Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-09 Thread Lowell Gilbert

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Re: Mailing list etiquette

2011-04-09 Thread Boris Samorodov
On Fri, 8 Apr 2011 23:38:26 +0100 Bruce Cran wrote:

> On Fri, 8 Apr 2011 23:15:11 +0200
> Erik Trulsson  wrote:

> > You seem to miss one crucial fact:  Not all the people who write to
> > this list are subscribed to it.  They will not see any replies
> > directed only to the list.  It is for their benefit that that rule
> > exists.

> I don't know about anyone else, but personally I like getting replies
> CC'd to me because they end up in my INBOX - otherwise I often don't
> notice someone's replied since there are so many new messages to the
> mailing list each day.

+1

Since I'm subscribed to almost a hundred maillist I should admit that
this rule is *very* helpfull to speed up conversation.

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Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-09 Thread Daniel Staal

--As of April 8, 2011 3:50:52 PM -0600, Chad Perrin is alleged to have said:


You seem to fail to realize that it's possible to CC someone who isn't on
the list, but not CC someone who *is* on the list.  That would be why
people who aren't members of the list say thinks like "please CC me",
while people who are members occasionally say "please don't send
duplicates to me".


--As for the rest, it is mine.

Of course that's hard to keep track of, and a manual process on the part of 
the persons sending the messages.  ;)  (And if it's not mentioned in the 
specific email you are replying to, you either have to rely on memory or 
guess.)


I've seen a variety of other solutions to this.  Some mailing lists 
programs will even check to see if the message has been sent to you 
directly, and if so avoid sending another copy to you.  Usually that's an 
option, and I tend to turn it off: It just means my filters don't work on 
the message I get.


If you have an email client that supports it, there is one good way to 
reliably indicate your preference: The 'Reply-To:' header.  I set mine to 
the mailing list when sending to the list.  Nearly all mail clients will 
then automatically send replies to that address.


Of course, that only works if I have a mail client that lets me set that 
header independently.  My at-home client does, but I also access my email 
over webmail.  The webmail program technically can do it, but it's 
interface is *very* poor.  (Squirrelmail: It allows it via profiles, but 
all profiles are named by the sender address, unchangeable.  For this 
use-case, the sending address is the same for all profiles.)  And while 
*most* email clients support replies to the Reply-To address, not all do. 
Nor does it help if people are habitually hitting reply-all.


Still, I find setting the Reply-To address works better than most of the 
other options.  It doesn't work 100% of the time, but then neither does 
anything else.  (Including address rewriting by the mailing list.)  So, if 
getting two copies is annoying you, try it.  You'll at least have made your 
preference known, without imposing it on others as their preference.


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Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-08 Thread Erich Dollansky
Hi,

On Saturday 09 April 2011 05:46:43 Carmel wrote:
> On Fri, 8 Apr 2011 15:50:52 -0600
> Chad Perrin  articulated:
> 
> The solution to this problem is so obvious that I am amazed that no one

this is a solution which creates just new problems.

> has proposed it. Simply require the poster to be subscribed to the
> list. Other high quality lists, such as but not limited to Postfix have
> that requirement in place. If a potential poster is either too stupid
> or too lazy to subscribe then that is their problem. For the record, I
> have subscribed to lists before simple to post one question. Upon
> receiving an answer, I terminated my subscription. I did not feel the
> least bit inconvenienced.

You did not, but the rest of us would have.

Erich
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Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-08 Thread Alexander Lardner
Can we just drop this matter? It's bad enough that iPhone mail makes this whole 
ordeal a pain in the butt to read, but in the grand scheme of things, it _just 
doesn't matter_. I'm subscribed to the list, I expect lots of email from the 
list that I probably won't read anyway, but at least it's helpful to someone, 
somehow. My 2 cents.

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Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-08 Thread Carmel
On Fri, 8 Apr 2011 15:50:52 -0600
Chad Perrin  articulated:

