Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it
Hello, Kindly ask your friend to consult a Gynecologist. There are few tests available in Fortis. But I am not very sure whether it will concern your friend or not. All the best. - Original Message - From: Vamshi. G gvamsh...@gmail.com To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Wednesday, August 31, 2011 1:37 PM Subject: Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it What is the reason for their blindness? Is the eye disease genetic? On 8/31/11, RAJ VASWANI mr.rajvasw...@gmail.com wrote: Dear group members and Dear moderator, kindly apologize me if this is an off-topic mail but I didn't find any other suitable platform other then this. One of my friend had got married 2 years back and now he has got a good news for the first time that he is going to become father soon. The problem is: that they both are blind from the birth and they don't want to born a baby with the same VI disability. Kindly do try to inform me that is there any test available through which they can come to know at the very early stage of the pregnancy about this problem? So that they can make the final dissection for continuing or not continuing this pregnancy. Kindly share your valuable suggestions/experiences. Thanks in advance, Raj Vaswani Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in -- G. Vamshi PH Res : +91 877-2243861 Mobile: +91 9949349497 E-mail ID: gvamsh...@gmail.com Skype: gvamshi81 www.retinaindia.org From darkness unto light Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in __ Information from ESET NOD32 Antivirus, version of virus signature database 4628 (20091122) __ The message was checked by ESET NOD32 Antivirus. http://www.eset.com __ Information from ESET NOD32 Antivirus, version of virus signature database 4628 (20091122) __ The message was checked by ESET NOD32 Antivirus. http://www.eset.com Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in
Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it
Well said, Vetri. But I am afraid any test available does not tell with any reliable certainty the probability of having a blind child. Then, it becomes difficult to decide. However, there is a Unani medicine which has proved effective in our family and in some others, without any side effects hitherto, if taken during pregnancy. If anybody wishes to try, do let me know... -Original Message- From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Adhimoolam Vetrivel Murugan Sent: Friday, September 02, 2011 7:10 AM To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it I think the fear is worth investicating and the desition to terminate the birth based on disability should be left to the parents. Which is not to say that blind parents cannot raise blind children, but no group should be dictating their decision making. Rather they should be helped in making an informed choice. Vetri. On 01/09/2011, jayantgarg1...@gmail.com jayantgarg1...@gmail.com wrote: I know that there are endless arguments both in favour and against . The amswer to your question is very simple the child will have the feeling only when he or she is allowed to do so and not stopped to come to earth . The doctors gave you probabilities and i have a simple question if we have become v i is our life have stopped completely. When we can succeed in life so will our children. Even the normal persons have to overcome many hurdles there are many other discriminations in our society other than disability . Because of these we don't decide to discontinue with our child. the child have to overcome all these discriminations by his or her own . I am not saying that only i am right and every other view is wrong . Ultimately one has to take decision by his or her concious and inner voice as they have to live by this decision forever. -original message- Subject: Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it From: mahendra gal...@chello.at Date: 01/09/2011 4:25 pm the question is, would child feel okay, once he knows, that his parents went ahead even after knowing that he can be disabled? can we, or should we decide future of the child? wenn it comes to disabletie? At 07:51 AM 9/1/2011, you wrote: I am 100% v i now. But at the time of my marriage i had very good vision i am married to a sighted girl but suddenly my vision deteriorated we had one child and he is normal till now and will be forever with the grace of god. Both of us had planned that no more child but now we are soon to become parents of another child and we had not planned for this no parents want that their child to be disabled . Do my parents want me to be blind but i am blind i know the difficulties a v i have to face in his day to day life . But it does not mean that we should not have the experience of or feeling of becoming a parent the most extraordinary feeling ofthe universe. I am sorry if i am hurting someones feelings but should we have the right to interfior with god wishes if we do so will god would not punish us . Lets assume that we dont continue with the fear of him or her being disable then can any doctor give us gurrantee that my first child will be normal forever . Is not it that it is again the wish of god. Then why we refuse to accept his most beautiful and wonderful gift . -original message- Subject: Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it From: Anjina Bhat anjina1...