Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-16 Thread emily.ma...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
Thank you Eustace for the 60 Minutes link. I watched the show - a good plug. Jon Kabat-Zinn is looking peaceful. :) If Anderson Cooper can surrender his mobile devices and keep coming back to his breath, than so can I. And, I practiced this morning and I do feel calmer. If it is good enough

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-16 Thread emily.ma...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : From: emily.mae50@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : From: seerdope@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com ... In theory, theory and practice

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-16 Thread TurquoiseBee turquoi...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception   ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : From: emily.mae50@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : From: seerdope@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-16 Thread emily.ma...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
? No, that's it. Thanks for your reply. What were you hoping for? From: emily.mae50@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, December 16, 2014 7:54 PM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception ---In FairfieldLife

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-15 Thread TurquoiseBee turquoi...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
From: emily.ma...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : From: seerdope@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com ...In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not (Yogi Berra)   In

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-15 Thread emily.ma...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
Hm.I am hitting the pause button today.a small skill I'm learning when I am in danger of reactingjust me.will get back to you tomorrow. :) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : From: emily.mae50@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-14 Thread TurquoiseBee turquoi...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
Great article and great concept, Emily. Thanks for posting both. I don't talk about my time with the Rama guy much here because some are averse to it and freak out, but one of the things I'm most grateful to that teacher and that whole trip for is that my time there taught me to laugh at

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-14 Thread emily.ma...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
The ability to laugh at oneself typically increases with age and experience. I thought you would appreciate this. Absurdity is everywhere in the human condition, but there are those that can't objectify (at least to some degree) or pick up on the often subtle nuances of a situation to see it as

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-14 Thread TurquoiseBee turquoi...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
From: emily.ma...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sunday, December 14, 2014 7:28 PM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception   The ability to laugh at oneself typically increases with age and experience. I

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-14 Thread emily.ma...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
of a swimmer. :) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : From: emily.mae50@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sunday, December 14, 2014 7:28 PM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-14 Thread TurquoiseBee turquoi...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
From: emily.ma...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sunday, December 14, 2014 8:01 PM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception   O.K.  Get ready...do you mean controlled foolishness?  I've gotta take my dog

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-14 Thread TurquoiseBee turquoi...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
BTW, compare to definition #2 below.  :-) From: TurquoiseBee turquoi...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sunday, December 14, 2014 8:37 PM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-14 Thread seerd...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
In my experience (given all possible observations, a rather microscopic slice of life) those that have loosened up or (possibly) lost a straight jacket sense of limited and static identity, tend to laugh a lot. Not (necessarily) in dumb and silly reactive ways, but more towards deeper,

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-14 Thread TurquoiseBee turquoi...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
From: seerd...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com ...In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not (Yogi Berra)   In theory, I love science and its methods, despite severe limits. Particularly neuroscience, broadly defined. However, in practice, I am

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-14 Thread emily.ma...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
: TurquoiseBee turquoiseb@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sunday, December 14, 2014 8:37 PM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception From: emily.mae50@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-14 Thread emily.ma...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
Comments below. I tried to put reply in different color, but can't get formatting to take so used initials: ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seerdope@... wrote : SEER: In my experience (given all possible observations, a rather microscopic slice of life) those that have loosened

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-14 Thread emily.ma...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
Re: With most others, in daily life - not so much. Probably because all that deceptive conditioning sets in subconsciously. Know thyself is a very large concept. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emily.mae50@... wrote : Comments below. I tried to put reply in different color, but

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-14 Thread emily.ma...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote : From: seerdope@... [FairfieldLife] FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com ... In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not (Yogi Berra) In theory, I love science and its methods, despite severe limits.

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-14 Thread seerd...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
EM: I posted this article because I like the topic; personally, I think the test they used, based on what they mentioned of it, is a bunch of BS. There are no black and white answers. The article itself is lousy and dumbed down for public consumption. SD: I think the premise of the

Re: [FairfieldLife] Humor and Self-Deception

2014-12-14 Thread emily.ma...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]
Let me try out some mindfulness (no, not a TM'er - no hope for enlightenment here) and see if I can answer you coherently. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seerdope@... wrote : EM: I posted this article because I like the topic; personally, I think the test they used, based on what