Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy

2008-08-25 Thread Louis McKenzie
Thanks.  I thought I made it clear but I guess I did not.  My partners and the 
investors are different people.   I have kept going the whole  time to be able 
to pay the investors their money back.   I have taken responsibility for their 
money even if they have not been willing to assist me at all.   They invested 
because they thought I was working for my partners.   They had a responsibility 
to cover the company and my personal expenses while I built the company.  The 
Partners got friends to put up money and then they abandoned.   They thought 
they had me in a position that they would own the major portion of the company 
even if they did not uphold their responsibilities.  

--- On Mon, 8/25/08, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
From: TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, August 25, 2008, 7:28 AM

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Louis McKenzie [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 So I am writing all of this to say. Even though I may question 
 if perhaps I am a little nuts.  I have really gotten to see 
 what happens when one puts principal ahead of security.  

I think the word you want is 'principle.' 

 I had received money to make an investment 3 years ago. The
 investors backed out they only want to know when I will give 
 their money back or have money for them.  

I know that most here express sympathy for your
situation, and I do as well, but this legitimate
question remains unaddressed in your post. Please
note that all of the following information in your
post is about *you* and *your* family and *your* 
lifestyle:

 My original partners abandoned me 3 years ago. I could have 
 chosen to run away but I did not. In the three years from 
 2005 till 2008 I was able to send my step daughter to a 
 Waldorf School and allow my wife the time to devote to our 
 toddler. From 6 months pregnant to 3 years old my wife was 
 able to dedicate herself to our children.

 In Brazil this is not valued, but for me it is very important.   

I'm sure it is. Did your original investors not 
getting their money back have any impact on *their*
families or *their* lifestyles?

 I believe that within the next couple of days my funding 
 will be finally in my account. I will put forth the first 
 payment on our home and hopefully get my family back in 
 order.   

And again, your funding (theoretically, more
investment in your business ideas) comes through, 
and the *first* you do with it is buy a house for 
you and your family? While the question of how 
much is left for the business idea or how much 
goes to repaying your original investors remains 
unaddressed?

I lived in New Mexico for several years. Few people
know that Microsoft started there, in Albuquerque.
During my time there I ran into probably two dozen
people who still spit every time they hear the name
Bill Gates because he blew town and moved to Seattle
owing them tens of thousands of dollars, and in a few
cases hundreds of thousands of dollars.

The richest man in the world has never paid those 
debts. He has never even *acknowledged* those debts.
Bill Gates can give away billions of dollars to
charity for the rest of his life, but not one of 
these people he left holding the bag are ever going
to have an ounce of respect for him. 

All I'm suggesting is that as things come around for
you and you start to get back on your feet financially,
you might want to put some thought into repaying the
people who invested in you earlier, instead of referring
to them as having backed out on you.

I'm sorry, but the almost complete self-absorbtion of 
your post leads me to believe they might have had some
reason for doing so. Even if this is not true, the bottom
line is that if you still owe them money, you still owe
them money. 

They didn't *give* you the money, dude...they *invested* 
in you. If you don't repay their investment, you can 
write here all you want about how your vision helped you 
through the struggle, but that's like listening to Bill 
Gates spout bullshit about how he made billions by being
so smart, when in fact he got rich by bailing on his debts. 






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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy

2008-08-25 Thread Louis McKenzie
Thanks.  I thought I made it clear but I guess I did not.  My partners and the 
investors are different people.   I have kept going the whole  time to be able 
to pay the investors their money back.   I have taken responsibility for their 
money even if they have not been willing to assist me at all.   They invested 
because they thought I was working for my partners.   They had a responsibility 
to cover the company and my personal expenses while I built the company.  The 
Partners got friends to put up money and then they abandoned.   They thought 
they had me in a position that they would own the major portion of the company 
even if they did not uphold their responsibilities. 

So as I stated in the original post I had to agree to a settlement so the 
settlement is a payment not investment.
 
--- On Mon, 8/25/08, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
From: TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, August 25, 2008, 7:28 AM

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Louis McKenzie [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 So I am writing all of this to say. Even though I may question 
 if perhaps I am a little nuts.  I have really gotten to see 
 what happens when one puts principal ahead of security.  

I think the word you want is 'principle.' 

