Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-23 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 3/22/2014 9:08 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:

Oh! Clever! Stinging! Such impressive comebacks!


Maybe its time for Judy to take a break from posting to FFL, and in a 
year or two she could return, when she can post messages that are 
insightful and cogent; at present, her messages are neither - they are 
filled with hatred, anger and jealously. That's what I think.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-23 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 3/22/2014 9:12 PM, steve.sun...@yahoo.com wrote:
Enjoy Judy, Enjoy.  Find something positive to focus on.  Take a break 
from the Barry battles.  Pet a kitty, drink some tea.  Count your 
blessings.  Something.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote :

Oh! Clever! Stinging! Such impressive comebacks!


Judy needs to do something - at present she's a real downer to read. She 
used to be a lot nicer than she is now - but not by much. In a social 
setting, Judy would be shown the door in about five minutes of normal 
conversation. That's what I think.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-23 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 3/22/2014 9:24 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
*Wow!! You've topped yourself with that one, Feebie-weebie! Boy, I'll 
bet Share really appreciates your intellect and wit. Show off some 
more, please. We just can't get enough.*


You are acting like a jealous old maid, Judy. Somehow you just get 
nastier every day. Where is Dr.Pete when we need him? With this post, 
you've proved Barry correct: Why some people are REALLY bothered by 
others who might feel special.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-23 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 3/23/2014 12:12 AM, TurquoiseBee wrote:
Enjoy Judy, Enjoy.  Find something positive to focus on.  Take a break 
from the Barry battles.  Pet a kitty, drink some tea.  Count your 
blessings.  Something.



Maybe stop trying to demonstrate that she's exactly the thing she's 
got her panties in a twist about, a psychotic cult bitch.  :-)


We are all getting older, Barry - some of us more gracefully than 
others. It's 2014 and some people still believe in human levitation, but 
a few of us older guys think it's a funny thing to try to do just to 
impress people. I guess the really difficult part is the gently coming 
down to earth again - now I can see the reasoning behind all the foam 
padding. Go figure.





---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote :

Oh! Clever! Stinging! Such impressive comebacks!

(Is that really the best you can do, or are you just extra-tired this 
evening? Oh, and what's a heather perspective? I'm sure that was a 
brilliant crack, but I'm afraid it went right under my head.)


Or, maybe, others (i.e., you and Share) have difficulty grokking 
things that I'm able to put into perspective.


Judy, this is a precious part of your narrative, and I'd never
want to take it away from you.
Pulling that thread out.., well I don't even want to go there.

In any case, Feebs, you're in good company. Share is also
clueless as to what that was about (even though she was the
one to set it off).
If you were able to step back from things, take in a little
bigger view, I think you'd gain a different, dare I say
heather, perspective

Now, come on, let's see some of what you feel are your
cleverest, very MOST stinging ripostes. Don't just leave Share
there with her bare face hanging out.





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-23 Thread authfriend
Actually, Barry, I couldn't be more pleased to learn that your family 
considers me a psychotic cult bitch. That quite effectively debunks Share's 
notion that you must be nice or they wouldn't want to live with you because 
(according to Share) they're nice. 

 (Of course, the above assumes you were telling the truth about what they've 
said.)
 

 Maybe stop trying to demonstrate that she's exactly the thing she's got her 
panties in a twist about, a psychotic cult bitch.  :-) 

 [...]
 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 































































Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-23 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 3/23/2014 9:27 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:


*Actually, Barry, I couldn't be more pleased to learn that your 
family considers me a psychotic cult bitch. That quite effectively 
debunks Share's notion that you must be nice or they wouldn't want 
to live with you because (according to Share) they're nice.*



*
*I wouldn't take seriously anything you two have to say anymore. You 
have pretty much proven how petty two people can be, comparing each 
others family to the quality of their posts, or the lack thereof.**Where 
is Dr. Pete when we *really* need him?*


*


(Of course, the above assumes you were telling the truth about what 
they've said.)


Maybe stop trying to demonstrate that she's exactly the thing she's 
got her panties in a twist about, a psychotic cult bitch. :-)




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread Share Long
And please, let us not confuse teef with teff!





On Friday, March 21, 2014 11:21 PM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com 
awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :






---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :






---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :


From: Share Long sharelong60@...

To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, March 21, 2014 3:55 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special



 
Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.
My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)

If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?


Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)

Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff!
 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 

 
 
 On Friday, March 21, 2014 11:21 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 From: Share Long sharelong60@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, March 21, 2014 3:55 PM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact 
with: For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.
 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 











 


 












Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread authfriend
Certainly not. We don't want to obscure the fact--revealed by Barry 
himself--that I was right: Barry's family does approve of and encourage his 
despicable behavior on FFL. 

 This actually surprised me. I had voiced that speculation merely to point out 
to Share that she had no basis for declaring that his family was nice, and 
that Barry must be nice too or his family wouldn't want him to live with 
them.
 

 I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, so 
I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence for my 
speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing).
 

 Share now needs to acknowledge that she was wrong about her nice 
speculation, and to withdraw her characterization of mine as sinking to a new 
low, since it has turned out to be the correct one.
 

 

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff! 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.

 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 











 


 















Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread Share Long
Judy, I think you are confusing teef with teff. Thus sinking to an even newer 
low. Go figure!





On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:54 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Certainly not. We don't want to obscure the fact--revealed by Barry 
himself--that I was right: Barry's family does approve of and encourage his 
despicable behavior on FFL.

This actually surprised me. I had voiced that speculation merely to point out 
to Share that she had no basis for declaring that his family was nice, and 
that Barry must be nice too or his family wouldn't want him to live with 
them.

I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, so 
I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence for my 
speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing).

Share now needs to acknowledge that she was wrong about her nice speculation, 
and to withdraw her characterization of mine as sinking to a new low, since 
it has turned out to be the correct one.


And please, let us not confuse teef with teff!


God lord no!
Definition of TEFF
:  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass (Eragrostis tef syn. 
E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a white flour and as a 
forage and hay crop
Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.


My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)

If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?


Google says, psychotische cult
teef:-)

Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread Share Long
Ann, just as 60, according to Lauren Hutten, is the new 30, so too teff is the 
new quinoa. Teef must be the new something but I'm not sure what.





On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:28 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com 
awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


And please, let us not confuse teef with teff!

God lord no!
Definition of TEFF
:  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass (Eragrostis tef syn. 
E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a white flour and as a 
forage and hay crop




On Friday, March 21, 2014 11:21 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:

 




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :






---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :






---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :


From: Share Long sharelong60@...

To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, March 21, 2014 3:55 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel
special



 
Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.
My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)

If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?


Google says, psychotische cult
teef:-)

Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Ann, just as 60, according to Lauren Hutten, is the new 30, so too teff is the 
new quinoa. Teef must be the new something but I'm not sure what.
 

 I guess teef is the new nice even though it means bitch.
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:28 AM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff!
 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 

 
 
 On Friday, March 21, 2014 11:21 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 From: Share Long sharelong60@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, March 21, 2014 3:55 PM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact 
with: For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.
 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 











 














 


 












Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread Share Long
Ann, if you capitalize the B, it makes all the difference!





On Saturday, March 22, 2014 11:48 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com 
awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


Ann, just as 60, according to Lauren Hutten, is the new 30, so too teff is the 
new quinoa. Teef must be the new something but I'm not sure what.

I guess teef is the new nice even though it means bitch.





On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:28 AM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:

 




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


And please, let us not confuse teef with teff!

God lord no!
Definition of TEFF
:  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass (Eragrostis tef syn. 
E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a white flour and as a 
forage and hay crop




On Friday, March 21, 2014 11:21 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:

 




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :






---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :






---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :


From: Share Long sharelong60@...

To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, March 21, 2014 3:55 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel
special



 
Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.
My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)

If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?


Google says, psychotische cult
teef:-)

Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!







Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Ann, if you capitalize the B, it makes all the difference!
 

 Nope Share, it doesn't and once you figure out why you're half way there. Now 
I'm going to go talk to someone who will make a refreshing change from talking 
with you. Later.
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 11:48 AM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Ann, just as 60, according to Lauren Hutten, is the new 30, so too teff is the 
new quinoa. Teef must be the new something but I'm not sure what.
 

 I guess teef is the new nice even though it means bitch.
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:28 AM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff!
 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 

 
 
 On Friday, March 21, 2014 11:21 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 From: Share Long sharelong60@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, March 21, 2014 3:55 PM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact 
with: For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.
 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 











 














 














 


 












Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy, I think you are confusing teef with teff. Thus sinking to an even newer 
low. Go figure!
 

 And we wouldn't want to confuse Bawwy's charming, sweet and above all nice 
family calling Judy a psychotic cult bitch with reasonable and loving 
behaviour, would we?
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:54 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Certainly not. We don't want to obscure the fact--revealed by Barry 
himself--that I was right: Barry's family does approve of and encourage his 
despicable behavior on FFL.
 

 This actually surprised me. I had voiced that speculation merely to point out 
to Share that she had no basis for declaring that his family was nice, and 
that Barry must be nice too or his family wouldn't want him to live with 
them.
 

 I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, so 
I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence for my 
speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing).
 

 Share now needs to acknowledge that she was wrong about her nice 
speculation, and to withdraw her characterization of mine as sinking to a new 
low, since it has turned out to be the correct one.
 

 

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff! 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.

 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 











 

















 


 












Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread authfriend
Emily nailed it yesterday in a post to Share: You are lost in your own mind 
again and are in 'random react' mode, unable to follow a train of thought. 

 

 Ann, if you capitalize the B, it makes all the difference! 

 Nope Share, it doesn't and once you figure out why you're half way there. Now 
I'm going to go talk to someone who will make a refreshing change from talking 
with you. Later.
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 11:48 AM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Ann, just as 60, according to Lauren Hutten, is the new 30, so too teff is the 
new quinoa. Teef must be the new something but I'm not sure what.
 

 I guess teef is the new nice even though it means bitch.
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:28 AM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff!
 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 

 
 
 On Friday, March 21, 2014 11:21 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 From: Share Long sharelong60@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, March 21, 2014 3:55 PM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact 
with: For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.
 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 











 














 














 


 
















Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread authfriend
Oh, sorry you're so confused, Share. Probably better if you just stay out of 
this and not keep trying to rescue Barry. 

 (Also, your teef/teff...uh...joke doesn't get funnier with repetition. Once 
was enough.)
 
 
 Judy, I think you are confusing teef with teff. Thus sinking to an even newer 
low. Go figure!
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:54 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Certainly not. We don't want to obscure the fact--revealed by Barry 
himself--that I was right: Barry's family does approve of and encourage his 
despicable behavior on FFL.
 

 This actually surprised me. I had voiced that speculation merely to point out 
to Share that she had no basis for declaring that his family was nice, and 
that Barry must be nice too or his family wouldn't want him to live with 
them.
 

 I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, so 
I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence for my 
speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing).
 

 Share now needs to acknowledge that she was wrong about her nice 
speculation, and to withdraw her characterization of mine as sinking to a new 
low, since it has turned out to be the correct one.
 

 

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff! 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.

 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 











 

















 


 













Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 3/22/2014 12:09 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:


Emily nailed it yesterday in a post to Share: You are lost in your 
own mind again and are in 'random react' mode, unable to follow a 
train of thought.




So, it's all about Share.




Ann, if you capitalize the B, it makes all the difference!

Nope Share, it doesn't and once you figure out why you're half way 
there. Now I'm going to go talk to someone who will make a refreshing 
change from talking with you. Later.




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread Share Long
Judy and Ann, I was attempting to make light about all this rather than point 
out how ridiculous Judy is being. But since that didn't suffice, I will 
elaborate. 

First of all, she called turq's pronouncement proof! Duh! Are we at a 
research lab?! And even if we were, does one scientific experiment prove 
anything?! 

Or are we to think that his entire family, including young Maya, stand around 
and recite the offending teef phrase on a regular basis?!

In any case, it sounded to me like they were encouraging turq to leave FFL or 
at least stop engaging with her.

Last but not least, Judy says she was gratified that her speculation 
about turq's family was right. Her speculation having been that they, in
 her words, approve of and encourage his despicable behavior on FFL; and
 that they are as rotten as he is. 

What kind of person is gratified by this kind of conclusion about people?! Can 
you say: desperate to win no matter what and thus imo unbalanced?

BTW, Judy, in case it's not clear, this is my acknowledgement.





On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:54 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Certainly not. We don't want to obscure the fact--revealed by Barry 
himself--that I was right: Barry's family does approve of and encourage his 
despicable behavior on FFL.

This actually surprised me. I had voiced that speculation merely to point out 
to Share that she had no basis for declaring that his family was nice, and 
that Barry must be nice too or his family wouldn't want him to live with 
them.

I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, so 
I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence for my 
speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing).

Share now needs to acknowledge that she was wrong about her nice speculation, 
and to withdraw her characterization of mine as sinking to a new low, since 
it has turned out to be the correct one.


And please, let us not confuse teef with teff!


God lord no!
Definition of TEFF
:  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass (Eragrostis tef syn. 
E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a white flour and as a 
forage and hay crop
Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.


My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)

If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?


Google says, psychotische cult
teef:-)

Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread authfriend
Share, like I said, best for you to stay out of this and not keep trying to 
rescue Barry. You're all mixed up about what's going on here, and you'll only 
make things worse for him if you interfere and attempt to interpret. You 
aren't up to it. He said what he said; just let him take his lumps. 

 

 Judy and Ann, I was attempting to make light about all this rather than point 
out how ridiculous Judy is being. But since that didn't suffice, I will 
elaborate.  
First of all, she called turq's pronouncement proof! Duh! Are we at a 
research lab?! And even if we were, does one scientific experiment prove 
anything?! 

Or are we to think that his entire family, including young Maya, stand around 
and recite the offending teef phrase on a regular basis?!

In any case, it sounded to me like they were encouraging turq to leave FFL or 
at least stop engaging with her.

Last but not least, Judy says she was gratified that her speculation about 
turq's family was right. Her speculation having been that they, in her words, 
approve of and encourage his despicable behavior on FFL; and that they are as 
rotten as he is. 

What kind of person is gratified by this kind of conclusion about people?! Can 
you say: desperate to win no matter what and thus imo unbalanced?

BTW, Judy, in case it's not clear, this is my acknowledgement.
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:54 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Certainly not. We don't want to obscure the fact--revealed by Barry 
himself--that I was right: Barry's family does approve of and encourage his 
despicable behavior on FFL.
 

 This actually surprised me. I had voiced that speculation merely to point out 
to Share that she had no basis for declaring that his family was nice, and 
that Barry must be nice too or his family wouldn't want him to live with 
them.
 

 I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, so 
I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence for my 
speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing).
 

 Share now needs to acknowledge that she was wrong about her nice 
speculation, and to withdraw her characterization of mine as sinking to a new 
low, since it has turned out to be the correct one.
 

 

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff! 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.

