Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it

2011-09-01 Thread Swati Sinha

Hello,
Kindly ask your friend to consult a Gynecologist. There are few tests 
available in Fortis. But I am not very sure whether it will concern your 
friend or not.

All the best.
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Subject: Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it



What is the reason for their blindness?  Is the eye disease genetic?


On 8/31/11, RAJ VASWANI mr.rajvasw...@gmail.com wrote:

Dear group members and Dear moderator,

 kindly apologize me if this is an off-topic mail but I didn't find any
other suitable platform other then this.

 One of my friend had got married 2 years back and now he has got a good
news for the first time that he is going to become father soon.
The problem is: that they both are blind from the birth and they don't 
want

to born a baby with the same VI disability.
Kindly do try to inform me that is there any test available through which
they can come to know at the very early stage of the pregnancy  about 
this

problem?
So that they can make the final dissection for continuing or not 
continuing

this pregnancy.
Kindly share your valuable suggestions/experiences.

Thanks in advance,

Raj Vaswani
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Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it

2011-09-01 Thread Asudani, Rajesh
Well said, Vetri.
But I am afraid any test available does not tell with any reliable certainty 
the probability of having a blind child.
Then, it becomes difficult to decide.

However, there is a Unani medicine which has proved effective in our family and 
in some others, without any side effects hitherto,  if taken during pregnancy.
If anybody wishes to try, do let me know...


-Original Message-
From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in 
[mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Adhimoolam 
Vetrivel Murugan
Sent: Friday, September 02, 2011 7:10 AM
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Subject: Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it

I think the fear is worth investicating and the desition to terminate
the birth based on disability should be left to the parents. Which is
not to say that blind parents cannot raise blind children, but no
group should be dictating their decision making. Rather they should be
helped in making an informed choice.

Vetri.

On 01/09/2011, jayantgarg1...@gmail.com jayantgarg1...@gmail.com wrote:
 I know that there are endless arguments both in favour and against . The
 amswer to your question is very simple the child will have the feeling only
 when he or she is allowed to do so and not stopped to come to earth . The
 doctors gave you probabilities and i have a simple question if we have
 become v i is our life have stopped completely. When we can succeed in life
 so will our children. Even the normal persons have to overcome many hurdles
 there are many other discriminations in our society other than disability .
 Because of these we don't decide to discontinue with our child. the child
 have to overcome all these discriminations by his or her own . I am not
 saying that only i am right and every other view is wrong . Ultimately one
 has to take decision by his or her concious and inner voice as they have to
 live by this decision forever.

 -original message-
 Subject: Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it
 From: mahendra gal...@chello.at
 Date: 01/09/2011 4:25 pm

 the question is, would child feel okay, once he
 knows, that his parents went ahead even after knowing that he can be
 disabled?

 can we, or should we decide future of the child? wenn it comes to
 disabletie?

 At 07:51 AM 9/1/2011, you wrote:
I am 100% v i now. But at the time of my
marriage i had very good vision i am married to
a sighted girl but suddenly my vision
deteriorated we had one child and he is normal
till now and will be forever with the grace of
god. Both of us had planned that no more child
but now we are soon to become parents of another
child and we had not planned for this no parents
want that their child to be disabled . Do my
parents want me to be blind but i am blind i
know the difficulties a v i have to face in his
day to day life . But it does not mean that we
should not have the experience of or feeling of
becoming a parent the most extraordinary feeling
ofthe universe. I am sorry if i am hurting
someones feelings but should we have the right
to interfior with god wishes if we do so will
god would not punish us . Lets assume that we
dont continue with the fear of him or her being
disable then can any doctor give us gurrantee
that my first child will be normal forever . Is
not it that it is again the wish of god. Then
why we refuse to accept his most beautiful and
wonderful gift . -original message- Subject: Re:
[AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore
it From: Anjina Bhat anjina1...@gmail.com
Date: 01/09/2011 10:41 am Dear Raj I Think the
chances of  the blind parents having  blind
child is very less there are ceratin genetic
tests which are to be performed and any good
gyncologists shall  advise you . it is being
done in Ganga Ram Hospital if in delhi ---
But very safe test here is  Real story of blind
couple a blind couple that taught her the real
meaning of love. There are times in life when
Darwin’s principle of ‘survival of the
fittest’ becomes the hardcore truth of life.
When the desire to live gets weakened and the
enormous beauty of the world fails to attract
you. A physical disability, for example, has
that kind of effect, when one gets overwhelmed
by complications. It is during such times that
the strength of the individual is severely
tested. A few days back, I accompanied my
maternal grandmother to a hospital for her
cataract surgery. Hospitals do have their unique
atmosphere. The first thing that will get you
annoyed is the unmistakable smell of medicines,
but that is certainly not the last thing that
wreaks havoc with your otherwise peaceful
existence. In the midst of screeching stretchers
and critically-ill patients, I noticed an
overwhelming reaction of two individuals. This
couple was blessed with a baby boy. I think it
was the most precious moment for them. Even I
started feeling the same ecstasy, forgetting
momentarily what I was here for. All of a
sudden, something stirred my conscience and
before

Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it

2011-08-31 Thread Vamshi. G
What is the reason for their blindness?  Is the eye disease genetic?


On 8/31/11, RAJ VASWANI mr.rajvasw...@gmail.com wrote:
 Dear group members and Dear moderator,

  kindly apologize me if this is an off-topic mail but I didn't find any
 other suitable platform other then this.

  One of my friend had got married 2 years back and now he has got a good
 news for the first time that he is going to become father soon.
 The problem is: that they both are blind from the birth and they don't want
 to born a baby with the same VI disability.
 Kindly do try to inform me that is there any test available through which
 they can come to know at the very early stage of the pregnancy  about this
 problem?
 So that they can make the final dissection for continuing or not continuing
 this pregnancy.
 Kindly share your valuable suggestions/experiences.

 Thanks in advance,

 Raj Vaswani
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Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it

2011-08-31 Thread Satguru
Hi Raj,

If the eye condition is the genetic one like Age Related Mecular 
degeneration, RP etc, then they should go for genetic counseling. If they 
are based in Delhi, they can check with Sir Ganga ram Hospital as there used 
to be a special department for genetic counseling.

Satguru
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From: RAJ VASWANI mr.rajvasw...@gmail.com
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Wednesday, August 31, 2011 1:14 PM
Subject: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it


Dear group members and Dear moderator,

 kindly apologize me if this is an off-topic mail but I didn't find any 
other suitable platform other then this.

 One of my friend had got married 2 years back and now he has got a good 
news for the first time that he is going to become father soon.
The problem is: that they both are blind from the birth and they don't want 
to born a baby with the same VI disability.
Kindly do try to inform me that is there any test available through which 
they can come to know at the very early stage of the pregnancy  about this 
problem?
So that they can make the final dissection for continuing or not continuing 
this pregnancy.
Kindly share your valuable suggestions/experiences.

Thanks in advance,

Raj Vaswani
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Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it

2011-08-31 Thread jaison bellarmine
Hai friend,
I am a blind and I will be a father in just one month time. I haven't
tested whether my child is visually impaired or not. I don't know
whether my child is a boy or girl. It is god's gift and I am ready to
accept the gift gratefully. From the very moment of conception itself
the child is a human being and the decision to discontinue the
pregnancy is equal to killing a human being. If our parants had
thought to discontinue the pregnancy because of impairment to the
featus how many of us would be heare in this beautiful earth. I have
seen many parants who gave birth to their children even after doctors
strong instruction to discontinue the pragnancy because of severe and
profound impairment to their foetus.
Please do have faith in God allmighty. Please don't discuss about such
ways of homicide.
with regards
Jaison Bellarmine.

On 8/31/11, Vamshi. G gvamsh...@gmail.com wrote:
 What is the reason for their blindness?  Is the eye disease genetic?


 On 8/31/11, RAJ VASWANI mr.rajvasw...@gmail.com wrote:
 Dear group members and Dear moderator,

  kindly apologize me if this is an off-topic mail but I didn't find any
 other suitable platform other then this.

  One of my friend had got married 2 years back and now he has got a good
 news for the first time that he is going to become father soon.
 The problem is: that they both are blind from the birth and they don't
 want
 to born a baby with the same VI disability.
 Kindly do try to inform me that is there any test available through which
 they can come to know at the very early stage of the pregnancy  about this
 problem?
 So that they can make the final dissection for continuing or not
 continuing
 this pregnancy.
 Kindly share your valuable suggestions/experiences.

 Thanks in advance,

 Raj Vaswani
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Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it

2011-08-31 Thread Dr. Vipin K. Malhotra
Only thing you must do is to just go for eye test of the new born baby. 
Because some times the babies are born with congenital cataract which could 
be very harmful  if not treated in time.

