Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required

2006-08-20 Thread Synnes



Perhaps some of these doctors need to learn these 
otherindicators of progress? 

Amanda

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Michelle Windsor 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Saturday, August 19, 2006 1:24 
  PM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
  required
  
  Hi Joy,
  
  You have done a great job in beingan advocate for this woman. 
  And you are right in the need to remind him that 'no means no'.To 
  digitally penetrate a woman without her consent is sexual assault. And 
  why does he believe that your need to support him is more of a priority than 
  supporting the woman? It's inappropriate towrite comments like 
  that in the notes. Perhaps he needs to be reminded that midwife means 
  'with woman' not 'with doctor'! : )
  
  To my knowledge there aren't any studies on outcomes, in relation to 
  whether VE's are done or not.When I worked in a birth centre many women 
  birthed without a VE.There are so many other indicators of 
  progress. Actually my Mum had seven kids and said she NEVER had a 
  VE! 
  
  Cheers
  MichelleJoy Cocks [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  wrote:
  



Thanks Judy and Barb for your support. Yes, the 
woman did know, as he was trying to convince her and she asked why she 
needed it and then said no, when he still tried to push for the VE I said 
firmly "she said no" that's when the proverbial hit the fan. Might 
need to remind him of the TV ads that no means no ;)
After the birth she asked if there was anything she could 
do to support me. I just said we'll wait and see what 
eventuates. What really hurt was that he wrote in the notes (where all 
staff can see) that he was filing an incident report in relation to Joy 
Cocks not supporting him, so I imagine I am the subject of hospital gossip 
for a few days!
Joy

Joy Cocks RN (Div 1) RM IBCLCBRIGHT Vic 3741 
email:[EMAIL PROTECTED]

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  B 
   G 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Friday, August 18, 2006 19:07 
  PM
  Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
  required
  
  Congratulations Joy, you did so well for the woman. You were 
  probably so discrete the woman may never have known you had to stand up 
  for her rights and dignity so she could get into her birthing space.Take 
  him on and just remind him that workplace bullying is not a good picture 
  to get in.
  Take care Barb
  

-Original Message-From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Joy 
CocksSent: Thursday, 17 August 2006 10:51 PMTo: 
ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auSubject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: 
    info required
Pheewww..Peiter Mourik used to come to our 
hospital and give inservices when he held clinics there. I would 
back up Wendy's comments. He's very clever with words and is god's 
gift to women - always saving them! He believes that midwives 
canonly beindependant when they can do forceps/ventouse 
births! 
Sorry, negative comments after a bad evening when I 
stood up for a labouring woman who did not wish to have a VE when the GP 
ob wanted to do one as how else would he know whether she was 
progressing or not. He's writing an incident report about me for 
not supporting him.He asked how I planned to manage the labour and 
I told him that the woman was managing the labour and I would be worried 
if shebecame worried.The woman proceeded to birth without 
problem. Just feeling upset and hurt as he is my GP and we usually 
work well together, but probably most other women are not as strong in 
standing up for themselves.
Joy

Joy Cocks RN (Div 1) RM IBCLCBRIGHT Vic 3741 
email:[EMAIL PROTECTED]

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  cath nolan 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Thursday, August 17, 2006 
  10:28 AM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
  required
  
  
  - Original Message - 
  From: cath nolan 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Wednesday, August 16, 2006 8:37 PM
  Subject: info required
  
  I will be meeting with Peter 
  Miourik(obstetrician) amongst others in an informal dinner setting on 
  Friday night as the hospital that I work at is having a review of 
  obstetric services . I believe this is a man who is quite against 
  midwifery led services and I'm a bit puzzled as to why I have been 
  asked to be one of the 2 midwifery reps at this dinner. But very 
  pleased at the same time, and more than happy to

Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required

2006-08-20 Thread Justine Caines
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required



Hi Amanda and all

Your Mum beats me

I have only had six without a V.E (incl twins!!)