 I had received money to make an investment 3 years ago. The
 investors backed out they only want to know when I will give 
 their money back or have money for them.  

I know that most here express sympathy for your
situation, and I do as well, but this legitimate
question remains unaddressed in your post. Please
note that all of the following information in your
post is about *you* and *your* family and *your* 
lifestyle:

 My original partners abandoned me 3 years ago. I could have 
 chosen to run away but I did not. In the three years from 
 2005 till 2008 I was able to send my step daughter to a 
 Waldorf School and allow my wife the time to devote to our 
 toddler. From 6 months pregnant to 3 years old my wife was 
 able to dedicate herself to our children.

 In Brazil this is not valued, but for me it is very important.   

I'm sure it is. Did your original investors not 
getting their money back have any impact on *their*
families or *their* lifestyles?

 I believe that within the next couple of days my funding 
 will be finally in my account. I will put forth the first 
 payment on our home and hopefully get my family back in 
 order.   

And again, your funding (theoretically, more
investment in your business ideas) comes through, 
and the *first* you do with it is buy a house for 
you and your family? While the question of how 
much is left for the business idea or how much 
goes to repaying your original investors remains 
unaddressed?

I lived in New Mexico for several years. Few people
know that Microsoft started there, in Albuquerque.
During my time there I ran into probably two dozen
people who still spit every time they hear the name
Bill Gates because he blew town and moved to Seattle
owing them tens of thousands of dollars, and in a few
cases hundreds of thousands of dollars.

The richest man in the world has never paid those 
debts. He has never even *acknowledged* those debts.
Bill Gates can give away billions of dollars to
charity for the rest of his life, but not one of 
these people he left holding the bag are ever going
to have an ounce of respect for him. 

All I'm suggesting is that as things come around for
you and you start to get back on your feet financially,
you might want to put some thought into repaying the
people who invested in you earlier, instead of referring
to them as having backed out on you.

I'm sorry, but the almost complete self-absorbtion of 
your post leads me to believe they might have had some
reason for doing so. Even if this is not true, the bottom
line is that if you still owe them money, you still owe
them money. 

They didn't *give* you the money, dude...they *invested* 
in you. If you don't repay their investment, you can 
write here all you want about how your vision helped you 
through the struggle, but that's like listening to Bill 
Gates spout bullshit about how he made billions by being
so smart, when in fact he got rich by bailing on his debts. 






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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy

2008-08-25 Thread Louis McKenzie
Pitty Party???  


I know that this thread was supposed to be a kind
of pity party for Louis and all he's been through,
and that we were supposed to express our compassion
and our admiration of him sticking to his principles
throughout it all.
Anyway I dont know what you are talking about.   I do know there is a 
difference between partnerships and investors.   If one is a partner then that 
is much different than an investor.   However I am not going into details about 
my business ventures.   I only stated that I am learning what it takes to 
succeed.   Even that you do not have to stop just because the money stops.    
Get rich quick scheme? dont understand.   

I thank you for getting one part of my post correct but I guess what you did 
not understand is a big part of the last three years has been keeping going so 
I did not lose the money and I would be able to pay the investors back.    
Partners who quit well maybe for me I have abandonment issues.   Yet the 
investors I have taken the money as if it was my own.   As in 100% 
responsibility for it.    You assumed that I would rather buy a house instead 
of pay them.    NoNot true.   However I am taking care of my family as well 
this time.   Since the investors could not send 50.00 for food for my family 
YES I AM PUTTING MY FAMILY FIRST



--- On Mon, 8/25/08, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
From: TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, August 25, 2008, 8:34 AM

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Jason [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 In the 1950's, a few people in India helped Maharishi a lot 
 when he was struggling financially.
 
 Later on when Maharishi copyrighted the TM and started getting 
 millions of dollars, he ignored them completely.!!  He never 
 even acknowledged those who helped him go to the west and 
 establish himself financialy secure.
 
 Both Deepak Chopra's father and Chopra helped Maharishi a lot 
 and yet in the end he kicked Chopra out.!!
 
 Perhaps both Bill Gates and Maharishi have something in common.

Exactly.

I know that this thread was supposed to be a kind
of pity party for Louis and all he's been through,
and that we were supposed to express our compassion
and our admiration of him sticking to his principles
throughout it all.