 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 











 

















 


 













Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread steve.sundur
Share, you are decidedly right.  It was a  completely weird reaction on the 
part of Judy.  Sort of scary really.  I have to say, I don't really understand 
it.  Although I never really use this expression, I think she has difficulty 
grokking things that others are able to put in perspective. 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy and Ann, I was attempting to make light about all this rather than point 
out how ridiculous Judy is being. But since that didn't suffice, I will 
elaborate. 

First of all, she called turq's pronouncement proof! Duh! Are we at a 
research lab?! And even if we were, does one scientific experiment prove 
anything?! 

Or are we to think that his entire family, including young Maya, stand around 
and recite the offending teef phrase on a regular basis?!

In any case, it sounded to me like they were encouraging turq to leave FFL or 
at least stop engaging with her.

Last but not least, Judy says she was gratified that her speculation about 
turq's family was right. Her speculation having been that they, in her words, 
approve of and encourage his despicable behavior on FFL; and that they are as 
rotten as he is. 

What kind of person is gratified by this kind of conclusion about people?! Can 
you say: desperate to win no matter what and thus imo unbalanced?

BTW, Judy, in case it's not clear, this is my acknowledgement.
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:54 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Certainly not. We don't want to obscure the fact--revealed by Barry 
himself--that I was right: Barry's family does approve of and encourage his 
despicable behavior on FFL.
 

 This actually surprised me. I had voiced that speculation merely to point out 
to Share that she had no basis for declaring that his family was nice, and 
that Barry must be nice too or his family wouldn't want him to live with 
them.
 

 I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, so 
I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence for my 
speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing).
 

 Share now needs to acknowledge that she was wrong about her nice 
speculation, and to withdraw her characterization of mine as sinking to a new 
low, since it has turned out to be the correct one.
 

 

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff! 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.

 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 











 

















 


 












Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread authfriend
Or, maybe, others (i.e., you and Share) have difficulty grokking things that 
I'm able to put into perspective. 

 In any case, Feebs, you're in good company. Share is also clueless as to what 
that was about (even though she was the one to set it off).
 

 Now, come on, let's see some of what you feel are your cleverest, very MOST 
stinging ripostes. Don't just leave Share there with her bare face hanging out.
 

 

 Share, you are decidedly right.  It was a  completely weird reaction on the 
part of Judy.  Sort of scary really.  I have to say, I don't really understand 
it.  Although I never really use this expression, I think she has difficulty 
grokking things that others are able to put in perspective.  

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy and Ann, I was attempting to make light about all this rather than point 
out how ridiculous Judy is being. But since that didn't suffice, I will 
elaborate. 

First of all, she called turq's pronouncement proof! Duh! Are we at a 
research lab?! And even if we were, does one scientific experiment prove 
anything?! 

Or are we to think that his entire family, including young Maya, stand around 
and recite the offending teef phrase on a regular basis?!

In any case, it sounded to me like they were encouraging turq to leave FFL or 
at least stop engaging with her.

Last but not least, Judy says she was gratified that her speculation about 
turq's family was right. Her speculation having been that they, in her words, 
approve of and encourage his despicable behavior on FFL; and that they are as 
rotten as he is. 

What kind of person is gratified by this kind of conclusion about people?! Can 
you say: desperate to win no matter what and thus imo unbalanced?

BTW, Judy, in case it's not clear, this is my acknowledgement.
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:54 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Certainly not. We don't want to obscure the fact--revealed by Barry 
himself--that I was right: Barry's family does approve of and encourage his 
despicable behavior on FFL.
 

 This actually surprised me. I had voiced that speculation merely to point out 
to Share that she had no basis for declaring that his family was nice, and 
that Barry must be nice too or his family wouldn't want him to live with 
them.
 

 I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, so 
I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence for my 
speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing).
 

 Share now needs to acknowledge that she was wrong about her nice 
speculation, and to withdraw her characterization of mine as sinking to a new 
low, since it has turned out to be the correct one.
 

 

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff! 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.

 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 











 

















 


 
















Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 3/22/2014 6:30 PM, steve.sun...@yahoo.com wrote:
Share, you are decidedly right.  It was a  completely weird reaction 
on the part of Judy.  Sort of scary really.  I have to say, I don't 
really understand it.  Although I never really use this expression, I 
think she has difficulty grokking things that others are able to put 
in perspective. 


I'm beginning to think dialoging with Judy and the two Barrys is mostly 
useless. Maybe we can just write them off as social misfits and start 
ignoring them. I sometimes wonder what they think they are adding to the 
group discussion. If they think this kind of dialog is going to impress 
anyone they may be mistaken. It's more infantile than anything - not 
very inspiring, spiritually. Go figure.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread steve.sundur
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:
 
 Or, maybe, others (i.e., you and Share) have difficulty grokking things that 
I'm able to put into perspective. Judy, this is a precious part of your 
narrative, and I'd never want to take it away from you.
 Pulling that thread out.., well I don't even want to go there.
 

 In any case, Feebs, you're in good company. Share is also clueless as to what 
that was about (even though she was the one to set it off).
 If you were able to step back from things, take in a little bigger view, I 
think you'd gain a different, dare I say heather, perspective
 

 Now, come on, let's see some of what you feel are your cleverest, very MOST 
stinging ripostes. Don't just leave Share there with her bare face hanging out.
 

 

 

 Share, you are decidedly right.  It was a  completely weird reaction on the 
part of Judy.  Sort of scary really.  I have to say, I don't really understand 
it.  Although I never really use this expression, I think she has difficulty 
grokking things that others are able to put in perspective.  

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy and Ann, I was attempting to make light about all this rather than point 
out how ridiculous Judy is being. But since that didn't suffice, I will 
elaborate. 

First of all, she called turq's pronouncement proof! Duh! Are we at a 
research lab?! And even if we were, does one scientific experiment prove 
anything?! 

Or are we to think that his entire family, including young Maya, stand around 
and recite the offending teef phrase on a regular basis?!

In any case, it sounded to me like they were encouraging turq to leave FFL or 
at least stop engaging with her.

Last but not least, Judy says she was gratified that her speculation about 
turq's family was right. Her speculation having been that they, in her words, 
approve of and encourage his despicable behavior on FFL; and that they are as 
rotten as he is. 

What kind of person is gratified by this kind of conclusion about people?! Can 
you say: desperate to win no matter what and thus imo unbalanced?

BTW, Judy, in case it's not clear, this is my acknowledgement.
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:54 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Certainly not. We don't want to obscure the fact--revealed by Barry 
himself--that I was right: Barry's family does approve of and encourage his 
despicable behavior on FFL.
 

 This actually surprised me. I had voiced that speculation merely to point out 
to Share that she had no basis for declaring that his family was nice, and 
that Barry must be nice too or his family wouldn't want him to live with 
them.
 

 I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, so 
I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence for my 
speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing).
 

 Share now needs to acknowledge that she was wrong about her nice 
speculation, and to withdraw her characterization of mine as sinking to a new 
low, since it has turned out to be the correct one.
 

 

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff! 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.

 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 











 

















 


 


















Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread authfriend
Oh! Clever! Stinging! Such impressive comebacks! 

 (Is that really the best you can do, or are you just extra-tired this evening? 
Oh, and what's a heather perspective? I'm sure that was a brilliant crack, 
but I'm afraid it went right under my head.)
 

 

 

 Or, maybe, others (i.e., you and Share) have difficulty grokking things that 
I'm able to put into perspective. Judy, this is a precious part of your 
narrative, and I'd never want to take it away from you.
 Pulling that thread out.., well I don't even want to go there.
 

 In any case, Feebs, you're in good company. Share is also clueless as to what 
that was about (even though she was the one to set it off).
 If you were able to step back from things, take in a little bigger view, I 
think you'd gain a different, dare I say heather, perspective
 

 Now, come on, let's see some of what you feel are your cleverest, very MOST 
stinging ripostes. Don't just leave Share there with her bare face hanging out.
 

 

 

 Share, you are decidedly right.  It was a  completely weird reaction on the 
part of Judy.  Sort of scary really.  I have to say, I don't really understand 
it.  Although I never really use this expression, I think she has difficulty 
grokking things that others are able to put in perspective.  

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy and Ann, I was attempting to make light about all this rather than point 
out how ridiculous Judy is being. But since that didn't suffice, I will 
elaborate. 

First of all, she called turq's pronouncement proof! Duh! Are we at a 
research lab?! And even if we were, does one scientific experiment prove 
anything?! 

Or are we to think that his entire family, including young Maya, stand around 
and recite the offending teef phrase on a regular basis?!

In any case, it sounded to me like they were encouraging turq to leave FFL or 
at least stop engaging with her.

Last but not least, Judy says she was gratified that her speculation about 
turq's family was right. Her speculation having been that they, in her words, 
approve of and encourage his despicable behavior on FFL; and that they are as 
rotten as he is. 

What kind of person is gratified by this kind of conclusion about people?! Can 
you say: desperate to win no matter what and thus imo unbalanced?

BTW, Judy, in case it's not clear, this is my acknowledgement.
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:54 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Certainly not. We don't want to obscure the fact--revealed by Barry 
himself--that I was right: Barry's family does approve of and encourage his 
despicable behavior on FFL.
 

 This actually surprised me. I had voiced that speculation merely to point out 
to Share that she had no basis for declaring that his family was nice, and 
that Barry must be nice too or his family wouldn't want him to live with 
them.
 

 I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, so 
I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence for my 
speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing).
 

 Share now needs to acknowledge that she was wrong about her nice 
speculation, and to withdraw her characterization of mine as sinking to a new 
low, since it has turned out to be the correct one.
 

 

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff! 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.

 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 











 

















 


 
















 




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread steve.sundur
Enjoy Judy, Enjoy.  Find something positive to focus on.  Take a break from the 
Barry battles.  Pet a kitty, drink some tea.  Count your blessings.  Something.

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote :

 Oh! Clever! Stinging! Such impressive comebacks! 

 (Is that really the best you can do, or are you just extra-tired this evening? 
Oh, and what's a heather perspective? I'm sure that was a brilliant crack, 
but I'm afraid it went right under my head.)
 

 

 

 Or, maybe, others (i.e., you and Share) have difficulty grokking things that 
I'm able to put into perspective. Judy, this is a precious part of your 
narrative, and I'd never want to take it away from you.
 Pulling that thread out.., well I don't even want to go there.
 

 In any case, Feebs, you're in good company. Share is also clueless as to what 
that was about (even though she was the one to set it off).
 If you were able to step back from things, take in a little bigger view, I 
think you'd gain a different, dare I say heather, perspective
 

 Now, come on, let's see some of what you feel are your cleverest, very MOST 
stinging ripostes. Don't just leave Share there with her bare face hanging out.
 

 

 

 Share, you are decidedly right.  It was a  completely weird reaction on the 
part of Judy.  Sort of scary really.  I have to say, I don't really understand 
it.  Although I never really use this expression, I think she has difficulty 
grokking things that others are able to put in perspective.  

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy and Ann, I was attempting to make light about all this rather than point 
out how ridiculous Judy is being. But since that didn't suffice, I will 
elaborate. 

First of all, she called turq's pronouncement proof! Duh! Are we at a 
research lab?! And even if we were, does one scientific experiment prove 
anything?! 

Or are we to think that his entire family, including young Maya, stand around 
and recite the offending teef phrase on a regular basis?!

In any case, it sounded to me like they were encouraging turq to leave FFL or 
at least stop engaging with her.

Last but not least, Judy says she was gratified that her speculation about 
turq's family was right. Her speculation having been that they, in her words, 
approve of and encourage his despicable behavior on FFL; and that they are as 
rotten as he is. 

What kind of person is gratified by this kind of conclusion about people?! Can 
you say: desperate to win no matter what and thus imo unbalanced?

BTW, Judy, in case it's not clear, this is my acknowledgement.
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:54 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Certainly not. We don't want to obscure the fact--revealed by Barry 
himself--that I was right: Barry's family does approve of and encourage his 
despicable behavior on FFL.
 

 This actually surprised me. I had voiced that speculation merely to point out 
to Share that she had no basis for declaring that his family was nice, and 
that Barry must be nice too or his family wouldn't want him to live with 
them.
 

 I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, so 
I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence for my 
speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing).
 

 Share now needs to acknowledge that she was wrong about her nice 
speculation, and to withdraw her characterization of mine as sinking to a new 
low, since it has turned out to be the correct one.
 

 

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff! 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.

 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 











 

















 


 
















 






Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread authfriend
Wow!! You've topped yourself with that one, Feebie-weebie! Boy, I'll bet Share 
really appreciates your intellect and wit. Show off some more, please. We just 
can't get enough. 
 

 Enjoy Judy, Enjoy.  Find something positive to focus on.  Take a break from 
the Barry battles.  Pet a kitty, drink some tea.  Count your blessings.  
Something. 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote :

 Oh! Clever! Stinging! Such impressive comebacks! 

 (Is that really the best you can do, or are you just extra-tired this evening? 
Oh, and what's a heather perspective? I'm sure that was a brilliant crack, 
but I'm afraid it went right under my head.)
 

 

 

 Or, maybe, others (i.e., you and Share) have difficulty grokking things that 
I'm able to put into perspective. Judy, this is a precious part of your 
narrative, and I'd never want to take it away from you.
 Pulling that thread out.., well I don't even want to go there.
 

 In any case, Feebs, you're in good company. Share is also clueless as to what 
that was about (even though she was the one to set it off).
 If you were able to step back from things, take in a little bigger view, I 
think you'd gain a different, dare I say heather, perspective
 

 Now, come on, let's see some of what you feel are your cleverest, very MOST 
stinging ripostes. Don't just leave Share there with her bare face hanging out.
 

 

 

 Share, you are decidedly right.  It was a  completely weird reaction on the 
part of Judy.  Sort of scary really.  I have to say, I don't really understand 
it.  Although I never really use this expression, I think she has difficulty 
grokking things that others are able to put in perspective.  

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy and Ann, I was attempting to make light about all this rather than point 
out how ridiculous Judy is being. But since that didn't suffice, I will 
elaborate. 

First of all, she called turq's pronouncement proof! Duh! Are we at a 
research lab?! And even if we were, does one scientific experiment prove 
anything?! 

Or are we to think that his entire family, including young Maya, stand around 
and recite the offending teef phrase on a regular basis?!

In any case, it sounded to me like they were encouraging turq to leave FFL or 
at least stop engaging with her.

Last but not least, Judy says she was gratified that her speculation about 
turq's family was right. Her speculation having been that they, in her words, 
approve of and encourage his despicable behavior on FFL; and that they are as 
rotten as he is. 

What kind of person is gratified by this kind of conclusion about people?! Can 
you say: desperate to win no matter what and thus imo unbalanced?

BTW, Judy, in case it's not clear, this is my acknowledgement.
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:54 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Certainly not. We don't want to obscure the fact--revealed by Barry 
himself--that I was right: Barry's family does approve of and encourage his 
despicable behavior on FFL.
 

 This actually surprised me. I had voiced that speculation merely to point out 
to Share that she had no basis for declaring that his family was nice, and 
that Barry must be nice too or his family wouldn't want him to live with 
them.
 

