[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-05-06 Thread Richard J. Williams
Jason Spock wrote:   
 Tell us something about Tien Tai.

Tian Tai is Buddhist Madyamika, which postulates 
that all things are void of true nature and that 
they are without an essential reality; that all 
things are real and unreal at the same time, 
according to Nagarjuna's Middle Way, similar to 
Shankaracharys's notion that Maya is unreal yet 
real - an appearance only.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-05-06 Thread Robert Gimbel
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Richard J. Williams 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Jason Spock wrote:   
  Tell us something about Tien Tai.
 
 Tian Tai is Buddhist Madyamika, which postulates 
 that all things are void of true nature and that 
 they are without an essential reality; that all 
 things are real and unreal at the same time, 
 according to Nagarjuna's Middle Way, similar to 
 Shankaracharys's notion that Maya is unreal yet 
 real - an appearance only.


The Patriarch Chih-I (538-597) founded the T'ien T'ai school during 
the Sui dynasty in China.  Like all other Buddhist lineages, the 
school maintained that enlightenment is achieved by realizing or 
seeing one's inherent Buddha nature.  The school has a history 
closely tied to the Pure Land school and upholds the Lotus Sutra as 
its principle scripture.  

Chih-I founded this school in order to explain the various teachings 
of the Buddha.  The Buddha taught different teachings in order to 
suit the different mental dispositions of sentient beings.  
Therefore, Chih-I clearly made the distinction between the absolute 
and relative truths in the Buddha's teachings.

The school has three commentaries which include:  The Profound 
Meaning of the Lotus Sutra, The Commentary of the Lotus Sutra and the 
Great Samatha/Vipasyana Commentary which describes the techniques to 
be used to recognize the Dharmakaya.


Three views in which existence can described are:

1) All of existence depends on the existence of other factors, causes 
and conditions and therefore everything is insubstantial

2) Although phenomena and existence are merely temporary, it does 
have a real immediate existence that cannot be ignored 

3) Middle Way:  One must not fall into the extreme views of nihilism 
and eternalism.  Therefore a Buddha recognizes the ultimate and 
relative truth simultaneously.  

 



[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-05-05 Thread Jason Spock
 
 Tell us something about Tien Tai.
   
 Yes, the body-mind is a bunch of 'components'.  But the mind does NOT 
trans-migrate or reincarnate.
   
 It's your astral body which is a bundle of Vibrations and Latent 
tendencies which re-incarnate and which is what you call your soul.
   
  The Notion of 'Past lives' is something that is based upon the various 
bodies you choose to manifest yourself.  Past lives is from the material, 
biological angle.
   
   From the Astral, Vibratory Plane, past-lives are aggregates of the 
relative self continually changing.  Both are correct.
   
   So, I don't see much of a difference between the Hindu and Buddhist 
World-View regarding this aspect.

qntmpkt [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  Date: Fri, 04 May 2007 19:23:41 -
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?
   
   
  ---Comment below: ...that Hinduism is the only religion that reflects 
Nature to it's fullest possible extent. Actually, Buddhism is more 
consistent with the most up-to-date hypotheses concerning Cosmology - 
i.e. the origins of the universe itself; along with speculations on 
the major unanswered questions.
Briefly, the universe appears to be holographic; and Buddhism had 
the rudiments of holography in the works of Tien Tai. Thus, Buddhist 
cosmology was about 1500 years ahead of modern hypotheses.
In regard to the nature of the relative self; I regard Buddhism as 
being superior to Hinduism on the basis of my observations on the 
body/mind; namely, the body/mind is a bunch components rather than 
a reincarnating Soul. Thus, from one incarnation to the next, the 
relative self is continually changing and it would not be correct to 
say that one had past lives. (the past lives were simply aggregates 
of components, some of which carry over into the present.) The part 
of the mind/brain which records the latent memories is (in itself) 
just another component.

In regard to ethics, Buddhism attempts to explain this by intially, 
fusing the concept with the Laws of Karma and Dharma. 

Co  Jason Spock jedi_spock@ ... wrote:

 Sorry for the delayed response. I agree with you. MMY's 
version certainly has more depth.
 
 True religion should reflect Nature. Hinduism is the only 
religion that reflects Nature to it's fullest possible extent.
 
 The concept of Ethics is Universal. It does not change with 
time. Unfortunately the Indian Gov't does NOT give any importance or 
seriousness to the teaching of Ethics in Indian schools. Also no 
importance is given to Hygiene and sanitation. Both subjects should 
be taught in all schools all over the World.
 
   
   

 
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-05-04 Thread Jason Spock
 
   
  Sorry for the delayed response.  I agree with you.  MMY's version 
certainly has more depth.
   
  True religion should reflect Nature.  Hinduism is the only religion that 
reflects Nature to it's fullest possible extent.
   
  The concept of Ethics is Universal.  It does not change with time.  
Unfortunately the Indian Gov't does NOT give any importance or seriousness to 
the teaching of Ethics in Indian schools.  Also no importance is given to 
Hygiene and sanitation.  Both subjects should be taught in all schools all over 
the World.
   
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Jonathan Chadwick [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  Date: Fri, 27 Apr 2007 16:11:14 -0700 (PDT)
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came 
from?

   
  I've taught one version or another of a three-credit, college-level ethics 
course nineteen times during the past two decades, and at this point I am 
convinced I do not know what either 'ethics' or Ethics really is.  One 
interesting comprehensive philosophical- ethical view that is making a 
comeback these days (mostly in Catholic circles, but not exclusively so) is 
natural law theory.  Believe it or not, M.'s version is both deeper and 
better (or at least less intellectualistic) than all of that.  In any event, we 
certainly do not teach ethics in K-12 here.
   
   

 
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-05-04 Thread qntmpkt
---Comment below: ...that Hinduism is the only religion that reflects 
Nature to it's fullest possible extent.  Actually, Buddhism is more 
consistent with the most up-to-date hypotheses concerning Cosmology - 
i.e. the origins of the universe itself; along with speculations on 
the major unanswered questions.
 Briefly, the universe appears to be holographic; and Buddhism had 
the rudiments of holography in the works of Tien Tai. Thus, Buddhist 
cosmology was about 1500 years ahead of modern hypotheses.
 In regard to the nature of the relative self; I regard Buddhism as 
being superior to Hinduism on the basis of my observations on the 
body/mind; namely, the body/mind is a bunch components rather than 
a reincarnating Soul.  Thus, from one incarnation to the next, the 
relative self is continually changing and it would not be correct to 
say that one had past lives. (the past lives were simply aggregates 
of components, some of which carry over into the present.) The part 
of the mind/brain which records the latent memories is (in itself) 
just another component.
 
 In regard to ethics, Buddhism attempts to explain this by intially, 
fusing the concept with the Laws of Karma and Dharma.  


Co In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Jason Spock [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

  

   Sorry for the delayed response.  I agree with you.  MMY's 
version certainly has more depth.

   True religion should reflect Nature.  Hinduism is the only 
religion that reflects Nature to it's fullest possible extent.

   The concept of Ethics is Universal.  It does not change with 
time.  Unfortunately the Indian Gov't does NOT give any importance or 
seriousness to the teaching of Ethics in Indian schools.  Also no 
importance is given to Hygiene and sanitation.  Both subjects should 
be taught in all schools all over the World.

  -
 
 Jonathan Chadwick [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   Date: Fri, 27 Apr 2007 16:11:14 -0700 (PDT)
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in 
the TMO came from?
 

   I've taught one version or another of a three-credit, college-
level ethics course nineteen times during the past two decades, and 
at this point I am convinced I do not know what either 'ethics' or 
Ethics really is.  One interesting comprehensive philosophical- 
ethical view that is making a comeback these days (mostly in Catholic 
circles, but not exclusively so) is natural law theory.  Believe it 
or not, M.'s version is both deeper and better (or at least less 
intellectualistic) than all of that.  In any event, we certainly do 
not teach ethics in K-12 here.


 
  
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-29 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
 wrote:
 
  Ok, because I have some free time this afternoon, 
  I'm going to take advantage of that fact and riff, 
  Curtis-style or Edg-style, on my feelings about 
  those of the Indian persuasion and why I feel that
  there is a *great deal* of racism in their culture.
  
  First, a necessary definition. When I use the word 
  'racism' in past posts or this one, I am *including*
  in that definition *any* support of or justification 
  of the Hindu caste system. I *define* the caste sys-
  tem as a form of racism, which I further define as
  the systematic suppression of one social or racial
  or religious class by those who consider themselves 
  better or more highly evolved or more privileged 
  or more worthy than they are. The caste system 
  just manages this racism without the luxury of being 
  able to recognize those they wish to suppress visually, 
  by their physical or racial characteristics.
  
  Second, unlike many of you here, I have never been
  to India, or wanted to go. The place just doesn't 
  appeal to me. So my experience with Indians is 
  limited to daily interactions with *expatriate* 
  Indians -- in the United States and in Europe.
  That said, in those environments I have interacted
  on a pretty much daily basis with *hundreds* of
  Indian nationals of various religions and, if Hindu,
  of various castes. About the only thing these folks
  had in common was having come from India and being
  computer programmers. So that's the subset of Indians
  I am familiar with.
 snip
 So shoot me.
  
 
 Hang on, I'm reloading...
 
 Pardon me for saying, but you are so full of it in this case, it 
 spills out your mouth. And if you repeat that quote of mine out of 
 context where I responded to Curtis saying that I wasn't insulting 
 him, you are mistaken this time. (For a writer you have such a poor 
 understanding of context, it boggles the mind.) I *am* insulting 
 you, or more precisely, I am insulting your racist attitude against 
 Indians from India.
 
 First, there are nearly a billion people in India, and a far 
greater 
 percentage of the population here in the Bay Area is Indian vs. in 
 New York or France. To extrapolate your opinion of these billion 
 people based on your racist views of a few hundred is unforgivable.
 