> On Fri, Apr 08, 2011 at 11:15:11PM +0200, Erik Trulsson wrote:
> > On Fri, Apr 08, 2011 at 01:11:52PM -0600, Chad Perrin wrote:
> > > On Fri, Apr 08, 2011 at 06:42:16PM +0100, Arthur Chance wrote:
> > > > 
> > > > section 8.6 starts:
> > > > 
> > > >  start quote 
> > > > Unless there is a good reason to do otherwise, reply to the
> > > > sender and to FreeBSD-questions.
> > > >  end quote 
> > > 
> > > I, for one, am glad this does not happen more often.  I really do
> > > *not* need a bunch of duplicates cluttering up my inbox.  I have
> > > yet to see anyone complain of not receiving a CC in addition to
> > > the mail from the list.
> > > 
> > > I consider "not cluttering up the inboxes of people subscribed to
> > > the list" a "good reason to do otherwise".
> > 
> > You seem to miss one crucial fact:  Not all the people who write to
> > this list are subscribed to it.  They will not see any replies
> > directed only to the list.  It is for their benefit that that rule
> > exists.
> 
> You seem to fail to realize that it's possible to CC someone who
> isn't on the list, but not CC someone who *is* on the list.  That
> would be why people who aren't members of the list say thinks like
> "please CC me", while people who are members occasionally say "please
> don't send duplicates to me".

The solution to this problem is so obvious that I am amazed that no one
has proposed it. Simply require the poster to be subscribed to the
list. Other high quality lists, such as but not limited to Postfix have
that requirement in place. If a potential poster is either too stupid
or too lazy to subscribe then that is their problem. For the record, I
have subscribed to lists before simple to post one question. Upon
receiving an answer, I terminated my subscription. I did not feel the
least bit inconvenienced.

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Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-08 Thread Bruce Cran
On Fri, 8 Apr 2011 23:15:11 +0200
Erik Trulsson  wrote:

> You seem to miss one crucial fact:  Not all the people who write to
> this list are subscribed to it.  They will not see any replies
> directed only to the list.  It is for their benefit that that rule
> exists.

I don't know about anyone else, but personally I like getting replies
CC'd to me because they end up in my INBOX - otherwise I often don't
notice someone's replied since there are so many new messages to the
mailing list each day.

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Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-08 Thread Chad Perrin
On Fri, Apr 08, 2011 at 11:15:11PM +0200, Erik Trulsson wrote:
> On Fri, Apr 08, 2011 at 01:11:52PM -0600, Chad Perrin wrote:
> > On Fri, Apr 08, 2011 at 06:42:16PM +0100, Arthur Chance wrote:
> > > 
> > > section 8.6 starts:
> > > 
> > >  start quote 
> > > Unless there is a good reason to do otherwise, reply to the sender and
> > > to FreeBSD-questions.
> > >  end quote 
> > 
> > I, for one, am glad this does not happen more often.  I really do *not*
> > need a bunch of duplicates cluttering up my inbox.  I have yet to see
> > anyone complain of not receiving a CC in addition to the mail from the
> > list.
> > 
> > I consider "not cluttering up the inboxes of people subscribed to the
> > list" a "good reason to do otherwise".
> 
> You seem to miss one crucial fact:  Not all the people who write to
> this list are subscribed to it.  They will not see any replies directed
> only to the list.  It is for their benefit that that rule exists.

You seem to fail to realize that it's possible to CC someone who isn't on
the list, but not CC someone who *is* on the list.  That would be why
people who aren't members of the list say thinks like "please CC me",
while people who are members occasionally say "please don't send
duplicates to me".

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Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-08 Thread Erik Trulsson
On Fri, Apr 08, 2011 at 01:11:52PM -0600, Chad Perrin wrote:
> On Fri, Apr 08, 2011 at 06:42:16PM +0100, Arthur Chance wrote:
> > 
> > section 8.6 starts:
> > 
> >  start quote 
> > Unless there is a good reason to do otherwise, reply to the sender and
> > to FreeBSD-questions.
> >  end quote 
> 
> I, for one, am glad this does not happen more often.  I really do *not*
> need a bunch of duplicates cluttering up my inbox.  I have yet to see
> anyone complain of not receiving a CC in addition to the mail from the
> list.
> 
> I consider "not cluttering up the inboxes of people subscribed to the
> list" a "good reason to do otherwise".

You seem to miss one crucial fact:  Not all the people who write to
this list are subscribed to it.  They will not see any replies directed
only to the list.  It is for their benefit that that rule exists.





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Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-08 Thread ill...@gmail.com
On 8 April 2011 16:10, Carmel  wrote:
> By the way, did you notice I directed a polite, one sentence directive
> towards Odhiambo. Suddenly, every buttinsky crawls out of the woodwork,
> sans any factual input on my original post and hijacks this thread

Maybe you would be better served by not using a _public_
mailing list if you don't want other people to reply to your
_public_ postings.

Just a hint.

