I have thought about it and to be honest I can not say as I know anything that 
is not spiritual.

A story to illustrate;
My stepfather was a mechanic so I was not unused to the presence of mechanical 
tools. One day at a friends house I saw some tools on the floor in their lounge 
room. I picked up a spanner and found myself acutely aware of it's weight. It's 
weight was not exagerated only that I was very aware of a precise sense of it's 
weight. In considering this weight I became aware of the substance of the 
spanner, the metal. It was as though it spoke to me announcing it's existence 
to my mind.
I remember that as a child the world seemed very much to be a living thing to 
me. As a young man there came a time that I was barely aware of life existing 
in myself let alone anywhere else. Remembering the sense of life I had known 
throughout my childhood I could not help but feel concerned with my state.

Yesterday, water, waves fell from the sky!


--- In [email protected], "rewrisk" <rewrisk@...> wrote:
>
> It's late here I'm going to bed.
> Perhaps in the morning I will have a better answer for you right now the best 
> I can do is ask if you know anything of allchemy?
> 
> --- In [email protected], "Bill!" <BillSmart@> wrote:
> >
> > Rewrisk,
> > 
> > That's an interesting statement.
> > 
> > Could you explain what there is about your zen practice that you consider 
> > spiritual?
> > 
> > I don't consider any part of zen practice as spritual at all.
> > 
> > ...Bill!
> > 
> > 
> > 
> > --- In [email protected], "rewrisk" <rewrisk@> wrote:
> > >
> > > Absolutely.
> > > There is no area of my spiritual life that is not firmly grounded in 
> > > reality.
> > > 
> > > --- In [email protected], Anthony Wu <wuasg@> wrote:
> > > >
> > > > Do you also take a materialistic view?
> > > >  
> > > > Anthony
> > > > 
> > > > 
> > > > ________________________________
> > > > From: rewrisk <rewrisk@>
> > > > To: [email protected] 
> > > > Sent: Monday, 23 January 2012, 18:47
> > > > Subject: Re: [Zen] When you began learning about buddhism, How did your 
> > > > friends & family react?
> > > > 
> > > > 
> > > >   
> > > > "You tracked it correctly. Explained incorrectly."
> > > > Pardon?
> > > > I'll stay with my original question and the implied assertion that 
> > > > reality is in fact material reality.
> > > > 
> > > > --- In [email protected], Anthony Wu <wuasg@> wrote:
> > > > >
> > > > > Rewrisk,
> > > > >  
> > > > > You tracked it correctly. Explained incorrectly. I referred to Mike's 
> > > > > contradiction against his usual way, by saying that nothing exists 
> > > > > except atoms and space. I did not state my view. Nevertheless, I give 
> > > > > you a thesis here. For instance, Bill insists nothing at all exists 
> > > > > in this world (maybe only chaos and Buddha nature exist).What is your 
> > > > > comment?
> > > > >  
> > > > > Anthony
> > > > > 
> > > > > 
> > > > > ________________________________
> > > > > From: rewrisk <rewrisk@>
> > > > > To: [email protected] 
> > > > > Sent: Monday, 23 January 2012, 18:04
> > > > > Subject: Re: [Zen] When you began learning about buddhism, How did 
> > > > > your friends & family react?
> > > > > 
> > > > > 
> > > > >   
> > > > > I am sorry was this not your post.
> > > > > I am surprised you take that materialistic view. So all of your 
> > > > > vipassana with ensuing red, brown, crimson lights are just 
> > > > > hallucinations.
> > > > > 
> > > > > I thought I had tracked it correctly.
> > > > > 
> > > > > --- In [email protected], Anthony Wu <wuasg@> wrote:
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Hi,
> > > > > >  
> > > > > > You say, 'So Anthony do you really believe that you know something 
> > > > > > that does not exist?
> > > > > > I would like to see such a thing?'
> > > > > >  
> > > > > > I never said that.
> > > > > >  
> > > > > > Anthony
> > > > > > 
> > > > > > 
> > > > > > ________________________________
> > > > > > From: rewrisk <rewrisk@>
> > > > > > To: [email protected] 
> > > > > > Sent: Monday, 23 January 2012, 11:59
> > > > > > Subject: Re: [Zen] When you began learning about buddhism, How did 
> > > > > > your friends & family react?
> > > > > > 
> > > > > > 
> > > > > >   