Otherwise I agree we should not defy nature!
- Original Message - 
From: jaison bellarmine jaisonay...@gmail.com

To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Sent: Wednesday, August 31, 2011 3:00 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it



Hai friend,
I am a blind and I will be a father in just one month time. I haven't
tested whether my child is visually impaired or not. I don't know
whether my child is a boy or girl. It is god's gift and I am ready to
accept the gift gratefully. From the very moment of conception itself
the child is a human being and the decision to discontinue the
pregnancy is equal to killing a human being. If our parants had
thought to discontinue the pregnancy because of impairment to the
featus how many of us would be heare in this beautiful earth. I have
seen many parants who gave birth to their children even after doctors
strong instruction to discontinue the pragnancy because of severe and
profound impairment to their foetus.
Please do have faith in God allmighty. Please don't discuss about such
ways of homicide.
with regards
Jaison Bellarmine.

On 8/31/11, Vamshi. G gvamsh...@gmail.com wrote:

What is the reason for their blindness?  Is the eye disease genetic?


On 8/31/11, RAJ VASWANI mr.rajvasw...@gmail.com wrote:

Dear group members and Dear moderator,

 kindly apologize me if this is an off-topic mail but I didn't find any
other suitable platform other then this.

 One of my friend had got married 2 years back and now he has got a good
news for the first time that he is going to become father soon.
The problem is: that they both are blind from the birth and they don't
want
to born a baby with the same VI disability.
Kindly do try to inform me that is there any test available through 
which
they can come to know at the very early stage of the pregnancy  about 
this

problem?
So that they can make the final dissection for continuing or not
continuing
this pregnancy.
Kindly share your valuable suggestions/experiences.

Thanks in advance,

Raj Vaswani
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Re: [AI] important and urgent! please don't ignore it

2011-08-31 Thread Anjina Bhat
Dear Raj

I Think the chances of  the blind parents having  blind child is very
less there are ceratin genetic tests which are to be performed and any
good gyncologists shall  advise you . it is being done in Ganga Ram
Hospital if in delhi --- But very safe test
 here is  Real story of blind couple

 a blind couple that taught her the real meaning of love. There are
times in life when Darwin’s principle of ‘survival of the fittest’
becomes the hardcore truth of life. When the desire to live gets
weakened and the enormous beauty of the world fails to attract you. A
physical disability, for example, has that kind of effect, when one
gets overwhelmed by complications. It is during such times that the
strength of the individual is severely tested. A few days back, I
accompanied my maternal grandmother to a hospital for her cataract
surgery.

Hospitals do have their unique atmosphere. The first thing that will
get you annoyed is the unmistakable smell of medicines, but that is
certainly not the last thing that wreaks havoc with your otherwise
peaceful existence. In the midst of screeching stretchers and
critically-ill patients, I noticed an overwhelming reaction of two
individuals. This couple was blessed with a baby boy. I think it was
the most precious moment for them. Even I started feeling the same
ecstasy, forgetting momentarily what I was here for.

All of a sudden, something stirred my conscience and before I could
understand anything, the new-born angel’s mother called me, and asked
me, “Does the child resemble his father or does he bear my features?”
It was a typical question, every mother asks, but what was so unique
in her question that made me numb for a while was when I discovered
that both the newborn’s parents were blind. I simply smiled and
whispered that they were bestowed with a priceless gift of their life.
The mother started relishing each moment.

I wondered why each one of us becomes so worried in dealing with the
most trivial issues of our life. Look around, and you will find
millions of heroes struggling each day and emerging as winners with
flying colours. This couple was an epitome of courage. Both were
blind, and after eight years of their marriage this miracle had
happened to them. This memorable experience has taught me so much. The
blind couple’s divine love has changed my preconceived notions about
love, and everything else we take for granted in our otherwise happy
live

On Wed, Aug 31, 2011 at 1:14 PM, RAJ VASWANI mr.rajvasw...@gmail.com wrote:
 Dear group members and Dear moderator,

  kindly apologize me if this is an off-topic mail but I didn't find any other 
 suitable platform other then this.

  One of my friend had got married 2 years back and now he has got a good news 
 for the first time that he is going to become father soon.
 The problem is: that they both are blind from the birth and they don't want 
 to born a baby with the same VI disability.
 Kindly do try to inform me that is there any test available through which 
 they can come to know at the very early stage of the pregnancy  about this 
 problem?
 So that they can make the final dissection for continuing or not continuing 
 this pregnancy.
 Kindly share your valuable suggestions/experiences.

 Thanks in advance,

 Raj Vaswani
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