Ngulang-ngulang terus kayak gini sebenernya capek. Tapi dengan niatan mendapat 
sedikit pahala kebaikan dari Allah Swt. Oke lah ... saya tanggapi lagi :

Pada usia berapa Muhammad menikahi nabi ? Secara umum pendapat mengatakan pada 
usia 53 tahun, betul ?

Pada Usia berapa Muhammad menerima wahyu ? Keterangan umum menyatakan pada usia 
40 tahun, Betul ?

Artinya ... ada jarak 13 Tahun antara pengangkatan kenabian sampai dengan saat 
muhammad menikahi Aisyah, Betul ?

OK ... Simpen tuh angka --- 13 TAHUN ****

Aiyah adalah orang ke dua puluh sekian yang mengikrarkan diri masuk islam. 
Membaca kalimah syahadat, Betul ?
Artinya pada masa awal kenabian, Aisyah sudah remaja, Betul ?
Artinya usia aisyah saat dinikahi nabi adalah 13 Tahun PLUS usia aisyah sebelum 
masuk islam, Betul ?

OK ...
Kita balik lagi ...
Jika Aiyah Dinikahi nabi pada usia 9 atau 6 Tahun, dan saat itu usia nabi 
adalah 53.

BERAPA USIA AISYAH SAAT MASUK ISLAM ?

Jawab Tem !

--- In [email protected], item abu <itemabu@...> wrote:
>
> Hehehe... orang Islam sampe ngebual Aisha diembat di usia 21 thn.
> 
> Kalo ditanya mana buktinya, maka yg keluar adalah kibulan yg ga jelas 
> sumbernya sama sekali, sambil ngoceh bhw hadis Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawud dll 
> itu adalah hadis palsu, padahal dgn bejibunnya hadis yg ngomongin hal yg sama 
> maka hadis tsb merupakan hadis yg mutawatir.
> 
> 
> 
> 
> >________________________________
> > From: Musik hari Ini <musikhariini@...>
> >To: "[email protected]" <[email protected]> 
> >Sent: Thursday, June 14, 2012 5:42 PM
> >Subject: Re: [proletar] Re: Our Mother A'isha's Age At The Time Of Her 
> >Marriage to The Prophet
> > 
> >
> >  
> >Itu orang dikawinin umur 21 taon
> >tapi elu masih maksa saja
> >kalau elu itu jelas meng2ulang kalimat "ngembat anak belon mens"
> >buat orang yang pernah belajar sedikit elmu JIWA tentu ada terkaan
> >pegulangan kalimat dalam pengulangan terus menerus dan digunakan
> >pada sembarang tempat..........tentu gua bisa ambil kesimpulan tentang
> >anda itu siapa,apa yang pernah elu lalkukan,apa yang pernah elu alami
> >dalam phisoko analisis manusia jenis kayak elu itu bisa dimasukan
> >pada orang dewasa yang pernah mengalami pedophobia
> >
> >________________________________
> >From: item abu <itemabu@...>
> >To: "[email protected]" <[email protected]> 
> >Sent: Thursday, June 14, 2012 6:16 AM
> >Subject: Re: [proletar] Re: Our Mother A'isha's Age At The Time Of Her 
> >Marriage to The Prophet
> >
> >
> >  
> >Jadi nurut lu ga bejad ngembat anak 9 thn. 
> >
> >Dgn begitu, lu jg gpp ngembat anak 9 thn krn nabi lu itu hrs lu jadikan suri 
> >tauladan, bukan?
> >
> >>________________________________
> >> From: Abbas <abas_amin08@...>
> >>To: [email protected] 
> >>Sent: Tuesday, June 12, 2012 4:31 PM
> >>Subject: [proletar] Re: Our Mother A'isha's Age At The Time Of Her Marriage 
> >>to The Prophet
> >> 
> >>
> >>  
> >>Tidak usah ditutupin. Itu bukan perbuatan bejat! Saksinya bapaknya 
> >>Abubakar, dan seluruh orang Islam !
