Dear TM support group,
My husband became ill with TM in May 2011 and his symptoms have remained constant. He is in extreme pain from his chest down to his toes. The pain can be burning, tingling, icy, stabbing. He is now saying that he wants to end his life because he can no longer endure the suffering. He says that I am no help and do not understand what he is going through. This is correct. I do not understand. Because he looks normal, it is easy to forget that he is in constant pain. This is why I went online to see if I can find a group that does understand and can possibly provide hope for him. I realise there is no guarantee that the symptoms will go away, but after reading your online stories, it looks like it can be possible. Additionally, what can a spouse do to provide more support? He has had the symptoms for almost 6 months and every day plays like a broken record. I ask every day how he is and he unleashes a long list of painful symptoms. Besides taking his meds, is there any other therapy I can arrange for him that may provide relief? I feel useless. He is angry that I am not doing more, but I do not know what I can do besides taking care of the home and kids without burdening him with additional tasks. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Warm regards, Andrea
