divorced Ayesha (ra). Now,  if Ayesha (ra) was only seven years old at 
the time of her marriage,  she could not have been born at the time Abu Bakr 
decided on  migrating to Habshah. On the basis of this report it seems only  
reasonable to assume that Ayesha (ra) had not only been born 8 years  before 
hijrah, but was also a young lady, quite prepared for  marriage. Unfortunately, 
I do not have the primary reference to this  argument at the moment. The 
secondary reference for this argument  is: Tehqiq e umar e Siddiqah e Ka'inat, 
Habib ur Rahman Kandhalwi,  Urdu, Pg. 38, Anjuman Uswa e hasanah, Karachi, 
Pakistan
 
Moiz Amjad
 
Muslimhope shows that Amjad’s logic is wrong and not based on fact. 
 
Even if this account is accurate, Arabs both then and today often  betrothed 
girls soon after they were born. Abu Bakr had other  daughters and it might 
have been one of them.
 
Muslimhope
 
Shaykh Haddad also casts doubt as to the veracity of Amjad’s Tabari  evidence, 
admittedly derived from a secondary reference that Amjad never  checked. 
 
Not at all, there is no mention of emigration in Tabari's account of  Abu 
Bakr's discussion with Mut`im. Nor did he ever ask him to take `A'isha  because 
there had been only some preliminary talk, not a formal  arrangement. Umm 
Ruman, Abu Bakr's wife, reportedly said: "By Allah,  no promise had been given 
on our part at all!" Rather, al-Tabari  said that when news of the Prophet's 
interest in `A'isha came, he  went to see Mut`im. Then Mut`im's wife manifested 
her fear that her  son would become Muslim if he married into Abu Bakr's 
family. Abu  Bakr then left them and gave his assent to the Prophet, upon him  
blessings and peace. Your assumption fizzles at the root when you  read 
al-Tabari's positive assertion: "On the day he consummated the  marriage with 
her, she was nine years old."
 
Gibril Haddad
 
The Eleventh  Argument
 
According to a narrative reported by Ahmad ibn Hanbal, after the death  of 
Khadijah (ra), when Khaulah (ra) came to the Prophet (pbuh)  advising him to 
marry again, the Prophet (pbuh) asked her regarding  the choices she had in her 
mind. Khaulah said: "You can marry a  virgin (bikr) or a woman who has already 
been married (thayyib)".  When the Prophet (pbuh) asked about who the virgin 
was, Khaulah  proposed Ayesha's (ra) name. All those who know the Arabic 
language,  are aware that the word "bikr" in the Arabic language is not used  
for an immature nine year old girl. The correct word for a young  playful girl, 
as stated earlier is "Jariyah". "Bikr" on the other  hand, is used for an 
unmarried lady, and obviously a nine year old  is not a "lady". The complete 
reference for this reporting of Ahmad  ibn Hanbal is: Musnad Ahmad ibn Hanbal, 
Vol 6, Pg 210, Arabic, Dar  Ihya al-turath al-`arabi, Beirut.
 
Moiz Amjad
 
Sina has refuted this argument. 
 
This explanation is absolutely incorrect. Bikr means virgin and, just  as in 
English is not age specific. In fact Ayesha was the second  wife of Muhammad 
(after Khadijah) but Muhammad did not consummate  his marriage with her for 
three years because she was too young.  Instead he had to content himself with 
Umma Salamah, until Ayesha  matured a little bit more. It would not have made 
sense to marry a  beautiful woman like Ayesha and wait for three years to take 
her  home.
 
Ali Sina
 
And Amjad has agreed: 
 
The author is quite right. Bikr in the Arabic language does, in fact,  mean 
'virgin'. However, I was actually referring to the usage of the  word, not its 
literal meaning. It is correct that literally the word  'Bikr', like the word 
"virgin" refers to a biological reality,  however, also just as the word 
'virgin', the word 'Bikr', in the  Arabic language, is used for a young woman, 
who has not yet had  sexual contact, not for a child.
 
Moiz Amjad
 
Shaykh Gibril Haddad also adds: 
 
This is ignorant nonsense, bikr means a virgin girl, a girl who has  never been 
married even if her age is 0 and there is no unclarity  here whatsoever.
 
Gibril Haddad
 
The Twelfth  Argument
 
According to Ibn Hajar, Fatimah (ra) was five years older than Ayesha (ra).  
Fatimah (ra) is reported to have been born when the Prophet (pbuh)  was 35 
years old. Thus, even if this information is taken to be  correct, Ayesha (ra) 
could by no means be less than 14 years old at  the time of hijrah, and 15 or 
16 years old at the time of her  marriage. 
 
