Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread larry maher
Yes, how true. Scientifically, we evoke stress whenever our decision making
processes are in play.

On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 12:14 AM, SURESH JAGADEESAN varam...@gmail.comwrote:

 **


 ...

 Thinking of future and future problems might create anxiety and stress.

 However, that is not when the stress really originates.

 Stress starts the moment you move away from now into the thought world
 of past and future.

 In moving away from now, you move away from life, you move away from
 vitality, you move away from yourself. Having moved away from now, you
 feel like a fish out of water.

 The thought world of human mind is a barren life-less land devoid of
 vitality. In this land, anxiety naturally results. This is the anxiety
 of being away from your natural state. This is the anxiety of being
 away from your home. This anxiety is the anxiety of separateness. This
 is the anxiety of missing life, anxiety of missing vitality, anxiety
 of missing peace.

 Only way out is to return home. Return to Grace. Return to Self.
 Return to Now...

 ...

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iesig91RCxU

 ECKHART TOLLE

 --
 Thanks and best regards
 J.Suresh
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Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread Kristopher Grey
On 8/27/2013 12:14 AM, SURESH JAGADEESAN wrote:
 Stress starts the moment you move away from now into the thought world
 of past and future.

The thought world can only exist now.
Thoughts, arising and passing, now.
Thought, is an aspect of now.

Another word for what you are describing as the thought world of past 
and future is simply 'imagination', which can only presents as a 
problem to the extent you believe it to be separate or otherwise 
different from now. In an of itself, such thinking is just thinking. A 
useful survival mechanism. Realizing this, it serves. Deluded by this, 
it hinders. Now.

KG




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Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread Bill!
Kris,

I agree. I call the thought world 'delusion' - past, present and future.  As 
far as I can tell there are no thoughts of the present.  There is only 
experience in the present, and experience preceeds thought.

...Bill!  

--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Kristopher Grey kris@... wrote:

 On 8/27/2013 12:14 AM, SURESH JAGADEESAN wrote:
  Stress starts the moment you move away from now into the thought world
  of past and future.
 
 The thought world can only exist now.
 Thoughts, arising and passing, now.
 Thought, is an aspect of now.
 
 Another word for what you are describing as the thought world of past 
 and future is simply 'imagination', which can only presents as a 
 problem to the extent you believe it to be separate or otherwise 
 different from now. In an of itself, such thinking is just thinking. A 
 useful survival mechanism. Realizing this, it serves. Deluded by this, 
 it hinders. Now.
 
 KG







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Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread larry maher
The 'Now' seems to be a three second bit of awareness continually rolling
by us. At least that's what some researchers say. Of course, who knows?


On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 9:41 AM, Bill! billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote:

 **


 Kris,

 I agree. I call the thought world 'delusion' - past, present and future.
 As far as I can tell there are no thoughts of the present. There is only
 experience in the present, and experience preceeds thought.

 ...Bill!

 --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Kristopher Grey kris@... wrote:
 
  On 8/27/2013 12:14 AM, SURESH JAGADEESAN wrote:
   Stress starts the moment you move away from now into the thought world
   of past and future.
 
  The thought world can only exist now.
  Thoughts, arising and passing, now.
  Thought, is an aspect of now.
 
  Another word for what you are describing as the thought world of past
  and future is simply 'imagination', which can only presents as a
  problem to the extent you believe it to be separate or otherwise
  different from now. In an of itself, such thinking is just thinking. A
  useful survival mechanism. Realizing this, it serves. Deluded by this,
  it hinders. Now.
 
  KG
 

  




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Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread Kristopher Grey

All thoughts, afterthoughts.
All actions, reactions.
Seemly that, Seamless this.

The neural lag/disconnect are aspects of 'Maya', the dance or interplay 
(Lila) therewith. In that sense, illusory. Like time.


Nothing escapes Indra's net, nothing caught by it. Only the ever-present 
interweaving of emptiness into suchness.


To parrot-phrase Wei Wu Wei (aka Terence Gray - who Suresh might enjoy 
reading as no doubt Mr. Tolle has): 'Maya' = manifestation.


KG


On 8/27/2013 9:41 AM, Bill! wrote:


Kris,

I agree. I call the thought world 'delusion' - past, present and 
future. As far as I can tell there are no thoughts of the present. 
There is only experience in the present, and experience preceeds thought.


...Bill!