 I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, so 
I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence for my 
speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing).
 

 Share now needs to acknowledge that she was wrong about her nice 
speculation, and to withdraw her characterization of mine as sinking to a new 
low, since it has turned out to be the correct one.
 

 

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff! 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.

 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 











 

















 


 
















 










Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread steve.sundur
That's about all I got Jude.  You may have be content with that.   

 Any other requests?
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote :

 Wow!! You've topped yourself with that one, Feebie-weebie! Boy, I'll bet Share 
really appreciates your intellect and wit. Show off some more, please. We just 
can't get enough. 
 

 Enjoy Judy, Enjoy.  Find something positive to focus on.  Take a break from 
the Barry battles.  Pet a kitty, drink some tea.  Count your blessings.  
Something. 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote :

 Oh! Clever! Stinging! Such impressive comebacks! 

 (Is that really the best you can do, or are you just extra-tired this evening? 
Oh, and what's a heather perspective? I'm sure that was a brilliant crack, 
but I'm afraid it went right under my head.)
 

 

 

 Or, maybe, others (i.e., you and Share) have difficulty grokking things that 
I'm able to put into perspective. Judy, this is a precious part of your 
narrative, and I'd never want to take it away from you.
 Pulling that thread out.., well I don't even want to go there.
 

 In any case, Feebs, you're in good company. Share is also clueless as to what 
that was about (even though she was the one to set it off).
 If you were able to step back from things, take in a little bigger view, I 
think you'd gain a different, dare I say heather, perspective
 

 Now, come on, let's see some of what you feel are your cleverest, very MOST 
stinging ripostes. Don't just leave Share there with her bare face hanging out.
 

 

 

 Share, you are decidedly right.  It was a  completely weird reaction on the 
part of Judy.  Sort of scary really.  I have to say, I don't really understand 
it.  Although I never really use this expression, I think she has difficulty 
grokking things that others are able to put in perspective.  

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy and Ann, I was attempting to make light about all this rather than point 
out how ridiculous Judy is being. But since that didn't suffice, I will 
elaborate. 

First of all, she called turq's pronouncement proof! Duh! Are we at a 
research lab?! And even if we were, does one scientific experiment prove 
anything?! 

Or are we to think that his entire family, including young Maya, stand around 
and recite the offending teef phrase on a regular basis?!

In any case, it sounded to me like they were encouraging turq to leave FFL or 
at least stop engaging with her.

Last but not least, Judy says she was gratified that her speculation about 
turq's family was right. Her speculation having been that they, in her words, 
approve of and encourage his despicable behavior on FFL; and that they are as 
rotten as he is. 

What kind of person is gratified by this kind of conclusion about people?! Can 
you say: desperate to win no matter what and thus imo unbalanced?

BTW, Judy, in case it's not clear, this is my acknowledgement.
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:54 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Certainly not. We don't want to obscure the fact--revealed by Barry 
himself--that I was right: Barry's family does approve of and encourage his 
despicable behavior on FFL.
 

 This actually surprised me. I had voiced that speculation merely to point out 
to Share that she had no basis for declaring that his family was nice, and 
that Barry must be nice too or his family wouldn't want him to live with 
them.
 

 I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, so 
I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence for my 
speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing).
 

 Share now needs to acknowledge that she was wrong about her nice 
speculation, and to withdraw her characterization of mine as sinking to a new 
low, since it has turned out to be the correct one.
 

 

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff! 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.

 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 








Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread steve.sundur
By the way, are you hiding a mouse in your pocket?  Come on, tell the truth 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote :
 That's about all I got Jude.  You may have be content with that.   Any other 
requests?

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote :
 Wow!! You've topped yourself with that one, Feebie-weebie! Boy, I'll bet Share 
really appreciates your intellect and wit. Show off some more, please. We just 
can't get enough. 
 

 Enjoy Judy, Enjoy.  Find something positive to focus on.  Take a break from 
the Barry battles.  Pet a kitty, drink some tea.  Count your blessings.  
Something. 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote :

 Oh! Clever! Stinging! Such impressive comebacks! 

 (Is that really the best you can do, or are you just extra-tired this evening? 
Oh, and what's a heather perspective? I'm sure that was a brilliant crack, 
but I'm afraid it went right under my head.)
 

 

 

 Or, maybe, others (i.e., you and Share) have difficulty grokking things that 
I'm able to put into perspective. Judy, this is a precious part of your 
narrative, and I'd never want to take it away from you.
 Pulling that thread out.., well I don't even want to go there.
 

 In any case, Feebs, you're in good company. Share is also clueless as to what 
that was about (even though she was the one to set it off).
 If you were able to step back from things, take in a little bigger view, I 
think you'd gain a different, dare I say heather, perspective
 

 Now, come on, let's see some of what you feel are your cleverest, very MOST 
stinging ripostes. Don't just leave Share there with her bare face hanging out.
 

 

 

 Share, you are decidedly right.  It was a  completely weird reaction on the 
part of Judy.  Sort of scary really.  I have to say, I don't really understand 
it.  Although I never really use this expression, I think she has difficulty 
grokking things that others are able to put in perspective.  

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy and Ann, I was attempting to make light about all this rather than point 
out how ridiculous Judy is being. But since that didn't suffice, I will 
elaborate. 

First of all, she called turq's pronouncement proof! Duh! Are we at a 
research lab?! And even if we were, does one scientific experiment prove 
anything?! 

Or are we to think that his entire family, including young Maya, stand around 
and recite the offending teef phrase on a regular basis?!

In any case, it sounded to me like they were encouraging turq to leave FFL or 
at least stop engaging with her.

Last but not least, Judy says she was gratified that her speculation about 
turq's family was right. Her speculation having been that they, in her words, 
approve of and encourage his despicable behavior on FFL; and that they are as 
rotten as he is. 

What kind of person is gratified by this kind of conclusion about people?! Can 
you say: desperate to win no matter what and thus imo unbalanced?

BTW, Judy, in case it's not clear, this is my acknowledgement.
 

 
 
 On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:54 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Certainly not. We don't want to obscure the fact--revealed by Barry 
himself--that I was right: Barry's family does approve of and encourage his 
despicable behavior on FFL.
 

 This actually surprised me. I had voiced that speculation merely to point out 
to Share that she had no basis for declaring that his family was nice, and 
that Barry must be nice too or his family wouldn't want him to live with 
them.
 

 I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, so 
I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence for my 
speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing).
 

 Share now needs to acknowledge that she was wrong about her nice 
speculation, and to withdraw her characterization of mine as sinking to a new 
low, since it has turned out to be the correct one.
 

 

 And please, let us not confuse teef with teff! 

 God lord no!
 Definition of TEFF :  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass 
(Eragrostis tef syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a 
white flour and as a forage and hay crop

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.

 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-22 Thread TurquoiseBee
From: steve.sun...@yahoo.com steve.sun...@yahoo.com

To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, March 23, 2014 3:12 AM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 


  
Enjoy Judy, Enjoy.  Find something positive to focus on.  Take a break from the 
Barry battles.  Pet a kitty, drink some tea.  Count your blessings.  Something.


Maybe stop trying to demonstrate that she's exactly the thing she's got her 
panties in a twist about, a psychotic cult bitch.  :-)


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote :


Oh! Clever! Stinging! Such impressive comebacks!

(Is that really the best you can do, or are you just extra-tired this evening? 
Oh, and what's a heather perspective? I'm sure that was a brilliant crack, 
but I'm afraid it went right under my head.)

Or, maybe, others (i.e., you and Share) have difficulty grokking things that 
I'm able to put into perspective.
Judy, this is a precious part of your narrative, and I'd never want to take it 
away from you.
Pulling that thread out.., well I don't even want to go there.


In any case, Feebs, you're in good company. Share is also clueless as to what 
that was about (even though she was the one to set it off).
If you were able to step back from things, take in a little bigger view, I 
think you'd gain a different, dare I say heather, perspective


Now, come on, let's see some of what you feel are your cleverest, very MOST 
stinging ripostes. Don't just leave Share there with her bare face hanging 
out.






Share, you are decidedly right.  It was a  completely weird reaction on the 
part of Judy.  Sort of scary really.  I have to say, I don't really 
understand it.  Although I never really use this expression, I think she has 
difficulty grokking things that others are able to put in perspective. 


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


Judy and Ann, I was attempting to make light about all this rather than point 
out how ridiculous Judy is being. But since that didn't suffice, I will 
elaborate. 

First of all, she called turq's pronouncement proof! Duh! Are we at a 
research lab?! And even if we were, does one scientific experiment prove 
anything?! 

Or are we to think that his entire family, including young Maya, stand around 
and recite the offending teef phrase on a regular basis?!

In any case, it sounded to me like they were encouraging turq to leave FFL or 
at least stop engaging with her.

Last but not least, Judy says she was gratified that her speculation
about turq's family was right. Her speculation having been that they, in
her words, approve of and encourage his despicable behavior on FFL; and
that they are as rotten as he is. 

What kind of person is gratified by this kind of conclusion about people?! 
Can you say: desperate to win no matter what and thus imo unbalanced?

BTW, Judy, in case it's not clear, this is my acknowledgement.






On Saturday, March 22, 2014 8:54 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:

 
Certainly not. We don't want to obscure the fact--revealed by Barry 
himself--that I was right: Barry's family does approve of and encourage his 
despicable behavior on FFL.


This actually surprised me. I had voiced that speculation merely to point out 
to Share that she had no basis for declaring that his family was nice, 
and that Barry must be nice too or his family wouldn't want him to live 
with them.


I hadn't thought there was any evidence for either her speculation or mine, 
so I was startled (but gratified!) when Barry handily supplied the evidence 
for my speculation (even if he didn't quite realize that's what he was doing).


Share now needs to acknowledge that she was wrong about her nice 
speculation, and to withdraw her characterization of mine as sinking to a 
new low, since it has turned out to be the correct one.




And please, let us not confuse teef with teff!


God lord no!
Definition of TEFF
:  an economically important Ethiopian annual cereal grass (Eragrostis tef 
syn. E. abyssinica) grown for its small grain which yields a white flour and 
as a forage and hay crop
Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.


My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy 
Stein writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time 
with that psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)


If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?


Google says, psychotische cult
teef:-)


Well, other than the teef part one
could've figured that out without a translation!








Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread Share Long
Judy, Ann telling me that there are no gangs on FFL is simply her opinion, 
neither the truth nor a lie. So actually you're lying about me. Plus you maybe 
had a senior moment when you said that I didn't say what I meant by nice when I 
actually did!





On Thursday, March 20, 2014 7:34 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Notice that Share, without a smidgen of evidence, is accusing Ann of lying:

Ann, I don't think turq is ALL bad and when you guys get going on one of your 
gang rants


This, after Ann has just told her:

There are no gangs here Share. There are individuals who feel what they feel 
and write what they write. There are no groups who decide together to pick on 
anyone.


And now Share herself lies:

, it's like you all think he's all bad. For one thing, it's sloppy thinking 
imo. 

As Share knows, both Ann and I have expressed appreciation for Barry's 
non-attack posts. I'd say the sloppy thinking is when you misrepresent what 
other people have said, as Share just did.

I have no desire to be on turq's team nor Judy's either. I'd like to be on that 
third team of reasonable and considerate people.

Well, at least here, maybe, we have Share's grudging admission that Barry is 
neither reasonable nor considerate. But we still get the lie that I have a 
team. If Share wants to be on that third team, she'd better clean up her 
act and start trying to be honest.

Finally, notice that Share doesn't respond to Ann's question about what nice 
means (with reference to Barry's family) or how it's relevant.



On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:56 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :



Judy, I'm not pandering. And I admit I don't like it when lots of people gang 
up on one person. 

There are no gangs here
Share. There are individuals who feel what they feel and write what they write. 
There are no groups who decide together to pick on anyone. Most here are over 
the age of 50 and can presumably make their own decisions, have their own 
opinions on and about something or someone. You are missing the boat when you 
decide, on principal, that you need to step in when more than one person has 
the same opinion about someone. Bawwy doesn't want you to defend him and he is 
more than likely rolling his bloodshot eyes at you when you do - not because he 
doesn't want people to like him but because you are about the last one here he 
would choose to be on his team. Sorry, but it's true.

As for turq liking me, I think it's great when people like other people. But my 
happiness
is not dependent upon it.

Also, I've seen a picture of turq's family and they look nice to me. Also we've 
seen pictures of Maya and heard stories about their time together.

What, exactly, does nice mean? How is nice relevant to anything?











Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread Share Long
Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.



On Thursday, March 20, 2014 8:00 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
But as we on FFL all know, Barry is not a decent human being. He does not 
treat others kindly. And of course he is chronically, fundamentally 
dishonest. For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his 
despicable behavior on FFL. You can't tell people's character from a 
photograph. Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten as he 
is.

And nobody 'dumps' on FFL like Barry does. OTOH, nobody has said he's ALL 
bad, either--to the contrary.

Why is it so difficult for Share to say anything meaningful and relevant? It's 
all sidestepping and non sequiturs.

Of course it's significant, Ann! They look like nice people to me. They 
wouldn't live with turq if he weren't a nice person too. Nice means decent 
human being, treats others kindly, etc. 

The thing is a lot of people dump on FFL like turq does. That doesn't mean 
they are ALL bad. IMO!

BTW, yesterday was Big Dome Cleaning. I was gone all afternoon, had dinner with 
friends. When I got back on my computer I had 99 emails. I'm still going 
through them.





On Wednesday, March 19, 2014
10:43 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... wrote:

 




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there!

Bawwy's nicefamily has nothing to do with who he is as an individual Share. 
He is not responsible for how nice or not nice they are. They are not 
responsible for his life and his outlook. What the hell does this statement 
have to do with anything? It is like saying Bawwy has nice next door neighbors 
and an interesting second grade teacher. It is irrelevant.









Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread authfriend
No, Share, it's the truth. There are no gangs on FFL. That's a fact, not an 
opinion. You are lying when you say there are. 

 And you didn't say in this post what you meant by nice, liar.

 Judy, Ann telling me that there are no gangs on FFL is simply her opinion, 
neither the truth nor a lie. So actually you're lying about me. Plus you maybe 
had a senior moment when you said that I didn't say what I meant by nice when I 
actually did!
 

 
 
 On Thursday, March 20, 2014 7:34 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Notice that Share, without a smidgen of evidence, is accusing Ann of lying:
 

 Ann, I don't think turq is ALL bad and when you guys get going on one of your 
gang rants 

 This, after Ann has just told her:
 

 There are no gangs here Share. There are individuals who feel what they feel 
and write what they write. There are no groups who decide together to pick on 
anyone.

 

 And now Share herself lies:
 

 , it's like you all think he's all bad. For one thing, it's sloppy thinking 
imo. 
 

 As Share knows, both Ann and I have expressed appreciation for Barry's 
non-attack posts. I'd say the sloppy thinking is when you misrepresent what 
other people have said, as Share just did.
 