But I am currently childbearing and I guess things have got so much worse in the last 20 or so years.

When I was quizzed about my obstetric history (please!) by a GP. He commented that I was fortunate.

And yes my reply was true to form.

Absolutely fortunate I said to have an independent midwife for each pregnancy!

JC





Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required

2006-08-18 Thread Judy Chapman
Joy,
It takes an enormous amount of intestinal fortitude to do what
you did, I admire you so much. I am so fortunate to work in a
place without doctors hanging around and messing things up.
Please draw strength from your (and our) belief that you did the
right thing and sleep well tonight. 
Cheers
Judy

--- Joy Cocks [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Dear Amy, Sazz and Suzi,
 Thanks so much for your support, it means a lot to me and
 confirms what I know in my heart.  Haven't heard anything more
 today, but I've been out for the day.  However, still can't
 stop thinking about it.  Have my grandson coming for a
 sleepover tonight so maybe that will take my mind of this
 ridiculous situation - see, I'm feeling stronger already!
 Joy x
 
 Joy Cocks RN (Div 1) RM IBCLC
 BRIGHT Vic 3741 
 email:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
   - Original Message - 
   From: adamnamy 
   To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
   Sent: Friday, August 18, 2006 11:11 AM
   Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required
 
 
   If you were my midwife, I would be so grateful that I had
 someone who would truly advocate on my behalf and protect me
 from the attitude that I was hospital property during my stay
 there.
 

 
   Hospital staff and doctors sometimes get their priorities
 mixed up don't they?
 

 
   As a consumer, I say thanks and good on you for standing up
 for her.
 

 
   Amy
 

 
 

--
 
   From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Joy
 Cocks
   Sent: Thursday, August 17, 2006 8:51 PM
   To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
   Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required
 

 
   Pheewww..Peiter Mourik used to come to our hospital and
 give inservices when he held clinics there.  I would back up
 Wendy's comments.  He's very clever with words and is god's
 gift to women - always saving them!  He believes that midwives
 can only be independant when they can do forceps/ventouse
 births!  
 
   Sorry, negative comments after a bad evening when I stood up
 for a labouring woman who did not wish to have a VE when the
 GP ob wanted to do one as how else would he know whether she
 was progressing or not.  He's writing an incident report about
 me for not supporting him. He asked how I planned to manage
 the labour and I told him that the woman was managing the
 labour and I would be worried if she became worried. The woman
 proceeded to birth without problem.  Just feeling upset and
 hurt as he is my GP and we usually work well together, but
 probably most other women are not as strong in standing up for
 themselves.
 
   Joy
 

 
   Joy Cocks RN (Div 1) RM IBCLC
   BRIGHT Vic 3741 
   email:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 
 - Original Message - 
 
 From: cath nolan 
 
 To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
 
 Sent: Thursday, August 17, 2006 10:28 AM
 
 Subject: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required
 
  
 
  
 
 - Original Message - 
 
 From: cath nolan 
 
 To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
 
 Sent: Wednesday, August 16, 2006 8:37 PM
 
 Subject: info required
 
  
 
 I will be meeting with Peter Miourik(obstetrician) amongst
 others in an informal dinner setting on Friday night as the
 hospital that I work at is having a review of obstetric
 services . I believe this is a man who is quite against
 midwifery led services and I'm a bit puzzled as to why I have
 been asked to be one of the 2 midwifery reps at this dinner.
 But very pleased at the same time, and more than happy to be a
 part of this. Can anyone fill me in on what they know of this
 man? Cath.
 







