This might be a bit beyond most but read Dianetics and you will understand this better and actually be able to handle it yourself in many of the cases.
Dr. Jesse Jutkowitz www.ADVBIOSTRUCTURALCORR.com Institute for Advanced BioStructural Correction™ 340 Fairmount Terrace, Fairfield, CT 06825 203.366.2746 www.advbiostructuralcorr.com "Never doubt that the work of a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world. Indeed it is the only thing that ever has." Margaret Mead Advanced BioStructural Correction™ - we are changing the face of healthcare in the world for the better. On Fri, Jan 30, 2009 at 9:41 PM, Dianne France <[email protected]>wrote: > I have been reading with much interest the threads about bi-polar. > My husband has wanted me to find more information out about the > condition. > > My husbands father was bi-polar. At one point he was trying to > sell the family home out from under everyone. He was going to > take the money and run. They finally were able to get him > treatment but if he went off it he went back to his paranoid > exsitence. He would call us in Florida and would only talk > to my husband. When he was on medication he was much > more normal. He lived to be 95, married to my mother-in-law > until she died at 83. To me she was a saint to go thru what > she did for years. > > We also have a good friend who was married to a bi-polar. > They bought a large thoroughbred farm in New York. She > appeared normal but wasn't. We would go visit and one > day she would be warm and cordial and the next wouldn't > speak to anyone. He came back to Florida to visit with his > sons from previous marriage and when he called to make > arranagement for her to pick him up at the airport she > told him not to bother coming home. She moved the farm > manager into the house to replace him. She was off her > meds. He lost millions. > > Knowing someone has this problem up front and considering > a relationship is playing with fire. *RUN*. > > Dianne > > > From: [email protected] > > To: [email protected] > > Subject: Re: CS>Bipolar disorder > > Date: Fri, 30 Jan 2009 12:47:21 -0500 > > > > I have to agree with Indi. Been reading and waiting, but now will step > in. > > > > My EX-SIL, is bi-polar. What a terrible disease. We all know he has it, > > the doctor's diagnosed him as bi-polar, but of course no one was telling > him > > the truth and he wouldn't listen to anyone. He was fine and we were all > > wrong. > > > > He is extremely manipulative, even to the point of calling everyone and > > saying he is ready to commit suicide so that he can again get his way. > > Everyone else is wrong and he is not. I told him he could stay with us if > > > he took the medicine prescribed. He was wonderful with the drugs in his > > system, but he stopped within a week because he didn't like the way he > felt. > > He used every excuse to stop taking the pills. We tried another but again > > > he didn't like the results. Finally he just wouldn't take them anymore. > > He can look you straight in the eye and tell you something, which we all > > know is an absolute lie, but he believes only himself. I know it is a > > foul-up in brain chemistry, but he has to help himself which he is > neither > > able or willing to do. My daughter told us horror stories, but only > having > > him live with us did we see firsthand about this disease. She hung in > there > > for 5+ years, but finally gave up the good fight, and this was the only > way > > to save herself from years of misery, and even death. She now has a PFA > > against him. > > > > This bipolar person struggles. He is either flying so high and moving so > > quickly that it is impossible to calm him down or he is so low that he > needs > > recreational drugs to pull himself back up. What a terrible way to have > to > > live. He may be an extreme case, so I can't say if there is a bi-polar > > person that isn't like this. > > > > But I have to agree with Indi - RUN, DON'T WALK. We tried to help him, so > > > we have no remorse. > > > > Bernadette > > > >