Ibn Hajar's original statement, its translation and reference  follows:  
Fatimah (ra) was born at the time the Kaa`bah was rebuilt, when the  Prophet 
(pbuh) was 35 years old... she (Fatimah) was five years  older that Ayesha 
(ra). (Al-Isabah fi Tamyeez al-Sahaabah, Ibn Hajar  al-Asqalaniy, Vol. 4, Pg. 
377, Arabic, Maktabah al-Riyadh al-Haditha,  al-Riyadh, 1978)
 
Moiz Amjad
 
Using Fatima’s age difference with Aisha to refute the Aisha’s Age  sahih 
hadiths is a logical fallacy because the biography of Fatima is  conflicting. 
Nobody knows for sure when Fatima was born (when her father  was a nobody), and 
though her death was well-recorded her age at death  is not known for certain. 
 
The traditional account is that she was born on Friday, 20th jumada `  
th-thaaniyah in the fifth year after the declaration of the prophet -  hood 
(615 AD), which means she was about the same age as Aisha.[6][7] 
 
The most predominant view in the traditions transmitted by our  traditionists 
is that Fatimah az-Zahra' was born in Mecca, on the  twentieth of Jumada 
'l-Akhirah, in the fifth year of the Prophet's  apostolic career. It is also 
asserted that when the Prophet died,  Fatimah was eighteen years and seven 
months old. 
 
It is reported on the authority of Jabir ibn Yazid that (the  fifth Imam) 
al-Baqir was asked: "How long did Fatimah live after the  Messenger of Allah?" 
He answered: "Four months; she died at the age  of twenty-three." This view is 
close to that reported by the  traditionists of the (Sunni) majority. They have 
asserted that she  was born in the forty-first year of the. Messenger of 
Allah's life.  This means that she was born one year after the Prophet was sent 
by  Allah as a messenger. The scholar Abu Sa'id al-Hafiz relates in his  book 
Sharafu' n-Nabiyy that all the children of the Messenger of  Allah were born 
before Islam except Fatimah and Ibrahim, who were  born in Islam. 
Reference: Abu Ali al-Fadl ibn al-Hasan ibn al-Fadl at-Tabrisi (c.  468/1076 - 
548/1154)
 
Fatimah The Radiant, Daughter of the Apostle of Allah
 
Some say she was born ten years earlier than Aisha. Those who believe  this 
also believe Fatima was aged 29 years when she died, not the 18  years 
traditionally believed. 
 
Sunan Nasa’i vol.1 #29 p.115-116 actually says that Fatima was 29 years  old 
when she died (six months after Mohammed), which makes her ten  years older 
than A’isha. So somebody forgot a date somewhere. The  authoritative hadiths of 
Sunan Nasa’i would generally be trusted  more than Ibn Hajar, Regardless, 
though A’isha was younger.
 
Muslimhope
 
Sina has refuted the accuracy of Amjad’s information: 
 
Of course this information cannot be taken as correct. If Ayesha was  five 
years older than Fatimah, and Fatimah was born when the Prophet  was 35 years 
old, then Ayesha was only 30 years younger than the  Prophet. So at the time of 
her marriage when the Prophet was 54,  Ayesha must have been 24 years old. This 
is not certainly correct,  for the reasons explained above and also it 
contradicts the Hadith  that the apologist quoted about the age of Asma, 
Ayesha’s sister,  who according to that Hadith was 10 years older that Ayesha 
and died  in 73 Hijra. So at the time of Hijra Asma must have been 100 –73 =  
27 years old, but according to this Hadith she was 34 years old.
 
Ali Sina
 
Shaykh Gibril Haddad showed that Ibn Hajar was merely reporting what  some 
narrators reported, not his own conclusion, and Amjad chose the  wrong 
narration and also wrongly attributed that narration to Ibn Hajar,  who was 
merely the reporter. 
 
Ibn Hajar mentions two versions: (1) al-Waqidi's narration that Fatima  was 
born when the Prophet was 35; and (2) Ibn `Abd al-Barr's  narration that she 
was born when he was 41, approximately one year  more or less before 
Prophethood, and about five years before `A'isha  was born. The latter version 
matches the established dates.
 
Gibril Haddad
 
In conclusion, Fatima’s birth date is uncertain. Despite this, Amjad  used a 
non-traditional estimate to cast doubt on Aisha’s age, when the  traditional 
account exactly matches the established facts. Note that  Amjad omitted the 
traditional account in his Ibn Hajar reference,  choosing instead one that is 
clearly in error. Some might view this  deliberate omission to be disingenuous. 
 
The  Thirteenth Argument
 
In my opinion, neither was it an Arab tradition to give away girls in  marriage 
at an age as young as nine or ten years, nor did the  Prophet (pbuh) marry 
Ayesha (ra) at such a young age. The people of  Arabia did not object to this 
marriage, because it never happened in  the manner it has been narrated.
 