Ok, I *do* feel compassion for his hard times. And on
some level I feel some admiration for him sticking to
his principles. I just couldn't help noticing that
those principles don't seem to involve repaying the
people who loaned him money or invested in his busi-
ness ideas in the first place. The principles are more 
about sticking to the purity of his vision.

Well, I'm sorry, but I just don't respect that as much
as TMers and other spiritual people seem to. And the 
reason is that over the years I've loaned money to a
*lot* of people, *none* of whom ever repaid a dime of
it. None of them ever *thought* of repaying a dime of
it. They used it to pay for their courses, or their
rent, or their business schemes that never worked out,
or in one case, their women. 

And they thought of all of these things they spent the 
money on as an integral part of their spiritual sadhana,
and thus somehow off the books. The general attitude
was that if it helps them pursue enlightenment (or what-
ever their *personal* goals were), these are not debts
that need to be respected but money flowing in from the 
universe -- an expression of support of nature.

Excuse me, but the money flowing in was an expres-
sion of a friend trying to help them, a friend who did 
not have that much money in the first place, and had to
do without a few things himself f*in order to* help 
them out.

Not a penny ever got repaid. 

And not *one* of them ever felt bad about it.

I think there is something *wrong* with this. I think
that it's wrong when some meditator bums money to pay
his rent because he's too evolved to work, and I 
think there is something wrong with it when someone
meditator comes up with a get rich quick scheme and 
winds up defrauding a number of his meditating friends 
when the scheme goes belly up.

Louis may NOT have had anything like this in mind; the
whole problem may be that he wrote what he did without
clarifying the details of these people who backed
him who are now so unevolved as to want their money
back. It could be a simple failure of language, and
I may be up on my soapbox without cause. If so, I 
apologize in advance.

But the whole schtick in this post was principle,
and I for one couldn't help but notice that the one
principle that kept getting ignored was *paying back*
the people who invested money.

If it had been me, I would have gone wherever I could
have found work and paid back every penny. *Then* I 
would have started over on some new plan. That's my 
definition of commitment, belief, trust, and how to 
deal with adversity. 

You can call me non-spiritual for feeling

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy

2008-08-25 Thread Louis McKenzie
My wife says the thing that has bothered her the most about me is my 
calmness.   That I could pass through anything and just meditate and not have 
any negative emotion.   

JAI GURU DEV

Once we were passing a moment of no money we went six weeks or two months with 
a rigged electric.   Everyday day we chanted Gayatri mantra whole family even 
my son at the time age 18 months.   Then WOW! we came into money again.   We 
paid the light bill paid the school bill and went to the beach.   GOD WORKS

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From: nablusoss1008 [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, August 25, 2008, 6:51 AM

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wrote:

 From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 On Behalf Of Louis McKenzie
 Sent: Sunday, August 24, 2008 10:40 PM
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and 
adveristy
 
  
 
 
 Thanks guys for your support. Everyone that has written I need it.  
I do
 chant Gayatri Mantra  but I do not know Mahamritunjaya 
Mantra..If you
 know it please send it to me.   If you know where I can hear it 
please send
 me to the link.   THANKS ALL Your support is very helpful.
 
  
 
 I read your whole thing too and I really admire your integrity and
 determination. I hope you end up comfortably affluent without too 
much more
 stress and strain in getting there.

Agreed totally. Thumbs up Louis ! And I think you gathered all that 
strenght from your character and your TM-Programme. Stay regular in 
your practise - no mumbo-jumbo-mantras necessary !





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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy

2008-08-25 Thread Louis McKenzie
Well Forgiveness and mercy are always important.  

One thing I have learned is that the road to success is full of opportunity.  
Some opportunities are good and some not so good.   One thing I have learned is 
that sometimes people dont really care about people.   If I dont care about me 
maybe no one else will either.   An investor is one thing a partner is someone 
with a particular responsibility that the person chooses to take on for a 
certain percentage of ownership.   In this case just as that person is a 
partner so too am I .   Why do you believe that one partner would be any more 
or less responsible for the results of things than the other.  