 
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RE: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required

2006-08-18 Thread B G
Title: Message



Congratulations Joy, you did so well for the woman. You were probably so 
discrete the woman may never have known you had to stand up for her rights and 
dignity so she could get into her birthing space.Take him on and just remind him 
that workplace bullying is not a good picture to get in.
Take 
care Barb

  
  -Original Message-From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Joy 
  CocksSent: Thursday, 17 August 2006 10:51 PMTo: 
  ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auSubject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
  required
  Pheewww..Peiter Mourik used to come to our hospital and 
  give inservices when he held clinics there. I would back up Wendy's 
  comments. He's very clever with words and is god's gift to women - 
  always saving them! He believes that midwives canonly 
  beindependant when they can do forceps/ventouse births! 
  
  Sorry, negative comments after a bad evening when I stood up 
  for a labouring woman who did not wish to have a VE when the GP ob wanted to 
  do one as how else would he know whether she was progressing or not. 
  He's writing an incident report about me for not supporting him.He asked 
  how I planned to manage the labour and I told him that the woman was managing 
  the labour and I would be worried if shebecame worried.The woman 
  proceeded to birth without problem. Just feeling upset and hurt as he is 
  my GP and we usually work well together, but probably most other women are not 
  as strong in standing up for themselves.
  Joy
  
  Joy Cocks RN (Div 1) RM IBCLCBRIGHT Vic 3741 
  email:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
cath nolan 
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 

Sent: Thursday, August 17, 2006 10:28 
AM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
required


- Original Message - 
From: cath 
nolan 
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 

Sent: Wednesday, August 16, 2006 8:37 PM
Subject: info required

I will be meeting with Peter 
Miourik(obstetrician) amongst others in an informal dinner setting on Friday 
night as the hospital that I work at is having a review of obstetric 
services . I believe this is a man who is quite against midwifery led 
services and I'm a bit puzzled as to why I have been asked to be one of the 
2 midwifery reps at this dinner. But very pleased at the same time, and more 
than happy to be a part of this. Can anyone fill me in on what they know of 
this man? Cath.


Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required

2006-08-18 Thread Joy Cocks
Title: Message



Thanks Judy and Barb for your support. Yes, the woman 
did know, as he was trying to convince her and she asked why she needed it and 
then said no, when he still tried to push for the VE I said firmly "she said no" 
that's when the proverbial hit the fan. Might need to remind him of the TV 
ads that no means no ;)
After the birth she asked if there was anything she could do 
to support me. I just said we'll wait and see what eventuates. What 
really hurt was that he wrote in the notes (where all staff can see) that he was 
filing an incident report in relation to Joy Cocks not supporting him, so I 
imagine I am the subject of hospital gossip for a few days!
Joy

Joy Cocks RN (Div 1) RM IBCLCBRIGHT Vic 3741 
email:[EMAIL PROTECTED]

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  B  
  G 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Friday, August 18, 2006 19:07 
  PM
  Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
  required
  
  Congratulations Joy, you did so well for the woman. You were probably 
  so discrete the woman may never have known you had to stand up for her rights 
  and dignity so she could get into her birthing space.Take him on and just 
  remind him that workplace bullying is not a good picture to get 
  in.
  Take 
  care Barb
  

-Original Message-From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Joy 
CocksSent: Thursday, 17 August 2006 10:51 PMTo: 
ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auSubject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
    required
Pheewww..Peiter Mourik used to come to our hospital 
and give inservices when he held clinics there. I would back up 
Wendy's comments. He's very clever with words and is god's gift to 
women - always saving them! He believes that midwives canonly 
beindependant when they can do forceps/ventouse births! 