 I find Indians here in the Bay Area to be far from the churlish, 
 spiteful and arrogant individuals you describe. They tend to be as 
 well educated, personable and as well rounded as anyone else I 
know. 
 And unfailingly polite. And this is true whether or not they have 
 just arrived here, or been here for years. Same goes with the 
 Indians I interact with in India, in business meetings. Are they 
 *better* or worse as a class of people than anyone else? Can't say. 
 Haven't met all one billion of them.
 
 A racist, like you, is someone who will extrapolate the worst about 
 a group of people based on carefully selected experiences and 
 observations. Hence those who call black people and Mexicans lazy. 
 You are no better. Just another member of the KKK in my book. 
 Nothing cool or spiritual about that. Just deeply ignorant. 
 
 Your ignorance of the caste system makes me blanch, too, sounding 
to 
 me most like a fat cat Republican who declares all unions to be bad 
 because they have been associated with corruption. The caste system 
 in India is a system whereby society is organized according to its 
 dharma. Does it work perfectly today? No. Does any other social 
 convention? No. Another example of your racism. 
 
 Racism is a byproduct of ignorance, which you have displayed by 
 having interacted with select groups of Indians, formed an opinion 
 of the other billion, and now declare that you would not go to 
India 
 because of your racist opinions. You are one Ugly American.

But guess who here would be the first to raise
an outcry if someone else had made unflattering
remarks about the population of a country on the
basis of knowing a few expatriates in a very
highly specialized profession?




[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-29 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Turq,
 
 Nice writing, but that was definitely not an Edg-style piece -- 
 ain't no one can do my thang -- 

As if anyone would want to. :-)

 And I think the caste system is a wonderful concept for social
 structure!!
 
 If only it worked!  

I think it sucks even on paper. We must agree to 
disagree on this. The caste system was invented
to keep the currently ruling classes (and their
kids after them) in power, and the rest of the
people doing their bidding. End of story. Any
religious or spiritual explanation for it 
came afterwards, as a justification.

 I started out as an elementary special education teacher 
 40 years ago, and I'll tell you this: the least endowed 
 kid had as much emotional investment in life, had as many 
 hopes and dreams and plans, had as big a passion to meet 
 destiny -- as EVERYONE I'VE EVER MET.  Yet, they needed 
 a special educational structure to thrive and grow.

I would say instead that the teachers needed more
flexibility, and the ability to deal with kids one
on one, to do whatever was necessary to reach them.
Instead, what ususally happens is that those kids
who don't respond to the shitty educational status
quo they are fed are deemed challenged, and stuck
with that epithet the rest of their lives, whereas
in reality it's the teachers who are challenged
for having so little imagination.

 When a higher caste person looks upon any lesser caste and 
 does not recognize this heroism, then that person, in fact, 
 is failing to rise up to the responsibilities of his caste 
 and is sinning -- sinning egregiously. 
 
 It's not the caste system.  

It's the caste system. When a higher caste person
looks upon a person of lower caste and sees only
a victim, they are using the system *as it was 
designed to be used*.

 Don't blame the caste system.

I blame the caste system; it's an inhumane system
designed by quasi-humans devoid of either seeing
or compassion. Sorry, but that's the way I see it.
Better to drop the subject right here...you aren't
going to like the things I have to say about 
systematized forms of racism and oppression such
as the Hindu caste system, much less the people
who justify them...







[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-29 Thread nablusoss1008
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Turq,
  
  Nice writing, but that was definitely not an Edg-style piece -- 
  ain't no one can do my thang -- 
 
 As if anyone would want to. :-)
 
  And I think the caste system is a wonderful concept for social
  structure!!
  
  If only it worked!  
 
 I think it sucks even on paper. We must agree to 
 disagree on this. The caste system was invented
 to keep the currently ruling classes (and their
 kids after them) in power, and the rest of the
 people doing their bidding. End of story. Any
 religious or spiritual explanation for it 
 came afterwards, as a justification.
 
  I started out as an elementary special education teacher 
  40 years ago, and I'll tell you this: the least endowed 
  kid had as much emotional investment in life, had as many 
  hopes and dreams and plans, had as big a passion to meet 
  destiny -- as EVERYONE I'VE EVER MET.  Yet, they needed 
  a special educational structure to thrive and grow.
 
 I would say instead that the teachers needed more
 flexibility, and the ability to deal with kids one
 on one, to do whatever was necessary to reach them.
 Instead, what ususally happens is that those kids
 who don't respond to the shitty educational status
 quo they are fed are deemed challenged, and stuck
 with that epithet the rest of their lives, whereas
 in reality it's the teachers who are challenged
 for having so little imagination.
 
  When a higher caste person looks upon any lesser caste and 
  does not recognize this heroism, then that person, in fact, 
  is failing to rise up to the responsibilities of his caste 
  and is sinning -- sinning egregiously. 
  
  It's not the caste system.  
 
 It's the caste system. When a higher caste person
 looks upon a person of lower caste and sees only
 a victim, they are using the system *as it was 
 designed to be used*.
 
  Don't blame the caste system.
 
 I blame the caste system; it's an inhumane system
 designed by quasi-humans devoid of either seeing
 or compassion. Sorry, but that's the way I see it.
 Better to drop the subject right here...you aren't
 going to like the things I have to say about 
 systematized forms of racism and oppression such
 as the Hindu caste system, much less the people
 who justify them...

How about this; the americans are fast becoming a pariacaste in 
international affairs !




[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-29 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung no_reply@ wrote:
snip
  And I think the caste system is a wonderful concept for social
  structure!!
  
  If only it worked!  
 
 I think it sucks even on paper. We must agree to 
 disagree on this. The caste system was invented
 to keep the currently ruling classes (and their
 kids after them) in power, and the rest of the
 people doing their bidding. End of story. Any
 religious or spiritual explanation for it 
 came afterwards, as a justification.

Given that there is no consensus among scholars
as to how and why the caste system originated,
should we assume your certainty on these points
comes from a past-life recollection of being in
attendance at its invention?




[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-29 Thread Duveyoung
Turq,

Thanks for allowing us to disagree.  It'd be silly for me to invest in
wanting that you think what I think, cuz, hey, how could I possibly
know what you really think such that I could have a certainty about
that?  Where's my diagnostic tools for that kind of work?

Heck, inside my mind, only me being involved, if I had the same
thought twice in a row, how could I even prove those two thoughts were
identical except that, yep, yet a third thought must come in and
confirm that that is the case, and now we've got this outsider
thought who arrives after the fact claiming to know about the
previous two thoughts, indeed, even to the extent of being an expert.

Sigh..  Mantra, mantra, mantra, mantra -- all identical, right? 
Or, if you prefer, let's say that they're all slightly different, right?  

WELL WHAT MAKES ME SO DAMNED SURE?  

That's the area in which I love to play.  What functionality of my
mind can produce that certainty despite my ego being completely out of
that decision loop, because the decision that identical thoughts
occurred is done by the extraordinarily subtle intellect churning out
core memes for which the cortex then fashions a verbal gift
wrapping, and voila! a thought occurs to the ego.  Something like
that -- ask Patanjali, cuz, you know, that I don't know, not really,
jack or even jack's excrement about this.  Or, wait, how could you
know that I don't know when I've just made the point that tools for
such diagnosis are non-existent in the lives of most of us?  Never mind!

But I digress.  The subject was caste system.

Oh, it's being used for every manner of evil.  Wives must burn
themselves to death.  Wives are returned-to-sender or killed when
their dowries run out.  Any group of men in a village can call a woman
an adulterer and kill her on the spot, and no one will report anything
to the authorities -- be as mum about what really happened as, well
the MUM course office folks can be mummish.  We don't know what
happened, the sun was in our eyes.

Yeah, evil.  No doubt.  And, gawd, these are the folks who namaste you
every other nee-nee-na-na-no-nosecond.  Go figure, no, wait, that'll
make my head hurt.

But Turq, Turq, Turq, can you really say that it's the caste system
that CAUSES THIS?  I mean, you and causality are not bosom buddies as
far as I can tell -- where's traction for Maya?  It's all the
Absolute's fizz, right?  Just synchrony not causality, right?  Am I
misinterpreting you on that issue?

And Turq, do you really think that the small potentates of the various
Soviet territories were LESS evil in their doings?  Do you think that
the Popes of the past haven't lifted the robes of nuns, that Sufi
whirlers didn't swing some slave girl off into the bushes, that the
witches drowned in New England were guilty?  

I cannot stratify these evils, cannot order them into a hierarchy. 
They're all on the same level.  50,000,000 million folks died in WWII
-- Hitler's evil use of Germanic tribalism's DNA deep addiction to
racial purity.  Pol Pot used communism.  Stalin killed 20 million of
his own people.  Red-blooded Americans killed the Native Americans for
what? -- democracy -- we voted to kill the Indians, so it's okay. 
Every killer on this list thought he was doing a good thing!!

And men kill polar bears who kill these lovable seals who kill
loveable penguins who kill loveable, delicate, ever so silent fishys
or gobble amazingly intelligent krill who slobber down miraculous
microorganisms who absorb the loveliest of carbon based molecules who
have commandeered the uses of devic quark forces that consume the
Absolute's black hole mystic effervescences.

The caste system is just another way to organize the mayhem.  In
theory, it's works pretty good during Sat Yugahee hee.
  
Now, don't get me wrong here.  The Vedic delineations of castes make
the Nazis look childish with their notions of purity -- step aside
Hitler, let a Brahmin class mind tell you about categorizing the milch
kind.  I mean, would Hitler ever had come up with If you step over a
rope tied to a calf's neck, you have sinned.  Talk about exactitude.
 Mosaic law, eat your heart out.  In India, they've worked on this for
5 frickin thousand years and didn't have NASCAR or American Idol to
distract them.  Maybe they obsessively watch Amma Idolatry, but what
do I know -- is that where Sanjaya got his start?

