Re: [silk] rant - Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Srini Ramakrishnan
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 8:12 AM, Udhay Shankar N [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Kiran Jonnalagadda wrote, [on 4/10/2008 7:35 AM]: Aren't there a number of studies that say the peer group matters more than the parenting? Citations? Well, would it REALLY help to have them? This seems like

Re: [silk] rant - Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread va
On Wed, Apr 9, 2008 at 10:06 AM, Deepa Mohan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: H I enjoyed that very,very much. (Udhay will probably kill me for not adding a debatable opinion but only appreciating what someone else has written..but so what!)...I suppose the only form of life you DID regularly

Re: [silk] rant - Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Ingrid
On 10/04/2008, Udhay Shankar N [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Kiran Jonnalagadda wrote, [on 4/10/2008 7:35 AM]: Aren't there a number of studies that say the peer group matters more than the parenting? Citations? Udhay -- ((Udhay Shankar N)) ((udhay @ pobox.com)) ((www.digeratus.com))

[silk] Google Apps email spam filter

2008-04-10 Thread ashok _
I am on a mailing list that runs on a server hosted in Kenya, about 50% of the email originating from the list gets consistently flagged as spam by GMail... (Note: this does not happen to the many other mailing lists that i am on ). What could be the problem ? (The list admin has tried various

Re: [silk] rant - Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Badri Natarajan
Aren't there a number of studies that say the peer group matters more than the parenting? I too have vague memories of reading something along the lines of how, *beyond a certain age*, the child's peer group has more of an influence on the child than the parents. Even if true, given that the

Re: [silk] rant - Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread ss
On Thursday 10 Apr 2008 2:57:33 pm Badri Natarajan wrote: Aren't there a number of studies that say the peer group matters more than the parenting? I too have vague memories of reading something along the lines of how, *beyond a certain age*, the child's peer group has more of an influence

[silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Gautam John
I've been wondering why there is an acute lack of *any* restaurant, in Bangalore, that serves Mexican food. I'm not sure if this is true of the rest of India too... A friend contrasted this to the proliferation of Chinese and Italian (or rather, Indian versions) restaurants because, in his

Re: [silk] rant - Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Kiran Jonnalagadda
On 10-Apr-08, at 4:14 PM, ss wrote: So I believe that it could be wrong to say that one or the other have greater influence. Both parents and peer group are inextricably involved with any given child and the influence of one cannot be completely isolated. The material I was reading tended

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Suresh Ramasubramanian
Gautam John [10/04/08 16:30 +0530]: I've been wondering why there is an acute lack of *any* restaurant, in Bangalore, that serves Mexican food. I'm not sure if this is true of the rest of India too... Madras has one - not that it is very authentic

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Deepa Mohan
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 4:53 PM, Suresh Ramasubramanian [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Gautam John [10/04/08 16:30 +0530]: I've been wondering why there is an acute lack of *any* restaurant, in Bangalore, that serves Mexican food. I'm not sure if this is true of the rest of India too...

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Ramakrishnan Sundaram
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 4:30 PM, Gautam John [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I've been wondering why there is an acute lack of *any* restaurant, in Bangalore, that serves Mexican food. I'm not sure if this is true of the rest of India too... There used to be one - a not very good one - in the hotel

Re: [silk] All done with mirrors

2008-04-10 Thread Dave Long
The visual neurons are still intact, and they're firing off, telling the brain one thing, Tsao said. The propriaceptive neurons are firing off, telling the brain something else. ...My thinking is that there is some sort of center in the brain that coordinates these signals. ... Somehow,

Re: [silk] rant - Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Biju Chacko
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 5:29 PM, Ingrid [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Except that in choosing both residential neighbourhoods and schools, parents (usually) determine peer group as well. Which brings us back to square one -- my worry about the peer group at most non-traditional schools and

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Dave Kumar
On 4/10/08, Gautam John [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I've been wondering why there is an acute lack of *any* restaurant, in Bangalore, that serves Mexican food. I'm not sure if this is true of the rest of India too... Way back when, in the late 80s, there was a Mexican restaurant in Bangalore,

Re: [silk] rant - Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Deepa Mohan
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 6:30 PM, Biju Chacko [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 5:29 PM, Ingrid [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Except that in choosing both residential neighbourhoods and schools, parents (usually) determine peer group as well. Which brings us back to square

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Deepa Mohan
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 6:24 PM, Ramakrishnan Sundaram [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 4:30 PM, Gautam John [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I've been wondering why there is an acute lack of *any* restaurant, in Bangalore, that serves Mexican food. I'm not sure if this is true of

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread ss
I have had Mexican food in what is now Le Meridien in Bangalore. I got diarrhea after eating the stuff. In fact another restaurant in the premises serves Sushi - which was OK. shiv On Thursday 10 Apr 2008 4:30:05 pm Gautam John wrote: I've been wondering why there is an acute lack of *any*

