David M writes:

You may think 
that I did not even come close to thinking that Jonathan might have 
something here, but you are wrong.  I have not at all been happy with Bush's 
lack of concern about a balanced budget.  The suggestion was somewhat 
intriguing *IF* the statistics were as irrefutable as he seemed to imply.

John Smithson wrote:
> Maybe remarks about being "misled" have no place in
> an honest  discussion between two who make the same
> claim to the Lordship of Christ.   Do you think????

David comments about the above quote from John:
I'm not sure why you would even make such a suggestion.  



JD writes: Because there is no logical need for such observations in discussions 
between brethren and sisterns.
It is unnecessary chatter serving no purpose in establishing one's conclusions.   



David:
I am told that I 
mislead people quite often.  I don't take it personal.  I just try harder at 
communicating better.  I never want to mislead anyone, but keeping my mouth 
shut is not the answer.  Is it a sin for someone to misunderstand another 
and then feel misled?  Is it a sin for that person who felt misled to 
communicate that he felt that way?  If so, then how can the originator learn 
to communicate better?

John responds:  If you felt "misled," then THAT should have been the primary issue. 
But, of course, you did not say that, did you?   "Misled" was not about you  (as in  
"I feel misled and this is a problem, Jonathan").   Rather it was an accusation.  



Quite frankly, I think if Jonathan had omitted the word "statistician" from 
his post, and also omitted the word "uninformed," and perhaps also omitted 
the phrase "partisan glasses," then I probably would not have felt misled. 


John responds:  What you "felt" was aggravation or frustration or disappointment.   
One does not "feel" misled.  One IS "misled."   



Then again, I probably would not have taken time to check out the article as 
thoroughly as I did.  :-)  Sometimes there is a positive side to misunderstanding.

Peace be with you.
David Miller
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"Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you 
ought to answer every man."  (Colossians 4:6) http://www.InnGlory.org

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