--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com mailto:Zen_Forum%40yahoogroups.com, 
Kristopher Grey kris@... wrote:


 On 8/27/2013 12:14 AM, SURESH JAGADEESAN wrote:
  Stress starts the moment you move away from now into the thought world
  of past and future.

 The thought world can only exist now.
 Thoughts, arising and passing, now.
 Thought, is an aspect of now.

 Another word for what you are describing as the thought world of past
 and future is simply 'imagination', which can only presents as a
 problem to the extent you believe it to be separate or otherwise
 different from now. In an of itself, such thinking is just 
thinking. A

 useful survival mechanism. Realizing this, it serves. Deluded by this,
 it hinders. Now.

 KG







Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread Kristopher Grey

More to the point, who thinks they need to? ;)

On 8/27/2013 3:30 PM, larry maher wrote:
The 'Now' seems to be a three second bit of awareness continually 
rolling by us. At least that's what some researchers say. Of course, 
who knows?



On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 9:41 AM, Bill! billsm...@hhs1963.org 
mailto:billsm...@hhs1963.org wrote:


Kris,

I agree. I call the thought world 'delusion' - past, present and
future. As far as I can tell there are no thoughts of the present.
There is only experience in the present, and experience preceeds
thought.

...Bill!

--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
mailto:Zen_Forum%40yahoogroups.com, Kristopher Grey kris@...
wrote:

 On 8/27/2013 12:14 AM, SURESH JAGADEESAN wrote:
  Stress starts the moment you move away from now into the
thought world
  of past and future.

 The thought world can only exist now.
 Thoughts, arising and passing, now.
 Thought, is an aspect of now.

 Another word for what you are describing as the thought world
of past
 and future is simply 'imagination', which can only presents as a
 problem to the extent you believe it to be separate or otherwise
 different from now. In an of itself, such thinking is just
thinking. A
 useful survival mechanism. Realizing this, it serves. Deluded by
this,
 it hinders. Now.

 KG





--
/Larry Maher/





Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread larry maher
Thank you so much for that. Spot on. Unfortunately, can talk this stuff all
day long, but practicing it? living it? In minutes I fall 'victim' to this
world without even knowing it.The best I can do is to remember to remember.


On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 4:27 PM, Kristopher Grey k...@kgrey.com wrote:

 **


 All thoughts, afterthoughts.
 All actions, reactions.
 Seemly that, Seamless this.

 The neural lag/disconnect are aspects of 'Maya', the dance or interplay
 (Lila) therewith. In that sense, illusory. Like time.

 Nothing escapes Indra's net, nothing caught by it. Only the ever-present
 interweaving of emptiness into suchness.

 To parrot-phrase Wei Wu Wei (aka Terence Gray - who Suresh might enjoy
 reading as no doubt Mr. Tolle has): 'Maya' = manifestation.

 KG


 On 8/27/2013 9:41 AM, Bill! wrote:



 Kris,

 I agree. I call the thought world 'delusion' - past, present and future.
 As far as I can tell there are no thoughts of the present. There is only
 experience in the present, and experience preceeds thought.

 ...Bill!

 --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Kristopher Grey kris@... kris@...wrote:
 
  On 8/27/2013 12:14 AM, SURESH JAGADEESAN wrote:
   Stress starts the moment you move away from now into the thought world
   of past and future.
 
  The thought world can only exist now.
  Thoughts, arising and passing, now.
  Thought, is an aspect of now.
 
  Another word for what you are describing as the thought world of past
  and future is simply 'imagination', which can only presents as a
  problem to the extent you believe it to be separate or otherwise
  different from now. In an of itself, such thinking is just thinking. A
  useful survival mechanism. Realizing this, it serves. Deluded by this,
  it hinders. Now.
 
  KG
 


  




-- 
*Larry Maher*


Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread Kristopher Grey
Falling 'victim' to this world may apear to be a trap, or a frenzied 
game of in and out like 'Whack-aMole', or some twisted Fun House mirror 
maze - but how else can this appear? ;)


Seeking to escape such appearances, to seek to only have personally 
preferable experiences, is what Siddhartha Gotama called desire. Folks 
here have read enough on where that leads.


Worldly preferences for vanilla vs. chocolate, or black robes vs. 
yellow, or boys vs. girls - are of no concern as temporal enjoyments 
experienced as they present -they are aspects of the persona (mask) - 
unless there is attachment - by which I mean you experience some 
love/hate toward them. Same goes for pain/pleasure. These all arise 
naturally. It's what else comes up in response that seems problematic - 
but only this can offers us insight into our presumed and self-generated 
predicament.