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Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-08 Thread Chris Rees
On 8 April 2011 20:28, Chad Perrin  wrote:
> On Fri, Apr 08, 2011 at 08:30:25PM +0100, Chris Rees wrote:
>> On 8 Apr 2011 20:25, "Chad Perrin"  wrote:
>> >
>> > I, for one, am glad this does not happen more often.  I really do
>> > *not* need a bunch of duplicates cluttering up my inbox.  I have yet
>> > to see anyone complain of not receiving a CC in addition to the mail
>> > from the list.
>>
>> While you make a valid point, how would one complain about not
>> receiving an email?
>
> Did you overlook the words "in addition to the mail from the list"?
>

My bad...

Chris
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Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-08 Thread Carmel
On Fri, 8 Apr 2011 13:11:52 -0600
Chad Perrin  articulated:

> On Fri, Apr 08, 2011 at 06:42:16PM +0100, Arthur Chance wrote:
> > 
> > section 8.6 starts:
> > 
> >  start quote 
> > Unless there is a good reason to do otherwise, reply to the sender
> > and to FreeBSD-questions.
> >  end quote 
> 
> I, for one, am glad this does not happen more often.  I really do
> *not* need a bunch of duplicates cluttering up my inbox.  I have yet
> to see anyone complain of not receiving a CC in addition to the mail
> from the list.
> 
> I consider "not cluttering up the inboxes of people subscribed to the
> list" a "good reason to do otherwise".

Chad, it is common sense thinking like that, that will inevitable get
you chastised.

By the way, did you notice I directed a polite, one sentence directive
towards Odhiambo. Suddenly, every buttinsky crawls out of the woodwork,
sans any factual input on my original post and hijacks this thread
championing their own views on replying to posts. I have no problem
with that as long as they start a new thread, being sure to CC each
other and thereby waste their time discussing it among themselves. To
hijack another thread displays no only their lack of basic posting
etiquette, but their narcissism.

It is a shame when individuals like, but not limited to, Maciej
Milewski, Chuck Swiger, Bryan H. and even Odhiambo contribute useful
information only to be over shadowed by those other morons.

Absolutely pathetic.

I was going to CC all those who argued so feverishly in favor of the
protocol, but then common sense and plain decency got the better of me.

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Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-08 Thread Chad Perrin
On Fri, Apr 08, 2011 at 12:34:24PM -0700, Chip Camden wrote:
> 
> +1 (I replied, cluttering up inboxes all over freebsdland)

You didn't CC me directly, though, for which I'm grateful.

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Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-08 Thread Chad Perrin
On Fri, Apr 08, 2011 at 08:30:25PM +0100, Chris Rees wrote:
> On 8 Apr 2011 20:25, "Chad Perrin"  wrote:
> >
> > I, for one, am glad this does not happen more often.  I really do
> > *not* need a bunch of duplicates cluttering up my inbox.  I have yet
> > to see anyone complain of not receiving a CC in addition to the mail
> > from the list.
> 
> While you make a valid point, how would one complain about not
> receiving an email?

Did you overlook the words "in addition to the mail from the list"?

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Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-08 Thread Chip Camden
Quoth Chad Perrin on Friday, 08 April 2011:
> On Fri, Apr 08, 2011 at 06:42:16PM +0100, Arthur Chance wrote:
> > 
> > section 8.6 starts:
> > 
> >  start quote 
> > Unless there is a good reason to do otherwise, reply to the sender and
> > to FreeBSD-questions.
> >  end quote 
> 
> I, for one, am glad this does not happen more often.  I really do *not*
> need a bunch of duplicates cluttering up my inbox.  I have yet to see
> anyone complain of not receiving a CC in addition to the mail from the
> list.
> 
> I consider "not cluttering up the inboxes of people subscribed to the
> list" a "good reason to do otherwise".
> 
> -- 
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+1 (I replied, cluttering up inboxes all over freebsdland)

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Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-08 Thread Chris Rees
On 8 Apr 2011 20:25, "Chad Perrin"  wrote:
>
> On Fri, Apr 08, 2011 at 06:42:16PM +0100, Arthur Chance wrote:
> >
> > section 8.6 starts:
> >
> >  start quote 
> > Unless there is a good reason to do otherwise, reply to the sender and
> > to FreeBSD-questions.
> >  end quote 
>
> I, for one, am glad this does not happen more often.  I really do *not*
> need a bunch of duplicates cluttering up my inbox.  I have yet to see
> anyone complain of not receiving a CC in addition to the mail from the
> list.

While you make a valid point, how would one complain about not receiving an
email?