Re: [silk] rant - Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread ss
On Thursday 10 Apr 2008 4:39:43 pm Kiran Jonnalagadda wrote: Bad parenting + good peers = some hope Good parenting + bad peers = disaster Interesting but it sounds like an escape route for parents - a clause that can always be quoted as an excuse. The peer group cannot really be checked - so

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Charles Haynes
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 7:00 AM, Gautam John [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I've been wondering why there is an acute lack of *any* restaurant, in Bangalore, that serves Mexican food. I'm not sure if this is true of the rest of India too... A friend contrasted this to the proliferation of

Re: [silk] rant - Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Charles Haynes
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 10:08 AM, ss [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Thursday 10 Apr 2008 4:39:43 pm Kiran Jonnalagadda wrote: Bad parenting + good peers = some hope Good parenting + bad peers = disaster Interesting but it sounds like an escape route for parents - a clause that can

Re: [silk] rant - Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Deepa Mohan
We home schooled our children. Not a popular option in India I think, and one can argue whether that puts our kids in the good peers or bad peers equation, but I'm pretty happy with the results. -- Charles NOT an option in India... Deepa.

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Ramakrishnan Sundaram
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 7:31 PM, Deepa Mohan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: oh YES RamI think it was called Orange County (before the resort in Coorg came up) and what an accurate description of that ...er...musician (I was told that he died, and I strongly suspected it was either by

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Udhay Shankar N
Dave Kumar wrote, [on 4/10/2008 7:05 PM]: Way back when, in the late 80s, there was a Mexican restaurant in Bangalore, on Church Street or thereabouts I believe. It was a Mexican fast food place. Maybe you're thinking of Pecos, in its first avatar? IIRC, it started off as a Mexican food

Re: [silk] rant - Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Ramakrishnan Sundaram
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 7:46 PM, Charles Haynes [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: We home schooled our children. Not a popular option in India I think, It's an option only if you are confident you have the ability to home school your children. I have doubts about my teaching skills. Ram

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Gautam John
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 8:28 PM, Udhay Shankar N [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: There was also one on Lady Curzon Road near Bowring Hospital that wasn't bad. I forget the name now. Latino's. It was, IIRC, terrible. Cheesy potato skins. -- Please read our new blog at: http://blog.prathambooks.org/

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Dave Kumar
On 4/10/08, Udhay Shankar N [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Dave Kumar wrote, [on 4/10/2008 7:05 PM]: Way back when, in the late 80s, there was a Mexican restaurant in Bangalore, on Church Street or thereabouts I believe. It was a Mexican fast food place. Maybe you're thinking of Pecos, in

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Udhay Shankar N
Charles Haynes wrote, [on 4/10/2008 7:43 PM]: Enchiladas would be dead simple though. I'll be visiting in a few weeks, maybe we can get together and make enchiladas. So we have the next silkmeet all set then. Bring some Tequila. :) Udhay -- ((Udhay Shankar N)) ((udhay @ pobox.com))

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Udhay Shankar N
Gautam John wrote, [on 4/10/2008 8:32 PM]: There was also one on Lady Curzon Road near Bowring Hospital that wasn't bad. I forget the name now. Latino's. It was, IIRC, terrible. Cheesy potato skins. Right. I remember it for its sizzlers (not Mexican, but tasty nonetheless.) Udhay --

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Suresh Ramasubramanian
Udhay Shankar N [10/04/08 20:32 +0530]: Charles Haynes wrote, [on 4/10/2008 7:43 PM]: Enchiladas would be dead simple though. I'll be visiting in a few weeks, maybe we can get together and make enchiladas. So we have the next silkmeet all set then. Bring some Tequila. :) Bring lots. Stream

Re: [silk] rant - Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Ramjee Swaminathan
On 4/10/08, Deepa Mohan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: We home schooled our children. Not a popular option in India I think, and one can argue whether that puts our kids in the good peers or bad peers equation, but I'm pretty happy with the results. -- Charles NOT an option in India...

Re: [silk] Google Apps email spam filter

2008-04-10 Thread ashok _
Suresh Ramasubramanian wrote: ashok _ [10/04/08 11:24 +0300]: I am on a mailing list that runs on a server hosted in Kenya, about 50% of the email originating from the list gets consistently flagged as spam by GMail... (Note: this does not happen to the many other mailing lists that i am on ).