Grasping and rejecting what presents, which along with/and reinforcing 
ignorance of our true nature, form 'The Three Poisons'. Thus many who 
are attached to developing better/higher/more spiritual selves, to any 
personal attainment, seal their fate as surely as the most profane 'sinner'.


That is not to say don't do 'spiritually' oriented things, but rather 
not to be beguiled by them. Spirit is expression, not collection. 
Holy/Spiritual Ego is the most deceptive of all its disguises, and is 
always passing the plate asking for more (devotion, practice, 
mindfulness, whatever).


The best you can do is remember? This is not mindfulness. Memory is a 
habit. Attachment to/dreams of reviving the dead. Pure delusion.


Forgetting is little better. Rejection of same empty baggage (3 Poisons 
- again).


Simply laugh, or cry.

KG

PS - Buddha said Karma is intention. I'd add that Suffering is 
expectation. Two sides of same worthless coin. Whatever troubles you - 
simplify your inquiry by first looking into your intentions and 
expectations. They're the Yin/Yang of self-delusion. Nothing against 
using the imagination for planning and reflection - but things get 
sticky all too easily as soon as we begin to believe any of it.


Non-attachment, is not detachment. It is the cessation (effortlessly - 
by realization, not effort) of the delusional cycle of attachment and 
rejection. Only this allows direct engagement - and vice versa.


Rambling again, more words only makes a mess. Edit the above to just the 
first two lines of the PS - as that contains the rest.




On 8/27/2013 4:37 PM, larry maher wrote:
Thank you so much for that. Spot on. Unfortunately, can talk this 
stuff all day long, but practicing it? living it? In minutes I fall 
'victim' to this world without even knowing it.The best I can do is to 
remember to remember.



On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 4:27 PM, Kristopher Grey k...@kgrey.com 
mailto:k...@kgrey.com wrote:


All thoughts, afterthoughts.
All actions, reactions.
Seemly that, Seamless this.

The neural lag/disconnect are aspects of 'Maya', the dance or
interplay (Lila) therewith. In that sense, illusory. Like time.

Nothing escapes Indra's net, nothing caught by it. Only the
ever-present interweaving of emptiness into suchness.

To parrot-phrase Wei Wu Wei (aka Terence Gray - who Suresh might
enjoy reading as no doubt Mr. Tolle has): 'Maya' = manifestation.

KG


On 8/27/2013 9:41 AM, Bill! wrote:


Kris,

I agree. I call the thought world 'delusion' - past, present and
future. As far as I can tell there are no thoughts of the
present. There is only experience in the present, and experience
preceeds thought.

...Bill!

--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
mailto:Zen_Forum%40yahoogroups.com, Kristopher Grey kris@...
mailto:kris@... wrote:

 On 8/27/2013 12:14 AM, SURESH JAGADEESAN wrote:
  Stress starts the moment you move away from now into the
thought world
  of past and future.

 The thought world can only exist now.
 Thoughts, arising and passing, now.
 Thought, is an aspect of now.

 Another word for what you are describing as the thought world
of past
 and future is simply 'imagination', which can only presents as a
 problem to the extent you believe it to be separate or otherwise
 different from now. In an of itself, such thinking is just
thinking. A
 useful survival mechanism. Realizing this, it serves. Deluded
by this,
 it hinders. Now.

 KG







--
/Larry Maher/





Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread larry maher
Really good stuff, thanks. I used 'victim' as a sort of a what? joke? quick
word? Anyway you sound really really adept in this shit. envy you? You must
lead a very happy, fulfilling life? Unfortunately for me I was born as far
away being an avatar as one motherf'' er can get. Brooklyn street kid and
all. But my kids did better. One an emergency doc, one's almost out of
surgery school and sadly, one turned out more like me. But he's found a
good girl that's kicking his ass into shape just as my wifey did to me:)
Thanks again,
Larry
PS: If you ever feel the need for some long term suffering my wife's got a
single sister :-)


On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 7:47 PM, Kristopher Grey k...@kgrey.com wrote:

 **


 Falling 'victim' to this world may apear to be a trap, or a frenzied
 game of in and out like 'Whack-aMole', or some twisted Fun House mirror
 maze - but how else can this appear? ;)

 Seeking to escape such appearances, to seek to only have personally
 preferable experiences, is what Siddhartha Gotama called desire. Folks
 here have read enough on where that leads.

