i sent this earlier but only hit relpy, not reply all so here it isagain............
-----Original Message----- From: shellbell5705 <[email protected]> To: Nan <[email protected]>; quad-list <[email protected]> Sent: Sun, Nov 20, 2011 9:30 am Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Touchy Topic Sorry we lost a subscriber but I found nothing offensible bout referring to male genitalia as the boys~ Thought it was a tastful way to address sexuality and quad life and made me giggle !! If something is disturbing I STOP reading and move on to somethin else! We are here to share our experience strength and hope with each other. Please don't stop doing that !!!! When someone else shares it helps me to remember how lucky I am to have the functionality that I have!! Hugs~ Shelly Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry From: Nan <[email protected]> Date: Fri, 18 Nov 2011 20:50:11 -0800 (PST) To: <[email protected]> Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Touchy Topic Yeah Lissette! I agree 100%. --- On Fri, 11/18/11, Lissette Whitehead <[email protected]> wrote: From: Lissette Whitehead <[email protected]> Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Touchy Topic To: [email protected], [email protected] Date: Friday, November 18, 2011, 11:25 PM Yeah, this is ridiculous, I mean there might be a lot of subjects some of us wouldn't like to go in to, so you just delete those messages and problem solved, sex might be one of the most important subjects for some people here so why should they be restricted. There are a lot of subjects that I don't relate to so I just don't read them, what's the big deal??? Lissette Whitehead 1177 Broadway Suite #4 Chula Vista, CA 91911 www.lissettesgoaltowalk.synthasite.com www.lwgripgloves.com From: [email protected] To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Touchy Topic Date: Fri, 18 Nov 2011 21:46:15 -0600 Why would that be necessary? Good grief, what in the hell's the problem? Guys, gals & all those inbetween...OK CODE WORD....READY??? lighten the fuck up Eric W Rudd [email protected] ----- Original Message ----- From: Dave Krehbiel To: 'Don Price' ; [email protected] Sent: Friday, November 18, 2011 9:38 PM Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Touchy Topic It would also be possible for us to have some sort of a code word or symbol to include in the subject line (e.g. SEX) so that those who wanted to avoid the discussions would either ignore the posts or automatically delete them. From: Don Price [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Friday, November 18, 2011 6:54 PM To: [email protected] Subject: [QUAD-L] Touchy Topic Pardon the pun in the subject line, but I was wondering how we might go about having a very frank discussion about sexuality and SCI online. I know that some people on this list would be interested in the subject of sexuality while others would not, and might even find it offensive. We lost a subscriber yesterday, I suspect because we got a bit too graphic about 'the boys.' So, I'm thinking this is not the best place to discuss this topic. Maybe there's a forum that already exists for the topic of SCI and sex? Is it possible to start a sub-list of people on here who wanted to have a candid discussion about this topic, knowing that there is the probabilty of offensive language or information in such a discussion? It's an important topic and I'm guessing more than a few would be interested. Any thoughts [without getting graphic]? Don.