Moiz Amjad
 
Although we agree there is no evidence to support the claim (usually  made by 
Muslims in defence of Muhammad's pedophilia) that it was an Arab  tradition to 
give away pre-pubescent young girls in marriage to old men,  no credence should 
be given to mere ‘opinion’ of Aisha's age of  consummation when there are sahih 
hadiths that explicitly state that  Aisha married and had sex with Muhammad 
when she was aged only nine. 
 
Although an ad hominem, this neatly summarizes what an actual Muslim  scholar 
thinks about Moiz Amjad’s scholarship. 
 
Those that itch to follow misguidance always resort to solipsisms  because they 
are invariably thin on sources. In this particular case  "the Learner" proves 
to be ignorant and dishonest. It is no surprise  he moves on every single 
point, without exception, from incorrect  premises to false conclusions.
 
Gibril Haddad
 
Conclusion
 
Moiz Amjad has presented a series of arguments as to why the  generally 
accepted understanding of Aisha’s age (i.e. nine-years-old)  when she married 
and had sex with Muhammad, based on commonly known  narratives, is erroneous 
and contradictory. 
 
However, on closer inspection, it appears he has produced arguments  that can 
be broadly categorized into these categories: 
 
A. Unjustified slanders against Hisham ibn Urwah and the Iraqi  narrators. 
B. The use of non-sahih information to refute otherwise sahih  hadiths. 
C. The use of secondary, indirect sources in preference of  direct testimonies. 
D. The use of ‘imprecise’ dating in preference to specific dates  and 
statements of age. 
E. The use of misquoted references and erroneous information. 
F. The use of incorrect logic. 
G. Personal opinion. 
 
For these reasons, we reject Moiz Amjad’s attempt to discredit the  ‘Aisha age’ 
hadiths, particularly those of Sahih Bukhari and Sahih  Muslim. 
 
It astounds us that Moiz Amjad is apparently unperturbed that his  arguments 
derive conflicting ages for when Aisha married and had sex  with Muhammad. A 
reasonable person would see that this means his  arguments debunk each other, 
while all the sahih hadiths in regards to  Aisha's age of consummation are in 
perfect harmony. 
 
This page is featured in the core article, Islam and Pedophilia which serves as 
a starting point for  anyone wishing to learn more about this topic 
 
See Also
        * Aisha's Age of Consummation 
        * Responses to Apologetics: Muhammad and Aisha 
        * Qur'an, Hadith and Scholars:Aisha - Islamic sources relating  to 
Aisha 
        * Refutations - A hub page that leads to other articles related  to 
Refutations 
 
External Links
        * Shaykh Gibril Haddad - Biography of Shaykh Gibril Fouad  Haddad at 
SunniPath, The online Islamic Academy 
        * Evidence Muhammad was a pedophile - FFI forum thread which  deals 
with further apologetics 
        * Really, really wishing Aisha weren't nine - Robert Spencer  debates a 
typical non-Muslim apologist for Islam 
        * Responses to "The Learner" (Moiz Amjad) and others - Collection of 
Answering Islam articles 
 
Acknowledgments
This article is greatly indebted to the following: 
        * Dr Ali Sina, founder of Faith Freedom International and  author of 
Understanding Muhammad, for Controversies about the age of Aisha 
        * Dr. Shaykh Gibril Fouad Haddad, teacher of Fiqh at  Sunnipath.com and 
Livingislam.org, for Our Mother A'isha's Age At The Time Of Her Marriage to The 
Prophet 
        * The Muslimhope website, for A’isha: Mohammed’s Nine-Year Old Wife 
 
References
        1. ↑ T.O Shanavas - AYESHA’s AGE: THE MYTH OF A PROVERBIAL WEDDING 
EXPOSED -  Islamic Research Foundation International, Inc. 
        2. ↑ Imam Chaudhry - What Was The Age of Ummul Mo'mineen Ayesha (May 
Allah be pleased  with her) When She Married To Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon 
 him)? - Islamic Supreme Council of Canada 
        3. ↑ Zahid Aziz - Age of Aisha (ra) at time of marriage - Ahmadiyya 
Anjuman  Isha`at Islam Lahore Inc. U.S.A. (for a refutation to the  issues 
raised by Aziz's tu-quoque defence, titled "Mary and Joseph", click here) 
        4. ↑ Nilofar Ahmed - Of Aisha’s age at marriage - Dawn, February 17, 
2012 
        5. ↑ Edited by Prof. John  Esposito and Prof. Ibrahim Kalin - The 500 
Most Influential Muslims in the World (P. 94) - The  royal islamic strategic 
studies centre, 2009 
        6. ↑ Fatimah az-Zahra - (A Brief History of The Fourteen  Infallibles, 
p. 47-53) 
        7. ↑ A Brief Biography of Fatima (A.S) the daughter of the Last  
Messenger and the Mother of Imams - Ummah.net 
 
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