> >>Kalau seluruh komunitas menyatakan itu sah ! Tiada kebejatan. Hanya saja 
> >>kaaum anti Islam urusannya digede gedein. Karena tak ada lain selain 
> >>sasarannya ingin MENGHUJAT islam. Merubah pandaangan MUSLIM !???
> >>Hahahaha manusia anti islam semuanya rata2 GOUBLOKKK !!! Nyaris IDIOT dan 
> >>Debil semua. Mana mampu merubah pandangan ?
> >>Mereka pun semuanya TUKANG CATUT ! mencatut nama ILMUWAN dan disalurkan 
> >>menjadi anti Islam.
> >>Padahal para Ilmuwan Netral semua.
> >>Anti Islam; walau bagaimanapun akan tetap menyebut islam suaaaaangaaaat 
> >>jelek !
> >>Jadi yaa gak aneh gak heran lah kalau kerjaan mereka sehari hari disini 
> >>hanya buang2 tempo tiada arti; hanya untuk memaki maki Islam !
> >>kasiaaaan memang. Otak dan pikirannya telah dipenuhi dendam kesumat !!!!
> >>Memang seharusnya kita kasiaaan kepada mereka anti islam.
> >>
> >>--- In [email protected], item abu <itemabu@> wrote:
> >>>
> >>> Hehehe... orang Islam mau nutupin perbuatan nabinya ngembat anak ingusan 
> >>> 9 
> >>> thn dgn ngibul. Jadi mereka mau nutupin kebejadan dgn kebejadan lain.
> >>> �
> >>> http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=7&ID=4604&CATE=1
> >>> �
> >>> Question ID:4604
> >>> Date Published: July 03, 2005 
> >>> Our Mother A'isha's Age At The Time Of Her Marriage to The Prophet
> >>> Answered by Shaykh Gibril F Haddad 
> >>> �
> >>> Question:
> >>> To begin with, I think it is the responsibility of all  those who believe 
> >>> that marrying a girl as young as nine years old was an  accepted norm of 
> >>> the Arab culture, to provide at least a few examples to  substantiate 
> >>> their point of view. I have not yet been able to find a single  
> >>> dependable instance in the books of Arab history where a girl as young as 
> >>>  nine years old was given away in marriage. Unless such examples are 
> >>> given,  we do not have any reasonable grounds to believe that it really 
> >>> was an  accepted norm. 
> >>> �
> >>> Answer:
> >>> �
> >>> In the name of Allah, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful, 
> >>> �
> >>> - Abu Tughlub ibn Hamdan married the daughter of `Izz al-Dawla Bakhtyar 
> >>> when 
> >>> she was three and paid a dowry of 100,000 dinars. This took place in 
> >>> Safar 360 
> >>> H. (Ibn al-Athir, al-Kamil). 
> >>> �
> >>> - Al-Shafi`i in al-Umm reported that he saw countless examples of 
> >>> nine-year 
> >>> old pubescent girls in Yemen. Al-Bayhaqi also narrates it from him in the 
> >>> Sunan 
> >>> al-Kubra as does al-Dhahabi in the Siyar. 
> >>> �
> >>> - Al-Bayhaqi narrated with his chains in his Sunan al-Kubra no less than 
> >>> three examples of Muslim wives that gave birth at age nine or ten. 
> >>> �
> >>> - Hisham ibn `Urwa himself (whom the objector claims to know enough to 
> >>> forward the most barefaced judgments on his reliability) married Fatima 
> >>> bint 
> >>> al-Mundhir when she was nine years old (al-Muntazam and Tarikh Baghdad). 
> >>> �
> >>> - Our liege-lord `Umar married Umm Kulthum the daughter of `Ali and 
> >>> Fatima at 
> >>> a similar age per `Abd al-Razzaq, Ibn `Abd al-Barr and others. 
> >>> �
> >>> - And our Mother `Aisha herself was first almost betrothed to Jubayr ibn 
> >>> Mut`im before her father dropped that option when he received word from 
> >>> the 
> >>> Messenger of Allah, Allah bless and greet him and be well-pleased with 
> >>> them. 