 I have no desire to be on turq's team nor Judy's either. I'd like to be on 
that third team of reasonable and considerate people.
 

 Well, at least here, maybe, we have Share's grudging admission that Barry is 
neither reasonable nor considerate. But we still get the lie that I have a 
team. If Share wants to be on that third team, she'd better clean up her 
act and start trying to be honest.
 

 Finally, notice that Share doesn't respond to Ann's question about what nice 
means (with reference to Barry's family) or how it's relevant.
 

 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:56 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 
 Judy, I'm not pandering. And I admit I don't like it when lots of people gang 
up on one person. 
 

 There are no gangs here Share. There are individuals who feel what they feel 
and write what they write. There are no groups who decide together to pick on 
anyone. Most here are over the age of 50 and can presumably make their own 
decisions, have their own opinions on and about something or someone. You are 
missing the boat when you decide, on principal, that you need to step in when 
more than one person has the same opinion about someone. Bawwy doesn't want you 
to defend him and he is more than likely rolling his bloodshot eyes at you when 
you do - not because he doesn't want people to like him but because you are 
about the last one here he would choose to be on his team. Sorry, but it's true.
 
As for turq liking me, I think it's great when people like other people. But my 
happiness is not dependent upon it.

Also, I've seen a picture of turq's family and they look nice to me. Also we've 
seen pictures of Maya and heard stories about their time together.
 

 What, exactly, does nice mean? How is nice relevant to anything?


 

 
 
 








 
















 


 












Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread TurquoiseBee
From: Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.com

To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, March 21, 2014 3:55 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 


  
Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.
My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread authfriend
And Share continues to lie. For all we know and Maybe are the appropriate 
terms for speculating about people whom one has had zero contact with. Share 
doesn't know Barry's family is nice any more than I know they're as 
despicable as Barry is. 

 And notice that Share was unable to comment on this: But as we on FFL all 
know, Barry is not a 'decent human being.' He does not 'treat others kindly.' 
And of course he is chronically, fundamentally dishonest.
 

 So much for They wouldn't live with turq if he weren't a nice person too. 
Nice means decent human being, treats others kindly, etc.
 

 

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is. 
 
 On Thursday, March 20, 2014 8:00 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   But as we on FFL all know, Barry is not a decent human being. He does not 
treat others kindly. And of course he is chronically, fundamentally 
dishonest. For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his 
despicable behavior on FFL. You can't tell people's character from a 
photograph. Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten as he 
is.
 

 And nobody 'dumps' on FFL like Barry does. OTOH, nobody has said he's ALL 
bad, either--to the contrary.
 

 Why is it so difficult for Share to say anything meaningful and relevant? It's 
all sidestepping and non sequiturs.
 

 Of course it's significant, Ann! They look like nice people to me. They 
wouldn't live with turq if he weren't a nice person too. Nice means decent 
human being, treats others kindly, etc.  
The thing is a lot of people dump on FFL like turq does. That doesn't mean 
they are ALL bad. IMO!

BTW, yesterday was Big Dome Cleaning. I was gone all afternoon, had dinner with 
friends. When I got back on my computer I had 99 emails. I'm still going 
through them.
 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:43 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there!
 

 Bawwy's nicefamily has nothing to do with who he is as an individual Share. 
He is not responsible for how nice or not nice they are. They are not 
responsible for his life and his outlook. What the hell does this statement 
have to do with anything? It is like saying Bawwy has nice next door neighbors 
and an interesting second grade teacher. It is irrelevant.
 


 

 
 








 
















 


 














Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread authfriend
Sez Barry, inadvertently providing proof of my speculation about his family. 

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is. 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)










Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread Share Long
Judy, imo *for all we know* and *maybe* are the kind of terms you use when you 
want to suggest something negative about someone. I think you are the FFL 
master at this kind of negative innuendo and indirect demonizing.





On Friday, March 21, 2014 10:18 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
And Share continues to lie. For all we know and Maybe are the appropriate 
terms for speculating about people whom one has had zero contact with. Share 
doesn't know Barry's family is nice any more than I know they're as 
despicable as Barry is.

And notice that Share was unable to comment on this: But as we on FFL all 
know, Barry is not a 'decent human being.' He does not 'treat others kindly.' 
And of course he is chronically, fundamentally dishonest.

So much for They wouldn't live with turq if he weren't a nice person too. Nice 
means decent human being, treats others kindly, etc.



Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.



On Thursday, March 20, 2014 8:00 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:

 
But as we on FFL all know, Barry is not a decent human being. He does not 
treat others kindly. And of course he is chronically, fundamentally 
dishonest. For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his 
despicable behavior on FFL. You can't tell people's character from a 
photograph. Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten as he 
is.

And nobody 'dumps' on FFL like Barry does. OTOH, nobody has said he's ALL 
bad, either--to the contrary.

Why is it so difficult for Share to say anything meaningful and relevant? It's 
all sidestepping and non sequiturs.

Of course it's significant, Ann! They look like nice people to me. They 
wouldn't live with turq if he weren't a nice person too. Nice means decent 
human being, treats others kindly, etc. 

The thing is a lot of people dump on FFL like turq does. That doesn't mean 
they are ALL bad. IMO!

BTW, yesterday was Big Dome Cleaning. I was gone all afternoon, had dinner with 
friends. When I got back on my computer I had 99 emails. I'm still going 
through them.





On Wednesday, March 19, 2014
10:43 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... wrote:

 




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting
there!

Bawwy's nicefamily has nothing to do with who he is as an individual Share. 
He is not responsible for how nice or not nice they are. They are not 
responsible for his life and his outlook. What the hell does this statement 
have to do with anything? It is like saying Bawwy has nice next door neighbors 
and an interesting second grade teacher. It is irrelevant.











Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy, Ann telling me that there are no gangs on FFL is simply her opinion, 
neither the truth nor a lie. So actually you're lying about me. Plus you maybe 
had a senior moment when you said that I didn't say what I meant by nice when I 
actually did!
 

 First of all I don't have senior moments, what are those anyway? How am I 
lying about you, I don't get it. And third where did you define nice?
 

 
 
 On Thursday, March 20, 2014 7:34 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Notice that Share, without a smidgen of evidence, is accusing Ann of lying:
 

 Ann, I don't think turq is ALL bad and when you guys get going on one of your 
gang rants 

 This, after Ann has just told her:
 

 There are no gangs here Share. There are individuals who feel what they feel 
and write what they write. There are no groups who decide together to pick on 
anyone.

 

 And now Share herself lies:
 

 , it's like you all think he's all bad. For one thing, it's sloppy thinking 
imo. 
 

 As Share knows, both Ann and I have expressed appreciation for Barry's 
non-attack posts. I'd say the sloppy thinking is when you misrepresent what 
other people have said, as Share just did.
 

 I have no desire to be on turq's team nor Judy's either. I'd like to be on 
that third team of reasonable and considerate people.
 

 Well, at least here, maybe, we have Share's grudging admission that Barry is 
neither reasonable nor considerate. But we still get the lie that I have a 
team. If Share wants to be on that third team, she'd better clean up her 
act and start trying to be honest.
 

 Finally, notice that Share doesn't respond to Ann's question about what nice 
means (with reference to Barry's family) or how it's relevant.
 

 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:56 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 
 Judy, I'm not pandering. And I admit I don't like it when lots of people gang 
up on one person. 
 

 There are no gangs here Share. There are individuals who feel what they feel 
and write what they write. There are no groups who decide together to pick on 
anyone. Most here are over the age of 50 and can presumably make their own 
decisions, have their own opinions on and about something or someone. You are 
missing the boat when you decide, on principal, that you need to step in when 
more than one person has the same opinion about someone. Bawwy doesn't want you 
to defend him and he is more than likely rolling his bloodshot eyes at you when 
you do - not because he doesn't want people to like him but because you are 
about the last one here he would choose to be on his team. Sorry, but it's true.
 
As for turq liking me, I think it's great when people like other people. But my 
happiness is not dependent upon it.

Also, I've seen a picture of turq's family and they look nice to me. Also we've 
seen pictures of Maya and heard stories about their time together.
 

 What, exactly, does nice mean? How is nice relevant to anything?


 

 
 
 








 
















 


 












Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.
 
 
 On Thursday, March 20, 2014 8:00 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   But as we on FFL all know, Barry is not a decent human being. He does not 
treat others kindly. And of course he is chronically, fundamentally 
dishonest. For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his 
despicable behavior on FFL. You can't tell people's character from a 
photograph. Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten as he 
is.
 

 And nobody 'dumps' on FFL like Barry does. OTOH, nobody has said he's ALL 
bad, either--to the contrary.
 

 Why is it so difficult for Share to say anything meaningful and relevant? It's 
all sidestepping and non sequiturs.
 

 Of course it's significant, Ann! They look like nice people to me. They 
wouldn't live with turq if he weren't a nice person too. Nice means decent 
human being, treats others kindly, etc. 
 

 Oh, there it is, your definition of nice. Now about the lying thing? I can't 
find that one.
 
The thing is a lot of people dump on FFL like turq does. That doesn't mean 
they are ALL bad. IMO!

BTW, yesterday was Big Dome Cleaning. I was gone all afternoon, had dinner with 
friends. When I got back on my computer I had 99 emails. I'm still going 
through them.
 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:43 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there!
 

 Bawwy's nicefamily has nothing to do with who he is as an individual Share. 
He is not responsible for how nice or not nice they are. They are not 
responsible for his life and his outlook. What the hell does this statement 
have to do with anything? It is like saying Bawwy has nice next door neighbors 
and an interesting second grade teacher. It is irrelevant.
 


 

 
 








 
















 


 












Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 From: Share Long sharelong60@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, March 21, 2014 3:55 PM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact 
with: For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.
 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 








Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread Share Long
Ann, you just had a senior moment when you thought that post was to you! It was 
to Judy. As for my definition of nice, if you scroll down, you'll find it.






On Friday, March 21, 2014 10:57 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com 
awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


Judy, Ann telling me that there are no gangs on FFL is simply her opinion, 
neither the truth nor a lie. So actually you're lying about me. Plus you maybe 
had a senior moment when you said that I didn't say what I meant by nice when I 
actually did!

First of all I don't have senior moments, what are those anyway? How am I 
lying about you, I don't get it. And third where did you define nice?





On Thursday, March 20, 2014 7:34 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:

 
Notice that Share, without a smidgen of evidence, is accusing Ann of lying:

Ann, I don't think turq is ALL bad and when you guys get going on one of your 
gang rants


This, after Ann has just told her:

There are no gangs here Share. There are individuals who feel what they feel 
and write what they write. There are no groups who decide together to pick on 
anyone.


And now Share herself lies:

, it's like you all think he's all bad. For one thing, it's sloppy thinking 
imo. 

As Share knows, both Ann and I have expressed appreciation for Barry's 
non-attack posts. I'd say the sloppy thinking is when you misrepresent what 
other people have said, as Share just did.

I have no desire to be on turq's team nor Judy's either. I'd like to be on that 
third team of reasonable and considerate people.

Well, at least here, maybe, we have Share's grudging admission that Barry is 
neither reasonable nor considerate. But we still get the lie that I have a 
team. If Share wants to be on that third team, she'd better clean up her 
act and start trying to be honest.

Finally, notice that Share doesn't respond to Ann's question about what nice 
means (with reference to Barry's family) or how it's relevant.



On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:56 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:




---In
FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :



Judy, I'm not pandering. And I admit I don't like it when lots of people gang 
up on one person. 

There are no gangs here
Share. There are individuals who feel what they feel and write what they write. 
There are no groups who decide together to pick on anyone. Most here are over 
the age of 50 and can presumably make their own decisions, have their own 
opinions on and about something or someone. You are missing the boat when you 
decide, on principal, that you need to step in when more than one person has 
the same opinion about someone. Bawwy doesn't want you to defend him and he is 
more than likely rolling his bloodshot eyes at you when you do - not because he 
doesn't want people to like him but because you are about the last one here he 
would choose to be on his team. Sorry, but it's true.

As for turq
liking me, I think it's great when people like other people. But my happiness
is not dependent upon it.

Also, I've seen a picture of turq's family and they look nice to me. Also we've 
seen pictures of Maya and heard stories about their time together.

What, exactly, does nice mean? How is nice relevant to anything?













Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread doctordumbass

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 From: Share Long sharelong60@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, March 21, 2014 3:55 PM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact 
with: For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.
 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
I guess Barry is more frightened of facing himself, than he is, a psychotic 
cult bitch. Oh, fuck it - on with the show!










Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread doctordumbass

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 From: Share Long sharelong60@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, March 21, 2014 3:55 PM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact 
with: For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.
 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)









Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread Share Long
Ann I don't know what you mean be *the lying thing.*





On Friday, March 21, 2014 10:59 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com 
awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.



On Thursday, March 20, 2014 8:00 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:

 
But as we on FFL all know, Barry is not a decent human being. He does not 
treat others kindly. And of course he is chronically, fundamentally 
dishonest. For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his 
despicable behavior on FFL. You can't tell people's character from a 
photograph. Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten as he 
is.

And nobody 'dumps' on FFL like Barry does. OTOH, nobody has said he's ALL 
bad, either--to the contrary.

Why is it so difficult for Share to say anything meaningful and relevant? It's 
all sidestepping and non sequiturs.

Of course it's significant, Ann! They look like nice people to me. They 
wouldn't live with turq if he weren't a nice person too. Nice means decent 
human being, treats others kindly, etc. 

Oh, there it is, your definition of nice. Now about the lying thing? I can't 
find that one.


The thing is a lot of people dump on FFL like turq does. That doesn't mean 
they are ALL bad. IMO!

BTW, yesterday was Big Dome Cleaning. I was gone all afternoon, had dinner with 
friends. When I got back on my computer I had 99 emails. I'm still going 
through them.





On Wednesday, March 19, 2014
10:43 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... wrote:

 




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting
there!

Bawwy's nicefamily has nothing to do with who he is as an individual Share. 
He is not responsible for how nice or not nice they are. They are not 
responsible for his life and his outlook. What the hell does this statement 
have to do with anything? It is like saying Bawwy has nice next door neighbors 
and an interesting second grade teacher. It is irrelevant.











Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread authfriend
You completely missed the point--or pretended to, so you could say bad (and 
untrue) things about me, more likely. 

 But boy, my speculation turned out to be on the nose if Barry was telling the 
truth in his last post to you. His family does approve of and encourage his 
bad behavior, which means they are just as despicable as he is.
 

 Still no comment from Share on this:  But as we on FFL all know, Barry is not 
a 'decent human being.' He does not 'treat others kindly.' And of course he is 
chronically, fundamentally dishonest.
 
 (And just for the record--although I know you know this--I also use For all 
we know and Maybe and similar expressions to suggest things that are 
positive but that I'm uncertain about.)
 

 Judy, imo *for all we know* and *maybe* are the kind of terms you use when you 
want to suggest something negative about someone. I think you are the FFL 
master at this kind of negative innuendo and indirect demonizing.
 