Sorry, negative comments after a bad evening when I stood 
up for a labouring woman who did not wish to have a VE when the GP ob wanted 
to do one as how else would he know whether she was progressing or 
not. He's writing an incident report about me for not supporting 
him.He asked how I planned to manage the labour and I told him that 
the woman was managing the labour and I would be worried if shebecame 
worried.The woman proceeded to birth without problem. Just 
feeling upset and hurt as he is my GP and we usually work well together, but 
probably most other women are not as strong in standing up for 
themselves.
Joy

Joy Cocks RN (Div 1) RM IBCLCBRIGHT Vic 3741 
email:[EMAIL PROTECTED]

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  cath nolan 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Thursday, August 17, 2006 10:28 
  AM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
  required
  
  
  - Original Message - 
  From: cath nolan 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Wednesday, August 16, 2006 8:37 PM
  Subject: info required
  
  I will be meeting with Peter 
  Miourik(obstetrician) amongst others in an informal dinner setting on 
  Friday night as the hospital that I work at is having a review of 
  obstetric services . I believe this is a man who is quite against 
  midwifery led services and I'm a bit puzzled as to why I have been asked 
  to be one of the 2 midwifery reps at this dinner. But very pleased at the 
  same time, and more than happy to be a part of this. Can anyone fill me in 
  on what they know of this man? 
Cath.


Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required

2006-08-18 Thread Andrea Quanchi
If you are called to a meeting Joy make sure you take a personal advocate with you. Puts them on the back foot if they are accountable for what is said in the meeting when you have a witness. Make sure your advocate takes an obvious pen and paper and doodles on it consistently throughout the meeting.Good luck, many of us have been there and it is worth the fightAndreaOn 19/08/2006, at 7:10 AM, Joy Cocks wrote:Thanks Judy and Barb for your support.  Yes, the woman did know, as he was trying to convince her and she asked why she needed it and then said no, when he still tried to push for the VE I said firmly "she said no" that's when the proverbial hit the fan.  Might need to remind him of the TV ads that no means no ;)After the birth she asked if there was anything she could do to support me.  I just said we'll wait and see what eventuates.  What really hurt was that he wrote in the notes (where all staff can see) that he was filing an incident report in relation to Joy Cocks not supporting him, so I imagine I am the subject of hospital gossip for a few days!Joy Joy Cocks RN (Div 1) RM IBCLCBRIGHT Vic 3741 email:[EMAIL PROTECTED]- Original Message -From: B  GTo: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auSent: Friday, August 18, 2006 19:07 PMSubject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info requiredCongratulations Joy, you did so well for the woman. You were probably so discrete the woman may never have known you had to stand up for her rights and dignity so she could get into her birthing space.Take him on and just remind him that workplace bullying is not a good picture to get in.Take care Barb-Original Message-From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] On Behalf Of Joy CocksSent: Thursday, 17 August 2006 10:51 PMTo: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auSubject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info requiredPheewww..Peiter Mourik used to come to our hospital and give inservices when he held clinics there.  I would back up Wendy's comments.  He's very clever with words and is god's gift to women - always saving them!  He believes that midwives can only be independant when they can do forceps/ventouse births! Sorry, negative comments after a bad evening when I stood up for a labouring woman who did not wish to have a VE when the GP ob wanted to do one as how else would he know whether she was progressing or not.  He's writing an incident report about me for not supporting him. He asked how I planned to manage the labour and I told him that the woman was managing the labour and I would be worried if she became worried. The woman proceeded to birth without problem.  Just feeling upset and hurt as he is my GP and we usually work well together, but probably most other women are not as strong in standing up for themselves.Joy Joy Cocks RN (Div 1) RM IBCLCBRIGHT Vic 3741 email:[EMAIL PROTECTED]- Original Message -From: cath nolanTo: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auSent: Thursday, August 17, 2006 10:28 AMSubject: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required - Original Message -From: cath nolanTo: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auSent: Wednesday, August 16, 2006 8:37 PMSubject: info requiredI will be meeting with Peter Miourik(obstetrician) amongst others in an informal dinner setting on Friday night as the hospital that I work at is having a review of obstetric services . I believe this is a man who is quite against midwifery led services and I'm a bit puzzled as to why I have been asked to be one of the 2 midwifery reps at this dinner. But very pleased at the same time, and more than happy to be a part of this. Can anyone fill me in on what they know of this man? Cath.

Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required

2006-08-17 Thread Sazz Eaton
Dear Joy,I just wanted to say well done to you for your efforts yesterday. Sounds like you handled it beautifully! I hope everything turns out well with this "incident report" (hopefully the fact that she had a problemless birth will support your actions!)Love to you,SazzJoy Cocks [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:   Pheewww..Peiter Mourik used to come to our hospital and  give inservices when he held clinics there. I would back up Wendy's  comments. He's very clever with words and is god's gift to women - always  saving them! He believes that midwives canonly beindependant  when they can do forceps/ventouse births!
  Sorry, negative comments after a bad evening when I stood up  for a labouring woman who did not wish to have a VE when the GP ob wanted to do  one as how else would he know whether she was progressing or not. He's  writing an incident report about me for not supporting him.He asked how I  planned to manage the labour and I told him that the woman was managing the  labour and I would be worried if shebecame worried.The woman  proceeded to birth without problem. Just feeling upset and hurt as he is  my GP and we usually work well together, but probably most other women are not  as strong in standing up for themselves. Joy  Joy Cocks RN (Div 1) RM IBCLCBRIGHT Vic 3741  email:[EMAIL PROTECTED]- Original Message -From:cath nolanTo: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au   Sent: Thursday, August 17, 2006 10:28AM   Subject: [ozmidwifery] Fw: inforequired - Original Message -From: cathnolanTo: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au   Sent: Wednesday, August 16, 2006 8:37 PM   Subject: info required  I will be meeting with PeterMiourik(obstetrician) amongst others in an informal dinner setting on Fridaynight as the hospital that I work at is having a review of obstetric services. I believe this is a man who is quite against midwifery led services and I'ma bit puzzled as to why I have been asked to be one of the 2 midwifery reps atthis dinner. But very pleased at the same time, and more than happy to be apart of this. Can anyone fill me in on what they know of this man?   
 Cath.Sazz Eaton  PhD Student  Academic Tutor  Melbourne Journal of Politics Editor  Department of Political Science  University of Melbourne  +61 3 8344 9485  http://www.sazz.rfk.id.au  http://www.sazziesblog.blogspot.com  http://www.linguisticsazziesblog.blogspot.com Send instant messages to your online friends http://au.messenger.yahoo.com 

Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required

2006-08-17 Thread suzi and brett



Joy this is a very disturbing story - coercion to 
have a VE without full consent is assault and battery. We must never be 
complicit in this. I cant believe you were reported for doing your job 
well. You have also protected the hsp and drs from potential charges and 
legal proceedings. I hope the report is an opportunity for your workplace to 
remind Drs of this and they give you the support you deserve. Love 
Suzi

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Joy Cocks 
  
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Thursday, August 17, 2006 10:50 
  PM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
  required
  
  Pheewww..Peiter Mourik used to come to our hospital and 
  give inservices when he held clinics there. I would back up Wendy's 
  comments. He's very clever with words and is god's gift to women - 
  always saving them! He believes that midwives canonly 
  beindependant when they can do forceps/ventouse births! 
  
  Sorry, negative comments after a bad evening when I stood up 
  for a labouring woman who did not wish to have a VE when the GP ob wanted to 
  do one as how else would he know whether she was progressing or not. 
  He's writing an incident report about me for not supporting him.He asked 
  how I planned to manage the labour and I told him that the woman was managing 
  the labour and I would be worried if shebecame worried.The woman 
  proceeded to birth without problem. Just feeling upset and hurt as he is 
  my GP and we usually work well together, but probably most other women are not 
  as strong in standing up for themselves.
  Joy
  
  Joy Cocks RN (Div 1) RM IBCLCBRIGHT Vic 3741 
  email:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
cath nolan 
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 

Sent: Thursday, August 17, 2006 10:28 
AM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
required


- Original Message - 
From: cath 
nolan 
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 

Sent: Wednesday, August 16, 2006 8:37 PM
Subject: info required

I will be meeting with Peter 
Miourik(obstetrician) amongst others in an informal dinner setting on Friday 
night as the hospital that I work at is having a review of obstetric 
services . I believe this is a man who is quite against midwifery led 
services and I'm a bit puzzled as to why I have been asked to be one of the 
2 midwifery reps at this dinner. But very pleased at the same time, and more 
than happy to be a part of this. Can anyone fill me in on what they know of 
this man? Cath.