Chris
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Re: Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-08 Thread Chad Perrin
On Fri, Apr 08, 2011 at 06:42:16PM +0100, Arthur Chance wrote:
> 
> section 8.6 starts:
> 
>  start quote 
> Unless there is a good reason to do otherwise, reply to the sender and
> to FreeBSD-questions.
>  end quote 

I, for one, am glad this does not happen more often.  I really do *not*
need a bunch of duplicates cluttering up my inbox.  I have yet to see
anyone complain of not receiving a CC in addition to the mail from the
list.

I consider "not cluttering up the inboxes of people subscribed to the
list" a "good reason to do otherwise".

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Mailing list etiquette (Was: Re: Linksys-E4200 Wireless N-router)

2011-04-08 Thread Arthur Chance

On 04/08/11 16:21, Carmel wrote:

On Fri, 08 Apr 2011 12:51:41 +0100
Arthur Chance  articulated:


On 04/07/11 15:32, Carmel wrote:

Odhiambo, please don't CC me. I don't need multiple copies of the
same post.


CCing the original poster is standard etiquette on FreeBSD mailing
lists. Most lists are open to anybody to mail to without being signed
up, so when replying there's no way of knowing whether or not the
questioner will see a reply that only goes to the list. This is
especially true of freebsd-questions.


1) I have posted several times on this list and only received CC's on
two of them that I can recall. Obviously your standard is not so
standard.


Well, it's not an ISO or IETF standard, that I'll admit. However, if you 
take a look at the article on getting the best out of -questions


http://www.freebsd.org/doc/en_US.ISO8859-1/articles/freebsd-questions/article.html#AEN206

(which is one click away from the Mailing List Etiquette section of the 
Mailing List FAQ)


section 8.6 starts:

 start quote 
Unless there is a good reason to do otherwise, reply to the sender and 
to FreeBSD-questions.

 end quote 


2) I placed a very clear notice at the bottom of my post(s). Many
people would consider that a clue as to my desire to receive multiple
copies of the same document.


My MUA (Thunderbird) greys out signature blocks, some other mailers also 
de-emphasise them. This and the fact that most sig blocks are just chaff 
means they tend not to get read. That's unfortunate on the odd occasions 
they have significant content.



3) Perhaps it is only me; however, most of the major lists that I
employ all require a registration by the poster prior to being allowed
to post.


Many lists do, the FBSD lists tend not to. From the FAQ, note the final 
paragraph.


 start quote 
1.3. Are the FreeBSD mailing lists open for anyone to participate?

Again, this depends on charter of each individual list. Please read the 
charter of a mailing list before you post to it, and respect it when you 
post. This will help everyone to have a better experience with the lists.


If after reading the above lists, you still do not know which mailing 
list to post a question to, you will probably want to post to 
freebsd-questions (but see below, first).


Also note that the mailing lists have traditionally been open to 
postings from non-subscribers. This has been a deliberate choice, to 
help make joining the FreeBSD community an easier process, and to 
encourage open sharing of ideas. However, due to past abuse by some 
individuals, certain lists now have a policy where postings from 
non-subscribers must be manually screened to ensure that they are 
appropriate.

 end quote 


4) I have seen several posts where the OP requested to be CC'd because
they were not registered members of the list. Obviously, they were
aware of the necessity of being CC'd or reading the archives in order
to review any posts to their request. Now, is someone is just so plain
stupid that they are not aware of that simple fact, then they are too
stupid to be posting to begin with.


Are they stupid? No. Are they unfamiliar with the way things are done 
round here? Quite possibly. I think you'll find that many of the people 
who do that are first time users or possible future users, often coming 
from a Linux background and/or used to closed lists. With luck, as 
people start using FBSD seriously they'll also take some time to read 
the FAQs.


[For lurkers reading this, if you haven't read the Mailing List FAQ 
you'll find it at


http://www.freebsd.org/doc/en_US.ISO8859-1/articles/mailing-list-faq/

]


5) If you noticed, I asked Odhiambo very nicely not to include me in a
CC. I am sure he meant well; however, the inevitable destruction of
electrons in the transmission of the superfluous document could have
been avoided.


If you interpreted my remark as criticising your politeness, I 
apologise. That was not the intention.


Oh, and speaking as an ex-physicist, if electrons are being destroyed in 
transmission I'd *seriously* worry about your ISP. Either they've got a 
source of positrons or they've got radioactives that undergo electron 
capture. Either way I wouldn't want to be anywhere near their kit. Gamma 
rays are not good for you. :-)


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Re: List Etiquette Question - Thank yous

2006-03-24 Thread Oliver Iberien
I've posted questions to the linux users' groups for SuSE and Mandriva during 
my years as a linux desktop user. They are largely composed of posts by my 
fellow amateur enthusiasts, whose knowledge does not go very deep. This 
list's base seems to be IT professionals who are happy to help non-competent 
strangers, and do so clearly and tactfully. (And in some cases, such as with 
the fellow from obsecurity.com, with a five-minute turnaround.) I find this 
remarkable, and much appreciate it. 