Come on, Turq, can you overcome your upbringing when those code
jockies spewed their racism?  I've had Arab friends who sent shivers
up my back with some of their righteous thoughts about smoking opium
and wife swapping.  I've seen cops abusing ordinary folks on the
streets of Taipei with a ferocity that would have CNN doing a 24/7
coverage of if it had occurred in America.  I've seen the look in a
French cab driver's eyes when my first words to him were English. 
I've seen the dead-eyed stare of the zombies in the course office. 
I've seen my own father spanking me as a 10 year old.  

All these 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-29 Thread curtisdeltablues
Do you have any black friends?  Ask them where they had lunch
yesterday.  If it is a place where you have ever eaten yourself, you
will understand the difference between legally sanctioned prejudice
(especially the version supported by religious beliefs) and people
acting like dickheads to each other without the support of the social
system.  Getting rid of Jim Crow Laws in the South did a lot of good
even though it wasn't the laws that caused prejudice, it was the
people's ignorance.  But the difference is that now black people have
legal protection from those prejudices.  It isn't perfect, but if you
hang out with any black folks you will understand that it is way way
better. People in the South had to integrate schools at the point of a
gun. People are still prejudiced, but I can have lunch at the same
table with black friends.  Better.

As far as India is concerned, you don't have to trust Turq, read some
Gandhi. He knew a thing or two about how the caste system effects
people's lives in India. 




--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Turq,
 
 Thanks for allowing us to disagree.  It'd be silly for me to invest in
 wanting that you think what I think, cuz, hey, how could I possibly
 know what you really think such that I could have a certainty about
 that?  Where's my diagnostic tools for that kind of work?
 
 Heck, inside my mind, only me being involved, if I had the same
 thought twice in a row, how could I even prove those two thoughts were
 identical except that, yep, yet a third thought must come in and
 confirm that that is the case, and now we've got this outsider
 thought who arrives after the fact claiming to know about the
 previous two thoughts, indeed, even to the extent of being an expert.
 
 Sigh..  Mantra, mantra, mantra, mantra -- all identical, right? 
 Or, if you prefer, let's say that they're all slightly different,
right?  
 
 WELL WHAT MAKES ME SO DAMNED SURE?  
 
 That's the area in which I love to play.  What functionality of my
 mind can produce that certainty despite my ego being completely out of
 that decision loop, because the decision that identical thoughts
 occurred is done by the extraordinarily subtle intellect churning out
 core memes for which the cortex then fashions a verbal gift
 wrapping, and voila! a thought occurs to the ego.  Something like
 that -- ask Patanjali, cuz, you know, that I don't know, not really,
 jack or even jack's excrement about this.  Or, wait, how could you
 know that I don't know when I've just made the point that tools for
 such diagnosis are non-existent in the lives of most of us?  Never mind!
 
 But I digress.  The subject was caste system.
 
 Oh, it's being used for every manner of evil.  Wives must burn
 themselves to death.  Wives are returned-to-sender or killed when
 their dowries run out.  Any group of men in a village can call a woman
 an adulterer and kill her on the spot, and no one will report anything
 to the authorities -- be as mum about what really happened as, well
 the MUM course office folks can be mummish.  We don't know what
 happened, the sun was in our eyes.
 
 Yeah, evil.  No doubt.  And, gawd, these are the folks who namaste you
 every other nee-nee-na-na-no-nosecond.  Go figure, no, wait, that'll
 make my head hurt.
 
 But Turq, Turq, Turq, can you really say that it's the caste system
 that CAUSES THIS?  I mean, you and causality are not bosom buddies as
 far as I can tell -- where's traction for Maya?  It's all the
 Absolute's fizz, right?  Just synchrony not causality, right?  Am I
 misinterpreting you on that issue?
 
 And Turq, do you really think that the small potentates of the various
 Soviet territories were LESS evil in their doings?  Do you think that
 the Popes of the past haven't lifted the robes of nuns, that Sufi
 whirlers didn't swing some slave girl off into the bushes, that the
 witches drowned in New England were guilty?  
 
 I cannot stratify these evils, cannot order them into a hierarchy. 
 They're all on the same level.  50,000,000 million folks died in WWII
 -- Hitler's evil use of Germanic tribalism's DNA deep addiction to
 racial purity.  Pol Pot used communism.  Stalin killed 20 million of
 his own people.  Red-blooded Americans killed the Native Americans for
 what? -- democracy -- we voted to kill the Indians, so it's okay. 
 Every killer on this list thought he was doing a good thing!!
 
 And men kill polar bears who kill these lovable seals who kill
 loveable penguins who kill loveable, delicate, ever so silent fishys
 or gobble amazingly intelligent krill who slobber down miraculous
 microorganisms who absorb the loveliest of carbon based molecules who
 have commandeered the uses of devic quark forces that consume the
 Absolute's black hole mystic effervescences.
 
 The caste system is just another way to organize the mayhem.  In
 theory, it's works pretty good during Sat Yugahee hee.
   
 Now, don't get me wrong here.  The Vedic 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-29 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
  wrote:
  
   Ok, because I have some free time this afternoon, 
   I'm going to take advantage of that fact and riff, 
   Curtis-style or Edg-style, on my feelings about 
   those of the Indian persuasion and why I feel that
   there is a *great deal* of racism in their culture.
   
   First, a necessary definition. When I use the word 
   'racism' in past posts or this one, I am *including*
   in that definition *any* support of or justification 
   of the Hindu caste system. I *define* the caste sys-
   tem as a form of racism, which I further define as
   the systematic suppression of one social or racial
   or religious class by those who consider themselves 
   better or more highly evolved or more privileged 
   or more worthy than they are. The caste system 
   just manages this racism without the luxury of being 
   able to recognize those they wish to suppress visually, 
   by their physical or racial characteristics.
   
   Second, unlike many of you here, I have never been
   to India, or wanted to go. The place just doesn't 
   appeal to me. So my experience with Indians is 
   limited to daily interactions with *expatriate* 
   Indians -- in the United States and in Europe.
   That said, in those environments I have interacted
   on a pretty much daily basis with *hundreds* of
   Indian nationals of various religions and, if Hindu,
   of various castes. About the only thing these folks
   had in common was having come from India and being
   computer programmers. So that's the subset of Indians
   I am familiar with.
  snip
  So shoot me.
   
  
  Hang on, I'm reloading...
  
  Pardon me for saying, but you are so full of it in this case, it 
  spills out your mouth. And if you repeat that quote of mine out 
of 
  context where I responded to Curtis saying that I wasn't 
insulting 
  him, you are mistaken this time. (For a writer you have such a 
poor 
  understanding of context, it boggles the mind.) I *am* insulting 
  you, or more precisely, I am insulting your racist attitude 
against 
  Indians from India.
  
  First, there are nearly a billion people in India, and a far 
 greater 
  percentage of the population here in the Bay Area is Indian vs. 
in 
  New York or France. To extrapolate your opinion of these billion 
  people based on your racist views of a few hundred is 
unforgivable.
  
  I find Indians here in the Bay Area to be far from the churlish, 
  spiteful and arrogant individuals you describe. They tend to be 
as 
  well educated, personable and as well rounded as anyone else I 
 know. 
  And unfailingly polite. And this is true whether or not they 
have 
  just arrived here, or been here for years. Same goes with the 
  Indians I interact with in India, in business meetings. Are they 
  *better* or worse as a class of people than anyone else? Can't 
say. 
  Haven't met all one billion of them.
  
  A racist, like you, is someone who will extrapolate the worst 
about 
  a group of people based on carefully selected experiences and 
  observations. Hence those who call black people and Mexicans 
lazy. 
  You are no better. Just another member of the KKK in my book. 
  Nothing cool or spiritual about that. Just deeply ignorant. 
  
  Your ignorance of the caste system makes me blanch, too, 
sounding 
 to 
  me most like a fat cat Republican who declares all unions to be 
bad 
  because they have been associated with corruption. The caste 
system 
  in India is a system whereby society is organized according to 
its 
  dharma. Does it work perfectly today? No. Does any other social 
  convention? No. Another example of your racism. 
  
  Racism is a byproduct of ignorance, which you have displayed by 
  having interacted with select groups of Indians, formed an 
opinion 
  of the other billion, and now declare that you would not go to 
 India 
  because of your racist opinions. You are one Ugly American.
 
 But guess who here would be the first to raise
 an outcry if someone else had made unflattering
 remarks about the population of a country on the
 basis of knowing a few expatriates in a very
 highly specialized profession?

He Who Lives Under The Watchful Eye Of Ten Thousand Imaginary 
Demons? The Master Of Straw Men? Emperor Of The Passive-Agressive 
Remark? King Of The Out Of Context Rebuttal; Saviour Of The Facile 
Argument? 



[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-29 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Do you have any black friends?  Ask them where they had lunch
 yesterday.  If it is a place where you have ever eaten yourself, 
you
 will understand the difference between legally sanctioned prejudice
 (especially the version supported by religious beliefs) and people
 acting like dickheads to each other without the support of the 
social
 system.  Getting rid of Jim Crow Laws in the South did a lot of 
good
 even though it wasn't the laws that caused prejudice, it was the
 people's ignorance.  But the difference is that now black people 
have
 legal protection from those prejudices.  It isn't perfect, but if 
you
 hang out with any black folks you will understand that it is way 
way
 better. People in the South had to integrate schools at the point 
of a
 gun. People are still prejudiced, but I can have lunch at the same
 table with black friends.  Better.
 
 As far as India is concerned, you don't have to trust Turq, read 
some
 Gandhi. He knew a thing or two about how the caste system effects
 people's lives in India. 
 
Ever heard the expression, throwing the baby out with the bath 
water? This is what I see with those who would condemn the caste 
system. The same mentality that ceaselessly goes after Maharishi and 
his efforts. The product of coarse intellects who can only see the 
black or white of any situation, who must pronounce something either 
100% good or 100% bad. (Except themselves of course, who are oh so 
complex and multi-faceted...). 

