I have to beg to differ on the subject of Al Gore. If you've never seen his talk on Global Warming I guess you might still consider him a poor communicator...but it wasn't poor communication skills that cost him that election (not to open a new can of worms).

On Jun 26, 2008, at 5:27 AM, Badri Natarajan wrote:

Al
Gore and John Kerry: one each from Harvard and Yale, both earnest, decent, intelligent men, both utterly incapable of communicating with the larger
electorate.

and another thing

If I’d gone to Harvard, I would have
learned to say “in Boston” when I was asked where I went to school-the
Cambridge version of noblesse oblige.

I went to an elite private school from the age of 10 through graduation at 16. It was elite in all senses of that word. The student population was mostly wealthy and white. Around 1969 this school had decided to aggressively "diversify" and so like Noah's Ark we had 2 of each ethnic group imaginable scattered through the school. Academically the standards had drifted a bit over the years, but again in 1969 the school fathers (and mothers) had decided to plump up the academic rating by artificially over-nurturing one class (mine) so that we would excel and they could publish our results and use them as a marketing tool. They basically pushed forward or held back all the "rich but dumb" kids and then recruited a group of "acceptable smart kids" (meaning we would fit in) to receive special considerations on tuition. I was one of those kids. I say we were over-nurtured because they also recruited special teachers for us. For instance, I was taught high school physics by a man who had worked with Oppenheimer on the Bomb and who held patents on the Sony Trinitron system. He was only at the school in our physics year.

Meanwhile, my family actually lived in a small town called San Pedro, which for 100 years had been a mostly immigrant-populated fishing village in the larger Port of Los Angeles. It was definitely "across the tracks" as we say in the US. Even to this day I often find myself saying that I grew up in Palos Verdes (where the school was) instead of San Pedro, and in a sense this is true as I was at school from 6:30am to 7:00pm most days of the long school year...but it is a choice I make to ward off the assumptions people would make about me as well if I admitted that I was from San Pedro (so reverse nobless oblige). BTW, I am also the first person in my extended family (on both sides) to graduate from college. My father would have loved to go, but there was a Depression and then a World War in the way...but he was firmly blue-collar and worked with his hands to make our living. My mother grew up on a farm in the back woods of Central California without running water or electricity and was considered well educated because she graduated from high school.

Anyway, my class of 29 students did extremely well by many measures. Five got perfect overall test scores and another ten got perfect scores on some aspect of the battery of tests we took (which back then were SATs, Achievement Tests and Advanced Placement exams), and about half finished as National Merit Scholarship finalists. Most of us were accepted into Ivy League or Seven Sisters schools. I got into Princeton, although I ended up at UCLA. At my 20th reunion more than half of my class were lawyers and three were doctors...

But because of my family background, I always knew that "book learning" was only one type of smart. My father was infinitely more adept with his hands than any of the fathers of my fellow students. That same physics teacher who was brought in for my class idly remarked one afternoon that he was impressed at how proud my brother and I were of our Dad, since most of the other kids thought of him as "the help" because he'd happened to fix their fathers' cars. We were floored to realize that anyone had any but the highest opinion of Dad. That encounter created a chain reaction in me to rebel against the elitism (and contributed to my decision to attend a public university).

Meanwhile, an astounding percentage of the rich kids I grew up around were and are massively unhappy. Several never made it to 25 due to excesses that wealth affords (fast cars, too much alcohol or drugs). Three committed suicide while still in college. Many have been married several times. A couple had to take over their Dad's businesses when said fathers killed themselves (we should look into the rate of suicide in the "Academic Elite" some time).

Okay, enough about me. I typed all of this out because I think my experience speaks directly to the original topic. I would not have given up the chance to attend this school because the academic education I received fed my little geekess soul...but also because I got to see first hand the high cost of that elitism.

Danese

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