I hope you have a great time at the dinner.    At the very least, I will have 
to use my cane.   I am not closed to the
idea of going.    It isn't because of vanity that I have 2nd thoughts of going, 
it is that I don't want to become a
spectacle there.    I know after a while things would calm down.   I just don't 
want to go through that.    We'll see.
                 Janice
  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: lynne myers 
  To: Janice 
  Cc: tmic 
  Sent: Thursday, July 02, 2009 7:27 AM
  Subject: Re: [TMIC] Class Reunions



        Janice,
        I got TM shortly before my 25 year class reunion and did not attend 
that one.  Not so much out of  vanity but because at the time I didnt think I 
would be able to handle being out and about for that length of time.

        My 30 year is coming up the end of this month.  I wont be able to 
attend the main reunion on saturday because of a conflict of dates with another 
event, but am planning on attending a smaller dinner on friday so atleast I 
will get to see some of the people.  I am thinking that for the short time I am 
at the dinner I may be able to get away with no one knowing anything is wrong 
with me, so shouldnt have to answer any questions.  Just hoping for a good day 
and good weather so I wont have to use my cane.
        Lynne

        --- On Wed, 7/1/09, Janice <[email protected]> wrote:


          From: Janice <[email protected]>
          Subject: [TMIC] Class Reunions
          To: "transverse myelitis" <[email protected]>
          Date: Wednesday, July 1, 2009, 11:47 PM


          I have another question for you all that want to answer:

          I will be having another class reunion shortly and graduating from 
the hometown high school, I was usually one of about 15 that
          helped to plan it.    We had around 500 in our graduating class.    
Anyway, I am debating whether or not to be a part of the
          planning or even attending the reunion.    This is the first reunion 
since I got clobbered with TM.  I still have to use a cane and 
          would maybe need my wheelchair.    I was fairly well known and I am 
afraid I would be answering questions all nite about TM.     My question is:
               Would you let TM keep you from attending a reunion?    Be 
honest.   If you were faced with this decision this weekend,
          what would you do?

                          Janice          

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