What happened to striving for ideals? Again I call this criticism of 
the Indian caste system racist. Why? Because those who criticize it 
are doing so because it is Indian. If not, they would find greater  
fault with our US democracy, a system that allows the most 
incompetent, mean spirited dick-heads to run the most powerful 
country in the world. You see no problem with that? No, let's knock 
the caste system instead, something we barely understand, have never 
lived within, and are judging based on its worst excesses. 

Better yet, some on this board have even wholly imagined why the 
caste system was invented! Amazing! I am now waiting for this same 
source to enlighten us as to why the wind, sun and clouds 
were invented. Looks to me like a couple of fools on the hill need 
to get their feet on the ground.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-29 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:
snip
  But guess who here would be the first to raise
  an outcry if someone else had made unflattering
  remarks about the population of a country on the
  basis of knowing a few expatriates in a very
  highly specialized profession?
 
 He Who Lives Under The Watchful Eye Of Ten Thousand Imaginary 
 Demons? The Master Of Straw Men? Emperor Of The Passive-Agressive 
 Remark? King Of The Out Of Context Rebuttal; Saviour Of The Facile 
 Argument?

LOL!!




[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-29 Thread Marek Reavis
Comment below:

**

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:


**snip**
  
 What happened to striving for ideals? Again I call this criticism 
of 
 the Indian caste system racist. Why? Because those who criticize it 
 are doing so because it is Indian. If not, they would find greater  
 fault with our US democracy, a system that allows the most 
 incompetent, mean spirited dick-heads to run the most powerful 
 country in the world. You see no problem with that? No, let's knock 
 the caste system instead, something we barely understand, have 
never 
 lived within, and are judging based on its worst excesses. 

**end**

The U.S. democratic republic only truly functions as a democracy at 
the level of local elections and becomes less and less a democracy as 
the scope of the elective office expands.

As far as presidential contests are concerned there is a strong 
tendency to elect (or at least, promote) legacy candidates.  The 
Adams, the Roosevelts, the Kennedys, the Clintons, and the Bushes all 
represent an expression of the public's trust in the value of a 
ruling class.  That seems to be a natural inclination in people -- to 
invest in the perceived (or believed) dharma of a family, 
essentially a caste designation.  And there may be some value to it, 
too, I don't know and couldn't say.  Certainly you see it in India 
with the Gandhis and virtually every dictator or despot in whatever 
society or culture appoints, or attempts to, a son or family member 
as his successor.  Maharishi has apparently done so with Girish and 
by extension the rest of the Srivastava clan even though Tony Nader 
and John Hagelin and the other non-Indians have some honorary status.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-28 Thread george_deforest
 Jonathan Chadwick wrote:

 One interesting comprehensive philosophical-ethical view
 that is making a comeback these days (mostly in Catholic circles,
 but not exclusively so) is natural law theory.
 Believe it or not, M.'s version is both deeper and better
 (or at least less intellectualistic) than all of that.
 In any event, we certainly do not teach ethics in K-12 here.

Catholic Natural Law theory overview:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Natural_law#Contemporary_Catholic_Understan\
ding
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Natural_law#Contemporary_Catholic_Understa\
nding





[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-28 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 Ok, because I have some free time this afternoon, 
 I'm going to take advantage of that fact and riff, 
 Curtis-style or Edg-style, on my feelings about 
 those of the Indian persuasion and why I feel that
 there is a *great deal* of racism in their culture.
 
 First, a necessary definition. When I use the word 
 'racism' in past posts or this one, I am *including*
 in that definition *any* support of or justification 
 of the Hindu caste system. I *define* the caste sys-
 tem as a form of racism, which I further define as
 the systematic suppression of one social or racial
 or religious class by those who consider themselves 
 better or more highly evolved or more privileged 
 or more worthy than they are. The caste system 
 just manages this racism without the luxury of being 
 able to recognize those they wish to suppress visually, 
 by their physical or racial characteristics.
 
 Second, unlike many of you here, I have never been
 to India, or wanted to go. The place just doesn't 
 appeal to me. So my experience with Indians is 
 limited to daily interactions with *expatriate* 
 Indians -- in the United States and in Europe.
 That said, in those environments I have interacted
 on a pretty much daily basis with *hundreds* of
 Indian nationals of various religions and, if Hindu,
 of various castes. About the only thing these folks
 had in common was having come from India and being
 computer programmers. So that's the subset of Indians
 I am familiar with.
snip
So shoot me.
 

Hang on, I'm reloading...

Pardon me for saying, but you are so full of it in this case, it 
spills out your mouth. And if you repeat that quote of mine out of 
context where I responded to Curtis saying that I wasn't insulting 
him, you are mistaken this time. (For a writer you have such a poor 
understanding of context, it boggles the mind.) I *am* insulting 
you, or more precisely, I am insulting your racist attitude against 
Indians from India.

First, there are nearly a billion people in India, and a far greater 
percentage of the population here in the Bay Area is Indian vs. in 
New York or France. To extrapolate your opinion of these billion 
people based on your racist views of a few hundred is unforgivable.

I find Indians here in the Bay Area to be far from the churlish, 
spiteful and arrogant individuals you describe. They tend to be as 
well educated, personable and as well rounded as anyone else I know. 
And unfailingly polite. And this is true whether or not they have 
just arrived here, or been here for years. Same goes with the 
Indians I interact with in India, in business meetings. Are they 
*better* or worse as a class of people than anyone else? Can't say. 
Haven't met all one billion of them.

A racist, like you, is someone who will extrapolate the worst about 
a group of people based on carefully selected experiences and 
observations. Hence those who call black people and Mexicans lazy. 
You are no better. Just another member of the KKK in my book. 
Nothing cool or spiritual about that. Just deeply ignorant. 

Your ignorance of the caste system makes me blanch, too, sounding to 
me most like a fat cat Republican who declares all unions to be bad 
because they have been associated with corruption. The caste system 
in India is a system whereby society is organized according to its 
dharma. Does it work perfectly today? No. Does any other social 
convention? No. Another example of your racism. 

Racism is a byproduct of ignorance, which you have displayed by 
having interacted with select groups of Indians, formed an opinion 
of the other billion, and now declare that you would not go to India 
because of your racist opinions. You are one Ugly American.





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-28 Thread Jonathan Chadwick
The Catholic natural law view closest to M.'s version is expressed (believe it 
or not) in Karol Wojtyla's (JPII's) The Acting Person.  I've taught the first 
english version of that book cover-to-cover three times, and I'm tellin' ya - 
that was one heavy pope.

george_deforest [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:   Jonathan Chadwick wrote:

 One interesting comprehensive philosophical-ethical view 
 that is making a comeback these days (mostly in Catholic circles,
 but not exclusively so) is natural law theory. 
 Believe it or not, M.'s version is both deeper and better
 (or at least less intellectualistic) than all of that. 
 In any event, we certainly do not teach ethics in K-12 here.

Catholic Natural Law theory overview:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Natural_law#Contemporary_Catholic_Understanding




 

   
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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-28 Thread Bhairitu
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  
 In a message dated 4/26/2007 1:56:37 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,  
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

  
  
  
 --- In [EMAIL PROTECTED] (mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com) 
 ,  curtisdeltablues
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   
  Here ya go. I agree with your point, but I also enjoy calling 
 Richard  Gere a dick. I'm pretty sure this wont help his cause. 
 I don't think  it would be pandering to lighten up on the old 
 letch vibe a bit. It  really wasn't fair to the chick.
 

 What I saw (couldn't hear any sound in  this noisy
 cafe if there was sound) was the chick dragging 
 an  obviously reluctant Gere up on stage and not 
 letting him go, all to help  her career (she won 
 a silly TV talent contest, ferchrissakes) and him  
 playing along, and then giving her career a bit
 more of a boost than  she expected. She'll ride this
 tempest in a pisspot all the way to the Bank  Of 
 Bollywood.

 Face it -- this furor is because of Hindu  racism,
 pure and simple. They didn't like seeing a white
 guy kissing one  of their own, especially one that
 they jack off to photos of every night  before get-
 ting up the next morning and pretending to be pure
 little  Brahmins. :-) 
   
Ever see Deepa Metha's Fire?  There is a scene in the movie where a 
guy is doing that right in front of his grandmother.  The BJP was not 
fond of Metha's movies and she was kicked out of India when trying to 
film Water.   Her ex was on the Beatles course and published a book of 
photographs from that course.

 I hear you no-reply. We finally agree for a change. Thank you for your  last 
 
 reply in wishing me a fast healing with my present personal  circumstances. 
 Lsoma.


  


  



 ** See what's free at http://www.aol.com.

   



[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-28 Thread amarnath
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 India, that's where. Sometimes the sheer
 backasswards idiocy of India just blows
 my mind.
 

my good parents solved this problem for me a long time ago when i was
a child. they simply said:

There are good and bad people among all groups.

they survived the czarist regime, the communists, ww2( i was born in
the midst of it, 1939 ), etc. immigrated to America in 1949.

been to India three years ago; 
no problem! except for the mosquitoes.

what's to judge?
isn't the world a reflection of inner self?
if you don't like it change yourself.

god bless,
amarnath



[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-27 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   
Here ya go. I agree with your point, but I also enjoy calling 
Richard Gere a dick. I'm pretty sure this wont help his cause. 
I don't think it would be pandering to lighten up on the old 
letch vibe a bit. It really wasn't fair to the chick.
   
   What I saw (couldn't hear any sound in this noisy
   cafe if there was sound) was the chick dragging 
   an obviously reluctant Gere up on stage
  
  I saw no reluctance on Gere's part in that clip.
  
   and not 
   letting him go, all to help her career (she won 
   a silly TV talent contest, ferchrissakes) and him 
   playing along, and then giving her career a bit
   more of a boost than she expected. She'll ride this
   tempest in a pisspot all the way to the Bank Of 
   Bollywood.
  