> >>> �
> >>> In my opinion, the age of Ayesha (ra) has been grossly 
> >>> mis-reported in the ahadith. Not only that, I think that the narratives 
> >>> reporting this event are not only highly unreliable, but also that on the 
> >>> basis 
> >>> of other historical data, the event reported, is quite an unlikely 
> >>> happening. 
> >>> Let us look at the issue from an objective stand point. My reservations 
> >>> in 
> >>> accepting the narratives, on the basis of which, Ayesha's (ra) age at the 
> >>> time 
> >>> of her marriage with the Prophet (pbuh) is held to be nine years are: 
> >>> Most of 
> >>> these narratives are reported only by Hisham ibn `Urwah, reporting on the 
> >>> authority of his father. An event as well known as the one being 
> >>> reported, 
> >>> should logically have been reported by more people than just one, two or 
> >>> three. 
> >>> �
> >>> Try more than eleven authorities among the Tabi`in that reported it 
> >>> directly 
> >>> from `A'isha, not counting the other major Companions that reported the 
> >>> same, 
> >>> nor other major Successors that reported it from other than `A'isha. 
> >>> �
> >>> It is quite strange that no one from Medinah, where 
> >>> Hisham ibn `Urwah lived the first seventy one years of his life has 
> >>> narrated the 
> >>> event, even though in Medinah his pupils included people as well known as 
> >>> Malik 
> >>> ibn Anas. 
> >>> �
> >>> Not so. Al-Zuhri also reports it from `Urwa, from `A'isha; so does `Abd 
> >>> Allah 
> >>> ibn Dhakwan, both major Madanis. So is the Tabi`i Yahya al-Lakhmi who 
> >>> reports it 
> >>> from her in the Musnad and in Ibn Sa`d's Tabaqat. So is Abu Ishaq Sa`d 
> >>> ibn 
> >>> Ibrahim who reports it from Imam al-Qasim ibn Muhammad, one of the Seven 
> >>> Imams 
> >>> of Madina, from `A'isha. All the narratives of this event have been 
> >>> reported 
> >>> �
> >>> Nor by narrators from Iraq, where Hisham is reported 
> >>> to have had shifted after living in Medinah for seventy one years. 
> >>> �
> >>> Not so. In addition to the above four Madinese Tabi`in narrators, Sufyan 
> >>> ibn 
> >>> `Uyayna from Khurasan and `Abd Allah ibn Muhammad ibn Yahya from 
> >>> Tabarayya in 
> >>> Palestine both report it. 
> >>> �
> >>> Nor was this hadith reported only by `Urwa but also by `Abd al-Malik ibn 
> >>> `Umayr, al-Aswad, Ibn Abi Mulayka, Abu Salama ibn `Abd al-Rahman ibn 
> >>> `Awf, Yahya 
> >>> ibn `Abd al-Rahman ibn Hatib, Abu `Ubayda (`Amir ibn `Abd Allah ibn 
> >>> Mas`ud) and 
> >>> others of the Tabi`i Imams directly from `A'isha. 
> >>> �
> >>> This makes the report mass-transmitted (mutawatir) from `A'isha by over 
> >>> eleven authorities among the Tabi`in, not counting the other major 
> >>> Companions 
> >>> that reported the same, such as Ibn Mas`ud nor other major Successors 
> >>> that 
> >>> reported it from other than `A'isha, such as Qatada! 
> >>> �
> >>> Tehzibu'l-tehzib, one of the most well known books on 
> >>> the life and reliability of the narrators of the traditions of the 
> >>> Prophet 
> >>> (pbuh), reports that according to Yaqub ibn Shaibah: "narratives reported 
> >>> by 
> >>> Hisham are reliable except those that are reported through the people of 
> >>> Iraq". 
> >>> It further states that Malik ibn Anas objected on those narratives of 
> >>> Hisham 
> >>> which were reported through people of Iraq. (vol11, pg 48 - 51) 
> >>> �
> >>> Rather, Ya`qub said: "Trustworthy, thoroughly reliable (thiqa thabt), 
> >>> above 
> >>> reproach except after he went to Iraq, at which time he narrated overly 
> >>> from his 
> >>> father and was criticized for it." Notice that Ya`qub does not exactly 
> >>> endorse 
> >>> that criticism. 