 
 
 On Friday, March 21, 2014 10:18 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   And Share continues to lie. For all we know and Maybe are the 
appropriate terms for speculating about people whom one has had zero contact 
with. Share doesn't know Barry's family is nice any more than I know 
they're as despicable as Barry is.
 

 And notice that Share was unable to comment on this: But as we on FFL all 
know, Barry is not a 'decent human being.' He does not 'treat others kindly.' 
And of course he is chronically, fundamentally dishonest.
 

 So much for They wouldn't live with turq if he weren't a nice person too. 
Nice means decent human being, treats others kindly, etc.
 

 

 Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact with: 
For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is. 
 
 On Thursday, March 20, 2014 8:00 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   But as we on FFL all know, Barry is not a decent human being. He does not 
treat others kindly. And of course he is chronically, fundamentally 
dishonest. For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his 
despicable behavior on FFL. You can't tell people's character from a 
photograph. Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten as he 
is.
 

 And nobody 'dumps' on FFL like Barry does. OTOH, nobody has said he's ALL 
bad, either--to the contrary.
 

 Why is it so difficult for Share to say anything meaningful and relevant? It's 
all sidestepping and non sequiturs.
 

 Of course it's significant, Ann! They look like nice people to me. They 
wouldn't live with turq if he weren't a nice person too. Nice means decent 
human being, treats others kindly, etc.  
The thing is a lot of people dump on FFL like turq does. That doesn't mean 
they are ALL bad. IMO!

BTW, yesterday was Big Dome Cleaning. I was gone all afternoon, had dinner with 
friends. When I got back on my computer I had 99 emails. I'm still going 
through them.
 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:43 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there!
 

 Bawwy's nicefamily has nothing to do with who he is as an individual Share. 
He is not responsible for how nice or not nice they are. They are not 
responsible for his life and his outlook. What the hell does this statement 
have to do with anything? It is like saying Bawwy has nice next door neighbors 
and an interesting second grade teacher. It is irrelevant.
 


 

 
 








 
















 
















 


 













Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-21 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 From: Share Long sharelong60@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, March 21, 2014 3:55 PM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   Judy, sinking to a new low, wrote about people she has had zero contact 
with: For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his despicable 
behavior on FFL...Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten 
as he is.
 








My family is more understanding. They've seen some of the posts that Judy Stein 
writes, and their only comment has been, Why do you waste any time with that 
psychotic cult bitch? And they've got a point. :--)
 

 If you think they've got a point then why have you spent 18 years involving 
yourself with Judy? I guess you don't think it's a waste of time or you just 
can't help yourself. BTW, how do you say psychotic cult bitch in Dutch?

 
Google says, psychotische cult teef:-)
 

 Well, other than the teef part one could've figured that out without a 
translation!
 












Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-20 Thread Share Long
Ann, I don't think turq is ALL bad and when you guys get going on one of your 
gang rants, it's like you all think he's all bad. For one thing, it's sloppy 
thinking imo. I have no desire to be on turq's team nor Judy's either. I'd like 
to be on that third team of reasonable and considerate people. 





On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:56 PM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com 
awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


Judy, I'm not pandering. And I admit I don't like it when lots of people gang 
up on one person. 

There are no gangs here Share. There are individuals who feel what they feel 
and write what they write. There are no groups who decide together to pick on 
anyone. Most here are over the age of 50 and can presumably make their own 
decisions, have their own opinions on and about something or someone. You are 
missing the boat when you decide, on principal, that you need to step in when 
more than one person has the same opinion about someone. Bawwy doesn't want you 
to defend him and he is more than likely rolling his bloodshot eyes at you when 
you do - not because he doesn't want people to like him but because you are 
about the last one here he would choose to be on his team. Sorry, but it's true.

As for turq liking me, I think it's great when people like other people. But my 
happiness is not dependent upon it.

Also, I've seen a picture of turq's family and they look nice to me. Also we've 
seen pictures of Maya and heard stories about their time together.

What, exactly, does nice mean? How is nice relevant to anything?









Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-20 Thread Share Long
Of course it's significant, Ann! They look like nice people to me. They 
wouldn't live with turq if he weren't a nice person too. Nice means decent 
human being, treats others kindly, etc. 

The thing is a lot of people dump on FFL like turq does. That doesn't mean 
they are ALL bad. IMO!

BTW, yesterday was Big Dome Cleaning. I was gone all afternoon, had dinner with 
friends. When I got back on my computer I had 99 emails. I'm still going 
through them.





On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:43 PM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com 
awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there!

Bawwy's nicefamily has nothing to do with who he is as an individual Share. 
He is not responsible for how nice or not nice they are. They are not 
responsible for his life and his outlook. What the hell does this statement 
have to do with anything? It is like saying Bawwy has nice next door neighbors 
and an interesting second grade teacher. It is irrelevant.







Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-20 Thread authfriend
Notice that Share, without a smidgen of evidence, is accusing Ann of lying: 

 Ann, I don't think turq is ALL bad and when you guys get going on one of your 
gang rants 

 This, after Ann has just told her:
 

 There are no gangs here Share. There are individuals who feel what they feel 
and write what they write. There are no groups who decide together to pick on 
anyone.

 

 And now Share herself lies:
 

 , it's like you all think he's all bad. For one thing, it's sloppy thinking 
imo. 
 

 As Share knows, both Ann and I have expressed appreciation for Barry's 
non-attack posts. I'd say the sloppy thinking is when you misrepresent what 
other people have said, as Share just did.
 

 I have no desire to be on turq's team nor Judy's either. I'd like to be on 
that third team of reasonable and considerate people.
 

 Well, at least here, maybe, we have Share's grudging admission that Barry is 
neither reasonable nor considerate. But we still get the lie that I have a 
team. If Share wants to be on that third team, she'd better clean up her 
act and start trying to be honest.
 

 Finally, notice that Share doesn't respond to Ann's question about what nice 
means (with reference to Barry's family) or how it's relevant.
 

 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:56 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 
 Judy, I'm not pandering. And I admit I don't like it when lots of people gang 
up on one person. 
 

 There are no gangs here Share. There are individuals who feel what they feel 
and write what they write. There are no groups who decide together to pick on 
anyone. Most here are over the age of 50 and can presumably make their own 
decisions, have their own opinions on and about something or someone. You are 
missing the boat when you decide, on principal, that you need to step in when 
more than one person has the same opinion about someone. Bawwy doesn't want you 
to defend him and he is more than likely rolling his bloodshot eyes at you when 
you do - not because he doesn't want people to like him but because you are 
about the last one here he would choose to be on his team. Sorry, but it's true.
 
As for turq liking me, I think it's great when people like other people. But my 
happiness is not dependent upon it.

Also, I've seen a picture of turq's family and they look nice to me. Also we've 
seen pictures of Maya and heard stories about their time together.
 

 What, exactly, does nice mean? How is nice relevant to anything?


 

 
 
 








 


 














Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-20 Thread authfriend
But as we on FFL all know, Barry is not a decent human being. He does not 
treat others kindly. And of course he is chronically, fundamentally 
dishonest. For all we know, his family approves of and encourages his 
despicable behavior on FFL. You can't tell people's character from a 
photograph. Maybe Barry wouldn't live with them if they weren't as rotten as he 
is. 

 And nobody 'dumps' on FFL like Barry does. OTOH, nobody has said he's ALL 
bad, either--to the contrary.
 

 Why is it so difficult for Share to say anything meaningful and relevant? It's 
all sidestepping and non sequiturs.
 

 Of course it's significant, Ann! They look like nice people to me. They 
wouldn't live with turq if he weren't a nice person too. Nice means decent 
human being, treats others kindly, etc.  
The thing is a lot of people dump on FFL like turq does. That doesn't mean 
they are ALL bad. IMO!

BTW, yesterday was Big Dome Cleaning. I was gone all afternoon, had dinner with 
friends. When I got back on my computer I had 99 emails. I'm still going 
through them.
 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:43 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there!
 

 Bawwy's nicefamily has nothing to do with who he is as an individual Share. 
He is not responsible for how nice or not nice they are. They are not 
responsible for his life and his outlook. What the hell does this statement 
have to do with anything? It is like saying Bawwy has nice next door neighbors 
and an interesting second grade teacher. It is irrelevant.
 


 

 
 








 


 














Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-20 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Of course it's significant, Ann! They look like nice people to me. 
 

 If anything could be called insignificant it would be the fact that you think 
you can tell nice from some photo of some kid. As far as the rest of the 
family I don't think I've seen what they look like and even if I did what 
truths could I glean from doing so? After all, you thought I was some smug 
Nazi from my photo I posted - so much for your powers of observation.
 

 They wouldn't live with turq if he weren't a nice person too. Nice means 
decent human being, treats others kindly, etc. 
 

 In that we differ because Bawwy consistently shows himself to be 
narrow-minded, ego bound, petty, mean and very jaded which in my view is 
neither nice or decent. If he can carry on a civilized tea party with a five 
year old, all the power to him.

The thing is a lot of people dump on FFL like turq does. That doesn't mean 
they are ALL bad. IMO!
 

 I'm not talking about dumping on FFL I am talking about having zero intention 
to add anything positive or even true to the mix here. He makes up shit 
constantly and not to be funny or playful or creative or interesting. He simply 
likes to paint others in a negative way or in a light to demonstrate them as 
inadequate in order to make himself feel good. That, to me, is perversion.

BTW, yesterday was Big Dome Cleaning. I was gone all afternoon, had dinner with 
friends. When I got back on my computer I had 99 emails. I'm still going 
through them.
 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:43 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there!
 

 Bawwy's nicefamily has nothing to do with who he is as an individual Share. 
He is not responsible for how nice or not nice they are. They are not 
responsible for his life and his outlook. What the hell does this statement 
have to do with anything? It is like saying Bawwy has nice next door neighbors 
and an interesting second grade teacher. It is irrelevant.
 


 

 
 








 


 












[FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread doctordumbass
LOL! So true, eh?
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who, they insist, are involved in all things 
spiritual, ONLY because, it makes them feel special. I have always thought it 
was the mightiest of assumptions to know what someone else is thinking.

Nonetheless, I am curious, not about what drives a person's feelings of 
specialness, but why another person would bring this up as some kind of 
personal sin against *themselves*, for years. On and on - ranting and raving, 
for days, weeks, months and years. Pretty funny when it becomes clear, the one 
denigrating others for feeling special, is doing so, because, they don't like 
the competition. Who cares if someone else feels, special? Seriously, who 
cares? And if someone is feeling inappropriately special, what is the 
alternative being proposed? Oh, right, there isn't one - simply a case of 
jealousy, and ego competition. No alternative is ever proposed, except that the 
perceived special one, STFU.

SO if you see anyone around here, getting down on anyone who might feel 
special, ask yourselves why. The answer is because the one making the 
accusation, is feeling *extra* special, and doesn't like the competition, 
from those who are not seeing this critic's self-righteous view of the world, 
as they bloody well should.

What a spiritually unenlightened viewpoint. Such thinking is the antithesis of 
this forum. Someone who criticizes others, strongly and regularly, for being 
special, or for believing in God, or for not seeing the world as they do, or 
for speaking too much about enlightenment - It appears such a person continues 
on a forum like this, because their differing opinions are strongly outweighed 
by their loneliness. There is no attempt to provide alternatives - just bash, 
bash, bash, as if they are saying, All of the negatives I am pointing out, are 
to turn you attention back to me. 

What lengths some of us will go to, simply for a little attention, and love.
 

 

 

 






[FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread doctordumbass
PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for whom 
this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for those who 
enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.
 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who, they insist, are involved in all things 
spiritual, ONLY because, it makes them feel special. I have always thought it 
was the mightiest of assumptions to know what someone else is thinking.

Nonetheless, I am curious, not about what drives a person's feelings of 
specialness, but why another person would bring this up as some kind of 
personal sin against *themselves*, for years. On and on - ranting and raving, 
for days, weeks, months and years. Pretty funny when it becomes clear, the one 
denigrating others for feeling special, is doing so, because, they don't like 
the competition. Who cares if someone else feels, special? Seriously, who 
cares? And if someone is feeling inappropriately special, what is the 
alternative being proposed? Oh, right, there isn't one - simply a case of 
jealousy, and ego competition. No alternative is ever proposed, except that the 
perceived special one, STFU.

SO if you see anyone around here, getting down on anyone who might feel 
special, ask yourselves why. The answer is because the one making the 
accusation, is feeling *extra* special, and doesn't like the competition, 
from those who are not seeing this critic's self-righteous view of the world, 
as they bloody well should.

What a spiritually unenlightened viewpoint. Such thinking is the antithesis of 
this forum. Someone who criticizes others, strongly and regularly, for being 
special, or for believing in God, or for not seeing the world as they do, or 
for speaking too much about enlightenment - It appears such a person continues 
on a forum like this, because their differing opinions are strongly outweighed 
by their loneliness. There is no attempt to provide alternatives - just bash, 
bash, bash, as if they are saying, All of the negatives I am pointing out, are 
to turn you attention back to me. 

What lengths some of us will go to, simply for a little attention, and love.
 

 

 

 






Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread TurquoiseBee
Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.

If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 




 From: doctordumb...@rocketmail.com doctordumb...@rocketmail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special
 


  
PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for whom 
this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for those who 
enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :



Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who, they insist, are involved in all things 
spiritual, ONLY because, it makes them feel special. I have always thought it 
was the mightiest of assumptions to know what someone else is thinking.

Nonetheless, I am curious, not about what drives a person's feelings of 
specialness, but why another person would bring this up as some kind of 
personal sin against *themselves*, for years. On and on - ranting and raving, 
for days, weeks, months and years. Pretty funny when it becomes clear, the one 
denigrating others for feeling special, is doing so, because, they don't like 
the competition. Who cares if someone else feels, special? Seriously, who 
cares? And if someone is feeling inappropriately special, what is the 
alternative being proposed? Oh, right, there isn't one - simply a case of 
jealousy, and ego competition. No alternative is ever proposed, except that the 
perceived special one, STFU.

SO if you see anyone around here, getting down on anyone who might feel 
special, ask yourselves why. The answer is because the one making the 
accusation, is feeling *extra* special, and doesn't like the competition, 
from those who are not seeing this critic's self-righteous view of the world, 
as they bloody well should.

What a spiritually unenlightened viewpoint. Such thinking is the antithesis of 
this forum. Someone who criticizes others, strongly and regularly, for being 
special, or for believing in God, or for not seeing the world as they do, or 
for speaking too much about enlightenment - It appears such a person continues 
on a forum like this, because their differing opinions are strongly outweighed 
by their loneliness. There is no attempt to provide alternatives - just bash, 
bash, bash, as if they are saying, All of the negatives I am pointing out, are 
to turn you attention back to me. 

What lengths some of us will go to, simply for a little attention, and love.






Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread doctordumbass
LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, knowing 
with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite your past 
[moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. You are 
exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.
 

 If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 

 

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special
 
 
   PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for 
whom this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for 
those who enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.

 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :
 
 Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who, they insist, are involved in all things 
spiritual, ONLY because, it makes them feel special. I have always thought it 
was the mightiest of assumptions to know what someone else is thinking.