  If it does give her career a boost rather than ruin
  it, I guess the Indians can't be that prudish, eh?
  
  Oh, wait, no, it's racism, not prudishness:
  
   Face it -- this furor is because of Hindu racism,
   pure and simple. They didn't like seeing a white
   guy kissing one of their own, especially one that
   they jack off to photos of every night before get-
   ting up the next morning and pretending to be pure
   little Brahmins. :-)
  
  Right, it's *Hindus* who are racist.
 
 There are Hells Angels in Europe, so perhaps Barry could start 
 a chapter of the KKK in France. Then all of the 'colored folk' 
 could bend over and kiss his lily white ass.

I am just observing what I see. If you find what 
I said insulting, I am at a loss for words.
- Jim Flanegin, yesterday

Do some reading, people...this non-event is being
written up EVEN IN INDIA as the work of Hindu 
Supremicist groups, and the word racism as a 
reason for all this hubbub comes up in those 
accounts rather often.

Not all Indians are this stupid and this elitist
and this bigoted, but it appears that those who
chose to make a big deal of this *are*. And those
who defend their actions are, in my opinion, in
agreement with their elitist tendencies and, if
karma worked the way it should, would probably end
up sharing the same shit sandwich in hell with them.  

I'm just fed up with idiots who defend Things Indian
just because they're Indian. I've met and worked with
and for a fairly large number of upper-caste Hindus 
in my life, and although I have met a few nice 
individuals among them, as a group i would have 
to class them as far more racist and elitist than 
rabid White Supremicists I've met in the U.S. 

My point is that there are idiots everywhere. In this
case, in India. And, it would seem, on FFL.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-27 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ 
wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 Here ya go. I agree with your point, but I also enjoy 
calling 
 Richard Gere a dick. I'm pretty sure this wont help his 
cause. 
 I don't think it would be pandering to lighten up on 
the old 
 letch vibe a bit. It really wasn't fair to the chick.

What I saw (couldn't hear any sound in this noisy
cafe if there was sound) was the chick dragging 
an obviously reluctant Gere up on stage
   
   I saw no reluctance on Gere's part in that clip.
   
and not 
letting him go, all to help her career (she won 
a silly TV talent contest, ferchrissakes) and him 
playing along, and then giving her career a bit
more of a boost than she expected. She'll ride this
tempest in a pisspot all the way to the Bank Of 
Bollywood.
   
   If it does give her career a boost rather than ruin
   it, I guess the Indians can't be that prudish, eh?
   
   Oh, wait, no, it's racism, not prudishness:
   
Face it -- this furor is because of Hindu racism,
pure and simple. They didn't like seeing a white
guy kissing one of their own, especially one that
they jack off to photos of every night before get-
ting up the next morning and pretending to be pure
little Brahmins. :-)
   
   Right, it's *Hindus* who are racist.
  
  There are Hells Angels in Europe, so perhaps Barry could start 
  a chapter of the KKK in France. Then all of the 'colored folk' 
  could bend over and kiss his lily white ass.
 
 I am just observing what I see. If you find what 
 I said insulting, I am at a loss for words.
 - Jim Flanegin, yesterday
 
 Do some reading, people...this non-event is being
 written up EVEN IN INDIA as the work of Hindu 
 Supremicist groups, and the word racism as a 
 reason for all this hubbub comes up in those 
 accounts rather often.
 
 Not all Indians are this stupid and this elitist
 and this bigoted, but it appears that those who
 chose to make a big deal of this *are*. And those
 who defend their actions are, in my opinion, in
 agreement with their elitist tendencies and, if
 karma worked the way it should, would probably end
 up sharing the same shit sandwich in hell with them.

Was anybody here defending those making the fuss?

Or was it a matter of criticizing Gere for not
having realized that what he did was likely to
start a fuss?

As well as noticing that some of the comments
criticizing the fuss-makers were so broad and
unpleasant as to themselves have a distinctly
racist tinge?

 I'm just fed up with idiots who defend Things Indian
 just because they're Indian.

Again: Was anyone here doing that?


 I've met and worked with
 and for a fairly large number of upper-caste Hindus 
 in my life, and although I have met a few nice 
 individuals among them, as a group i would have 
 to class them as far more racist and elitist than 
 rabid White Supremicists I've met in the U.S. 
 
 My point is that there are idiots everywhere. In this
 case, in India. And, it would seem, on FFL.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-27 Thread TurquoiseB
Ok, because I have some free time this afternoon, 
I'm going to take advantage of that fact and riff, 
Curtis-style or Edg-style, on my feelings about 
those of the Indian persuasion and why I feel that
there is a *great deal* of racism in their culture.

First, a necessary definition. When I use the word 
'racism' in past posts or this one, I am *including*
in that definition *any* support of or justification 
of the Hindu caste system. I *define* the caste sys-
tem as a form of racism, which I further define as
the systematic suppression of one social or racial
or religious class by those who consider themselves 
better or more highly evolved or more privileged 
or more worthy than they are. The caste system 
just manages this racism without the luxury of being 
able to recognize those they wish to suppress visually, 
by their physical or racial characteristics.

Second, unlike many of you here, I have never been
to India, or wanted to go. The place just doesn't 
appeal to me. So my experience with Indians is 
limited to daily interactions with *expatriate* 
Indians -- in the United States and in Europe.
That said, in those environments I have interacted
on a pretty much daily basis with *hundreds* of
Indian nationals of various religions and, if Hindu,
of various castes. About the only thing these folks
had in common was having come from India and being
computer programmers. So that's the subset of Indians
I am familiar with.

My longest experience working with Indian programmers
was on a nightmare three-year project for Pepsico. 
The company had been sold a bill of goods by a big,
famous consulting company, which had convinced Pepsi
that it had to move away from mainframe technology into
the modern world of client-server by converting all of
their existing systems at once. Really. So Pepsi hired
something like 500 consultants to do all this for them.

As it turned out, given the politics of contract pro-
gramming in the New York/Westchester County area, about
350 of these contractors were Indian. They had been
imported from India very much in the same way as the
pundits have been imported to Fairfield, by a few power-
ful Indian families, who hired their own cousins and
relatives of cousins from India, put them up at the 
local YMCA, and paid them $10.00 an hour for their work.
These families then billed Pepsico $100 an hour for the 
same rent-a-programmers. 

So I got to sit in boiler rooms full of primarily 
Indian programmers, primarily of either the Brahmin or
Kshatriya caste, and listen to the things they talked
about on a daily basis. For three years. And then the
experience repeated itself in other programming envir-
onments such as Citibank and Salomon Brothers and
Ciby-Geigy and ING. 

What they talked about shocked the shit out of me, and
forever disabused me of the notion that Indians were
*in any way* more evolved than anyone else on this
planet. The first thing that shocked me was the almost
*instantaneous* way that the Indians I worked with
bagged another Indian upon meeting him or her for 
the first time. All it took was hearing the name. From
that everyone *instantly* knew what religion the person
was, and if Hindu, what caste. And their attitude towards
the person shifted equally instantly, based on that
religion or caste. A newbie would join the group, and
everyone would be friendly and outgoing, and then they'd
hear his name.

At that point about half of the room would move away from
the newbie and go back to their seats, and never speak to
the newbie again except in the necessary course of business.

I got to sit in those rooms and hear how these guys, be 
they Muslim, Brahmin, Kshatriya or whatever talked about 
women, and the very *different* ways they talked about 
Western women (hos, the lot of them) and Indian women 
(either saints or hos, depending upon their religion 
or caste). Lemme tell you, *that* was a real education.

I got to sit there and listen to the Brahmins brag about
how a group of 10-15 of them had gotten together the night
before and kicked the shit out of a Kshatriya guy who had
dared to ask out the sister of one of the Brahmins. They
joked about how long he'd spend in the hospital. This
happened more than once.

I got to sit there and listen to some of these guys talk
about how they were being taken to the cleaners *by their
own relatives*, and their sense of powerlessness about
being able to do anything about it, because of these 
relatives' power and influence back in India.

So when I say that (*besides* the things I've read about
this Richard Gere thing in articles from India posted 
elsewhere) I suspect that racism/the caste system has a 
lot to do with it, it's based on the above experience with
*Indians in the world*, NOT the Indians that people who 
are really into spiritual trips think of as Indians. OF
COURSE racism/the caste system had something to do with
it. The very group that started all the ruckus is a well-
known Hindu supremicist group; the 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-27 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ 
wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 Here ya go. I agree with your point, but I also enjoy 
calling 
 Richard Gere a dick. I'm pretty sure this wont help his 
cause. 
 I don't think it would be pandering to lighten up on 
the old 
 letch vibe a bit. It really wasn't fair to the chick.

What I saw (couldn't hear any sound in this noisy
cafe if there was sound) was the chick dragging 
an obviously reluctant Gere up on stage
   
   I saw no reluctance on Gere's part in that clip.
   
and not 
letting him go, all to help her career (she won 
a silly TV talent contest, ferchrissakes) and him 
playing along, and then giving her career a bit
more of a boost than she expected. She'll ride this
tempest in a pisspot all the way to the Bank Of 
Bollywood.
   
   If it does give her career a boost rather than ruin
   it, I guess the Indians can't be that prudish, eh?
   
   Oh, wait, no, it's racism, not prudishness:
   
Face it -- this furor is because of Hindu racism,
pure and simple. They didn't like seeing a white
guy kissing one of their own, especially one that
they jack off to photos of every night before get-
ting up the next morning and pretending to be pure
little Brahmins. :-)
   
   Right, it's *Hindus* who are racist.
  
  There are Hells Angels in Europe, so perhaps Barry could start 
  a chapter of the KKK in France. Then all of the 'colored folk' 
  could bend over and kiss his lily white ass.
 
