Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread Lodewijk
Hi Mina, I intentionally started a new thread to be able to have a more abstract discussion about the general policy. I would highly appreciate it if you won't bring it back to the single case. Thank you. Lodewijk On Sun, Jul 29, 2018 at 11:48 AM Mina Theofilatou wrote: > People: our

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread Mina Theofilatou
People: our movement is founded on TRANSPARENCY. Which is - sadly - totally lacking in the Support and Safety Department. The Friendly Spaces policy supposedly protects Wikimedians against threat: examples of such have been provided. Romaine's behaviour quite simply does not fall under the

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread Mina Theofilatou
Sorry about that Lodewijk, I thought the change of title was plainly to make the title more relevant to the discussion. For all it's worth, my contribution to this discussion in the general policy sense can be summarised in the capitalised word of my previous reply's first sentence: TRANSPARENCY.

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread Peter Southwood
Unfortunately, almost every tool can be used as a weapon. Cheers, Peter From: Wikimania-l [mailto:wikimania-l-boun...@lists.wikimedia.org] On Behalf Of Gnangarra Sent: 29 July 2018 04:45 To: Wikimania general list (open subscription) Subject: Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was:

[Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread Lilli Iliev
Hi all, I decided to contribute to this thread, however not in order to elaborate on my personal opinion on this specific case. This would be inappropriate, as we do not have sufficient information about it and also out of respect for the people involved. Instead, I want to comment, because

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread David Cuenca Tudela
On Sun, Jul 29, 2018 at 7:04 PM Lilli Iliev wrote: > According to the Fundamental Rights Agency, 75% of women in qualified > professions or top management jobs have been sexually harassed[1]. > Where did you get that figure from? When I Control+F the number "75" nowhere in that document you

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread Nathan
There is a gulf between behavior that might make someone uncomfortable, which may be the result of cultural differences, and harassment or violence. We should take care to ensure people who need some education on the former don't feel like they have been found guilty of the latter. And such

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread DaB.
Hello. Am 29.07.2018 um 19:27 schrieb Chris Keating: > to make sure everyone is welcome You mean everyone that is not a little deaf, speaks not a little too loud and does not dare to deliver stuff to other sessions? The hole case is a primary example why such things as a friendly-space-policy

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread Lodewijk
I disagree that there is no use for a policy at all. Sure, there are laws, but I would prefer not to have to use them - that we can avoid misbehavior in the first place. Having a good and consistent policy helps Wikipedians navigate. Don't (just) define what is forbidden, but (also) define what is

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread Federico Leva (Nemo)
Lilli Iliev, 29/07/2018 20:04: One reliable way to silence people when they experience harassment as well as keeping others from speaking out, is to have them experience how other, non-involved people, would immediately have an opinion on what happened and judge the case or the person in

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread Andy Mabbett
On 29 July 2018 at 18:27, Chris Keating wrote: > Lots of opinions from people going "well this person didn't harass > me" or "I don't know the specifics but maybe it's just cultural > differences" I'm one of the people who commented, early on, on that original thread; and I don't believe that

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread Asaf Bartov
On Sun, Jul 29, 2018 at 8:57 PM Federico Leva (Nemo) wrote: > Lilli Iliev, 29/07/2018 20:04: > > One reliable way to silence people when they experience harassment as > > well as keeping others from speaking out, is to have them experience how > > other, non-involved people, would immediately

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread Chris Keating
Thanks for writing this Lilli - I completely agree. Lots of opinions from people going "well this person didn't harass me" or "I don't know the specifics but maybe it's just cultural differences" or "omg the WMF has done something outrageous again" do not really help this kind of situation. If

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread Pine W
I have no personal knowledge of the recent events at Wikimania, and I will speak about only the general principles involved. > True. But for privacy and other reasons, it is impractical to make > friendly-space violations a matter of public debate, > Please provide evidence that backs up that

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread John Hendrik Weitzmann
Hi all, someone asked me not to comment on this issue anymore, but as I think/hope that we are now on the meta level, let me remind everyone that a policy is just a particular aggregate state of norms. Nobody here seems to doubt that we need norms, especially at and around events. And norms often

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread Gnangarra
One reliable way to silence people when they experience harassment as well > as keeping others from speaking out, is to have them experience how other, > non-involved people, would immediately have an opinion on what happened and > judge the case or the person in question. This is what has

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread DaB.
Hello John. Am 29.07.2018 um 23:40 schrieb John Hendrik Weitzmann: > Nobody here seems to doubt that we need norms, especially at and around > events. I was at 2 Wikimanias, 5 WikiCons, several workshops and meetings, and nearly 2 dozen of WMDE-chapter-meeting – and only the very least of them

Re: [Wikimania-l] Friendly Space Policy (was: Sad news)

2018-07-29 Thread effe iets anders
Hi dab, I'm glad you didn't experience any problems. May i ask how you conclude that we "survived"? What does it mean? No incidents? No murders? No near-incidents? I'm just trying to understand how you evaluate the success of a (no) policy. Lodewijk On Mon, Jul 30, 2018, 02:24 DaB. wrote: >