Also, the online FreeBSD handbook is a much more useful thing than anything I 
ever paid to get from SuSE or Mandriva. I'm not getting all the GUI tools I 
had with linux, but I have better help and better-organized reference 
materials.

Thanks,

Oliver


On Friday 24 March 2006 18:59, Jerry McAllister wrote:
> It's helpful to say "thank you!".  Sometimes, when you're sitting
> the livelong day staring at the monitor, you need that.  It's
> particularly an effective remedy for troll attacks and the pain
> of burns from flame wars.
>
> As another posted mentioned, it's often nice, if a problem is
> a "big" one, if the resolution of the problem is "summed up"
> as well, for the archive's sake.
>
> I think that the best reward for many of us is that people
> use and enjoy FreeBSD, and get some real work done with it,
> as well.
>
> KDK
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Re: List Etiquette Question - Thank yous

2006-03-24 Thread Gary Kline
On Fri, Mar 24, 2006 at 04:30:02PM -0800, Garrett Cooper wrote:
> Jonathan Horne wrote:
> 
> >im fond of the "next time im in [your town] ill stop off and buy you a
> >beer!"
> >
> >:)
> >
> >jonathan
> > 
> >
> That is an awesome way to do things. Gotta love beer-funded 
> programming/support :).
> -Garrett


I'll secnd that!  This is about the best out there in
List-Land.  I've asked my share of questions in the
dumb-question dept, but folks usually put up with them
with few flames.  --Beyond that, thanks to the FBSD lists
I've made some outstanding friendships offline.  Now if
nly the rest of the globe could get along this way::
Wow!

:-)

gary


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Re: List Etiquette Question - Thank yous

2006-03-24 Thread Jerry McAllister
> 
> im fond of the "next time im in [your town] ill stop off and buy you a
> beer!"

It gets the point across too.

jerry

> :)
> 
> jonathan
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Re: List Etiquette Question - Thank yous

2006-03-24 Thread Garrett Cooper

Jonathan Horne wrote:


im fond of the "next time im in [your town] ill stop off and buy you a
beer!"

:)

jonathan
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That is an awesome way to do things. Gotta love beer-funded 
programming/support :).

-Garrett
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Re: List Etiquette Question - Thank yous

2006-03-24 Thread Gerard Seibert
Oliver Iberien wrote:

> I have never been on a list from which I have received as much help as this 
> one, which raises a question for me. I would like to thank the people who 
> post questions to my answers, such as the fellow below, but don't want to 
> spam people's inboxes and/or the with thank-you notes that may be archived 
> for all time. Do people generally expect a note of thanks?
> 
> Oliver
> 
> 
> On Friday 24 March 2006 11:47, Dan Nelson wrote:
> > In the last episode (Mar 24), Oliver Iberien said:
> > > This may be a silly question, but I wanted to make sure:
> > >
> > > I have a SCSI R/W CD-ROM drive and an IDE DVD read-only drive. There
> > > have been times with linux where enabling SCSI emulation made the
> > > actual SCSI drive unavailable to k3b. I just want to make sure that
> > > adding ATAPICAM won't somehow get in the way of the actual SCSI
> > > device. Will it?
> >
> > At worst it may shuffle the device number if the atapi drive gets
> > probed first.


Well, personally I prefer cash.

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Re: List Etiquette Question - Thank yous

2006-03-24 Thread Jonathan Horne
im fond of the "next time im in [your town] ill stop off and buy you a
beer!"

:)

jonathan
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Re: List Etiquette Question - Thank yous

2006-03-24 Thread jdow

From: "Patrick Bowen" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>


On Fri, 24 Mar 2006 12:05:35 -0800, "Oliver Iberien"
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said:

I have never been on a list from which I have received as much help as
this 
one, which raises a question for me. I would like to thank the people who 
post questions to my answers, such as the fellow below, but don't want to 
spam people's inboxes and/or the with thank-you notes that may be
archived 
for all time. Do people generally expect a note of thanks?