 Worldly preferences for vanilla vs. chocolate, or black robes vs. yellow,
 or boys vs. girls - are of no concern as temporal enjoyments experienced as
 they present -they are aspects of the persona (mask) - unless there is
 attachment - by which I mean you experience some love/hate toward them.
 Same goes for pain/pleasure. These all arise naturally. It's what else
 comes up in response that seems problematic - but only this can offers us
 insight into our presumed and self-generated predicament.

 Grasping and rejecting what presents, which along with/and reinforcing
 ignorance of our true nature, form 'The Three Poisons'. Thus many who are
 attached to developing better/higher/more spiritual selves, to any personal
 attainment, seal their fate as surely as the most profane 'sinner'.

 That is not to say don't do 'spiritually' oriented things, but rather not
 to be beguiled by them. Spirit is expression, not collection.
 Holy/Spiritual Ego is the most deceptive of all its disguises, and is
 always passing the plate asking for more (devotion, practice, mindfulness,
 whatever).

 The best you can do is remember? This is not mindfulness. Memory is a
 habit. Attachment to/dreams of reviving the dead. Pure delusion.

 Forgetting is little better. Rejection of same empty baggage (3 Poisons -
 again).

 Simply laugh, or cry.

 KG

 PS - Buddha said Karma is intention. I'd add that Suffering is
 expectation. Two sides of same worthless coin. Whatever troubles you -
 simplify your inquiry by first looking into your intentions and
 expectations. They're the Yin/Yang of self-delusion. Nothing against using
 the imagination for planning and reflection - but things get sticky all too
 easily as soon as we begin to believe any of it.

 Non-attachment, is not detachment. It is the cessation (effortlessly - by
 realization, not effort) of the delusional cycle of attachment and
 rejection. Only this allows direct engagement - and vice versa.

 Rambling again, more words only makes a mess. Edit the above to just the
 first two lines of the PS - as that contains the rest.



 On 8/27/2013 4:37 PM, larry maher wrote:


 Thank you so much for that. Spot on. Unfortunately, can talk this stuff
 all day long, but practicing it? living it? In minutes I fall 'victim' to
 this world without even knowing it.The best I can do is to remember to
 remember.


 On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 4:27 PM, Kristopher Grey k...@kgrey.com wrote:



  All thoughts, afterthoughts.
 All actions, reactions.
 Seemly that, Seamless this.

 The neural lag/disconnect are aspects of 'Maya', the dance or interplay
 (Lila) therewith. In that sense, illusory. Like time.

 Nothing escapes Indra's net, nothing caught by it. Only the ever-present
 interweaving of emptiness into suchness.

 To parrot-phrase Wei Wu Wei (aka Terence Gray - who Suresh might enjoy
 reading as no doubt Mr. Tolle has): 'Maya' = manifestation.

 KG


 On 8/27/2013 9:41 AM, Bill! wrote:



 Kris,

 I agree. I call the thought world 'delusion' - past, present and future.
 As far as I can tell there are no thoughts of the present. There is only
 experience in the present, and experience preceeds thought.

 ...Bill!

 --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Kristopher Grey kris@... kris@...wrote:
 
  On 8/27/2013 12:14 AM, SURESH JAGADEESAN wrote:
   Stress starts the moment you move away from now into the thought world
   of past and future.
 
  The thought world can only exist now.
  Thoughts, arising and passing, now.
  Thought, is an aspect of now.
 
  Another word for what you are describing as the thought world of past
  and future is simply 'imagination', which can only presents as a
  problem to the extent you believe it to be separate or otherwise
  different from now. In an of itself, such thinking is just thinking.
 A
  useful survival mechanism. Realizing this, it serves. Deluded by this,
  it hinders. Now.
 
  KG
 





  --
 

Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread Kristopher Grey
Joke, Cosmic or otherwise (which of course isn't), is as good a word 
as any. The serious practitioner/religious types tend to take offense if 
anyone suggests there is a punchline to 'enlightenment'.


Adept? Now that's funny. This shit is simply what it is, and never what 
we think it is. Delusion draws lines between the ordinary and the 
extraordinary. Amazing shit!


As for the stories surrounding your birth, every thought and sensation 
that arises and passes is a birth, and a death. That we believe any to 
be greater, more valuable, or more significant than any other is quite 
funny.


Ever lost in drawing our maps...