 I am just observing what I see. If you find what 
 I said insulting, I am at a loss for words.
 - Jim Flanegin, yesterday
 
 Do some reading, people...this non-event is being
 written up EVEN IN INDIA as the work of Hindu 
 Supremicist groups, and the word racism as a 
 reason for all this hubbub comes up in those 
 accounts rather often.
 
 Not all Indians are this stupid and this elitist
 and this bigoted, but it appears that those who
 chose to make a big deal of this *are*. And those
 who defend their actions are, in my opinion, in
 agreement with their elitist tendencies and, if
 karma worked the way it should, would probably end
 up sharing the same shit sandwich in hell with them.  
 
 I'm just fed up with idiots who defend Things Indian
 just because they're Indian. I've met and worked with
 and for a fairly large number of upper-caste Hindus 
 in my life, and although I have met a few nice 
 individuals among them, as a group i would have 
 to class them as far more racist and elitist than 
 rabid White Supremicists I've met in the U.S. 
 
 My point is that there are idiots everywhere. In this
 case, in India. And, it would seem, on FFL.

If I had to carry all assumptions you are making here, I'd break my 
back.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-27 Thread Jason Spock
 
  Racism and Casteism in india is Socio-economic.  The problem is both 
individual and collective.  Personal Jealousy combined with Collective dogma 
becomes a potent Poison.
   
  Unfortunately, the educational system in India has not devoted enough 
time for the subject of 'ethics'.  I believe the subject of Ethics should be 
taught right from Nursery School.

TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  Date: Fri, 27 Apr 2007 14:55:09 -
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

   
  Ok, because I have some free time this afternoon, 
I'm going to take advantage of that fact and riff, 
Curtis-style or Edg-style, on my feelings about 
those of the Indian persuasion and why I feel that
there is a *great deal* of racism in their culture.

First, a necessary definition. When I use the word 
'racism' in past posts or this one, I am *including*
in that definition *any* support of or justification 
of the Hindu caste system. I *define* the caste sys-
tem as a form of racism, which I further define as
the systematic suppression of one social or racial
or religious class by those who consider themselves 
better or more highly evolved or more privileged 
or more worthy than they are. The caste system 
just manages this racism without the luxury of being 
able to recognize those they wish to suppress visually, 
by their physical or racial characteristics.

Second, unlike many of you here, I have never been
to India, or wanted to go. The place just doesn't 
appeal to me. So my experience with Indians is 
limited to daily interactions with *expatriate* 
Indians -- in the United States and in Europe.
That said, in those environments I have interacted
on a pretty much daily basis with *hundreds* of
Indian nationals of various religions and, if Hindu,
of various castes. About the only thing these folks
had in common was having come from India and being
computer programmers. So that's the subset of Indians
I am familiar with.

My longest experience working with Indian programmers
was on a nightmare three-year project for Pepsico. 
The company had been sold a bill of goods by a big,
famous consulting company, which had convinced Pepsi
that it had to move away from mainframe technology into
the modern world of client-server by converting all of
their existing systems at once. Really. So Pepsi hired
something like 500 consultants to do all this for them.

As it turned out, given the politics of contract pro-
gramming in the New York/Westchester County area, about
350 of these contractors were Indian. They had been
imported from India very much in the same way as the
pundits have been imported to Fairfield, by a few power-
ful Indian families, who hired their own cousins and
relatives of cousins from India, put them up at the 
local YMCA, and paid them $10.00 an hour for their work.
These families then billed Pepsico $100 an hour for the 
same rent-a-programmers. 

So I got to sit in boiler rooms full of primarily 
Indian programmers, primarily of either the Brahmin or
Kshatriya caste, and listen to the things they talked
about on a daily basis. For three years. And then the
experience repeated itself in other programming envir-
onments such as Citibank and Salomon Brothers and
Ciby-Geigy and ING. 

What they talked about shocked the shit out of me, and
forever disabused me of the notion that Indians were
*in any way* more evolved than anyone else on this
planet. The first thing that shocked me was the almost
*instantaneous* way that the Indians I worked with
bagged another Indian upon meeting him or her for 
the first time. All it took was hearing the name. From
that everyone *instantly* knew what religion the person
was, and if Hindu, what caste. And their attitude towards
the person shifted equally instantly, based on that
religion or caste. A newbie would join the group, and
everyone would be friendly and outgoing, and then they'd
hear his name.

At that point about half of the room would move away from
the newbie and go back to their seats, and never speak to
the newbie again except in the necessary course of business.

I got to sit in those rooms and hear how these guys, be 
they Muslim, Brahmin, Kshatriya or whatever talked about 
women, and the very *different* ways they talked about 
Western women (hos, the lot of them) and Indian women 
(either saints or hos, depending upon their religion 
or caste). Lemme tell you, *that* was a real education.

I got to sit there and listen to the Brahmins brag about
how a group of 10-15 of them had gotten together the night
before and kicked the shit out of a Kshatriya guy who had
dared to ask out the sister of one of the Brahmins. They
joked about how long he'd spend in the hospital. This
happened more than once.

I got to sit there and listen to some of these guys talk
about how they were being taken to the cleaners *by their
own relatives*, and their sense of powerlessness about
being able to do anything about it, because

[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-27 Thread Duveyoung
Turq,

Nice writing, but that was definitely not an Edg-style piece -- ain't
no one can do my thang -- watch my red silk baggy pants as I shuttle
sideways -- can't touch this. http://youtube.com/watch?v=EMzoBkaFxh4

And I think the caste system is a wonderful concept for social
structure!!

If only it worked!  

It's like communism -- works only on paper, and in real life, humans
tweak any system self-servingly.  Same deal on capitalism or TM-ism. 
The Tang of life is mixed with swamp water.  Got a system? -- just add
humans and see if you can drink the fizz.

The dogma goes like this:  The caste concept is that God has one
incarnate into a field of life wherein one is given a precisely
tuned educational plan -- an evolutionary karmic process to maximize
one's growth.  The wisdom of God is assumed to know one's exact next
lesson and to not involve the soul with advanced lessons that are
scheduled for later.  The higher castes should see the lower castes
as children who need nurturing and need and deserve respect for their
manifesting destines -- after all, God is authoring all of us, and
whatever person He creates is a bombastic complexity of cosmic depth
-- you know, that old infinite correlation thingy.  Ain't no such
thing as a lesser being -- just beings with lessons to learn. That's
the dogma.  Despite how it really turns out when used by egos, there's
no proscriptive religious call for hating anyone -- especially since
in the namaste greeting is universal in India.

I started out as an elementary special education teacher 40 years ago,
and I'll tell you this: the least endowed kid had as much emotional
investment in life, had as many hopes and dreams and plans, had as big
a passion to meet destiny -- as EVERYONE I'VE EVER MET.  Yet, they
needed a special educational structure to thrive and grow.

There's a bravery to have taken on the karma of mental limitations --
it should be respected as a mythic journey that will culture a heart
to have deep compassion for the blinders-on, locked-in, perspectives
that such a fate entails. These kids were noble to me for the battles
they fought; one is completely humbled in their presence.  You there,
reading these words, yeah you, would YOU volunteer to be eight years
old, Latino, with a 45 IQ and then go out on the playground where all
the other kids know you're in the short-bus class?  Talk about an ego
challenge!!

Look at Simon Cowell's and Ryan Seacrest's slumped, broken spirits on
American Idol the other day when they were in a refugee camp in Africa
 -- they could not gainsay the travail, could not bear to see these
incredible feats of bravery -- bravery seen in as simple a format as
an orphaned 12 year old child taking care of his little sister in a
cardboard box hut located in a swamp of excrement and awash with
thousands of stressed-out, next-door deviants of every sort.

When a higher caste person looks upon any lesser caste and does not
recognize this heroism, then that person, in fact, is failing to rise
up to the responsibilities of his caste and is sinning -- sinning
egregiously. 

It's not the caste system.  

It's a mother hugging with total love her children as she sweetly
intones the litanies of hate for that child to accept and espouse.  

It's a father shouting wildly in glee when his kid fights a bully on
the playground instead of trying to understand the bully and
encouraging his kid to try to see his own participation in creating
the drama.  

It's having a rebel flag on the roof top of The General.  

Hey, ask any Red-stater if they love Democracy.  Then ask them what
they think of the fact that the democratic process in the Palestinian
Gulag voted in the terrorists!  

Same deal with the caste system.

It's about the people.  

I'm reminded of Maharishi's supposed comment about the Arabs: First
time on two feet.  That was a racist statement, right?  But, it was
also a correlative noting that, despite the Bill of Rights, all men
are born unequal, and society must deal with the vagaries of each
person's abilities.  The caste system is just one answer to this
challenge, and the use of it, like the use of communism by the Russian
Mafia, like the use of democracy by Hamas, is fraught with cognitive
frictions as the actions of individuals fail to uphold the
righteousness of the system.

Don't blame the caste system.

Blame Maharishi for teaching us all that Rajas are worth their weight
in gold, but if anyone's been touched by Amma then they are unclean
and unacceptable for the TM society.  That's liquid racism injected
straight into our cerebral cortex.

It's about imperialism not im-pure-ism.

Any system can ruined by those seeking power over others.

Edg

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Ok, because I have some free time this afternoon, 
 I'm going to take advantage of that fact and riff, 
 Curtis-style or Edg-style, on my feelings about 
 those of the Indian persuasion and why I feel that
 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-27 Thread Duveyoung
Turq,

Nice writing, but that was definitely not an Edg-style piece -- ain't
no one can do my thang -- watch my red silk baggy pants as I shuttle
sideways -- can't touch this. http://youtube.com/watch?v=EMzoBkaFxh4

And I think the caste system is a wonderful concept for social
structure!!

If only it worked!  

It's like communism -- works only on paper, and in real life, humans
tweak any system self-servingly.  Same deal on capitalism or TM-ism. 
The Tang of life is mixed with swamp water.  Got a system? -- just add
humans and see if you can drink the fizz.