Oliver



Oliver:

I think it's generally expected that you reply to their help with
something like "Bummer, that didn't work." or "That fixed my problem!
Thanks so much!!" I don't know, however, whether "thank you"'s should be
privately or to the list. I usually say my thanks on the list. I guess I
feel that public help should receive public praise.

Patrick


Patrick, if a person replies to the help that worked with a (SOLVED)
header addition the solution is archived. It is in a relatively easy
to find form. So it benefits all.

(And a sysadmin who "expects" thanks is a fool. A sysadmin who does not
appreciate thanks or objects to another getting a thank you message, is
not a fit human being to live. And indeed he is not living a full life.
He's in a half life of "grouch", which will lead to an early grave.)

Note that "Thank you" is about all the pay anybody here gets for offering
solutions. Those two words feed the soul. Accept the food and cherish it.

{^_-}   Joanne
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Re: List Etiquette Question - Thank yous

2006-03-24 Thread Kevin Kinsey

Jerry McAllister wrote:

I have never been on a list from which I have received as much help as this 
one, which raises a question for me. I would like to thank the people who 
post questions to my answers, such as the fellow below, but don't want to 
spam people's inboxes and/or the with thank-you notes that may be archived 
for all time. Do people generally expect a note of thanks?
   



Well, it is considered a good thing to respond with some information
or statement indicating if and how something was actually successful in
fixing a problem so that that information will get archived.

You could include a brief thank you in that message.

Anyway, considering how much dross and OT rave-ons that get posted
to the list, I can't imagine that anyone would object to a pleasant
thank you now and then.
 


Thanks for that, Jerry.  ;)

Kevin Kinsey

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\/






It's helpful to say "thank you!".  Sometimes, when you're sitting
the livelong day staring at the monitor, you need that.  It's
particularly an effective remedy for troll attacks and the pain
of burns from flame wars.

As another posted mentioned, it's often nice, if a problem is
a "big" one, if the resolution of the problem is "summed up"
as well, for the archive's sake.

I think that the best reward for many of us is that people
use and enjoy FreeBSD, and get some real work done with it,
as well.

KDK

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Re: List Etiquette Question - Thank yous

2006-03-24 Thread Patrick Bowen

On Fri, 24 Mar 2006 12:05:35 -0800, "Oliver Iberien"
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said:
> I have never been on a list from which I have received as much help as
> this 
> one, which raises a question for me. I would like to thank the people who 
> post questions to my answers, such as the fellow below, but don't want to 
> spam people's inboxes and/or the with thank-you notes that may be
> archived 
> for all time. Do people generally expect a note of thanks?
> 
> Oliver
> 
> 
> On Friday 24 March 2006 11:47, Dan Nelson wrote:
> > In the last episode (Mar 24), Oliver Iberien said:
> > > This may be a silly question, but I wanted to make sure:
> > >
> > > I have a SCSI R/W CD-ROM drive and an IDE DVD read-only drive. There
> > > have been times with linux where enabling SCSI emulation made the
> > > actual SCSI drive unavailable to k3b. I just want to make sure that
> > > adding ATAPICAM won't somehow get in the way of the actual SCSI
> > > device. Will it?
> >
> > At worst it may shuffle the device number if the atapi drive gets
> > probed first.
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Oliver:

I think it's generally expected that you reply to their help with
something like "Bummer, that didn't work." or "That fixed my problem!
Thanks so much!!" I don't know, however, whether "thank you"'s should be
privately or to the list. I usually say my thanks on the list. I guess I
feel that public help should receive public praise.

Patrick
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Re: List Etiquette Question - Thank yous

2006-03-24 Thread Bart Silverstrim


On Mar 24, 2006, at 3:05 PM, Oliver Iberien wrote:

I have never been on a list from which I have received as much help as 
this
one, which raises a question for me. I would like to thank the people 
who
post questions to my answers, such as the fellow below, but don't want 
to
spam people's inboxes and/or the with thank-you notes that may be 
archived

for all time. Do people generally expect a note of thanks?


System admins expecting thanks?

ho-boy!  That's a good one.

:-)

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Re: List Etiquette Question - Thank yous

2006-03-24 Thread Jerry McAllister
> 
> I have never been on a list from which I have received as much help as this 
> one, which raises a question for me. I would like to thank the people who 
> post questions to my answers, such as the fellow below, but don't want to 
> spam people's inboxes and/or the with thank-you notes that may be archived 
> for all time. Do people generally expect a note of thanks?

Well, it is considered a good thing to respond with some information
or statement indicating if and how something was actually successful in
fixing a problem so that that information will get archived.

You could include a brief thank you in that message.