KG



On 8/27/2013 8:08 PM, larry maher wrote:
Really good stuff, thanks. I used 'victim' as a sort of a what? joke? 
quick word? Anyway you sound really really adept in this shit. envy 
you? You must lead a very happy, fulfilling life? Unfortunately for me 
I was born as far away being an avatar as one motherf'' er can get. 
Brooklyn street kid and all. But my kids did better. One an emergency 
doc, one's almost out of surgery school and sadly, one turned out more 
like me. But he's found a good girl that's kicking his ass into shape 
just as my wifey did to me:)

Thanks again,
Larry
PS: If you ever feel the need for some long term suffering my wife's 
got a single sister :-)



On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 7:47 PM, Kristopher Grey k...@kgrey.com 
mailto:k...@kgrey.com wrote:


Falling 'victim' to this world may apear to be a trap, or a
frenzied game of in and out like 'Whack-aMole', or some twisted
Fun House mirror maze - but how else can this appear? ;)

Seeking to escape such appearances, to seek to only have
personally preferable experiences, is what Siddhartha Gotama
called desire. Folks here have read enough on where that leads.

Worldly preferences for vanilla vs. chocolate, or black robes vs.
yellow, or boys vs. girls - are of no concern as temporal
enjoyments experienced as they present -they are aspects of the
persona (mask) - unless there is attachment - by which I mean you
experience some love/hate toward them. Same goes for
pain/pleasure. These all arise naturally. It's what else comes up
in response that seems problematic - but only this can offers us
insight into our presumed and self-generated predicament.

Grasping and rejecting what presents, which along with/and
reinforcing ignorance of our true nature, form 'The Three
Poisons'. Thus many who are attached to developing
better/higher/more spiritual selves, to any personal attainment,
seal their fate as surely as the most profane 'sinner'.

That is not to say don't do 'spiritually' oriented things, but
rather not to be beguiled by them. Spirit is expression, not
collection. Holy/Spiritual Ego is the most deceptive of all its
disguises, and is always passing the plate asking for more
(devotion, practice, mindfulness, whatever).

The best you can do is remember? This is not mindfulness. Memory
is a habit. Attachment to/dreams of reviving the dead. Pure delusion.

Forgetting is little better. Rejection of same empty baggage (3
Poisons - again).

Simply laugh, or cry.

KG

PS - Buddha said Karma is intention. I'd add that Suffering is
expectation. Two sides of same worthless coin. Whatever troubles
you - simplify your inquiry by first looking into your intentions
and expectations. They're the Yin/Yang of self-delusion. Nothing
against using the imagination for planning and reflection - but
things get sticky all too easily as soon as we begin to believe
any of it.

Non-attachment, is not detachment. It is the cessation
(effortlessly - by realization, not effort) of the delusional
cycle of attachment and rejection. Only this allows direct
engagement - and vice versa.

Rambling again, more words only makes a mess. Edit the above to
just the first two lines of the PS - as that contains the rest.



On 8/27/2013 4:37 PM, larry maher wrote:

Thank you so much for that. Spot on. Unfortunately, can talk this
stuff all day long, but practicing it? living it? In minutes I
fall 'victim' to this world without even knowing it.The best I
can do is to remember to remember.


On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 4:27 PM, Kristopher Grey k...@kgrey.com
mailto:k...@kgrey.com wrote:

All thoughts, afterthoughts.
All actions, reactions.
Seemly that, Seamless this.

The neural lag/disconnect are aspects of 'Maya', the dance or
interplay (Lila) therewith. In that sense, illusory. Like time.

Nothing escapes Indra's net, nothing caught by it. Only the
ever-present interweaving of emptiness into suchness.

To parrot-phrase Wei Wu Wei (aka Terence Gray - who Suresh
might enjoy reading as no doubt Mr. Tolle has): 'Maya' =
manifestation.

KG


On 8/27/2013 9:41 AM, Bill! 

Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread Kristopher Grey
On 8/27/2013 8:08 PM, larry maher wrote:
 You must lead a very happy, fulfilling life? 

PS - Seriously, how f'ing boring would THAT be?

Like it or not, contrasts reveal highlights.

Only the darkness can carry the light, only the light can fill the 
darkness..

KG




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Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread Bill!
Andrew,

What this statement means to me is the the PERCEPTION (thoughts about) 'now' 
(experience) might have the shelf-life of 3 seconds, but perceptions are not 
experience.

All thoughts, IMO, are either memories (past) or projections (future), both of 
which are delusions.  Only experience is now.

...Bill!  

--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, larry maher lcmaher22@... wrote:

 The 'Now' seems to be a three second bit of awareness continually rolling
 by us. At least that's what some researchers say. Of course, who knows?
 
