Sex! Its really hard to explain the difference between now and before my injury. I enjoy just pleasing my lady, when shes having a orgasm I to get a tingly week feeling right along with her. My heart is pounding and my eyes feel week, also my blood pressure starts dropping when were done. Its about the same after feelings I had before my injury even though I dont have a orgasm. I have had a orgasm sense my injury and it was great, started shacking all over and my whole body became ridged. Its so hard now to get time alone here its grand central here of a day, and by night Im wore out and wont to rest. Morning is the best time when Im fresh, but its hard to get alone. Also I have a indwelling cath now, being sick also plays a big role in feeling like having sex. Not to forget being vent dependent makes it uncomfortable, so with all this shit it makes sex hard. But its still a big part of my life, it makes me feel like a man which interne boost my confidence. My girl friend is what keeps me going, it takes a special person to deal with all the adversities . She has a special way of turning a bad situation into a positive one, my bowel program is the most embarrassing thing for me, one morning while she was dilling me she said this might be plum kinky in a different circumstance. Just little things she does lightens the atmosphere and makes me feel better. Silas
From: Lori Michaelson [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Monday, December 17, 2007 8:17 PM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Warning.....Sexual. I don't think that too many members on the list are brave enough to respond to this one. Thus the tiny thread. While microphones or things like that are more important! LOL I know the topic of sex has been brought up before but it does not go anywhere usually. So either members are not having sex or are not with a partner. :-) Some folks will say that sex plays an important role in a relationship... especially for the one who is not getting any! Others will say that sex is most definitely, and I mean most definitely, NOT a great big thing in a good relationship. Actually, it is a little bit of both. It is not that both partners do not WANT OR ENJOY sex... because it can be very exciting and joyful. And it should be! You are also right that the brain is the most powerful sex organ. This is even more true for women. Women have no idea and (cannot have any idea) what orgasm for a man (ejaculation) feels like and vice versa. Obviously for women it is the clitoris for the sensation part of it and the brain for the mega part of it. I remember one of my most powerful orgasms after my injury (I had just turned 15 when my injury occurred so nothing happened before that) occurred when my partner did something around my ear, neck and my collarbone area that set me through the ceiling and was definitely an orgasm if I ever had one!!! So that is one example. For women... those are extremely, extremely, extremely sensitive areas and probably just as much as the clitoris. But the actual intercourse part of it is a combination of so many things. The noises, the whispers, the words, the motions, etc. etc. etc. all help one to cum. "Feeling sexy" for women plays a huge part as well. For example... having a négligée or a bra slid so very slowly down the shoulders is really really erotic! Or pressing up and around the breasts at the same time or during something else also adds to the beginning of a climax. I could go on and on and on. But don't anyone fool themselves by thinking that sex is not important to some degree to their partner. There IS a reason for masturbation! And nobody should feel threatened because their partner does that. So... all the rest of you scaredy-cats... bring it on! On Dec 15, 2007 5:37 PM, < <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> [EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Hello guys, Let me get right to it. This morning I was in the middle of the most erotic dream I have ever had since my injury when I was awaken just at the moment we long to remember (the big orgasm). This dream felt soooo real that when I woke up I felt just (well, pretty darn close) like I had a real orgasm, tingling all over and my insides were too. You know that feeling after you cum and you're so sensitive that you just can't take another touch. That! I think I was moaning just before I woke up also, because I opened my eyes thinking 'oh shit did my wife just hear me. I know they say your brain is the most powerful sex organ but damn, I wasn't expecting it to be like that. My question is have any of you ever experience this and if so how can you recreate it? Larry, C5 More new features than ever. Check out the new AIM(R) Mail!