Nonetheless, I am curious, not about what drives a person's feelings of 
specialness, but why another person would bring this up as some kind of 
personal sin against *themselves*, for years. On and on - ranting and raving, 
for days, weeks, months and years. Pretty funny when it becomes clear, the one 
denigrating others for feeling special, is doing so, because, they don't like 
the competition. Who cares if someone else feels, special? Seriously, who 
cares? And if someone is feeling inappropriately special, what is the 
alternative being proposed? Oh, right, there isn't one - simply a case of 
jealousy, and ego competition. No alternative is ever proposed, except that the 
perceived special one, STFU.

SO if you see anyone around here, getting down on anyone who might feel 
special, ask yourselves why. The answer is because the one making the 
accusation, is feeling *extra* special, and doesn't like the competition, 
from those who are not seeing this critic's self-righteous view of the world, 
as they bloody well should.

What a spiritually unenlightened viewpoint. Such thinking is the antithesis of 
this forum. Someone who criticizes others, strongly and regularly, for being 
special, or for believing in God, or for not seeing the world as they do, or 
for speaking too much about enlightenment - It appears such a person continues 
on a forum like this, because their differing opinions are strongly outweighed 
by their loneliness. There is no attempt to provide alternatives - just bash, 
bash, bash, as if they are saying, All of the negatives I am pointing out, are 
to turn you attention back to me. 

What lengths some of us will go to, simply for a little attention, and love.
 

 

 

 






 


 













Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread TurquoiseBee
You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing about 
me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)




 From: doctordumb...@rocketmail.com doctordumb...@rocketmail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 


  
LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, knowing 
with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite your past 
[moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. You are 
exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :


Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.

If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 




 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special



 
PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for whom 
this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for those who 
enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :



Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who, they insist, are involved in all things 
spiritual, ONLY because, it makes them feel special. I have always thought it 
was the mightiest of assumptions to know what someone else is thinking.

Nonetheless, I am curious, not about what drives a person's feelings of 
specialness, but why another person would bring this up as some kind of 
personal sin against *themselves*, for years. On and on - ranting and raving, 
for days, weeks, months and years. Pretty funny when it becomes clear, the one 
denigrating others for feeling special, is doing so, because, they don't like 
the competition. Who cares if someone else feels, special? Seriously, who 
cares? And if someone is feeling inappropriately special, what is the 
alternative being proposed? Oh, right, there isn't one - simply a case of 
jealousy, and ego competition. No alternative is ever proposed, except that the 
perceived special one, STFU.

SO if you see anyone around here, getting down on anyone who might feel 
special, ask yourselves why. The answer is because the one making the 
accusation, is feeling *extra* special, and doesn't like the competition, 
from those who are not seeing this critic's self-righteous view of the world, 
as they bloody well should.

What a spiritually unenlightened viewpoint. Such thinking is the antithesis of 
this
forum. Someone who criticizes others, strongly and regularly, for being 
special, or for believing in God, or for not seeing the world as they do, or 
for speaking too much about enlightenment - It appears such a person continues 
on a forum like this, because their differing opinions are strongly outweighed 
by their loneliness. There is no attempt to provide alternatives - just bash, 
bash, bash, as if they are saying, All of the negatives I am pointing out, are 
to turn you attention back to me. 

What lengths some of us will go to, simply for a little attention, and love.








Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread doctordumbass
wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing 
about me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, 
knowing with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite 
your past [moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. 
You are exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.


 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.
 

 If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 

 

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special
 
 
   PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for 
whom this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for 
those who enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.

 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :
 
 Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who, they insist, are involved in all things 
spiritual, ONLY because, it makes them feel special. I have always thought it 
was the mightiest of assumptions to know what someone else is thinking.

Nonetheless, I am curious, not about what drives a person's feelings of 
specialness, but why another person would bring this up as some kind of 
personal sin against *themselves*, for years. On and on - ranting and raving, 
for days, weeks, months and years. Pretty funny when it becomes clear, the one 
denigrating others for feeling special, is doing so, because, they don't like 
the competition. Who cares if someone else feels, special? Seriously, who 
cares? And if someone is feeling inappropriately special, what is the 
alternative being proposed? Oh, right, there isn't one - simply a case of 
jealousy, and ego competition. No alternative is ever proposed, except that the 
perceived special one, STFU.

SO if you see anyone around here, getting down on anyone who might feel 
special, ask yourselves why. The answer is because the one making the 
accusation, is feeling *extra* special, and doesn't like the competition, 
from those who are not seeing this critic's self-righteous view of the world, 
as they bloody well should.

What a spiritually unenlightened viewpoint. Such thinking is the antithesis

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread TurquoiseBee
I don't know about you, Jimbo, but I'm having fun seeing *you* so jealous of me 
that you're still up posting at 4:54 AM your time. And all because I pointed 
out a few days ago that you -- who claim to be enlightened -- couldn't even 
tell that a Deepak Chopra quote posted here was written by a 'bot that just 
strings together buzzwords from his tweets and writings in random order. As I 
pointed out to Mr. Enlightened then, it could well be that the output of this 
parody machine sounds a great deal like his *own* writing.  :-)  


Here are a few more Chopra quotes that Jimbo will probably think are full of 
wisdom: 


Evolution regulates unparalleled mysteries

Awareness is the path to quantum mortality

The ego unfolds into subjective bliss

People are going to see you for who you are, and not simply accept who you 
think you are.


Oh, wait. That last one wasn't from the Chopra parody website at all. It was 
Jimbo, seemingly writing about himself. :-) :-)  :-)





 From: doctordumb...@rocketmail.com doctordumb...@rocketmail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:54 AM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 


  
wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :


You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing about 
me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)




 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special



 
LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, knowing 
with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite your past 
[moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. You are 
exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel
singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, anyway ;-) You just 
need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and sleepwalking 
doesn't count.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :


Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be
special and win. Go figure.

If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 




 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special



 
PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for whom 
this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for those who 
enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :



Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.
 

 If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 

 

 Goodness, wittle Bawwy seems to be taking this personally, Doc. Hey Bawwy, do 
you think you could write a post that is longer than two paragraphs that 
doesn't include the words obsessing, ego, reacting, buttons, bitch, 
cult, win, enemies or special?
 

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special
 
 
   PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for 
whom this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for 
those who enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.

 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :
 
 Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who, they insist, are involved in all things 
spiritual, ONLY because, it makes them feel special. I have always thought it 
was the mightiest of assumptions to know what someone else is thinking.

Nonetheless, I am curious, not about what drives a person's feelings of 
specialness, but why another person would bring this up as some kind of 
personal sin against *themselves*, for years. On and on - ranting and raving, 
for days, weeks, months and years. Pretty funny when it becomes clear, the one 
denigrating others for feeling special, is doing so, because, they don't like 
the competition. Who cares if someone else feels, special? Seriously, who 
cares? And if someone is feeling inappropriately special, what is the 
alternative being proposed? Oh, right, there isn't one - simply a case of 
jealousy, and ego competition. No alternative is ever proposed, except that the 
perceived special one, STFU.

SO if you see anyone around here, getting down on anyone who might feel 
special, ask yourselves why. The answer is because the one making the 
accusation, is feeling *extra* special, and doesn't like the competition, 
from those who are not seeing this critic's self-righteous view of the world, 
as they bloody well should.

What a spiritually unenlightened viewpoint. Such thinking is the antithesis of 
this forum. Someone who criticizes others, strongly and regularly, for being 
special, or for believing in God, or for not seeing the world as they do, or 
for speaking too much about enlightenment - It appears such a person continues 
on a forum like this, because their differing opinions are strongly outweighed 
by their loneliness. There is no attempt to provide alternatives - just bash, 
bash, bash, as if they are saying, All of the negatives I am pointing out, are 
to turn you attention back to me. 

What lengths some of us will go to, simply for a little attention, and love.
 

 

 

 






 


 













Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, knowing 
with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite your past 
[moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. You are 
exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.
 

 15 - love. Bawwy's serve.

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.
 

 If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 

 

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special
 
 
   PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for 
whom this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for 
those who enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.

 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :
 
 Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who, they insist, are involved in all things 
spiritual, ONLY because, it makes them feel special. I have always thought it 
was the mightiest of assumptions to know what someone else is thinking.

Nonetheless, I am curious, not about what drives a person's feelings of 
specialness, but why another person would bring this up as some kind of 
personal sin against *themselves*, for years. On and on - ranting and raving, 
for days, weeks, months and years. Pretty funny when it becomes clear, the one 
denigrating others for feeling special, is doing so, because, they don't like 
the competition. Who cares if someone else feels, special? Seriously, who 
cares? And if someone is feeling inappropriately special, what is the 
alternative being proposed? Oh, right, there isn't one - simply a case of 
jealousy, and ego competition. No alternative is ever proposed, except that the 
perceived special one, STFU.

SO if you see anyone around here, getting down on anyone who might feel 
special, ask yourselves why. The answer is because the one making the 
accusation, is feeling *extra* special, and doesn't like the competition, 
from those who are not seeing this critic's self-righteous view of the world, 
as they bloody well should.

What a spiritually unenlightened viewpoint. Such thinking is the antithesis of 
this forum. Someone who criticizes others, strongly and regularly, for being 
special, or for believing in God, or for not seeing the world as they do, or 
for speaking too much about enlightenment - It appears such a person continues 
on a forum like this, because their differing opinions are strongly outweighed 
by their loneliness. There is no attempt to provide alternatives - just bash, 
bash, bash, as if they are saying, All of the negatives I am pointing out, are 
to turn you attention back to me. 

What lengths some of us will go to, simply for a little attention, and love.
 

 

 

 






 


 















Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc

I liked that sentence I italicized and put in green a lot Doc. Another gold 
star, this time a virtual one. Imagine it in your head and make it as fancy as 
you want.
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing 
about me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, 
knowing with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite 
your past [moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. 
You are exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.


 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.
 

 If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 

 

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special
 
 
   PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for 
whom this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for 
those who enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.

 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :
 
 Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who, they insist, are involved in all things 
spiritual, ONLY because, it makes them feel special. I have always thought it 
was the mightiest of assumptions to know what someone else is thinking.

Nonetheless, I am curious, not about what drives a person's feelings of 
specialness, but why another person would bring this up as some kind of 
personal sin against *themselves*, for years. On and on - ranting and raving, 
for days, weeks, months and years. Pretty funny when it becomes clear, the one 
denigrating others for feeling special, is doing so, because, they don't like 
the competition. Who cares if someone else feels, special? Seriously, who 
cares? And if someone is feeling inappropriately special, what is the 
alternative being proposed? Oh, right, there isn't one - simply a case of 
jealousy, and ego competition. No alternative is ever proposed, except that the 
perceived special one, STFU.

SO if you see anyone around here, getting down on anyone who might feel 
special, ask yourselves why. The answer is because the one making the 
accusation

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 I don't know about you, Jimbo, but I'm having fun seeing *you* so jealous of 
me that you're still up posting at 4:54 AM your time.
 

 Do you really do the math figuring this stuff out? Who bothers to do this? Oh, 
you do. 
 

  And all because I pointed out a few days ago that you -- who claim to be 
enlightened -- couldn't even tell that a Deepak Chopra quote posted here was 
written by a 'bot that just strings together buzzwords from his tweets and 
writings in random order. As I pointed out to Mr. Enlightened then, it could 
well be that the output of this parody machine sounds a great deal like his 
*own* writing.  :-)  

 

 Oh yes, that explains it fer sure. And it doesn't have anything to do with the 
reams of inane, negative cringe-worthy made up shit you post day after day? I 
think it does. You are a cumulative effect, Bawwy.
 

 Here are a few more Chopra quotes that Jimbo will probably think are full of 
wisdom: 

 

 Evolution regulates unparalleled mysteries

Awareness is the path to quantum mortality

The ego unfolds into subjective bliss

People are going to see you for who you are, and not simply accept who you 
think you are.


 Oh, wait. That last one wasn't from the Chopra parody website at all. It was 
Jimbo, seemingly writing about himself. :-) :-)  :-)

 

 

 

 


 

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:54 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc


 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing 
about me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, 
knowing with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite 
your past [moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. 
You are exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.


 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.
 

 If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 

 

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special
 
 
   PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for 
whom this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for 
those who enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread Richard J. Williams
On 3/19/2014 4:07 AM, doctordumb...@rocketmail.com wrote:
 A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being 
 exposed for who they are, yet can't help themselves.
 
There is nothing more special than someone, the only one, that saw the 
Zen Master Rama levitate. NOBODY is ever going to be able to top the 
specialness of this event. NOBODY will probably EVER see this feat again 
because Rama is dead and he left without teaching anyone else how to 
levitate. So, all the rest of you clowns with your puny experiences will 
NEVER be a witness to REAL levitation, like this guy, who actually saw 
with his own eyes a levitation event. This was a very SPECIAL event and 
only this one guy saw witnessed the event. YOU CAN'T TOP THIS.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 3/19/2014 4:18 AM, TurquoiseBee wrote:
Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still 
obsessing over a few posts that never had anything to do with him in 
the first place, and reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's 
railing about -- trying to put down people he feels he's in 
competition with in an attempt to be special and win. Go figure.


Just cut all the bullshit - we already know Rama didn't actually 
levitate - just tell us how you came to BELIEVE Rama levitated for real 
- or keep your pie hole shut about our enlightenment, or lack thereof.  
Is it complicated?


If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to 
avoid it like the plague.


Blame the messenger. Go figure.

The Rama guy I studied with had this particular siddhi down pat. He 
could just lift off and hang ten in mid-air pretty much whenever he 
felt like it. - TurquoiseB


https://groups.yahoo.com/groups/FairfieldLife/63670/ 
https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/FairfieldLife/conversations/topics/63670


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 3/19/2014 5:23 AM, doctordumb...@rocketmail.com wrote:
I was wondering when you'd bite, knowing with a certainty, that you 
were reading these posts of mine, despite your past [moronic] denials, 
and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. You are exceptionally 
predictable, Barry. 


I've always suspected that he read every post obsessively, almost every 
day. It looks like the TB took a bite - that's some real good work, Doc!


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 3/19/2014 8:15 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:
As I pointed out to Mr. Enlightened then, it could well be that the 
output of this parody machine sounds a great deal like his *own* 
writing.  :-)


Oh yes, that explains it fer sure. And it doesn't have anything to do 
with the reams of inane, negative cringe-worthy made up shit you post 
day after day? I think it does. You are a cumulative effect, Bawwy.