> >>> �
> >>> As for Malik, he reports over 100 hadiths from Hisham as is evident in 
> >>> the 
> >>> two Sahihs and Sunan! to the point that al-Dhahabi questions the 
> >>> authenticity of 
> >>> his alleged criticism of Hisham. 
> >>> �
> >>> Indeed, none among the hadith Masters endorsed these reservations since 
> >>> they 
> >>> were based solely on the fact that Hisham in his last period (he was 71 
> >>> at the 
> >>> time of his last trip to Iraq), for the sake of brevity, would say, "My 
> >>> father, 
> >>> from `A'isha? (abi `an `A'isha)" and no longer pronounced, "narrated to 
> >>> me 
> >>> (haddathani)". 
> >>> �
> >>> Al-Mizzi in Tahdhib al-Kamal (30:238) explained that it became a foregone 
> >>> conclusion for the Iraqis that Hisham did not narrate anything 
> >>> from his father except what he had heard directly from him. 
> >>> �
> >>> Ibn Hajar also dismisses the objections against Hisham ibn `Urwa as 
> >>> negligible in Tahdhib al-Tahdhib (11:45), saying: "It was clear enough to 
> >>> the 
> >>> Iraqis that he did not narrate from his father other than what he had 
> >>> heard 
> >>> directly from him". 
> >>> �
> >>> In fact, to say that "narratives reported by Hisham ibn `Urwa are 
> >>> reliable 
> >>> except those that are reported through the people of Iraq" is major 
> >>> nonsense as 
> >>> that would eliminate all narrations of Ayyub al-Sakhtyani from him since 
> >>> Ayyub 
> >>> was a Basran Iraqi, and those of Abu `Umar al-Nakha`i who was from Kufa, 
> >>> and 
> >>> those of Hammad ibn Abi Sulayman from Kufa (the Shaykh of Abu Hanifa), 
> >>> and those 
> >>> of Hammad ibn Salama and Hammad ibn Zayd both from Basra, and those of 
> >>> Sufyan 
> >>> al-Thawri from Basra, and those of Shu`ba in Basra, all of whom narrated 
> >>> from 
> >>> Hisham! 
> >>> �
> >>> Mizanu'l-ai`tidal, another book on the narrators of 
> >>> the traditions of the Prophet (pbuh) reports that when he was old, 
> >>> Hisham's 
> >>> memory suffered quite badly. (vol 4, pg 301 - 302) 
> >>> �
> >>> An outright lie, on the contrary, al-Dhahabi in Mizan al-I`tidal (4:301 
> >>> #9233) states: "Hisham ibn `Urwa, one of the eminent personalities. A 
> >>> Proof in 
> >>> himself, and an Imam. However, in his old age his memory diminished, but 
> >>> he 
> >>> certainly never became confused. Nor should any attention be paid to what 
> >>> Abu 
> >>> al-Hasan ibn al-Qattan said about him and Suhayl ibn Abi Salih becoming 
> >>> confused 
> >>> or changing! Yes, the man changed a little bit and his memory was not the 
> >>> same 
> >>> as it had been in his younger days, so that he forgot some of what he had 
> >>> memorized or lapsed, so what? Is he immune to forgetfulness? [p. 302] And 
> >>> when 
> >>> he came to Iraq in the last part of his life he narrated a great amount 
> >>> of 
> >>> knowledge, in the course of which are a few narrations in which he did 
> >>> not 
> >>> excel, and such as occurs also to Malik, and Shu`ba, and Waki`, and the 
> >>> major 
> >>> trustworthy masters. So spare yourself confusion and floundering, do not 
> >>> make 
> >>> mix the firmly-established Imams with the weak and muddled narrators. 
