I have heard so much about "mental orgasms" and what pleasure they bring but I am one that cannot achieve this. After my injury back in 2000 my wife had nothing to do with me sexually. The only erection that I achieve is once in a while in the morning. Since I'm a SCI "virgin" I do not know if I can achieve an erection being sexually stimulated or not, I hardly doubt it. I have had erotic dreams and have even gone to the Internet to surf porn to see if I would be able to achieve an erection or even have an orgasm but so far nothing. My ex-wife was never really very sexual and I guess she could be even labeled as frigid so, I was left high and dry on too many occasion is to even count. Maybe if our sex life was more active while I was able-bodied maybe she would have taken an interest after my injury. I still get sexually frustrated at times but nothing like I was after my injury so, I guess I can say sex is not that big of a deal anymore. Although it would be nice to try. Jim
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