 
 On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 9:41 AM, Bill! BillSmart@... wrote:
 
  **
 
 
  Kris,
 
  I agree. I call the thought world 'delusion' - past, present and future.
  As far as I can tell there are no thoughts of the present. There is only
  experience in the present, and experience preceeds thought.
 
  ...Bill!
 
  --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Kristopher Grey kris@ wrote:
  
   On 8/27/2013 12:14 AM, SURESH JAGADEESAN wrote:
Stress starts the moment you move away from now into the thought world
of past and future.
  
   The thought world can only exist now.
   Thoughts, arising and passing, now.
   Thought, is an aspect of now.
  
   Another word for what you are describing as the thought world of past
   and future is simply 'imagination', which can only presents as a
   problem to the extent you believe it to be separate or otherwise
   different from now. In an of itself, such thinking is just thinking. A
   useful survival mechanism. Realizing this, it serves. Deluded by this,
   it hinders. Now.
  
   KG
  
 
   
 
 
 
 
 -- 
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Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread Bill!
Larry,  We all fall victim to it.  That's all part of being human.

...Bill!

--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, larry maher lcmaher22@... wrote:

 Thank you so much for that. Spot on. Unfortunately, can talk this stuff all
 day long, but practicing it? living it? In minutes I fall 'victim' to this
 world without even knowing it.The best I can do is to remember to remember.
 
 
 On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 4:27 PM, Kristopher Grey kris@... wrote:
 
  **
 
 
  All thoughts, afterthoughts.
  All actions, reactions.
  Seemly that, Seamless this.
 
  The neural lag/disconnect are aspects of 'Maya', the dance or interplay
  (Lila) therewith. In that sense, illusory. Like time.
 
  Nothing escapes Indra's net, nothing caught by it. Only the ever-present
  interweaving of emptiness into suchness.
 
  To parrot-phrase Wei Wu Wei (aka Terence Gray - who Suresh might enjoy
  reading as no doubt Mr. Tolle has): 'Maya' = manifestation.
 
  KG
 
 
  On 8/27/2013 9:41 AM, Bill! wrote:
 
 
 
  Kris,
 
  I agree. I call the thought world 'delusion' - past, present and future.
  As far as I can tell there are no thoughts of the present. There is only
  experience in the present, and experience preceeds thought.
 
  ...Bill!
 
  --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Kristopher Grey kris@ kris@wrote:
  
   On 8/27/2013 12:14 AM, SURESH JAGADEESAN wrote:
Stress starts the moment you move away from now into the thought world
of past and future.
  
   The thought world can only exist now.
   Thoughts, arising and passing, now.
   Thought, is an aspect of now.
  
   Another word for what you are describing as the thought world of past
   and future is simply 'imagination', which can only presents as a
   problem to the extent you believe it to be separate or otherwise
   different from now. In an of itself, such thinking is just thinking. A
   useful survival mechanism. Realizing this, it serves. Deluded by this,
   it hinders. Now.
  
   KG
  
 
 
   
 
 
 
 
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Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread Kristopher Grey
What 'now'? Beyond its use as a conceptual dead end - no such thing can 
be found.


There is only experiencing. Experiences and experiencers, just aspects 
of this. To call this eternally ever-presently unfolding experiencing 
'the now' is preposterous. But then so is any way of saying this. ;)


Like I just said to Larry: We are lost in drawing our own maps...

KG

On 8/27/2013 9:18 PM, Bill! wrote:


Andrew,

What this statement means to me is the the PERCEPTION (thoughts about) 
'now' (experience) might have the shelf-life of 3 seconds, but 
perceptions are not experience.


All thoughts, IMO, are either memories (past) or projections (future), 
both of which are delusions. Only experience is now.


...Bill!

--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com mailto:Zen_Forum%40yahoogroups.com, 
larry maher lcmaher22@... wrote:


 The 'Now' seems to be a three second bit of awareness continually 
rolling

 by us. At least that's what some researchers say. Of course, who knows?


 On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 9:41 AM, Bill! BillSmart@... wrote:

  **
 
 
  Kris,
 
  I agree. I call the thought world 'delusion' - past, present and 
future.
  As far as I can tell there are no thoughts of the present. There 
is only

  experience in the present, and experience preceeds thought.
 
  ...Bill!
 
  --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:Zen_Forum%40yahoogroups.com, Kristopher Grey kris@ wrote:

  
   On 8/27/2013 12:14 AM, SURESH JAGADEESAN wrote:
Stress starts the moment you move away from now into the 
thought world

of past and future.
  