My so called partners in this particular venture thought I was weak and 
stupid.   So they thought they could bully me into giving up my blank 
Instead they found something else.   I dont know what I will do with them .   
The investors will get their money back, yet as I have never met them I will 
see what goes with so called partners.   Investors= understanding 
Partners who quit or abandon = anger and uncertainty

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From: Richard J. Williams [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, August 25, 2008, 10:36 AM

TurquoiseB wrote:
 All I'm suggesting is that as things come around for
 you and you start to get back on your feet financially,
 you might want to put some thought into repaying the
 people who invested in you earlier, instead of referring
 to them as having backed out on you.
 
From 1988 to 1991, Rama's individual tuition rose from 
roughly one thousand to three thousand dollars per month.  

He told followers that since NPDS and ASI were actually 
furthering their careers, they should deduct the increasing 
payments from their taxes. 

This enabled Rama to dramatically increase his surprise 
gift reservoir - while bilking the IRS of millions, in a 
way that would be difficult to expose.

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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy

2008-08-25 Thread Louis McKenzie
I don't know Rama.  I once had a partner in another business whom when he was 
excited about things he went out and raised a whole lot of money.   He did 
things and promised things that I would not do.   Then when he got depressed he 
quit.  Before he officially quit he told me that he would only quit when he was 
sure I could not continue.   I was not sure what he meant by that.   Then I 
started a venture that actually started making money.   He called my new 
partner's wife a stupid bitch and told bank officers he was me.   

I began to understand him.   I became weary of partners.  When Partners lose 
they sometimes make excuses for the loss, by blaming others.   So they bad 
mouth like gossipers.    I like investors not so sure about partners.   I have 
expectation with partners no expectation with investors.

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From: Richard J. Williams [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, August 25, 2008, 10:43 AM

TurquoiseB wrote:
 You can call me non-spiritual for feeling this way
 if you want, but that's how I feel. Principle is not
 found in the glorious plans one talks about or pitches
 to others, but in what one DOES when those plans some-
 times don't work out.
 
So, you've still got some 'negative energy' to work out!

In 1989, Rama justified to the disciples his rising 
tuition. I nearly killed myself by accepting your 
Negative Occult Energy, he said, and now you are going 
to have to pay for it.

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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy

2008-08-25 Thread Louis McKenzie
I am sorry you had this experience.  

I have seen worst probably called worst.   Not a guru

For me Sri Sri Ravi Shankar was/is my friend.  If he was doing a project or was 
participating in a project to help other people I would do all I could to help 
him

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Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, August 25, 2008, 11:00 AM

TurquoiseB wrote:
 My rant was aimed not at you personally but at people
 I've known who borrowed hundreds of thousands of
 dollars from friends to create a business, did so,
 and then spent the first five years' earnings from
 the business on new cars, houses, and an ostentatious
 lifestyle. 

Generally, this was to be paid in US $100 bills - 
higher vibratory energy, ex-members say. Gifts and 
costly special excursions are extra: In practice, 
members give Lenz almost all their money, according 
to published reports and ex-followers. They squeeze 
into shared, unfurnished apartments while he flies 
in a Lear jet between houses in Long Island, Santa 
Fe, and Los Angeles.

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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy

2008-08-25 Thread gullible fool


Generally, this was to be paid in US $100 bills - 
higher vibratory energy, ex-members say. Gifts and 
costly special excursions are extra: In practice, 
members give Lenz almost all their money, according 
to published reports and ex-followers. They squeeze 
into shared, unfurnished apartments while he flies 
in a Lear jet between houses in Long Island, Santa 
Fe, and Los Angeles.

I'm more impressed with the TMO's laundering skills.
 
Turg, your former leader was either insane or the biggest asshole to ever 
occupy a human body.  

...but mountain doesn't move!

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From: Richard J. Williams [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, August 25, 2008, 10:00 AM

TurquoiseB wrote:
 My rant was aimed not at you personally but at people
 I've known who borrowed hundreds of thousands of
 dollars from friends to create a business, did so,
 and then spent the first five years' earnings from
 the business on new cars, houses, and an ostentatious
 lifestyle. 

Generally, this was to be paid in US $100 bills - 
higher vibratory energy, ex-members say. Gifts and 
costly special excursions are extra: In practice, 
members give Lenz almost all their money, according 
to published reports and ex-followers. They squeeze 
into shared, unfurnished apartments while he flies 
in a Lear jet between houses in Long Island, Santa 
Fe, and Los Angeles.

