Janice,Not sure what year it is for you ... but my husband and I went to
High School together and always went back when we could for reunions...when
our 40th came up I was 2 yrs. into TM..  I didn't go .... I couldn't face
them.. I was tooo proud.. too vain... I was the captain of the cheerleaders
and now I needed an ugly walker to get around......but I AM still the
original "dancing fool"... I love to party and we always had a fantastic
time..I do regret not going to it !! I have such great friends home! What
the hell was I thinking!! I missed so much! .. My 45th (yes I'm 63 yrs.
young) is coming up and I wouldn't miss it.  I've decided to just say "I
have a spinal cord injury" and most people will end it there..  And YES I
will get out on that dance floor and my husband will hold me up and we women
will get up and sing New York, New York and we will laugh and cry over the
"good ol'days"  And like "ladyOwl"  said, we really haven't changed all that
much.. we are very much the person we were way back when...  so here I
am..... a great deal older but hopefully a great deal wiser.
Carpe Diem!!!
Trudy

"It is only with the heart that one can see rightly;
what is essential
is invisible to the eye"

 Antoine de St. Exupery (from the book "The Little Prince")




On Wed, Jul 1, 2009 at 11:47 PM, Janice <[email protected]> wrote:

>  I have another question for you all that want to answer:
>
> I will be having another class reunion shortly and graduating from the
> hometown high school, I was usually one of about 15 that
> helped to plan it.    We had around 500 in our graduating class.    Anyway,
> I am debating whether or not to be a part of the
> planning or even attending the reunion.    This is the first reunion since
> I got clobbered with TM.  I still have to use a cane and
> would maybe need my wheelchair.    I was fairly well known and I am afraid
> I would be answering questions all nite about TM.     My question is:
>      Would you let TM keep you from attending a reunion?    Be honest.   If
> you were faced with this decision this weekend,
> what would you do?
>
>                 Janice
>

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