   The thought world can only exist now.
   Thoughts, arising and passing, now.
   Thought, is an aspect of now.
  
   Another word for what you are describing as the thought world 
of past

   and future is simply 'imagination', which can only presents as a
   problem to the extent you believe it to be separate or otherwise
   different from now. In an of itself, such thinking is just 
thinking. A
   useful survival mechanism. Realizing this, it serves. Deluded by 
this,

   it hinders. Now.
  
   KG
  
 
 
 



 --
 *Larry Maher*







Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread Kristopher Grey

Awakening, to perpetual free-fall...

KG

On 8/27/2013 9:20 PM, Bill! wrote:


Larry, We all fall victim to it. That's all part of being human.

...Bill!

--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com mailto:Zen_Forum%40yahoogroups.com, 
larry maher lcmaher22@... wrote:


 Thank you so much for that. Spot on. Unfortunately, can talk this 
stuff all
 day long, but practicing it? living it? In minutes I fall 'victim' 
to this
 world without even knowing it.The best I can do is to remember to 
remember.



 On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 4:27 PM, Kristopher Grey kris@... wrote:

  **
 
 
  All thoughts, afterthoughts.
  All actions, reactions.
  Seemly that, Seamless this.
 
  The neural lag/disconnect are aspects of 'Maya', the dance or 
interplay

  (Lila) therewith. In that sense, illusory. Like time.
 
  Nothing escapes Indra's net, nothing caught by it. Only the 
ever-present

  interweaving of emptiness into suchness.
 
  To parrot-phrase Wei Wu Wei (aka Terence Gray - who Suresh might enjoy
  reading as no doubt Mr. Tolle has): 'Maya' = manifestation.
 
  KG
 
 
  On 8/27/2013 9:41 AM, Bill! wrote:
 
 
 
  Kris,
 
  I agree. I call the thought world 'delusion' - past, present and 
future.
  As far as I can tell there are no thoughts of the present. There 
is only

  experience in the present, and experience preceeds thought.
 
  ...Bill!
 
  --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:Zen_Forum%40yahoogroups.com, Kristopher Grey kris@ 
kris@wrote:

  
   On 8/27/2013 12:14 AM, SURESH JAGADEESAN wrote:
Stress starts the moment you move away from now into the 
thought world

of past and future.
  
   The thought world can only exist now.
   Thoughts, arising and passing, now.
   Thought, is an aspect of now.
  
   Another word for what you are describing as the thought world 
of past

   and future is simply 'imagination', which can only presents as a
   problem to the extent you believe it to be separate or otherwise
   different from now. In an of itself, such thinking is just 
thinking. A
   useful survival mechanism. Realizing this, it serves. Deluded by 
this,

   it hinders. Now.
  
   KG
  
 
 
 
 



 --
 *Larry Maher*







Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread larry maher
Why read, interpret, and re-dictate this stuff if it's not making you
happy? Or would you rather be an erudite simply content with winning every
argument or, in this case, creating one where one isn't Jesus
Christ! Or is it Buddha! Or Vishnu? Lighten up dude, all victories are
Pyrrhic.


Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread Bill!
Kris,

I'm not drawing any maps.  I'm just saying we are always HERE.

...Bill!

--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Kristopher Grey kris@... wrote:

 What 'now'? Beyond its use as a conceptual dead end - no such thing can 
 be found.
 
 There is only experiencing. Experiences and experiencers, just aspects 
 of this. To call this eternally ever-presently unfolding experiencing 
 'the now' is preposterous. But then so is any way of saying this. ;)
 
 Like I just said to Larry: We are lost in drawing our own maps...
 
 KG
 
 On 8/27/2013 9:18 PM, Bill! wrote:
 
  Andrew,
 
  What this statement means to me is the the PERCEPTION (thoughts about) 
  'now' (experience) might have the shelf-life of 3 seconds, but 
  perceptions are not experience.
 
  All thoughts, IMO, are either memories (past) or projections (future), 
  both of which are delusions. Only experience is now.
 
  ...Bill!
 
  --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com mailto:Zen_Forum%40yahoogroups.com, 
  larry maher lcmaher22@ wrote:
  
   The 'Now' seems to be a three second bit of awareness continually 
  rolling
   by us. At least that's what some researchers say. Of course, who knows?
  