> >>> Hisham is 
> >>> a Shaykh al-Islam. But may Allah console us well of you, O Ibn al-Qattan, 
> >>> and 
> >>> the same with regard to `Abd al-Rahman ibn Khirash's statement from 
> >>> Malik!" 
> >>> �
> >>> According to the generally accepted tradition, Ayesha 
> >>> (ra) was born about eight years before Hijra. But according to another 
> >>> narrative 
> >>> in Bukhari (kitabu'l-tafseer) Ayesha (ra) is reported to have said that 
> >>> at the 
> >>> time Surah Al-Qamar, the 54th chapter of the Qur'an, was revealed, "I was 
> >>> a 
> >>> young girl". The 54th surah of the Qur'an was revealed nine years before 
> >>> Hijra. 
> >>> �
> >>> Not true. The hadith Masters, Sira historians, and Qur'anic commentators 
> >>> agree that the splitting of the moon took place about five years before 
> >>> the Holy 
> >>> Prophet's (upon him blessings and peace) Hijra to Madina. 
> >>> �
> >>> Thus it is confirmed that our Mother `Aisha was born between seven and 
> >>> eight 
> >>> years before the Hijra and the words that she was a jariya or little girl 
> >>> five 
> >>> years before the Hijra match the fact that her age at the time Surat 
> >>> al-Qamar 
> >>> was revealed was around 2 or 3. 
> >>> �
> >>> According to this tradition, Ayesha (ra) had not only 
> >>> been born before the revelation of the referred surah, but was actually a 
> >>> young 
> >>> girl (jariyah), not an infant (sibyah) at that time. Obviously, if this 
> >>> narrative is held to be true, it is in clear contradiction with the 
> >>> narratives 
> >>> reported by Hisham ibn `Urwah. I see absolutely no reason that after the 
> >>> comments of the experts on the narratives of Hisham ibn `Urwah, why we 
> >>> should 
> >>> not accept this narrative to be more accurate. 
> >>> �
> >>> A two year old is not an infant. A two year old is able to run around, 
> >>> which 
> >>> is what jariya means. As for "the comments of the experts" they concur on 
> >>> 6 or 7 
> >>> as the age of marriage and 9 as the age of cohabitation. 
> >>> �
> >>> According to a number of narratives, Ayesha (ra) 
> >>> accompanied the Muslims in the battle of Badr and Uhud. Furthermore, it 
> >>> is also 
> >>> reported in books of hadith and history that no one under the age of 15 
> >>> years 
> >>> was allowed to take part in the battle of Uhud. All the boys below 15 
> >>> years of 
> >>> age were sent back. Ayesha's (ra) participation in the battle of Badr and 
> >>> Uhud 
> >>> clearly indicate that she was not nine or ten years old at that time. 
> >>> After all, 
> >>> women used to accompany men to the battle fields to help them, not to be 
> >>> a 
> >>> burden on them. 
> >>> �
> >>> First, the prohibition applied to combatants. It applied neither to 
> >>> non-combatant boys nor to non-combatant girls and women. Second, `A'isha 
> >>> did not 
> >>> participate in Badr at all but bade farewell to the combatants as they 
> >>> were 
> >>> leaving Madina, as narrated by Muslim in his Sahih. On the day of Uhud 
> >>> (year 3), 
> >>> Anas, at the time only twelve or thirteen years old, reports seeing an 
> >>> eleven-year old `A'isha and his mother Umm Sulaym having tied up their 
> >>> dresses 
> >>> and carrying water skins back and forth to the combatants, as narrated by 
> >>> al-Bukhari and Muslim. 
> >>> �
> >>> According to almost all the historians, Asma, the 
> >>> elder sister of Ayesha was ten years older than Ayesha. 
> >>> �
> >>> Well, Ibn Kathir based himself on Ibn Abi al-Zinad's assertion that she 
> >>> was 
> >>> ten years older than `A'isha, however, al-Dhahabi in Siyar A`lam 
> >>> al-Nubala' said 
> >>> there was a greater difference than 10 years between the two, up to 19, 
> >>> and he 
> >>> is more reliable here. 