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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy

2008-08-25 Thread Louis McKenzie
this is a good technique as long as the person has the money by the time the 
check is deposited. Once I did that with a guy and he got money but did not 
pay.   We called the bank verified the money was there and took it.   He kept 
saying he did not have money.

--- On Mon, 8/25/08, mainstream20016 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
From: mainstream20016 [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, August 25, 2008, 12:24 PM

There's a technique to lending money that works really well to increase the
odds of getting 
repaid.  When a person approaches you and asks to borrow, he is usually very
upbeat, and 
cooperative with the terms, and the ' lender ' at that point has
maximum leverage.  
As the potential lender,  Ask the following questions: How much money do you
need to 
borrow ? When do you need the money ?   When  can you repay ?

After the borrower answers those three questions, the lender the directs the
borrower to 
write a check to lender, for amount to be loaned, dated the agreed repayment
date.
Asking for the repayment check upfront as a necessary condition to the loan
eliminates 
having to ' remind ' the borrower of his obligation, and prevents
'misunderstandings' and 
tremendously minimizes the hassle of lending.   












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 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Jason jedi_spock@ wrote:
 
  In the 1950's, a few people in India helped Maharishi a lot 
  when he was struggling financially.
  
  Later on when Maharishi copyrighted the TM and started getting 
  millions of dollars, he ignored them completely.!!  He never 
  even acknowledged those who helped him go to the west and 
  establish himself financialy secure.
  
  Both Deepak Chopra's father and Chopra helped Maharishi a lot 
  and yet in the end he kicked Chopra out.!!
  
  Perhaps both Bill Gates and Maharishi have something in common.
 
 Exactly.
 
 I know that this thread was supposed to be a kind
 of pity party for Louis and all he's been through,
 and that we were supposed to express our compassion
 and our admiration of him sticking to his principles
 throughout it all.
 
 Ok, I *do* feel compassion for his hard times. And on
 some level I feel some admiration for him sticking to
 his principles. I just couldn't help noticing that
 those principles don't seem to involve repaying the
 people who loaned him money or invested in his busi-
 ness ideas in the first place. The principles are more 
 about sticking to the purity of his vision.
 
 Well, I'm sorry, but I just don't respect that as much
 as TMers and other spiritual people seem to. And the 
 reason is that over the years I've loaned money to a
 *lot* of people, *none* of whom ever repaid a dime of
 it. None of them ever *thought* of repaying a dime of
 it. They used it to pay for their courses, or their
 rent, or their business schemes that never worked out,
 or in one case, their women. 
 
 And they thought of all of these things they spent the 
 money on as an integral part of their spiritual sadhana,
 and thus somehow off the books. The general attitude
 was that if it helps them pursue enlightenment (or what-
 ever their *personal* goals were), these are not debts
 that need to be respected but money flowing in from the 
 universe -- an expression of support of nature.
 
 Excuse me, but the money flowing in was an expres-
 sion of a friend trying to help them, a friend who did 
 not have that much money in the first place, and had to
 do without a few things himself f*in order to* help 
 them out.
 
 Not a penny ever got repaid. 
 
 And not *one* of them ever felt bad about it.
 
 I think there is something *wrong* with this. I think
 that it's wrong when some meditator bums money to pay
 his rent because he's too evolved to work, and I 
 think there is something wrong with it when someone
 meditator comes up with a get rich quick scheme and 
 winds up defrauding a number of his meditating friends 
 when the scheme goes belly up.
 
 Louis may NOT have had anything like this in mind; the
 whole problem may be that he wrote what he did without
 clarifying the details of these people who backed
 him who are now so unevolved as to want their money
 back. It could be a simple failure of language, and
 I may be up on my soapbox without cause. If so, I 
 apologize in advance.
 
 But the whole schtick in this post was principle,
 and I for one couldn't help but notice that the one
 principle that kept getting ignored was *paying back*
 the people who invested money.
 
 If it had been me, I would have gone wherever I could
 have found work and paid back every penny. *Then* I 
 would have started over on some new plan. That's my 
 definition of commitment, belief, trust, and how to 
 deal with adversity. 
 