  
   On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 9:41 AM, Bill! BillSmart@ wrote:
  
**
   
   
Kris,
   
I agree. I call the thought world 'delusion' - past, present and 
  future.
As far as I can tell there are no thoughts of the present. There 
  is only
experience in the present, and experience preceeds thought.
   
...Bill!
   
--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com 
  mailto:Zen_Forum%40yahoogroups.com, Kristopher Grey kris@ wrote:

 On 8/27/2013 12:14 AM, SURESH JAGADEESAN wrote:
  Stress starts the moment you move away from now into the 
  thought world
  of past and future.

 The thought world can only exist now.
 Thoughts, arising and passing, now.
 Thought, is an aspect of now.

 Another word for what you are describing as the thought world 
  of past
 and future is simply 'imagination', which can only presents as a
 problem to the extent you believe it to be separate or otherwise
 different from now. In an of itself, such thinking is just 
  thinking. A
 useful survival mechanism. Realizing this, it serves. Deluded by 
  this,
 it hinders. Now.

 KG

   
   
   
  
  
  
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Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread uerusuboyo
Bill!,br/br/There's nothing wrong with maps as long as they're not taken to 
be the 'real' destination. Same as time (clocks) and spiritual paths (although, 
of course, there is a danger in believing that a spiritual path leads to a 
destination). These are good examples of Buddha's teaching that there are 2 
truths - relative truth and absolute truth. As long as the relative is not 
taken as the ultimate, and vice-versa, then the ultimate truth will not be 
obscured.br/br/Mikebr/br/br/Sent from Yahoo! Mail for iPad

Re: [Zen] SOURCE OF STRESS

2013-08-27 Thread larry maher
Good stuff


On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 11:35 PM, uerusub...@yahoo.co.uk wrote:

 **


 Bill!,

 There's nothing wrong with maps as long as they're not taken to be the
 'real' destination. Same as time (clocks) and spiritual paths (although, of
 course, there is a danger in believing that a spiritual path leads to a
 destination). These are good examples of Buddha's teaching that there are
 2 truths - relative truth and absolute truth. As long as the relative is
 not taken as the ultimate, and vice-versa, then the ultimate truth will not
 be obscured.

 Mike


 Sent from Yahoo! Mail for iPad

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 * Sent: * Wed, Aug 28, 2013 2:10:16 AM



 Kris,

 I'm not drawing any maps. I'm just saying we are always HERE.

 ...Bill!

 --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, Kristopher Grey kris@... wrote:
 
  What 'now'? Beyond its use as a conceptual dead end - no such thing can
  be found.
 
  There is only experiencing. Experiences and experiencers, just aspects
  of this. To call this eternally ever-presently unfolding experiencing
  'the now' is preposterous. But then so is any way of saying this. ;)
 
  Like I just said to Larry: We are lost in drawing our own maps...
 
  KG
 
  On 8/27/2013 9:18 PM, Bill! wrote:
  
   Andrew,
  
   What this statement means to me is the the PERCEPTION (thoughts about)
   'now' (experience) might have the shelf-life of 3 seconds, but
   perceptions are not experience.
  
   All thoughts, IMO, are either memories (past) or projections (future),
   both of which are delusions. Only experience is now.
  
   ...Bill!
  
   --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com mailto:Zen_Forum%40yahoogroups.com,

   larry maher lcmaher22@ wrote:
   
The 'Now' seems to be a three second bit of awareness continually
   rolling
by us. At least that's what some researchers say. Of course, who
 knows?
   
   
On Tue, Aug 27, 2013 at 9:41 AM, Bill! BillSmart@ wrote:
   
 **


 Kris,

 I agree. I call the thought world 'delusion' - past, present and
   future.
 As far as I can tell there are no thoughts of the present. There
   is only
 experience in the present, and experience preceeds thought.

 ...Bill!

 --- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
   mailto:Zen_Forum%40yahoogroups.com, Kristopher Grey kris@ wrote:
 
  On 8/27/2013 12:14 AM, SURESH JAGADEESAN wrote:
   Stress starts the moment you move away from now into the
   thought world
   of past and future.
 
  The thought world can only exist now.
  Thoughts, arising and passing, now.
  Thought, is an aspect of now.
 
  Another word for what you are describing as the thought world
   of past
  and future is simply 'imagination', which can only presents as a
  problem to the extent you believe it to be separate or otherwise
  different from now. In an of itself, such thinking is just
   thinking. A
  useful survival mechanism. Realizing this, it serves. Deluded by
   this,
  it hinders. Now.
 
  KG
 



   
   
   
--
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