> >>> �
> >>> It is reported in Taqri'bu'l-tehzi'b as well as 
> >>> Al-bidayah wa'l-nihayah that Asma died in 73 hijrah when she was 100 
> >>> years old. 
> >>> Now, obviously if Asma was 100 years old in 73 hijrah she should have 
> >>> been 27 or 
> >>> 28 years old at the time of hijrah. If Asma was 27 or 28 years old at the 
> >>> time 
> >>> of hijrah, Ayesha should have been 17 or 18 years old at that time. Thus, 
> >>> Ayesha, if she got married in 1 AH (after hijrah) or 2 AH, was between 18 
> >>> to 20 
> >>> years old at the time of her marriage. 
> >>> �
> >>> Ibn Hajar reports in al-Isaba from Hisham ibn `Urwa, from his father, 
> >>> that 
> >>> Asma' did live 100 years, and from Abu Nu`aym al-Asbahani that "Asma' 
> >>> bint Abi 
> >>> Bakr was born 27 years before the Hijra, and she lived until the 
> >>> beginning of 
> >>> the year 74." None of this amounts to any proof for `A'isha's age 
> >>> whatsoever. 
> >>> �
> >>> Tabari in his treatise on Islamic history, while 
> >>> mentioning Abu Bakr, reports that Abu Bakr had four children and all four 
> >>> were 
> >>> born during the Jahiliyyah -- the pre Islamic period. Obviously, if 
> >>> Ayesha was 
> >>> born in the period of Jahiliyyah, she could not have been less than 14 
> >>> years in 
> >>> 1 AH -- the time she most likely got married. 
> >>> �
> >>> Al-Tabari nowhere reports that "Abu Bakr's four children were all born in 
> >>> Jahiliyya" but only that Abu Bakr married both their mothers in 
> >>> Jahiliyya, 
> >>> Qutayla bint Sa`d and Umm Ruman, who bore him four children in all, two 
> >>> each, 
> >>> `A'isha being the daughter of Umm Ruman. 
> >>> �
> >>> According to Ibn Hisham, the historian, Ayesha 
> >>> accepted Islam quite some time before Umar ibn Khattab. 
> >>> �
> >>> Nowhere does Ibn Hisham say this. 
> >>> �
> >>> This shows that Ayesha accepted Islam during the first 
> >>> year of Islam. While, if the narrative of Ayesha's marriage at seven 
> >>> years of 
> >>> age is held to be true, Ayesha should not have been born during the first 
> >>> year 
> >>> of Islam. 
> >>> �
> >>> Rather, Ibn Hisham lists `A'isha among "those that accepted Islam because 
> >>> of 
> >>> Abu Bakr." This does not mean that she embraced Islam during the first 
> >>> year of 
> >>> Islam. Nor does it mean that she necessarily embraced Islam before `Umar 
> >>> (year 
> >>> 6) although she was born the previous year (year 7 before the Hijra) 
> >>> although it 
> >>> is understood she will automatically follow her father's choice even 
> >>> before the 
> >>> age of reason. 
> >>> �
> >>> Tabari has also reported that at the time Abu Bakr 
> >>> planned on migrating to Habshah (8 years before Hijrah), he went to 
> >>> Mut`am -- 
> >>> with whose son Ayesha was engaged -- and asked him to take Ayesha in his 
> >>> house 
> >>> as his son's wife. Mut`am refused, because Abu Bakr had embraced Islam, 
> >>> and 
> >>> subsequently his son divorced Ayesha (ra). 
> >>> �
> >>> Not at all, there is no mention of emigration in Tabari's account of Abu 
> >>> Bakr's discussion with Mut`im. Nor did he ever ask him to take `A'isha 
> >>> because 
> >>> there had been only some preliminary talk, not a formal arrangement. Umm 
> >>> Ruman, 
> >>> Abu Bakr's wife, reportedly said: "By Allah, no promise had been given on 
> >>> our 
> >>> part at all!" Rather, al-Tabari said that when news of the Prophet's 
> >>> interest in 
> >>> `A'isha came, he went to see Mut`im. Then Mut`im's wife manifested her 
> >>> fear that 
> >>> her son would become Muslim if he married into Abu Bakr's family. Abu 
> >>> Bakr then 
> >>> left them and gave his assent to the Prophet, upon him blessings and 
> >>> peace. 