 You can call me non-spiritual for feeling this way
 if you want, but that's how I feel. Principle

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy

2008-08-25 Thread Louis McKenzie
The guy was a sleeze bag.   I dont know what you are thinking.   but who said 
family come before being able to pay back.  That is in your head not mine.   
Timing is my choice as it should be because if I had been of the mind that 
someone said and just went and got a job and worked to pay them off I would be 
looking good and taking care of myself.   In truth when people say that what 
they really do is declare bankruptcy.   Because in a normal job in a normal 
life the things that come are more important than the past and the mind does a 
great job of justification.   Better to stick it out and make it work if you 
really intend to pay.   

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From: mainstream20016 [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, August 25, 2008, 12:42 PM

Well, Louis, when he said he didn't have the money, perhaps he was thinking
that his 
family, their shelter, and their food needs competed with the repayment.  Did
he offer a 
substantial partial repayment ?

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Louis McKenzie [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 this is a good technique as long as the person has the money by the time
the check is 
deposited. Once I did that with a guy and he got money but did not pay.   We
called the 
bank verified the money was there and took it.   He kept saying he did not
have money.
 
 --- On Mon, 8/25/08, mainstream20016 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 From: mainstream20016 [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Date: Monday, August 25, 2008, 12:24 PM
 
 There's a technique to lending money that works really well to
increase the
 odds of getting 
 repaid.  When a person approaches you and asks to borrow, he is usually
very
 upbeat, and 
 cooperative with the terms, and the ' lender ' at that point has
 maximum leverage.  
 As the potential lender,  Ask the following questions: How much money do
you
 need to 
 borrow ? When do you need the money ?   When  can you repay ?
 
 After the borrower answers those three questions, the lender the directs
the
 borrower to 
 write a check to lender, for amount to be loaned, dated the agreed
repayment
 date.
 Asking for the repayment check upfront as a necessary condition to the
loan
 eliminates 
 having to ' remind ' the borrower of his obligation, and prevents
 'misunderstandings' and 
 tremendously minimizes the hassle of lending.   
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Jason jedi_spock@
wrote:
  
   In the 1950's, a few people in India helped Maharishi a lot 
   when he was struggling financially.
   
   Later on when Maharishi copyrighted the TM and started getting 
   millions of dollars, he ignored them completely.!!  He never 
   even acknowledged those who helped him go to the west and 
   establish himself financialy secure.
   
   Both Deepak Chopra's father and Chopra helped Maharishi a
lot 
   and yet in the end he kicked Chopra out.!!
   
   Perhaps both Bill Gates and Maharishi have something in common.
  
  Exactly.
  
  I know that this thread was supposed to be a kind
  of pity party for Louis and all he's been through,
  and that we were supposed to express our compassion
  and our admiration of him sticking to his principles
  throughout it all.
  
  Ok, I *do* feel compassion for his hard times. And on
  some level I feel some admiration for him sticking to
  his principles. I just couldn't help noticing that
  those principles don't seem to involve repaying the
  people who loaned him money or invested in his busi-
  ness ideas in the first place. The principles are more 
  about sticking to the purity of his vision.
  
  Well, I'm sorry, but I just don't respect that as much
  as TMers and other spiritual people seem to. And the 
  reason is that over the years I've loaned money to a
  *lot* of people, *none* of whom ever repaid a dime of
  it. None of them ever *thought* of repaying a dime of
  it. They used it to pay for their courses, or their
  rent, or their business schemes that never worked out,
  or in one case, their women. 
  
  And they thought of all of these things they spent the 
  money on as an integral part of their spiritual sadhana,
  and thus somehow off the books. The general attitude
  was that if it helps them pursue enlightenment (or what-
  ever their *personal* goals were), these are not debts
  that need to be respected but money flowing in from the 
  universe -- an expression of support of nature.
  
  Excuse me, but the money flowing in was an expres-
  sion of a friend trying to help them, a friend who did 
  not have that much money in the first place, and had to
  do without a few things himself f*in order to* help 
  them out.
  
  Not a penny ever got repaid. 
  
  And not *one

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy

2008-08-24 Thread Louis McKenzie
Thanks guys for your support. Everyone that has written I need it.  I do chant 
Gayatri Mantra  but I do not know Mahamritunjaya Mantra..If you know it 
please send it to me.   If you know where I can hear it please send me to the 
link.   THANKS ALL Your support is very helpful.