Anyway, considering how much dross and OT rave-ons that get posted
to the list, I can't imagine that anyone would object to a pleasant
thank you now and then.

jerry

> Oliver
> 
> On Friday 24 March 2006 11:47, Dan Nelson wrote:
> > In the last episode (Mar 24), Oliver Iberien said:
> > > This may be a silly question, but I wanted to make sure:
> > >
> > > I have a SCSI R/W CD-ROM drive and an IDE DVD read-only drive. There
> > > have been times with linux where enabling SCSI emulation made the
> > > actual SCSI drive unavailable to k3b. I just want to make sure that
> > > adding ATAPICAM won't somehow get in the way of the actual SCSI
> > > device. Will it?
> >
> > At worst it may shuffle the device number if the atapi drive gets
> > probed first.
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List Etiquette Question - Thank yous

2006-03-24 Thread Oliver Iberien
I have never been on a list from which I have received as much help as this 
one, which raises a question for me. I would like to thank the people who 
post questions to my answers, such as the fellow below, but don't want to 
spam people's inboxes and/or the with thank-you notes that may be archived 
for all time. Do people generally expect a note of thanks?

Oliver


On Friday 24 March 2006 11:47, Dan Nelson wrote:
> In the last episode (Mar 24), Oliver Iberien said:
> > This may be a silly question, but I wanted to make sure:
> >
> > I have a SCSI R/W CD-ROM drive and an IDE DVD read-only drive. There
> > have been times with linux where enabling SCSI emulation made the
> > actual SCSI drive unavailable to k3b. I just want to make sure that
> > adding ATAPICAM won't somehow get in the way of the actual SCSI
> > device. Will it?
>
> At worst it may shuffle the device number if the atapi drive gets
> probed first.
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Re: List etiquette

2002-12-23 Thread Mike Jeays
Cliff Sarginson wrote:


On Sun, Dec 22, 2002 at 08:39:17PM -0500, John Bleichert wrote:
 

On Sun, 22 Dec 2002, Dan Nelson wrote:
   

Date: Sun, 22 Dec 2002 18:38:37 -0600
Subject: Re: List etiquette

In the last episode (Dec 22), Mike Jeays said:
 

Many times I have asked questions on this list, and had helpful
replies from one or more people.  My usual practice is to reply to
them directly and thank them, and tell them whether their idea
helped.  This avoids cluttering up the list with "thank-you"
messages, but may look as though I haven't bothered to even listen.

Should one post such replies to the list?
   

It's a good idea, so that people reading the thread later have
confirmation that the suggestion actually was the correct solution.

 

Yes, this is important, I think a thread with an affirmative onclusion
should be registered on the list. Someone in the future may not know you
need to wear a penguin suite and sing the Hallelulah Chorus when you
wish to install Port X.

On a second note, if while waiting for an answer, and you discover it
yourself then post the answer, close the ticket so to speak.

 

Agreed - by having a solution confirmation in the archives of this list, 
it makes searching the archives a little easier and more believable. Not 
that I minded the private 'danke' :)

   

Secondly, an occasional question goes unanswered - perhaps because no
one thought it was interesting enough to reply. Is it acceptable to
post it again after a few days?
   

I'd wait a week before reposting, and then try to ask the question a
different way, or provide more info.

 

Yup, unfortunately you will always believe that someone *does* know the
answer to your question, so re-posting a week or so later sometimes
works. If it does not, then you are perhaps asking on the wrong list or
the people who know are all holidaying in the Seychelles on the huge
profits they make from answering questions on FreeBSD :)

 

Ocassionally there will be no response because nobody knows the answer 
*or* it's been answered ad nauseum in the archives. Re-posting with an 
update, however, does keep the archives up to date.

   

Private thank you's are nice.,but I think some people will find it
enough that you have acknowledged the solution proposed works in the
public forum. Of course there is a class of questions for which you will
get a shell and an awk and a perl and a sed and a python and a ruby
answer, often many of all of them. Hee hee ,,, 

 

OK, thanks for the advice from all of you.  I will follow it in future.  
A useful discussion.