@gmail.com Date: 01/09/2011 10:41 am Dear Raj I Think the chances of the blind parents having blind child is very less there are ceratin genetic tests which are to be performed and any good gyncologists shall advise you . it is being done in Ganga Ram Hospital if in delhi --- But very safe test here is Real story of blind couple a blind couple that taught her the real meaning of love. There are times in life when Darwin’s principle of ‘survival of the fittest’ becomes the hardcore truth of life. When the desire to live gets weakened and the enormous beauty of the world fails to attract you. A physical disability, for example, has that kind of effect, when one gets overwhelmed by complications. It is during such times that the strength of the individual is severely tested. A few days back, I accompanied my maternal grandmother to a hospital for her cataract surgery. Hospitals do have their unique atmosphere. The first thing that will get you annoyed is the unmistakable smell of medicines, but that is certainly not the last thing that wreaks havoc with your otherwise peaceful existence. In the midst of screeching stretchers and critically-ill patients, I noticed an overwhelming reaction of two individuals. This couple was blessed with a baby boy. I think it was the most precious moment for them. Even I started feeling the same ecstasy, forgetting momentarily what I was here for. All of a sudden, something stirred my conscience and before
Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it
What is the reason for their blindness? Is the eye disease genetic? On 8/31/11, RAJ VASWANI mr.rajvasw...@gmail.com wrote: Dear group members and Dear moderator, kindly apologize me if this is an off-topic mail but I didn't find any other suitable platform other then this. One of my friend had got married 2 years back and now he has got a good news for the first time that he is going to become father soon. The problem is: that they both are blind from the birth and they don't want to born a baby with the same VI disability. Kindly do try to inform me that is there any test available through which they can come to know at the very early stage of the pregnancy about this problem? So that they can make the final dissection for continuing or not continuing this pregnancy. Kindly share your valuable suggestions/experiences. Thanks in advance, Raj Vaswani Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in -- G. Vamshi PH Res : +91 877-2243861 Mobile: +91 9949349497 E-mail ID: gvamsh...@gmail.com Skype: gvamshi81 www.retinaindia.org From darkness unto light Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in
Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it
Hi Raj, If the eye condition is the genetic one like Age Related Mecular degeneration, RP etc, then they should go for genetic counseling. If they are based in Delhi, they can check with Sir Ganga ram Hospital as there used to be a special department for genetic counseling. Satguru ___,__.___ Life's battle do not always go, to the stronger or faster man. But sooner or later the one who wins, is the one who thinks he can. Satguru Rathi. Mobile: +91-9971231627 Email: satgurura...@yahoo.co.in satgurura...@ovi.com Skype: satgururathi Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=12489756116 - Original Message - From: RAJ VASWANI mr.rajvasw...@gmail.com To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Wednesday, August 31, 2011 1:14 PM Subject: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it Dear group members and Dear moderator, kindly apologize me if this is an off-topic mail but I didn't find any other suitable platform other then this. One of my friend had got married 2 years back and now he has got a good news for the first time that he is going to become father soon. The problem is: that they both are blind from the birth and they don't want to born a baby with the same VI disability. Kindly do try to inform me that is there any test available through which they can come to know at the very early stage of the pregnancy about this problem? So that they can make the final dissection for continuing or not continuing this pregnancy. Kindly share your valuable suggestions/experiences. Thanks in advance, Raj Vaswani Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in
Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it
Hai friend, I am a blind and I will be a father in just one month time. I haven't tested whether my child is visually impaired or not. I don't know whether my child is a boy or girl. It is god's gift and I am ready to accept the gift gratefully. From the very moment of conception itself the child is a human being and the decision to discontinue the pregnancy is equal to killing a human being. If our parants had thought to discontinue the pregnancy because of impairment to the featus how many of us would be heare in this beautiful earth. I have seen many parants who gave birth to their children even after doctors strong instruction to discontinue the pragnancy because of severe and profound impairment to their foetus. Please do have faith in God allmighty. Please don't discuss about such ways of homicide. with regards Jaison Bellarmine. On 8/31/11, Vamshi. G gvamsh...@gmail.com wrote: What is the reason for their blindness? Is the eye disease genetic? On 8/31/11, RAJ VASWANI mr.rajvasw...@gmail.com wrote: Dear group members and Dear moderator, kindly apologize me if this is an off-topic mail but I didn't find any other suitable platform other then this. One of my friend had got married 2 years back and now he has got a good news for the first time that he is going to become father soon. The problem is: that they both are blind from the birth and they don't want to born a baby with the same VI disability. Kindly do try to inform me that is there any test available through which they can come to know at the very early stage of the pregnancy about this problem? So that they can make the final dissection for continuing or not continuing this pregnancy. Kindly share your valuable suggestions/experiences. Thanks in advance, Raj Vaswani Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in -- G. Vamshi PH Res : +91 877-2243861 Mobile: +91 9949349497 E-mail ID: gvamsh...@gmail.com Skype: gvamshi81 www.retinaindia.org From darkness unto light Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in
Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it