RE: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required

2006-08-17 Thread adamnamy








If you were my midwife, I would be so
grateful that I had someone who would truly advocate on my behalf and protect
me from the attitude that I was hospital property during my stay there.



Hospital staff and doctors sometimes get their
priorities mixed up dont they?



As a consumer, I say thanks and good on
you for standing up for her.



Amy











From:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of Joy Cocks
Sent: Thursday, August 17, 2006
8:51 PM
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw:
info required







Pheewww..Peiter Mourik used to come to our hospital and give
inservices when he held clinics there. I would back up Wendy's
comments. He's very clever with words and is god's gift to women - always
saving them! He believes that midwives canonly beindependant
when they can do forceps/ventouse births! 





Sorry, negative comments after a bad evening when I stood up for a
labouring woman who did not wish to have a VE when the GP ob wanted to do one
as how else would he know whether she was progressing or not. He's
writing an incident report about me for not supporting him.He asked how I
planned to manage the labour and I told him that the woman was managing the
labour and I would be worried if shebecame worried.The woman
proceeded to birth without problem. Just feeling upset and hurt as he is
my GP and we usually work well together, but probably most other women are not
as strong in standing up for themselves.





Joy











Joy Cocks RN (Div 1) RM IBCLC
BRIGHT Vic 3741 
email:[EMAIL PROTECTED]







- Original Message - 





From: cath
nolan 





To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 





Sent: Thursday, August
17, 2006 10:28 AM





Subject: [ozmidwifery] Fw:
info required

















- Original Message - 



From: cath
nolan 





To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 





Sent: Wednesday, August
16, 2006 8:37 PM





Subject: info required













I will be meeting with Peter Miourik(obstetrician) amongst
others in an informal dinner setting on Friday night as the hospital that I
work at is having a review of obstetric services . I believe this is a man who
is quite against midwifery led services and I'm a bit puzzled as to why I have
been asked to be one of the 2 midwifery reps at this dinner. But very pleased
at the same time, and more than happy to be a part of this. Can anyone fill me
in on what they know of this man? Cath.












Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required

2006-08-17 Thread Joy Cocks



Dear Amy, Sazz and Suzi,
Thanks so much for your support, it means a lot to me and 
confirms what I know in my heart. Haven't heard anything more today, but 
I've been out for the day. However, still can't stop thinking about 
it. Have my grandson coming for a sleepover tonight so maybe that will 
take my mind of this ridiculous situation - see, I'm feeling stronger 
already!
Joy x

Joy Cocks RN (Div 1) RM IBCLCBRIGHT Vic 3741 
email:[EMAIL PROTECTED]

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  adamnamy 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Friday, August 18, 2006 11:11 
  AM
  Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
  required
  
  
  If you were my 
  midwife, I would be so grateful that I had someone who would truly advocate on 
  my behalf and protect me from the attitude that I was hospital property during 
  my stay there.
  
  Hospital staff and 
  doctors sometimes get their priorities mixed up don’t 
  they?
  
  As a consumer, I say 
  thanks and good on you for standing up for her.
  
  Amy
  
  
  
  
  
  From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Joy CocksSent: Thursday, August 17, 2006 8:51 
  PMTo: 
  ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auSubject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
  required
  
  
  Pheewww..Peiter Mourik used to come to our 
  hospital and give inservices when he held clinics there. I would back up 
  Wendy's comments. He's very clever with words and is god's gift to women 
  - always saving them! He believes that midwives canonly 
  beindependant when they can do forceps/ventouse births! 
  