There's a rumor out that he actually compiled most of the quotes on the 
Rama site. Go figure.


http://www.ramaquotes.com/tree.html


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread doctordumbass
Suck it up, Big Boy. Like I said, loneliness and the need for a little 
attention don't cut it on here. Love, Doc
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 I don't know about you, Jimbo, but I'm having fun seeing *you* so jealous of 
me that you're still up posting at 4:54 AM your time. And all because I pointed 
out a few days ago that you -- who claim to be enlightened -- couldn't even 
tell that a Deepak Chopra quote posted here was written by a 'bot that just 
strings together buzzwords from his tweets and writings in random order. As I 
pointed out to Mr. Enlightened then, it could well be that the output of this 
parody machine sounds a great deal like his *own* writing.  :-)  

 

 Here are a few more Chopra quotes that Jimbo will probably think are full of 
wisdom: 

 

 Evolution regulates unparalleled mysteries

Awareness is the path to quantum mortality

The ego unfolds into subjective bliss

People are going to see you for who you are, and not simply accept who you 
think you are.


 Oh, wait. That last one wasn't from the Chopra parody website at all. It was 
Jimbo, seemingly writing about himself. :-) :-)  :-)


 

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:54 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc


 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing 
about me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, 
knowing with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite 
your past [moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. 
You are exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.


 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.
 

 If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 

 

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special
 
 
   PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for 
whom this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for 
those who enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.

 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :
 
 Ego competition, of course

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread Share Long
Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there!





On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:57 AM, doctordumb...@rocketmail.com 
doctordumb...@rocketmail.com wrote:
 
  
Yep, grown up kids like that one, have no business on here. He is a loud 
mouthed lout, who thinks that a kiss and hug, are equal to a sock in the mouth. 
I'll bet the old coot is still on here, twenty years from now, having 
accomplished absolutely nothing. Lonely old guy.



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :






---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :


wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc

I liked that sentence I italicized and put in green a lot Doc. Another gold 
star, this time a virtual one. Imagine it in your head and make it as fancy as 
you want.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :


You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing about 
me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)




 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special



 
LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, knowing 
with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite your past 
[moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. You are 
exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel
singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, anyway ;-) You just 
need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and sleepwalking 
doesn't count.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :


Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be
special and win. Go figure.

If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 




 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special



 
PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for whom 
this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for those who 
enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :



Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who, they insist, are involved in all things 
spiritual, ONLY because, it makes them feel special. I have always thought it 
was the mightiest of
assumptions to know what someone else is thinking.

Nonetheless, I am curious, not about what drives a person's feelings of 
specialness, but why another person would bring this up as some kind of 
personal sin against *themselves*, for years. On and on - ranting and raving

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread nablusoss1008

 He is not the only bitter soul on this forum. And with good reason: To have 
rejected the only Yogi you ever met in this life does not drawn a very bright 
picture for your prospects next time around.

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 Yep, grown up kids like that one, have no business on here. He is a loud 
mouthed lout, who thinks that a kiss and hug, are equal to a sock in the mouth. 
I'll bet the old coot is still on here, twenty years from now, having 
accomplished absolutely nothing. Lonely old guy.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc

I liked that sentence I italicized and put in green a lot Doc. Another gold 
star, this time a virtual one. Imagine it in your head and make it as fancy as 
you want.
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing 
about me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)

 
 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, 
knowing with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite 
your past [moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. 
You are exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.


 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.
 

 If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 

 

 
 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special
 
 
   PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for 
whom this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for 
those who enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.

 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :
 
 Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who, they insist, are involved in all things 
spiritual, ONLY because, it makes them feel special. I have always thought it 
was the mightiest of assumptions to know what someone else is thinking.

Nonetheless, I am curious, not about what drives a person's feelings of 
specialness, but why another person would bring this up as some kind of 
personal sin against *themselves*, for years. On and on - ranting and raving, 
for days, weeks, months and years

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread doctordumbass
He's got roommates, kiddo - not a family. Do you know the difference? For 
example, he won't be saving money, to send that two year old to college, or 
attending her parent teacher conferences in grade school. He doesn't have sex 
with anyone in that household, and beyond paying his share of the rent, has no 
long term commitments to these roommates of his, should he vacate the premises. 
He may be close to his roomies, but to call them a family is delusional, and 
untrue.

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there!
 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:57 AM, doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@... 
wrote:
 
   Yep, grown up kids like that one, have no business on here. He is a loud 
mouthed lout, who thinks that a kiss and hug, are equal to a sock in the mouth. 
I'll bet the old coot is still on here, twenty years from now, having 
accomplished absolutely nothing. Lonely old guy.

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc

I liked that sentence I italicized and put in green a lot Doc. Another gold 
star, this time a virtual one. Imagine it in your head and make it as fancy as 
you want.
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing 
about me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, 
knowing with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite 
your past [moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. 
You are exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.


 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.
 

 If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 

 

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special
 
 
   PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for 
whom this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for 
those who enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.

 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :
 
 Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread doctordumbass
Yes, I agree. There is a huge hurt, or emptiness there, that he either cannot 
face, or has decided is someone else's fault. I have never come across someone 
with such a lack of skills and abilities, except tapping a keyboard, who sits 
around all day, pointing the finger at others. Absolutely clueless, that one.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote :

 Panders Share, still hoping against hope that she can persuade Barry to like 
her. 

 Whether his family there in Leiden is really nice or not, Barry is missing 
something big in his life and spends enormous amounts of time and energy taking 
that lack out on everybody else.
 

 Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there! 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:57 AM, doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@... 
wrote:
 
   Yep, grown up kids like that one, have no business on here. He is a loud 
mouthed lout, who thinks that a kiss and hug, are equal to a sock in the mouth. 
I'll bet the old coot is still on here, twenty years from now, having 
accomplished absolutely nothing. Lonely old guy.

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc

I liked that sentence I italicized and put in green a lot Doc. Another gold 
star, this time a virtual one. Imagine it in your head and make it as fancy as 
you want.
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing 
about me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, 
knowing with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite 
your past [moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. 
You are exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.


 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.
 

 If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 

 

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special
 
 
   PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for 
whom this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for 
those who enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.

 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread doctordumbass
Yep, grown up kids like that one, have no business on here. He is a loud 
mouthed lout, who thinks that a kiss and hug, are equal to a sock in the mouth. 
I'll bet the old coot is still on here, twenty years from now, having 
accomplished absolutely nothing. Lonely old guy.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc

I liked that sentence I italicized and put in green a lot Doc. Another gold 
star, this time a virtual one. Imagine it in your head and make it as fancy as 
you want.
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing 
about me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, 
knowing with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite 
your past [moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. 
You are exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.


 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.
 

 If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 

 

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special
 
 
   PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for 
whom this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for 
those who enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.

 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :
 
 Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who, they insist, are involved in all things 
spiritual, ONLY because, it makes them feel special. I have always thought it 
was the mightiest of assumptions to know what someone else is thinking.

Nonetheless, I am curious, not about what drives a person's feelings of 
specialness, but why another person would bring this up as some kind of 
personal sin against *themselves*, for years. On and on - ranting and raving, 
for days, weeks, months and years. Pretty funny when it becomes clear, the one 
denigrating others for feeling special, is doing so, because, they don't like 
the competition. Who cares if someone else feels, special? Seriously, who 
cares? And if someone is feeling inappropriately special, what

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread doctordumbass
I don't know about that, but I sure get tired of losers, with only their ego to 
prop themselves up, going on and on about shit they know nothing about. So 
sometimes I really enjoy turning the mirror on them.:-)
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 
 He is not the only bitter soul on this forum. And with good reason: To have 
rejected the only Yogi you ever met in this life does not drawn a very bright 
picture for your prospects next time around.

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 Yep, grown up kids like that one, have no business on here. He is a loud 
mouthed lout, who thinks that a kiss and hug, are equal to a sock in the mouth. 
I'll bet the old coot is still on here, twenty years from now, having 
accomplished absolutely nothing. Lonely old guy.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc

I liked that sentence I italicized and put in green a lot Doc. Another gold 
star, this time a virtual one. Imagine it in your head and make it as fancy as 
you want.
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing 
about me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)

 
 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, 
knowing with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite 
your past [moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. 
You are exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.


 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.
 

 If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 

 

 
 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special
 
 
   PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for 
whom this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for 
those who enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.

 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :
 
 Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who, they insist, are involved in all things 
spiritual, ONLY because, it makes them feel special. I have always thought it 
was the mightiest of assumptions to know

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread authfriend
Panders Share, still hoping against hope that she can persuade Barry to like 
her. 

 Whether his family there in Leiden is really nice or not, Barry is missing 
something big in his life and spends enormous amounts of time and energy taking 
that lack out on everybody else.
 

 Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there! 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:57 AM, doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@... 
wrote:
 
   Yep, grown up kids like that one, have no business on here. He is a loud 
mouthed lout, who thinks that a kiss and hug, are equal to a sock in the mouth. 
I'll bet the old coot is still on here, twenty years from now, having 
accomplished absolutely nothing. Lonely old guy.

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc

I liked that sentence I italicized and put in green a lot Doc. Another gold 
star, this time a virtual one. Imagine it in your head and make it as fancy as 
you want.
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing 
about me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, 
knowing with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite 
your past [moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. 
You are exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.


 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.
 

 If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 

 

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special
 
 
   PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for 
whom this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for 
those who enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks - 
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed for 
who they are, yet can't help themselves.

 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :
 
 Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who, they insist, are involved in all things 
spiritual, ONLY because, it makes them feel special. I have always thought it 
was the mightiest of assumptions to know what someone else is thinking.

Nonetheless, I am

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread Share Long
Judy, I'm not pandering. And I admit I don't like it when lots of people gang 
up on one person. 

As for turq liking me, I think it's great when people like other people. But my 
happiness is not dependent upon it.

Also, I've seen a picture of turq's family and they look nice to me. Also we've 
seen pictures of Maya and heard stories about their time together.







On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 12:23 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Panders Share, still hoping against hope that she can persuade Barry to like 
her.

Whether his family there in Leiden is really nice or not, Barry is missing 
something big in his life and spends enormous amounts of time and energy taking 
that lack out on everybody else.


Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there!





On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:57 AM, doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@... 
wrote:

 
Yep, grown up kids like that one, have no business on here. He is a loud 
mouthed lout, who thinks that a kiss and hug, are equal to a sock in the mouth. 
I'll bet the old coot is still on here, twenty years from now, having 
accomplished absolutely nothing. Lonely old guy.



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :






---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :


wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc

I liked that sentence I italicized and put in green a lot Doc. Another gold 
star, this time a virtual one. Imagine it in your head and make it as fancy as 
you want.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :


You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing about 
me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)




 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 19,
2014 11:23 AM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special



 
LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, knowing 
with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite your past 
[moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. You are 
exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us
a break. Get it? :-) Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, 
as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel
singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, anyway ;-) You just 
need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and sleepwalking 
doesn't count.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :


Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in
the first place, and reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing 
about -- trying to put down people he feels he's in competition with in an 
attempt to be
special and win. Go figure.

If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 




 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who 
might feel special



 
PS Yay - nothing like a spotlight to hush those *extra special* ones, for whom 
this post applies. Light always provides a shiver down the spine, for those who 
enjoy hiding in their own darkness.:-) 
I find after I post something like this, the childish ones who engage in the 
behavior I am pointing out, cool their jets, for awhile, until they sense Dad 
is no longer watching - lol. Then they are back to their infantile tricks -
can't help themselves; knowledge is structured in consciousness. 
A pretty funny game to play, with those who are fearful of being exposed

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread authfriend
I think you are pandering, actually. 

 It's tough that ganging up on somebody makes you uncomfortable, but if 
anyone deserves to be ganged up on, it's Barry. He's reaping what he's sown; 
his chickens are coming home to roost. It's not up to you to rescue him from 
what he's brought on himself.
 

 I didn't say your happiness was dependent on Barry liking you. If you can't 
get him to like you, you'll just go pander to somebody else. That's what you do 
here.
 

 As the good doctor just pointed out, the folks Barry lives with in Leiden are 
not his family, no matter how nice they may look to you. The point is, 
something is missing from his life that drives him to be sadistically and 
gratuitously mean to other people. You are not going to fill that lack no 
matter what you do.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy, I'm not pandering. And I admit I don't like it when lots of people gang 
up on one person. 

As for turq liking me, I think it's great when people like other people. But my 
happiness is not dependent upon it.

Also, I've seen a picture of turq's family and they look nice to me. Also we've 
seen pictures of Maya and heard stories about their time together.


 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 12:23 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Panders Share, still hoping against hope that she can persuade Barry to like 
her.
 

 Whether his family there in Leiden is really nice or not, Barry is missing 
something big in his life and spends enormous amounts of time and energy taking 
that lack out on everybody else.
 

 Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there! 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:57 AM, doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@... 
wrote:
 
   Yep, grown up kids like that one, have no business on here. He is a loud 
mouthed lout, who thinks that a kiss and hug, are equal to a sock in the mouth. 
I'll bet the old coot is still on here, twenty years from now, having 
accomplished absolutely nothing. Lonely old guy.

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc

I liked that sentence I italicized and put in green a lot Doc. Another gold 
star, this time a virtual one. Imagine it in your head and make it as fancy as 
you want.
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing 
about me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, 
knowing with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite 
your past [moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. 
You are exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.


 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.
 

 If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread doctordumbass
The point is, something is missing from his life that drives him to be 
sadistically and gratuitously mean to other people.

Definitely. Any ideas what that might be?? Given his predisposition to call 
women, cunts, I am betting it has something to do with a past rejection, by a 
woman. Barry, can you give us a hint??

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote :

 I think you are pandering, actually. 

 It's tough that ganging up on somebody makes you uncomfortable, but if 
anyone deserves to be ganged up on, it's Barry. He's reaping what he's sown; 
his chickens are coming home to roost. It's not up to you to rescue him from 
what he's brought on himself.
 

 I didn't say your happiness was dependent on Barry liking you. If you can't 
get him to like you, you'll just go pander to somebody else. That's what you do 
here.
 

 As the good doctor just pointed out, the folks Barry lives with in Leiden are 
not his family, no matter how nice they may look to you. The point is, 
something is missing from his life that drives him to be sadistically and 
gratuitously mean to other people. You are not going to fill that lack no 
matter what you do.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy, I'm not pandering. And I admit I don't like it when lots of people gang 
up on one person. 

As for turq liking me, I think it's great when people like other people. But my 
happiness is not dependent upon it.

Also, I've seen a picture of turq's family and they look nice to me. Also we've 
seen pictures of Maya and heard stories about their time together.


 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 12:23 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Panders Share, still hoping against hope that she can persuade Barry to like 
her.
 

 Whether his family there in Leiden is really nice or not, Barry is missing 
something big in his life and spends enormous amounts of time and energy taking 
that lack out on everybody else.
 

 Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there! 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:57 AM, doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@... 
wrote:
 
   Yep, grown up kids like that one, have no business on here. He is a loud 
mouthed lout, who thinks that a kiss and hug, are equal to a sock in the mouth. 
I'll bet the old coot is still on here, twenty years from now, having 
accomplished absolutely nothing. Lonely old guy.

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc

I liked that sentence I italicized and put in green a lot Doc. Another gold 
star, this time a virtual one. Imagine it in your head and make it as fancy as 
you want.
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing 
about me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, 
knowing with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite 
your past [moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. 
You are exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.