The dogma goes like this:  The caste concept is that God has one
incarnate into a field of life wherein one is given a precisely
tuned educational plan -- an evolutionary karmic process to maximize
one's growth.  The wisdom of God is assumed to know one's exact next
lesson and to not involve the soul with advanced lessons that are
scheduled for later.  The higher castes should see the lower castes
as children who need nurturing and need and deserve respect for their
manifesting destines -- after all, God is authoring all of us, and
whatever person He creates is a bombastic complexity of cosmic depth
-- you know, that old infinite correlation thingy.  Ain't no such
thing as a lesser being -- just beings with lessons to learn. That's
the dogma.  Despite how it really turns out when used by egos, there's
no proscriptive religious call for hating anyone -- especially since
in the namaste greeting is universal in India.

I started out as an elementary special education teacher 40 years ago,
and I'll tell you this: the least endowed kid had as much emotional
investment in life, had as many hopes and dreams and plans, had as big
a passion to meet destiny -- as EVERYONE I'VE EVER MET.  Yet, they
needed a special educational structure to thrive and grow.

There's a bravery to have taken on the karma of mental limitations --
it should be respected as a mythic journey that will culture a heart
to have deep compassion for the blinders-on, locked-in, perspectives
that such a fate entails. These kids were noble to me for the battles
they fought; one is completely humbled in their presence.  You there,
reading these words, yeah you, would YOU volunteer to be eight years
old, Latino, with a 45 IQ and then go out on the playground where all
the other kids know you're in the short-bus class?  Talk about an ego
challenge!!

Look at Simon Cowell's and Ryan Seacrest's slumped, broken spirits on
American Idol the other day when they were in a refugee camp in Africa
 -- they could not gainsay the travail, could not bear to see these
incredible feats of bravery -- bravery seen in as simple a format as
an orphaned 12 year old child taking care of his little sister in a
cardboard box hut located in a swamp of excrement and awash with
thousands of stressed-out, next-door deviants of every sort.

When a higher caste person looks upon any lesser caste and does not
recognize this heroism, then that person, in fact, is failing to rise
up to the responsibilities of his caste and is sinning -- sinning
egregiously. 

It's not the caste system.  

It's a mother hugging with total love her children as she sweetly
intones the litanies of hate for that child to accept and espouse.  

It's a father shouting wildly in glee when his kid fights a bully on
the playground instead of trying to understand the bully and
encouraging his kid to try to see his own participation in creating
the drama.  

It's having a rebel flag on the roof top of The General.  

Hey, ask any Red-stater if they love Democracy.  Then ask them what
they think of the fact that the democratic process in the Palestinian
Gulag voted in the terrorists!  

Same deal with the caste system.

It's about the people.  

I'm reminded of Maharishi's supposed comment about the Arabs: First
time on two feet.  That was a racist statement, right?  But, it was
also a correlative noting that, despite the Bill of Rights, all men
are born unequal, and society must deal with the vagaries of each
person's abilities.  The caste system is just one answer to this
challenge, and the use of it, like the use of communism by the Russian
Mafia, like the use of democracy by Hamas, is fraught with cognitive
frictions as the actions of individuals fail to uphold the
righteousness of the system.

Don't blame the caste system.

Blame Maharishi for teaching us all that Rajas are worth their weight
in gold, but if anyone's been touched by Amma then they are unclean
and unacceptable for the TM society.  That's liquid racism injected
straight into our cerebral cortex.

It's about imperialism not im-pure-ism.

Any system can ruined by those seeking power over others.

Edg

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Ok, because I have some free time this afternoon, 
 I'm going to take advantage of that fact and riff, 
 Curtis-style or Edg-style, on my feelings about 
 those of the Indian persuasion and why I feel that
 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-27 Thread Jonathan Chadwick
I've taught one version or another of a three-credit, college-level ethics 
course nineteen times during the past two decades, and at this point I am 
convinced I do not know what either 'ethics' or Ethics really is.  One 
interesting comprehensive philosophical-ethical view that is making a 
comeback these days (mostly in Catholic circles, but not exclusively so) is 
natural law theory.  Believe it or not, M.'s version is both deeper and 
better (or at least less intellectualistic) than all of that.  In any event, we 
certainly do not teach ethics in K-12 here.

Jason Spock [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 
  Racism and Casteism in india is Socio-economic.  The problem is both 
individual and collective.  Personal Jealousy combined with Collective dogma 
becomes a potent Poison.
   
  Unfortunately, the educational system in India has not devoted enough 
time for the subject of 'ethics'.  I believe the subject of Ethics should be 
taught right from Nursery School.



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[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-27 Thread bob_brigante
No shortage of prudery in academe:

http://chronicle.com/wiredcampus/index.php?id=2029



[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-26 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 India, that's where. Sometimes the sheer
 backasswards idiocy of India just blows
 my mind.\

Although I agree with your point, I saw the tape and Gere was being a
total dick.  With his exposure to Indian culture, he has no excuse for
bringing this on himself and to the chick he was mashing on.  




 
 
 India court orders Richard Gere's arrest
 
 JAIPUR, India (Reuters) -- An Indian court ordered 
 the arrest of Hollywood star Richard Gere on Thursday 
 for kissing Bollywood actress Shilpa Shetty at an AIDS 
 awareness event this month saying it was an obscene 
 act committed in public.
 
 Gere's repeated kisses on Shetty's cheeks at an event 
 to promote AIDS awareness in New Delhi sparked protests 
 in some parts of India, mostly by Hindu vigilante groups, 
 who saw it as an outrage against her modesty and an 
 affront to Indian culture.
 
 The order by a court in the northern city of Jaipur 
 came in response to a complaint by a local lawyer.
 
 The judge watched a video recording of Gere kissing 
 Shetty and found him guilty of violating Indian laws 
 against public obscenity, the lawyer, Poonam Chand 
 Bhandari, said.
 
 The court also summoned Shilpa Shetty to appear on 
 May 5, Bhandari said, adding that Gere was also ordered 
 to be arrested.
 
 Gere can be sent to jail for up to three months or 
 fined or both for the crime if he is arrested. He is 
 not in India now but can be held if he visits the 
 country again.
 
 The Hollywood star is a devout Buddhist and a vocal 
 supporter of the Tibetan cause and visits India 
 frequently to meet the Dalai Lama, who lives in 
 exile in northern India.
 
 He is also involved with charities looking after 
 HIV-infected people and orphans, as well as AIDS 
 prevention groups in the country.
 
 Groups of men had burned and kicked straw effigies 
 of Gere and Shetty in sporadic protests across the 
 country after newspapers published the picture of 
 the kiss on their front pages and TV channels aired 
 visuals of the event.
 
 Shetty, the winner of the Celebrity Big Brother 
 reality TV show in Britain this year had said the 
 kiss may have gone a little overboard but it was 
 not obscene and the protests made India look 
 regressive.
 
 She said Gere was only re-enacting his moves from 
 the film Shall We Dance to entertain the audience 
 at the AIDS event and communicate in a Bollywood 
 style as he did not speak Hindi.
 
 Many commentators had subsequently expressed their 
 unhappiness at what they said were fringe groups 
 making a mountain of a harmless peck on the cheek.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-26 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  India, that's where. Sometimes the sheer
  backasswards idiocy of India just blows
  my mind.\
 
 Although I agree with your point, I saw the tape and Gere 
 was being a total dick. With his exposure to Indian culture, 
 he has no excuse for bringing this on himself and to the 
 chick he was mashing on.  

Haven't seen any video. But what is he supposed
to do, pander to a hypocritical culture that
doesn't allow kissing in public but that has one
of the fastest-growing AIDS rates on the planet 
because of uncontrolled prostitution? 



[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-26 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
wrote:
  
   India, that's where. Sometimes the sheer
   backasswards idiocy of India just blows
   my mind.\
  
  Although I agree with your point, I saw the tape and Gere 
  was being a total dick. With his exposure to Indian culture, 
  he has no excuse for bringing this on himself and to the 
  chick he was mashing on.  
 
 Haven't seen any video. But what is he supposed
 to do, pander to a hypocritical culture that
 doesn't allow kissing in public but that has one
 of the fastest-growing AIDS rates on the planet 
 because of uncontrolled prostitution?

Sure, why not?

There's no reason a person can't pander to (i.e.,
respect) cultural norms in one context while working
to counter them and their negative effects in
another, especially when not doing the former may
arouse resistance to one's efforts toward the latter.

The perfect is the enemy of the good.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-26 Thread curtisdeltablues
Here ya go.  I agree with your point, but I also enjoy calling Richard
Gere a dick.  I'm pretty sure this wont help his cause.  I don't think
it would be pandering to lighten up on the old letch vibe a bit.  It
really wasn't fair to the chick.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=pt23lqF-nM8



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
  
   India, that's where. Sometimes the sheer
   backasswards idiocy of India just blows
   my mind.\
  
  Although I agree with your point, I saw the tape and Gere 
  was being a total dick. With his exposure to Indian culture, 
  he has no excuse for bringing this on himself and to the 
  chick he was mashing on.  
 
 Haven't seen any video. But what is he supposed
 to do, pander to a hypocritical culture that
 doesn't allow kissing in public but that has one
 of the fastest-growing AIDS rates on the planet 
 because of uncontrolled prostitution?





[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-26 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Here ya go. I agree with your point, but I also enjoy calling 
 Richard Gere a dick. I'm pretty sure this wont help his cause. 
 I don't think it would be pandering to lighten up on the old 
 letch vibe a bit. It really wasn't fair to the chick.

What I saw (couldn't hear any sound in this noisy
cafe if there was sound) was the chick dragging 
an obviously reluctant Gere up on stage and not 
letting him go, all to help her career (she won 
a silly TV talent contest, ferchrissakes) and him 
playing along, and then giving her career a bit
more of a boost than she expected. She'll ride this
tempest in a pisspot all the way to the Bank Of 
Bollywood.