Only thing you must do is to just go for eye test of the new born baby. Because some times the babies are born with congenital cataract which could be very harmful if not treated in time. Otherwise I agree we should not defy nature! - Original Message - From: jaison bellarmine jaisonay...@gmail.com To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Wednesday, August 31, 2011 3:00 PM Subject: Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it Hai friend, I am a blind and I will be a father in just one month time. I haven't tested whether my child is visually impaired or not. I don't know whether my child is a boy or girl. It is god's gift and I am ready to accept the gift gratefully. From the very moment of conception itself the child is a human being and the decision to discontinue the pregnancy is equal to killing a human being. If our parants had thought to discontinue the pregnancy because of impairment to the featus how many of us would be heare in this beautiful earth. I have seen many parants who gave birth to their children even after doctors strong instruction to discontinue the pragnancy because of severe and profound impairment to their foetus. Please do have faith in God allmighty. Please don't discuss about such ways of homicide. with regards Jaison Bellarmine. On 8/31/11, Vamshi. G gvamsh...@gmail.com wrote: What is the reason for their blindness? Is the eye disease genetic? On 8/31/11, RAJ VASWANI mr.rajvasw...@gmail.com wrote: Dear group members and Dear moderator, kindly apologize me if this is an off-topic mail but I didn't find any other suitable platform other then this. One of my friend had got married 2 years back and now he has got a good news for the first time that he is going to become father soon. The problem is: that they both are blind from the birth and they don't want to born a baby with the same VI disability. Kindly do try to inform me that is there any test available through which they can come to know at the very early stage of the pregnancy about this problem? So that they can make the final dissection for continuing or not continuing this pregnancy. Kindly share your valuable suggestions/experiences. Thanks in advance, Raj Vaswani Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in -- G. Vamshi PH Res : +91 877-2243861 Mobile: +91 9949349497 E-mail ID: gvamsh...@gmail.com Skype: gvamshi81 www.retinaindia.org From darkness unto light Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in
Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it
Dear Raj I Think the chances of the blind parents having blind child is very less there are ceratin genetic tests which are to be performed and any good gyncologists shall advise you . it is being done in Ganga Ram Hospital if in delhi --- But very safe test here is Real story of blind couple a blind couple that taught her the real meaning of love. There are times in life when Darwin’s principle of ‘survival of the fittest’ becomes the hardcore truth of life. When the desire to live gets weakened and the enormous beauty of the world fails to attract you. A physical disability, for example, has that kind of effect, when one gets overwhelmed by complications. It is during such times that the strength of the individual is severely tested. A few days back, I accompanied my maternal grandmother to a hospital for her cataract surgery. Hospitals do have their unique atmosphere. The first thing that will get you annoyed is the unmistakable smell of medicines, but that is certainly not the last thing that wreaks havoc with your otherwise peaceful existence. In the midst of screeching stretchers and critically-ill patients, I noticed an overwhelming reaction of two individuals. This couple was blessed with a baby boy. I think it was the most precious moment for them. Even I started feeling the same ecstasy, forgetting momentarily what I was here for. All of a sudden, something stirred my conscience and before I could understand anything, the new-born angel’s mother called me, and asked me, “Does the child resemble his father or does he bear my features?” It was a typical question, every mother asks, but what was so unique in her question that made me numb for a while was when I discovered that both the newborn’s parents were blind. I simply smiled and whispered that they were bestowed with a priceless gift of their life. The mother started relishing each moment. I wondered why each one of us becomes so worried in dealing with the most trivial issues of our life. Look around, and you will find millions of heroes struggling each day and emerging as winners with flying colours. This couple was an epitome of courage. Both were blind, and after eight years of their marriage this miracle had happened to them. This memorable experience has taught me so much. The blind couple’s divine love has changed my preconceived notions about love, and everything else we take for granted in our otherwise happy live On Wed, Aug 31, 2011 at 1:14 PM, RAJ VASWANI mr.rajvasw...@gmail.com wrote: Dear group members and Dear moderator, kindly apologize me if this is an off-topic mail but I didn't find any other suitable platform other then this. One of my friend had got married 2 years back and now he has got a good news for the first time that he is going to become father soon. The problem is: that they both are blind from the birth and they don't want to born a baby with the same VI disability. Kindly do try to inform me that is there any test available through which they can come to know at the very early stage of the pregnancy about this problem? So that they can make the final dissection for continuing or not continuing this pregnancy. Kindly share your valuable suggestions/experiences. Thanks in advance, Raj Vaswani Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in -- Anjina Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in