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Alok G. Singh
On 10 Apr 2008, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I can't remember the name of the place. Pinch of Jazz ? On the 5th floor ? The food was not really Mexican or even Tex-Mex (think chappatis with rajma), I remember the cuisine being billed as Cajun. I agree with the not very good part though. but

[silk] p2p? nah! - was Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Ramjee Swaminathan
On 4/10/08, Biju Chacko [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 5:29 PM, Ingrid [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Except that in choosing both residential neighbourhoods and schools, parents (usually) determine peer group as well. Which brings us back to square one -- my worry about

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Srini Ramakrishnan
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 4:30 PM, Gautam John [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I've been wondering why there is an acute lack of *any* restaurant, in Bangalore, that serves Mexican food. I'm not sure if this is true of the rest of India too... Indi Joes is a chain found at least in Bangalore and

Re: [silk] p2p? nah! - was Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Thaths
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 9:29 AM, Ramjee Swaminathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Typically, many of the non traditional schools are small in size, have only a few 'dedicated' folks behind the show, they subscribe to some didactic philosophy (Montessori/Steiner/Horseburgh/Krishnamurthy/Neill/MK

Re: [silk] p2p? nah! - was Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Ramjee Swaminathan
On 4/10/08, Thaths [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: When I was growing up, my parents lacked the money or connections or even knowledge to be able to send me to schools like Rishi Valley. They did send me to pretty good mainstream disciplinarian, 100% success rate (Most of our students get into IIT)

Re: [silk] p2p? nah! - was Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread ss
On Thursday 10 Apr 2008 9:59:14 pm Ramjee Swaminathan wrote: I am merely hinting at the possibility that it's effect is minimal and that the damage/goodwork done to the child (direclty and indirectly) is already done by the time peers enter the picture. True IMO. The peer group become

Re: [silk] Google Apps email spam filter

2008-04-10 Thread Suresh Ramasubramanian
ashok _ [10/04/08 18:58 +0300]: Sorry didnt get your reply (is there a list delivery problem on silk-list ?)... picked this up from the yahoo group archive none here. I run the server myself so .. The server we are running is a dedicated server that also runs an IRC server. The problem

Re: [silk] Copying is Good: Different is not better

2008-04-10 Thread divya manian
On 4/10/08, ashok _ [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Different is not better At Intel's advanced-chip plants, normal consistency doesn't cut it: The company even copies the air in the room http://www.oregonlive.com/business/oregonian/index.ssf?/base/business/1194591355141180.xmlcoll=7 Isnt

Re: [silk] Copying is Good: Different is not better

2008-04-10 Thread ss
On Thursday 10 Apr 2008 9:12:16 pm ashok _ wrote: Imagine a friend serves you an especially delicious cake and offers to share the recipe. Seems like something you could make, until you get a look at the ingredients: The eggs must come from the same farm where your friend got hers. Flour,

Re: [silk] Copying is Good: Different is not better

2008-04-10 Thread Charles Haynes
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 11:12 PM, ss [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Actually this sounds like typical corporate propaganda via an advertorial, of which one sees a lot in unexpected places and ways. ... Don't know about computer chips but there is a lot of variation in lots of products that use

Re: [silk] Copying is Good: Different is not better

2008-04-10 Thread Udhay Shankar N
divya manian wrote, [on 4/11/2008 7:42 AM]: At Intel's advanced-chip plants, normal consistency doesn't cut it: The company even copies the air in the room http://www.oregonlive.com/business/oregonian/index.ssf?/base/business/1194591355141180.xmlcoll=7 Isnt this what McDonalds does to

Re: [silk] p2p? nah! - was Re: Wanted: Exceptional parents

2008-04-10 Thread Biju Chacko
On Thu, Apr 10, 2008 at 11:11 PM, Ramjee Swaminathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Anyway, the point is that regular or irregular schools, the onus is actually on the parents. That, in fact, is the crux of the matter. Personally, the responsibility of making sure my kid turns out normal (let alone

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Venkatesh Hariharan
Bombay has Cream Center (Chowpatty and Bandra) which serves edible Mexican stuff. i tried Mexican at TGIF in Connaught Place in Delhi (where I am now based) and it was OK, though I had to specifically ask them to get me guacamole (I love that stuff). I miss a place like Picante in Boston's

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Abhijit Menon-Sen
At 2008-04-11 11:01:56 +0530, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: i tried Mexican at TGIF in Connaught Place in Delhi (where I am now based) and it was OK Ten, at the YWCA on Parliament Street in Delhi, serves Mexican food (Quesadillas, especially) that I enjoyed eating; but I have never had an

Re: [silk] Mexican Food in India

2008-04-10 Thread Madhu Menon
Late to this thread due to all the running around trying to relocate my restaurant, but here's my 2 paisa: Abhijit Menon-Sen wrote: Ten, at the YWCA on Parliament Street in Delhi, serves Mexican food (Quesadillas, especially) that I enjoyed eating; but I have never had an opportunity to sample