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> Y'all,
> hey there I ask that ya guys keep me in prayer. I need major
> prayer. See I need prayer to either quit Rangers totally or take a long
> break. We have been having boys that when they get in trouble. I punish
> them in a Christian way, but the bad part is that they go to there parents or
> another Cmdr. They rearrange there whole story and then I get into trouble.
I know it's hard to understand what happened following such an incident,
when "You thought" you were doing the right thing... But try to read this!
Commanders can not "Command right behavior" but must use other tools
to "raise" morale, than punishment, threat or fear tactics! Raising "morale"
is real leadership. and "sells" to boys, parents, and pastor!
*When you find it a "struggle to control-" you know what you want, and that
is a clear expression of the GOLDEN RULE to be the implemented in the
actions of the boys! When that doesn't happen- *TIME OUT! GO BACK
TO THE BASICS! ...GO BACK TO:
*LTC. training
*NTC training
*Your own common sense of the matter..
Also.
If you lead by example (or role model) and deal with others the way you want the
boys to act. Like: Between your fellow Commanders, create a "Commander Patrol"
with a original name, cheer, flag, song, etc. at camp outs your "Commander
Patrol" would have their own campsite and come-up with "fake problems" like the
ones your receiving from the boys and solve them the way it SHOULD be done. After
awhile you will begin to notice a change in the boys they will WANT to act like a
patrol because they see how a success your commander patrol turned out to be.
Josh and -=A=-
>
> It happened today, and I forgive them. See two boys got Josh and I in
> trouble and if Josh didn't go over and fix everything. We would got the
> lecture of our life. So I ask that ya keep me in prayer. I felt like giving
> up and when I go to another church(college I mean). Then rejoin Rangers but
> then what about if a child talk bad about me to there parents when it isn't
> true. So I don't want to give up. I know some are saying man if you give
> up, ya ain't a Christian or something
> John
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