> >>> �
> >>> Now, if Ayesha was only seven years old at the time of 
> >>> her marriage, she could not have been born at the time Abu Bakr decided 
> >>> on 
> >>> migrating to Habshah. On the basis of this report it seems only 
> >>> reasonable to 
> >>> assume that Ayesha had not only been born 8 years before hijrah, but was 
> >>> also a 
> >>> young lady, quite prepared for marriage. 
> >>> �
> >>> Your assumption fizzles at the root when you read al-Tabari's positive 
> >>> assertion: "On the day he consummated the marriage with her, she was nine 
> >>> years 
> >>> old." 
> >>> �
> >>> According to a narrative reported by Ahmad ibn Hanbal, 
> >>> after the death of Khadijah, when Khaulah came to the Prophet advising 
> >>> him to 
> >>> marry again, the Prophet asked her regarding the choices she had in her 
> >>> mind. 
> >>> Khaulah said: "You can marry a virgin (bikr) or a woman who has already 
> >>> been 
> >>> married (thayyib)". When the Prophet asked about who the virgin was, 
> >>> Khaulah 
> >>> proposed Ayesha's name. All those who know the Arabic language, are aware 
> >>> that 
> >>> the word "bikr" in the Arabic language is not used for an immature nine 
> >>> year old 
> >>> girl. The correct word for a young playful girl, as stated earlier is 
> >>> "Jariyah". 
> >>> "Bikr" on the other hand, is used for an unmarried lady, and obviously a 
> >>> nine 
> >>> year old is not a "lady". 
> >>> �
> >>> This is ignorant nonsense, bikr means a virgin girl, a girl who has never 
> >>> been married even if her age is 0 and there is no unclarity here 
> >>> whatsoever. 
> >>> �
> >>> According to Ibn Hajar, Fatimah was five years older 
> >>> than Ayesha. Fatimah is reported to have been born when the Prophet was 
> >>> 35 years 
> >>> old. Thus, even if this information is taken to be correct, Ayesha could 
> >>> by no 
> >>> means be less than 14 years old at the time of hijrah, and 15 or 16 years 
> >>> old at 
> >>> the time of her marriage. 
> >>> �
> >>> Rather, Ibn Hajar mentions two versions: (1) al-Waqidi's narration that 
> >>> Fatima was born when the Prophet was 35; and (2) Ibn `Abd al-Barr's 
> >>> narration 
> >>> that she was born when he was 41, approximately one year more or less 
> >>> before 
> >>> Prophethood, and about five years before `A'isha was born. The latter 
> >>> version 
> >>> matches the established dates. 
> >>> �
> >>> So our Mother `A'isha was nineteen to twenty years younger than her 
> >>> sister 
> >>> Asma' (b. 27 before Hijra-d. 74) and about five years to eight years 
> >>> Fatima's 
> >>> junior. 
> >>> �
> >>> These are some of the major points that go against 
> >>> accepting the commonly known narrative regarding Ayesha's (ra) age at the 
> >>> time 
> >>> of her marriage. In my opinion, neither was it an Arab tradition to give 
> >>> away 
> >>> girls in marriage at an age as young as nine or ten years, nor did the 
> >>> Prophet 
> >>> marry Ayesha at such a young age. The people of Arabia did not object to 
> >>> this 
> >>> marriage, because it never happened in the manner it has been narrated. 
> >>> �
> >>> Those that itch to follow misguidance always resort to solipsisms because 
> >>> they are invariably thin on sources. In this particular case "the 
> >>> Learner" 
> >>> proves to be ignorant and dishonest. It is no surprise he moves on every 
> >>> single 
> >>> point, without exception, from incorrect premises to false conclusions. 
> >>> �
> >>> Hajj Gibril 
> >>> 
> >>> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
> >>>
> >>
> >>
> >> 
> >>
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