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Re: List etiquette

2002-12-22 Thread Cliff Sarginson
On Sun, Dec 22, 2002 at 08:39:17PM -0500, John Bleichert wrote:
> On Sun, 22 Dec 2002, Dan Nelson wrote:
> > Date: Sun, 22 Dec 2002 18:38:37 -0600
> > Subject: Re: List etiquette
> > 
> > In the last episode (Dec 22), Mike Jeays said:
> > > Many times I have asked questions on this list, and had helpful
> > > replies from one or more people.  My usual practice is to reply to
> > > them directly and thank them, and tell them whether their idea
> > > helped.  This avoids cluttering up the list with "thank-you"
> > > messages, but may look as though I haven't bothered to even listen.
> > > 
> > > Should one post such replies to the list?
> > 
> > It's a good idea, so that people reading the thread later have
> > confirmation that the suggestion actually was the correct solution.
> >  
> 
Yes, this is important, I think a thread with an affirmative onclusion
should be registered on the list. Someone in the future may not know you
need to wear a penguin suite and sing the Hallelulah Chorus when you
wish to install Port X.

On a second note, if while waiting for an answer, and you discover it
yourself then post the answer, close the ticket so to speak.

> Agreed - by having a solution confirmation in the archives of this list, 
> it makes searching the archives a little easier and more believable. Not 
> that I minded the private 'danke' :)
> 
> > > Secondly, an occasional question goes unanswered - perhaps because no
> > > one thought it was interesting enough to reply. Is it acceptable to
> > > post it again after a few days?
> > 
> > I'd wait a week before reposting, and then try to ask the question a
> > different way, or provide more info.
> > 
>
Yup, unfortunately you will always believe that someone *does* know the
answer to your question, so re-posting a week or so later sometimes
works. If it does not, then you are perhaps asking on the wrong list or
the people who know are all holidaying in the Seychelles on the huge
profits they make from answering questions on FreeBSD :)
 
> Ocassionally there will be no response because nobody knows the answer 
> *or* it's been answered ad nauseum in the archives. Re-posting with an 
> update, however, does keep the archives up to date.
> 
Private thank you's are nice.,but I think some people will find it
enough that you have acknowledged the solution proposed works in the
public forum. Of course there is a class of questions for which you will
get a shell and an awk and a perl and a sed and a python and a ruby
answer, often many of all of them. Hee hee ,,, 

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Re: List etiquette

2002-12-22 Thread John Bleichert
On Sun, 22 Dec 2002, Dan Nelson wrote:
> Date: Sun, 22 Dec 2002 18:38:37 -0600
> Subject: Re: List etiquette
> 
> In the last episode (Dec 22), Mike Jeays said:
> > Many times I have asked questions on this list, and had helpful
> > replies from one or more people.  My usual practice is to reply to
> > them directly and thank them, and tell them whether their idea
> > helped.  This avoids cluttering up the list with "thank-you"
> > messages, but may look as though I haven't bothered to even listen.
> > 
> > Should one post such replies to the list?
> 
> It's a good idea, so that people reading the thread later have
> confirmation that the suggestion actually was the correct solution.
>  

Agreed - by having a solution confirmation in the archives of this list, 
it makes searching the archives a little easier and more believable. Not 
that I minded the private 'danke' :)

> > Secondly, an occasional question goes unanswered - perhaps because no
> > one thought it was interesting enough to reply. Is it acceptable to
> > post it again after a few days?
> 
> I'd wait a week before reposting, and then try to ask the question a
> different way, or provide more info.
> 

Ocassionally there will be no response because nobody knows the answer 
*or* it's been answered ad nauseum in the archives. Re-posting with an 
update, however, does keep the archives up to date.

JB

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Re: List etiquette

2002-12-22 Thread Dan Nelson
In the last episode (Dec 22), Mike Jeays said:
> Many times I have asked questions on this list, and had helpful
> replies from one or more people.  My usual practice is to reply to
> them directly and thank them, and tell them whether their idea
> helped.  This avoids cluttering up the list with "thank-you"
> messages, but may look as though I haven't bothered to even listen.
> 
> Should one post such replies to the list?

It's a good idea, so that people reading the thread later have
confirmation that the suggestion actually was the correct solution.
 
> Secondly, an occasional question goes unanswered - perhaps because no
> one thought it was interesting enough to reply. Is it acceptable to
> post it again after a few days?

I'd wait a week before reposting, and then try to ask the question a
different way, or provide more info.

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List etiquette

2002-12-22 Thread Mike Jeays
Many times I have asked questions on this list, and had helpful
replies from one or more people.  My usual practice is to reply
to them directly and thank them, and tell them whether their idea
helped.  This avoids cluttering up the list with "thank-you" messages,
but may look as though I haven't bothered to even listen.

Should one post such replies to the list?

Secondly, an occasional question goes unanswered - perhaps
because no one thought it was interesting enough to reply.
Is it acceptable to post it again after a few days?




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