 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread Share Long
I don't think I pander here, Judy. And obviously I'd much rather do what I do 
on FFL than what you do. Nor am I attempting to rescue turq. I'm expressing 
another opinion about him and his family.

Also, I think you are gratuitously mean to some people here. So what is lacking 
in your life?





On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 12:53 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
I think you are pandering, actually.

It's tough that ganging up on somebody makes you uncomfortable, but if anyone 
deserves to be ganged up on, it's Barry. He's reaping what he's sown; his 
chickens are coming home to roost. It's not up to you to rescue him from what 
he's brought on himself.

I didn't say your happiness was dependent on Barry liking you. If you can't get 
him to like you, you'll just go pander to somebody else. That's what you do 
here.

As the good doctor just pointed out, the folks Barry lives with in Leiden are 
not his family, no matter how nice they may look to you. The point is, 
something is missing from his life that drives him to be sadistically and 
gratuitously mean to other people. You are not going to fill that lack no 
matter what you do.



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


Judy, I'm not pandering. And I admit I don't like it when lots of people gang 
up on one person. 

As for turq liking me, I think it's great when people like other people. But my 
happiness is not dependent upon it.

Also, I've seen a picture of turq's family and they look nice to me. Also we've 
seen pictures of Maya and heard stories about their time together.







On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 12:23 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:

 
Panders Share, still hoping against hope that she can persuade Barry to like 
her.

Whether his family there in Leiden is really nice or not, Barry is missing 
something big in his life and spends enormous amounts of time and energy taking 
that lack out on everybody else.


Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there!





On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:57 AM, doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@... 
wrote:

 
Yep, grown up kids like that one, have no business on here. He is a loud 
mouthed lout, who thinks that a kiss and hug, are equal to a sock in the mouth. 
I'll bet the old coot is still on here, twenty years from now, having 
accomplished absolutely nothing. Lonely old guy.



---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote
:






---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :


wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds,
against the same targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your 
embarrassment at being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are 
so unaware of your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc

I liked that sentence I italicized and put in green a lot Doc. Another gold 
star, this time a
virtual one. Imagine it in your head and make it as fancy as you want.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :


You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing about 
me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)




 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 19,
2014 11:23 AM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special



 
LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, knowing 
with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite your past 
[moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. You are 
exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get
you to nudge the stylus over, on that skipping record, in your head. And, to 
give the rest of us
a break. Get it? :-) Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, 
as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel
singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, anyway ;-) You just 
need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and sleepwalking 
doesn't count.


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :


Meanwhile, the person who claims

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread doctordumbass
NOBODY is ganging up on anybody, Share. You seem to be made very uncomfortable 
when someone is called out for their scummy behavior, unless it is directed AT 
YOU. I don't know why that is, but I would suggest discussing this with your 
therapist. You probably need to work on your sense of self-esteem, and not be 
so quick to defend those, who do not have your best interests at heart. Also, I 
assume we are all adults here, and anything said, is fair game. Perhaps you 
need to pull on your Big Girl Panties, and rub the sleep from your eyes. This 
ain't practice, this is real life. Please, get used to it.
 
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy, I'm not pandering. And I admit I don't like it when lots of people gang 
up on one person. 

As for turq liking me, I think it's great when people like other people. But my 
happiness is not dependent upon it.

Also, I've seen a picture of turq's family and they look nice to me. Also we've 
seen pictures of Maya and heard stories about their time together.


 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 12:23 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Panders Share, still hoping against hope that she can persuade Barry to like 
her.
 

 Whether his family there in Leiden is really nice or not, Barry is missing 
something big in his life and spends enormous amounts of time and energy taking 
that lack out on everybody else.
 

 Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there! 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:57 AM, doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@... 
wrote:
 
   Yep, grown up kids like that one, have no business on here. He is a loud 
mouthed lout, who thinks that a kiss and hug, are equal to a sock in the mouth. 
I'll bet the old coot is still on here, twenty years from now, having 
accomplished absolutely nothing. Lonely old guy.

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc

I liked that sentence I italicized and put in green a lot Doc. Another gold 
star, this time a virtual one. Imagine it in your head and make it as fancy as 
you want.
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing 
about me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, 
knowing with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite 
your past [moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. 
You are exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't feel singled out by me -- after all, you ain't *that* special, 
anyway ;-) You just need more work, than most, to wake up from your stupor, and 
sleepwalking doesn't count.


 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Meanwhile, the person who claims to be enlightened is still obsessing over a 
few posts that never had anything to do with him in the first place, and 
reacting to them by doing *exactly* what he's railing about -- trying to put 
down people he feels he's in competition with in an attempt to be special and 
win. Go figure.
 

 If you're enlightened, you sure make a strong case for everyone to avoid it 
like the plague. 

 

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 10:07 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread Richard J. Williams
On 3/19/2014 12:15 PM, nablusoss1008 wrote:
 He is not the only bitter soul on this forum. And with good reason: To 
 have rejected the only Yogi you ever met in this life does not drawn a 
 very bright picture for your prospects next time around.
 
And, to have wasted almost half of his entire adult life seeking for 
answers and finding none; reduced for facile purposes to posting to a 
discussion group on the internet about the best spiritual path he didn't 
even follow. No wonder he doesn't want to talk about levitation - it was 
all just a fantasy, dreamed up by a cult follower under the influence of 
a known charlatan after being submitted to hundreds of trance induction 
sessions to the point where he may actually believe that he witnessed 
REAL levitation by the cult leader. Go figure.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 3/19/2014 12:19 PM, doctordumb...@rocketmail.com wrote:
He's got roommates, kiddo - not a family. Do you know the difference? 
For example, he won't be saving money, to send that two year old to 
college, or attending her parent teacher conferences in grade school. 
He doesn't have sex with anyone in that household, and beyond paying 
his share of the rent, has no long term commitments to these roommates 
of his, should he vacate the premises. He may be close to his roomies, 
but to call them a family is delusional, and untrue.


Let's hope that the TB has been paying in to his U.S. Social Security 
for the past ten years - by the time he gets back to the States, he 
won't be marketable anymore and he may need some government assistance. 
In the long run, it pays to have a real family and own some property 
somewhere you can call your own home. It's very difficult to be a hippie 
in old age almost anywhere these days. Go figure.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread Richard J. Williams
On 3/19/2014 12:30 PM, doctordumb...@rocketmail.com wrote:
 Yes, I agree. There is a huge hurt, or emptiness there, that he either 
 cannot face, or has decided is someone else's fault. I have never come 
 across someone with such a lack of skills and abilities, except 
 tapping a keyboard, who sits around all day, pointing the finger at 
 others.
 
There is nothing wrong with sitting around all day tapping a keyboard 
with your roommates and a few dogs, but it is kind of strange to be 
pointing the finger all the time at everyone else who posts here. Where 
is Dr.Pete when we need him? The TB may be real busy writing science 
articles for his brother, but his middle finger is obviously quite free.

 Absolutely clueless, that one.
 
The TB's whole persona seems lately to have been taken over by a bot. Go 
figure.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread Richard J. Williams

On 3/19/2014 12:23 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:


Whether his family there in Leiden is really nice or not, Barry is 
missing something big in his life and spends enormous amounts of time 
and energy taking that lack out on everybody else.


Apparently you've been his only real serious guide now for over twenty 
years, taking up enormous amounts of his time and energy giving the TB 
something to do - he should be thanking you for taking the time out of a 
busy day to post a reply to his petty insults. That's what I think.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread authfriend
I think you do pander here, Share, and I think you are attempting to rescue 
Barry. 

 Find a gratuitously mean post of mine, please, and let's have a look to see 
whether it's really gratuitous, or well deserved.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 I don't think I pander here, Judy. And obviously I'd much rather do what I do 
on FFL than what you do. Nor am I attempting to rescue turq. I'm expressing 
another opinion about him and his family.

Also, I think you are gratuitously mean to some people here. So what is lacking 
in your life?
 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 12:53 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   I think you are pandering, actually.
 

 It's tough that ganging up on somebody makes you uncomfortable, but if 
anyone deserves to be ganged up on, it's Barry. He's reaping what he's sown; 
his chickens are coming home to roost. It's not up to you to rescue him from 
what he's brought on himself.
 

 I didn't say your happiness was dependent on Barry liking you. If you can't 
get him to like you, you'll just go pander to somebody else. That's what you do 
here.
 

 As the good doctor just pointed out, the folks Barry lives with in Leiden are 
not his family, no matter how nice they may look to you. The point is, 
something is missing from his life that drives him to be sadistically and 
gratuitously mean to other people. You are not going to fill that lack no 
matter what you do.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy, I'm not pandering. And I admit I don't like it when lots of people gang 
up on one person. 

As for turq liking me, I think it's great when people like other people. But my 
happiness is not dependent upon it.

Also, I've seen a picture of turq's family and they look nice to me. Also we've 
seen pictures of Maya and heard stories about their time together.


 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 12:23 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Panders Share, still hoping against hope that she can persuade Barry to like 
her.
 

 Whether his family there in Leiden is really nice or not, Barry is missing 
something big in his life and spends enormous amounts of time and energy taking 
that lack out on everybody else.
 

 Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there! 

 
 
 On Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:57 AM, doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@... 
wrote:
 
   Yep, grown up kids like that one, have no business on here. He is a loud 
mouthed lout, who thinks that a kiss and hug, are equal to a sock in the mouth. 
I'll bet the old coot is still on here, twenty years from now, having 
accomplished absolutely nothing. Lonely old guy.

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote :

 
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 wow - 3:23 AM your time, obsessing about me, Mr. Enlightened.
Sure, climb into your cocoon of convention - but, please, do it more quietly. 
We no longer need to hear this POV of yours. Fewer posts, for awhile, if you 
would - or back to TV reviews. 
You numb us with your repetition, and the same angry screeds, against the same 
targets. I watch you smugly dismiss my words, to disguise your embarrassment at 
being called out, and yet, I am almost surprised, that you are so unaware of 
your transparency.
You really have to put on your big boy pants, Barry, to participate on a forum 
that encourages seeing beyond illusions. Being lonely, and just wanting 
attention, doesn't cut it, here. People like me, are going to see you for who 
you are, and not simply accept who you *think* you are.
Love, 
Doc

I liked that sentence I italicized and put in green a lot Doc. Another gold 
star, this time a virtual one. Imagine it in your head and make it as fancy as 
you want.
 
 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 You realize, don't you Mr. Enlightened, that you are still up obsessing 
about me at 3:23 AM your time, right?   :-)  :-)  :-)

 From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2014 11:23 AM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others 
who might feel special
 
 
   LOL - Birds of a feather, eh? Ha ha, I was wondering when you'd bite, 
knowing with a certainty, that you were reading these posts of mine, despite 
your past [moronic] denials, and recognizing them as applying mostly to you. 
You are exceptionally predictable, Barry. 

Seriously, I post elements of your psyche, on FFL, occasionally, to simply 
force some self-awareness on you, and get you to nudge the stylus over, on that 
skipping record, in your head. And, to give the rest of us a break. Get it? :-) 
Nothing personal - I'd do the same favor, for anyone else, as clueless.

Enlightened people are out to enlighten the world, without playing favorites. 
So, please don't

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 Yep, grown up kids like that one, have no business on here. He is a loud 
mouthed lout, who thinks that a kiss and hug, are equal to a sock in the mouth. 
I'll bet the old coot is still on here, twenty years from now, having 
accomplished absolutely nothing. Lonely old guy.
 

 Maybe we should all stop enabling him. Now I feel guilty. Please bless me 
Father for I have sinned...
 

 






 


 












 


 

















Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Doc, I think turq has a really nice family there in Leiden, so I don't think 
he's all that lonely. As for being old, we're all getting there!
 

 Bawwy's nicefamily has nothing to do with who he is as an individual Share. 
He is not responsible for how nice or not nice they are. They are not 
responsible for his life and his outlook. What the hell does this statement 
have to do with anything? It is like saying Bawwy has nice next door neighbors 
and an interesting second grade teacher. It is irrelevant.
 


 

 
 









Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Judy, I'm not pandering. And I admit I don't like it when lots of people gang 
up on one person. 
 

 There are no gangs here Share. There are individuals who feel what they feel 
and write what they write. There are no groups who decide together to pick on 
anyone. Most here are over the age of 50 and can presumably make their own 
decisions, have their own opinions on and about something or someone. You are 
missing the boat when you decide, on principal, that you need to step in when 
more than one person has the same opinion about someone. Bawwy doesn't want you 
to defend him and he is more than likely rolling his bloodshot eyes at you when 
you do - not because he doesn't want people to like him but because you are 
about the last one here he would choose to be on his team. Sorry, but it's true.
 
As for turq liking me, I think it's great when people like other people. But my 
happiness is not dependent upon it.

Also, I've seen a picture of turq's family and they look nice to me. Also we've 
seen pictures of Maya and heard stories about their time together.
 

 What, exactly, does nice mean? How is nice relevant to anything?


 

 
 
 









Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-19 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote :

 I think you do pander here, Share, and I think you are attempting to rescue 
Barry.
 

 Only something that passes for 'God' could rescue Bawwy and he doesn't 
believe in any higher power than himself so I guess that's out.
 

 Find a gratuitously mean post of mine, please, and let's have a look to see 
whether it's really gratuitous, or well deserved.
 

 













[FairfieldLife] Re: Why some people are REALLY bothered by others who might feel special

2014-03-18 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 Ego competition, of course. There are a couple of people on here, always 
ranting and raving against others, who, they insist, are involved in all things 
spiritual, ONLY because, it makes them feel special. I have always thought it 
was the mightiest of assumptions to know what someone else is thinking.

Nonetheless, I am curious, not about what drives a person's feelings of 
specialness, but why another person would bring this up as some kind of 
personal sin against *themselves*, for years. On and on - ranting and raving, 
for days, weeks, months and years. Pretty funny when it becomes clear, the one 
denigrating others for feeling special, is doing so, because, they don't like 
the competition. Who cares if someone else feels, special? Seriously, who 
cares? And if someone is feeling inappropriately special, what is the 
alternative being proposed? Oh, right, there isn't one - simply a case of 
jealousy, and ego competition. No alternative is ever proposed, except that the 
perceived special one, STFU.

SO if you see anyone around here, getting down on anyone who might feel 
special, ask yourselves why. The answer is because the one making the 
accusation, is feeling *extra* special, and doesn't like the competition, 
from those who are not seeing this critic's self-righteous view of the world, 
as they bloody well should.

What a spiritually unenlightened viewpoint. Such thinking is the antithesis of 
this forum. Someone who criticizes others, strongly and regularly, for being 
special, or for believing in God, or for not seeing the world as they do, or 
for speaking too much about enlightenment - It appears such a person continues 
on a forum like this, because their differing opinions are strongly outweighed 
by their loneliness. There is no attempt to provide alternatives - just bash, 
bash, bash, as if they are saying, All of the negatives I am pointing out, are 
to turn you attention back to me. 

What lengths some of us will go to, simply for a little attention, and love.