Face it -- this furor is because of Hindu racism,
pure and simple. They didn't like seeing a white
guy kissing one of their own, especially one that
they jack off to photos of every night before get-
ting up the next morning and pretending to be pure
little Brahmins. :-)





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-26 Thread Lsoma
 
In a message dated 4/26/2007 1:56:37 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,  
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

 
 
 
--- In [EMAIL PROTECTED] (mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com) 
,  curtisdeltablues
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  Here ya go. I agree with your point, but I also enjoy calling 
 Richard  Gere a dick. I'm pretty sure this wont help his cause. 
 I don't think  it would be pandering to lighten up on the old 
 letch vibe a bit. It  really wasn't fair to the chick.

What I saw (couldn't hear any sound in  this noisy
cafe if there was sound) was the chick dragging 
an  obviously reluctant Gere up on stage and not 
letting him go, all to help  her career (she won 
a silly TV talent contest, ferchrissakes) and him  
playing along, and then giving her career a bit
more of a boost than  she expected. She'll ride this
tempest in a pisspot all the way to the Bank  Of 
Bollywood.

Face it -- this furor is because of Hindu  racism,
pure and simple. They didn't like seeing a white
guy kissing one  of their own, especially one that
they jack off to photos of every night  before get-
ting up the next morning and pretending to be pure
little  Brahmins. :-) 
I hear you no-reply. We finally agree for a change. Thank you for your  last 
reply in wishing me a fast healing with my present personal  circumstances. 
Lsoma.


 


 



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[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-26 Thread Jason Spock
 
  Heard of this old Joke in India.??
   
  What's the difference between India and America.?
   
  In America, Kissing is allowed in public, but not Pissing,
   
  In India, Pissing is allowed in public, but not Kissing.

TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  Date: Thu, 26 Apr 2007 17:18:43 -
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

   
India, that's where. Sometimes the sheer
  backasswards idiocy of India just blows
  my mind.\

Haven't seen any video. But what is he supposed
to do, pander to a hypocritical culture that
doesn't allow kissing in public but that has one
of the fastest-growing AIDS rates on the planet 
because of uncontrolled prostitution? 

   

   
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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-26 Thread Lsoma
 
In a message dated 4/26/2007 1:31:52 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,  
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

 
 
 
Here ya go. I agree with your point, but I also enjoy calling  Richard
Gere a dick. I'm pretty sure this wont help his cause. I don't  think
it would be pandering to lighten up on the old letch vibe a bit.  It
really wasn't fair to the chick.

_http://youtube.http://youhttp://youhtt_ 
(http://youtube.com/watch?v=pt23lqF-nM8) 

---  In [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
(mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com) ,  TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
(mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com) ,  curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
  --- In [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
(mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com) ,  TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
  
   India,  that's where. Sometimes the sheer
   backasswards idiocy of  India just blows
   my mind.\
  
   Although I agree with your point, I saw the tape and Gere 
  was  being a total dick. With his exposure to Indian culture, 
  he has  no excuse for bringing this on himself and to the 
  chick he was  mashing on. 
 
 Haven't seen any video. But what is he  supposed
 to do, pander to a hypocritical culture that
 doesn't  allow kissing in public but that has one
 of the fastest-growing AIDS  rates on the planet 
 because of uncontrolled prostitution? 
 I agree. The AIDS and prostitution problem is worth talking about and  just 
maybe Richard was trying to force the issue because no one is listening  in 
India which hides sexuality as if no one is having sex in India. There are  
over 30,000 babies being born a day in India (Maybe more) .Somebody is having  
sex  And now, issuing a warrant for his arrest. America is not perfect or  
any other country for that matter but India has been hiding out in the corner  
for so long it is time to open up to some ideas or ideologies that come from  
the West. I visit the Lakshmi Temple here in Ashland, MA and have great  
respect for their culture so I am speaking from some experience. When I first  
saw 
the clip with Richard Gere I was laughing so hard. Indians are making a  lot 
of money in America and America has given a lot of its resources to  India. 
India should be thankful and leave Richard Gere alone. Love and Light.  Lsoma.



 


 



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[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-26 Thread John
At first glance I thought that Gere was unfortunate to be involved in 
this case of a criminal kiss.  On second thought, I believe he 
fully knew the culture in India.  He performed the kiss to make a 
statement in India, and in so doing to the world.  He got the message 
through which is the awareness for AIDS.  He has also raised the 
hypocrisy of the Indian laws which uphold puritanical mores, while 
ignoring the cause and suffering of AIDS.

According to the latest news, he conveniently left India and is now 
on the lam from the Indian authorities.

Regards,

John R.











--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Jason Spock [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

  
   Heard of this old Joke in India.??

   What's the difference between India and America.?

   In America, Kissing is allowed in public, but not Pissing,

   In India, Pissing is allowed in public, but not Kissing.
 
 TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   Date: Thu, 26 Apr 2007 17:18:43 -
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the 
TMO came from?
 

 India, that's where. Sometimes the sheer
   backasswards idiocy of India just blows
   my mind.\
 
 Haven't seen any video. But what is he supposed
 to do, pander to a hypocritical culture that
 doesn't allow kissing in public but that has one
 of the fastest-growing AIDS rates on the planet 
 because of uncontrolled prostitution? 
 

 

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-26 Thread Jason Spock
 
You think Indian Chicks would be jacking off to Richard Gere's Photo.??

TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  Date: Thu, 26 Apr 2007 17:51:40 -
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

   
  What I saw (couldn't hear any sound in this noisy
cafe if there was sound) was the chick dragging 
an obviously reluctant Gere up on stage and not 
letting him go, all to help her career (she won 
a silly TV talent contest, ferchrissakes) and him 
playing along, and then giving her career a bit
more of a boost than she expected. She'll ride this
tempest in a pisspot all the way to the Bank Of 
Bollywood.

Face it -- this furor is because of Hindu racism,
pure and simple. They didn't like seeing a white
guy kissing one of their own, especially one that
they jack off to photos of every night before get-
ting up the next morning and pretending to be pure
little Brahmins. :-)
   
   

   
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-26 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  Here ya go. I agree with your point, but I also enjoy calling 
  Richard Gere a dick. I'm pretty sure this wont help his cause. 
  I don't think it would be pandering to lighten up on the old 
  letch vibe a bit. It really wasn't fair to the chick.
 
 What I saw (couldn't hear any sound in this noisy
 cafe if there was sound) was the chick dragging 
 an obviously reluctant Gere up on stage

I saw no reluctance on Gere's part in that clip.

 and not 
 letting him go, all to help her career (she won 
 a silly TV talent contest, ferchrissakes) and him 
 playing along, and then giving her career a bit
 more of a boost than she expected. She'll ride this
 tempest in a pisspot all the way to the Bank Of 
 Bollywood.

If it does give her career a boost rather than ruin
it, I guess the Indians can't be that prudish, eh?

Oh, wait, no, it's racism, not prudishness:

 Face it -- this furor is because of Hindu racism,
 pure and simple. They didn't like seeing a white
 guy kissing one of their own, especially one that
 they jack off to photos of every night before get-
 ting up the next morning and pretending to be pure
 little Brahmins. :-)

Right, it's *Hindus* who are racist.






[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-26 Thread Richard J. Williams
TurquoiseB wrote:
 They didn't like seeing a white guy kissing 
 one of their own, especially one that they 
 jack off to photos of every night before get-
 ting up the next morning and pretending to be 
 pure little Brahmins. :-)

Maybe you're the racist - lots of Indian Brahmins 
are of Caucasian stock, the original Aryan speakers. 
What an idiot.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-26 Thread Richard J. Williams
TurquoiseB wrote:
  Face it -- this furor is because of Hindu racism,
  pure and simple. They didn't like seeing a white
  guy kissing one of their own, especially one that
  they jack off to photos of every night before get-
  ting up the next morning and pretending to be pure
  little Brahmins. :-)
 
Judy wrote:
 Right, it's *Hindus* who are racist.

Shilpa Shetty, one of the most popular actresses in India, 
hardly needs a career boost from Richard Gere. Shilpa is 
a four-time Filmfare Award-nominated Indian film actress, 
model, AIDS activist and PETA supporter. 

Maybe Uncle Barry needs to get out more - he seems to be 
totally unaware of the recent scandal involving racism 
and Ms Shetty. Maybe Barry spends too much time in bars 
and cafes instead of out in the real world. How embarrasing
for Barry.

During her time in Celebrity Big Brother, Shetty was 
allegedly a target of racism and bullying by other 
housemates.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shilpa_Shetty



[FairfieldLife] Re: Ever wonder where the prudery in the TMO came from?

2007-04-26 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   Here ya go. I agree with your point, but I also enjoy calling 
   Richard Gere a dick. I'm pretty sure this wont help his cause. 
   I don't think it would be pandering to lighten up on the old 
   letch vibe a bit. It really wasn't fair to the chick.
  
  What I saw (couldn't hear any sound in this noisy
  cafe if there was sound) was the chick dragging 
  an obviously reluctant Gere up on stage
 
 I saw no reluctance on Gere's part in that clip.
 
  and not 
  letting him go, all to help her career (she won 
  a silly TV talent contest, ferchrissakes) and him 
  playing along, and then giving her career a bit
  more of a boost than she expected. She'll ride this
  tempest in a pisspot all the way to the Bank Of 
  Bollywood.
 
 If it does give her career a boost rather than ruin
 it, I guess the Indians can't be that prudish, eh?
 
 Oh, wait, no, it's racism, not prudishness:
 
  Face it -- this furor is because of Hindu racism,
  pure and simple. They didn't like seeing a white
  guy kissing one of their own, especially one that
  they jack off to photos of every night before get-
  ting up the next morning and pretending to be pure
  little Brahmins. :-)
 
 Right, it's *Hindus* who are racist.

There are Hells Angels in Europe, so perhaps Barry could start a 
chapter of the KKK in France. Then all of the 'colored folk' could 
bend over and kiss his lily white ass.