--- On Sun, 8/24/08, yifuxero [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
From: yifuxero [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Date: Sunday, August 24, 2008, 10:57 PM

.You need to chant the Mahamritunjaya mantra at least 2 rounds per 
day, while giving full attention to the fulfillment of your desires.  
Or, the Gayatri mantra, or both; total, about 1 hour .  These 
practices will give you a 25% boost in the alleviation of your 
suffering: (yin and yang - getting rid of what you don't what and 
obtaining what you do want); all in the context of Dharmic behavior.
 Don't listen to that utterly ridiculous discourse by Willytex 
on OM.  We're talking about your LIFE here, not some nitpicking

academic wrangling.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Louis McKenzie [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 Today I passed the afternoon with my son and his mother, my wife.   
Recently we had a big challenge in our life.   I don't know if I can 
say that I have passed this challenge or failed it.   I know that all 
I could do is stay on purpose and keep my love and commitment to my 
wife and my family above all else.   Living in Brazil as an American 
I do not have a lot of resources.   Even I have a lot of 
limitation.   For example because I do not have a permanent visa  I 
can not just go out and get a job.   As someone who has accepted 
money for investment I have certain responsibilities and limitations 
corporate as well as ethical, therefore for me to take a job in a 
country that my working without the appropriate documentation is in 
direct violation of the laws
  of the country and can lead to immediate deportation, I have had 
to depend on business partners for everyday existence.   
 
 When all of my so called partners were no longer sending money I 
was able to keep going for two more years, on my own creativity.   
Finally one day the guy from the housing court was at the door to put 
me and my family out of our rented apartment.   WOW! even though we 
knew the day would possibly arrive, we were shocked.   Especially 
since funding that had been promised for one year and held up in the 
current banking collapse was about to be released.   
 
 Anyway having to leave our apartment on an unplanned day, we were 
subject and dependent on my wife's family.  In these moments families 
panic and being caught off guard I did not know how to respond.   
Needless to say I was flabbergasted.   Yet I kept my head the best I 
could and when I found myself and my son in the home of my mother in 
law, and I was being asked to leave, I felt a fear and definite 
hurt.  Yet I
  packed up my things and left.   I had enough money to get a hotel 
room.  I went to cheap hotels but they were the kind of places that 
would cost more than I was saving.   So I found a moderate hotel.   I 
could have gone to Rio and stayed with friends for no immediate cost, 
but I would not have been able to see my son every weekend or keep my 
presence with my family.   I stayed within 10 minutes by car. 
 
 Have you ever thought you were passing through something that was 
totally insane but knew you had to pass through it?   That was what 
this has been like.   
 
 My son was born shortly after my dad died.   Even as my dad was 
dying I invited him to come to Brazil  and fill the vacancy that was 
now available as my mate in Brazil was pregnant.   He died in New 
Jersey, when I returned to Brazil and we went to Ob-Gyn the Doctor 
did an ultra sound and the baby waved and kicked open his
  legs to show he was a boy.
 
 So I have always had the belief that this being may well be my 
dad.   I could never leave my dad no matter what.   So I stayed.  The 
US Laws are stupid when it comes to immigration, illegal aliens come 
into the US everyday but for me to bring my family it is a great 
process.  So not being able to do so coming back to the US was not an 
option for me.   Getting kicked out of Brazil for deliberately 
breaking the law (Taking a job without documentation) would be 
financially irresponsible.   So I have done my best with the 
circumstances.   
 
 In order to resolve my life I have even had to accept ridiculous 
changes in the amounts of funding I was to receive.   So since I was 
asked to leave my mother in law's home I have spent more money than I 
thought I could.   I believe I am at the end of this process, because 
I believe it has been a test.   Having kept my eye on the result
  I have wanted I was able to buy an exceptional home .  Set up 
various investment ventures in Real Estate such as the possibility of 
building homes in a city that is like the one that was mentioned in 
the post

RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy

2008-08-24 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
On Behalf Of Louis McKenzie
Sent: Sunday, August 24, 2008 10:40 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: commitment belief trust and adveristy

 


Thanks guys for your support. Everyone that has written I need it.  I do
chant Gayatri Mantra  but I do not know Mahamritunjaya Mantra..If you
know it please send it to me.   If you know where I can hear it please send
me to the link.   THANKS ALL Your support is very helpful.

 

I read your whole thing too and I really admire your integrity and
determination. I hope you end up comfortably affluent without too much more
stress and strain in getting there.