  
  Sorry, negative comments after a bad evening when I 
  stood up for a labouring woman who did not wish to have a VE when the GP ob 
  wanted to do one as how else would he know whether she was progressing or 
  not. He's writing an incident report about me for not supporting 
  him.He asked how I planned to manage the labour and I told him that the 
  woman was managing the labour and I would be worried if shebecame 
  worried.The woman proceeded to birth without problem. Just feeling 
  upset and hurt as he is my GP and we usually work well together, but probably 
  most other women are not as strong in standing up for 
  themselves.
  
  Joy
  
  
  
  Joy Cocks RN (Div 1) RM IBCLCBRIGHT Vic 3741 
  email:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
  

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From: cath 
nolan 

To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 


Sent: 
Wednesday, August 16, 2006 8:37 PM

Subject: info 
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I will be meeting with Peter 
Miourik(obstetrician) amongst others in an informal dinner setting on Friday 
night as the hospital that I work at is having a review of obstetric 
services . I believe this is a man who is quite against midwifery led 
services and I'm a bit puzzled as to why I have been asked to be one of the 
2 midwifery reps at this dinner. But very pleased at the same time, and more 
than happy to be a part of this. Can anyone fill me in on what they know of 
this man? 
Cath.


Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required

2006-08-16 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]



Good Grief
Most of what I would like to say is probaobly not 
safe to write anywhere.
Dr Mourik I have worked with in Wodonga as a 
student. He come here to Wang occassioanlly as a Locum much to the distress of 
all the midwives. Arrogant is an understatement. He "saves" women and tells them 
so. 
He is a skilled obstetrician, no doubt, but I 
wouldn't want him any where near me if I was birthing.
An example that comes to mind when I was a student 
was when he was performing a perineal repair and smugly asked the husband 
"Want me to throw in a few extra stitches, to tighten her up?"
This man is very self assured, articulate, hmmm 
perhaps you should just ring me at home on this one Cath. (03) 
57221605.
Wendy


  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  cath nolan 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Thursday, August 17, 2006 10:28 
  AM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
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  - Original Message - 
  From: cath 
  nolan 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Wednesday, August 16, 2006 8:37 PM
  Subject: info required
  
  I will be meeting with Peter 
  Miourik(obstetrician) amongst others in an informal dinner setting on Friday 
  night as the hospital that I work at is having a review of obstetric services 
  . I believe this is a man who is quite against midwifery led services and I'm 
  a bit puzzled as to why I have been asked to be one of the 2 midwifery reps at 
  this dinner. But very pleased at the same time, and more than happy to be a 
  part of this. Can anyone fill me in on what they know of this man? 
  Cath.
  
  

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RE: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required

2006-08-16 Thread Julie Clarke








Hi Cath,

I dont know anything about him and
would not pass judgment on a person on a public forum anyway (or possibly
privately either),

so what Id suggest is to consider
the idea that he/or a colleague in his field might be against midwifery led
care and think through all the possible arguments that might be put forth such
as perceived insufficient midwifery training or perceived
insufficient midwifery experience or perceived insufficient
confidence professionally for midwives in Australia and then develop
counter arguments to put forth, particularly with regard to the wonderful work
being done currently for midwifery in Australia  refer to ACMI.

Warm hug

Julie 











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Sent: Thursday, 17 August 2006
10:29 AM
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
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From: cath
nolan 





To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 





Sent: Wednesday, August
16, 2006 8:37 PM





Subject: info required













I will be meeting with Peter Miourik(obstetrician) amongst
others in an informal dinner setting on Friday night as the hospital that I
work at is having a review of obstetric services . I believe this is a man who
is quite against midwifery led services and I'm a bit puzzled as to why I have
been asked to be one of the 2 midwifery reps at this dinner. But very pleased
at the same time, and more than happy to be a part of this. Can anyone fill me
in on what they know of this man? Cath.










Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required

2006-08-16 Thread cath nolan



Thanks Julie, I wasn't thinking of only negative 
information. more along the lines as to where has he been working, rural 
practise etc. This is a review of obstetric services and I guess my concern is 
the ongoing domination of the medical viewpoint and minimising the midwifery 
input. Thanks for your reply. I do remember reading an article by him but can't 
remember what it was in, and it was certainly not favourable to the 
establishment of midwifery led care. , Cath

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Julie 
  Clarke 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Thursday, August 17, 2006 11:09 
  AM
  Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
  required
  
  
  Hi 
  Cath,
  I don’t know anything 
  about him and would not pass judgment on a person on a public forum anyway (or 
  possibly privately either),
  so what I’d suggest 
  is to consider the idea that he/or a colleague in his field might be against 
  midwifery led care and think through all the possible arguments that might be 
  put forth such as “perceived insufficient midwifery training” or “perceived 
  insufficient midwifery experience” or “perceived insufficient confidence 
  professionally for midwives in Australia” and then develop counter arguments 
  to put forth, particularly with regard to the wonderful work being done 
  currently for midwifery in Australia – refer to 
  ACMI.
  Warm 
  hug
  Julie 
  
  
  
  
  
  
  From: 
  owner-ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  [mailto:owner-ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au] On Behalf Of cath nolanSent: Thursday, 17 August 2006 10:29 
  AMTo: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auSubject: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
  required
  
  
  
  
  - Original Message - 
  
  
  From: cath 
  nolan 
  
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  
  Sent: 
  Wednesday, August 16, 2006 8:37 PM
  
  Subject: info 
  required
  
  
  
  I will be meeting with Peter 
  Miourik(obstetrician) amongst others in an informal dinner setting on Friday 
  night as the hospital that I work at is having a review of obstetric services 
  . I believe this is a man who is quite against midwifery led services and I'm 
  a bit puzzled as to why I have been asked to be one of the 2 midwifery reps at 
  this dinner. But very pleased at the same time, and more than happy to be a 
  part of this. Can anyone fill me in on what they know of this man? 
  Cath.


Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info required

2006-08-16 Thread cath nolan



Thanks Wendy, I have just had a big long chat with 
Andrea and have been reminded where I have heard of him before. I will let 
Andrea know how things go. Cath

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  From: 
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  Sent: Thursday, August 17, 2006 11:04 
  AM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
  required
  
  Good Grief
  Most of what I would like to say is probaobly not 
  safe to write anywhere.
  Dr Mourik I have worked with in Wodonga as a 
  student. He come here to Wang occassioanlly as a Locum much to the distress of 
  all the midwives. Arrogant is an understatement. He "saves" women and tells 
  them so. 
  He is a skilled obstetrician, no doubt, but I 
  wouldn't want him any where near me if I was birthing.
  An example that comes to mind when I was a 
  student was when he was performing a perineal repair and smugly asked the 
  husband "Want me to throw in a few extra stitches, to tighten her 
  up?"
  This man is very self assured, articulate, hmmm 
  perhaps you should just ring me at home on this one Cath. (03) 
  57221605.
  Wendy
  
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
cath nolan 
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 

Sent: Thursday, August 17, 2006 10:28 
AM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] Fw: info 
required


- Original Message - 
From: cath 
nolan 
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 

Sent: Wednesday, August 16, 2006 8:37 PM
Subject: info required

I will be meeting with Peter 
Miourik(obstetrician) amongst others in an informal dinner setting on Friday 
night as the hospital that I work at is having a review of obstetric 
services . I believe this is a man who is quite against midwifery led 
services and I'm a bit puzzled as to why I have been asked to be one of the 
2 midwifery reps at this dinner. But very pleased at the same time, and more 
than happy to be a part of this. Can anyone fill me in on what they know of 
this man? Cath.



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