> > > > > > So Anthony do you really believe that you know something that does 
> > > > > > not exist?
> > > > > > I would like to see such a thing?
> > > > > > 
> > > > > > --- In [email protected], Anthony Wu <wuasg@> wrote:
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > Mike,
> > > > > > > ÃÆ'‚ 
> > > > > > > Only just now you said atoms and empty space, and the rest don't. 
> > > > > > > That is a materialistic view, which have existed (besides atoms 
> > > > > > > and space) thousands of years.
> > > > > > > ÃÆ'‚ 
> > > > > > > Anthony
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > ________________________________
> > > > > > > From: mike brown <uerusuboyo@>
> > > > > > > To: [email protected] 
> > > > > > > Sent: Wednesday, 18 January 2012, 0:13
> > > > > > > Subject: Re: [Zen] When you began learning about buddhism, How 
> > > > > > > did your friends & family react?
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > ÃÆ'‚  
> > > > > > > Hi Anthony,
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > My point is that labeling phenonema and things is all just 
> > > > > > > opinion. Saying I am, or am not, a Buddhist (for example) is to 
> > > > > > > miss the point of Zen. Same with labeling phenonema as 'cause and 
> > > > > > > effect' or 'freewill'. These things simply don't exist in the 
> > > > > > > universe. We can claim they exist in the sense that counting 
> > > > > > > exists, yet the number 4 doesn't. Same with unicorns and 
> > > > > > > Buddhists.
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > Mike
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > --- On Sun, 15/1/12, Anthony Wu <wuasg@> wrote:
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > >From: Anthony Wu <wuasg@>
> > > > > > > >Subject: Re: [Zen] When you began learning about buddhism, How 
> > > > > > > >did your friends & family react?
> > > > > > > >To: "[email protected]" <[email protected]>
> > > > > > > >Date: Sunday, 15 January, 2012, 8:53
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > >ÃÆ'‚  
> > > > > > > >Mike,
> > > > > > > >ÃÆ'‚ 
> > > > > > > >I am surprised you take that materialistic view. So all of your 
> > > > > > > >vipassana with ensuing red, brown, crimson lights are just 
> > > > > > > >hallucinations.
> > > > > > > >ÃÆ'‚ 
> > > > > > > >Anthony
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > >________________________________
> > > > > > > >From: mike brown <uerusuboyo@>
> > > > > > > >To: [email protected] 
> > > > > > > >Sent: Saturday, 14 January 2012, 21:29
> > > > > > > >Subject: Re: [Zen] When you began learning about buddhism, How 
> > > > > > > >did your friends & family react?
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > >ÃÆ'‚  
> > > > > > > >Siska,
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > >ÃÆ'‚ Nothing exists except atoms and empty space; 
> > > > > > > >everything else is just opinion. 
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > >
> > > > >
> > > >  
> > > > >ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'
> > > > ‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚
> > > >  ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'‚ ÃÆ'
> > > > > ‚ ÃÆ'‚  - Democritus
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > >Mike 
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > >--- On Sat, 14/1/12, siska_cen@ <siska_cen@> wrote:
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > >>From: siska_cen@ <siska_cen@>
> > > > > > > >>Subject: Re: [Zen] When you began learning about buddhism, How 
> > > > > > > >>did your friends & family react?
> > > > > > > >>To: [email protected]
> > > > > > > >>Date: Saturday, 14 January, 2012, 23:17
> > > > > > > >>
> > > > > > > >>
> > > > > > > >>ÃÆ'‚  
> > > > > > > >>Hi Bill,It took a while for me to figure this :-) I'm rather 
> > > > > > > >>slow, perhaps lately, if not always.The idea that cause and 
> > > > > > > >>effect is illusory is quite new to me. I remember Anthony 
> > > > > > > >>mentioning it before, but didn't really sink in. I thought the 
> > > > > > > >>concept of cause and effect is something that is parallel to 
> > > > > > > >>dependent origination, which is to say that everything is 
> > > > > > > >>simultaneously affecting many other things in such complicated 
> > > > > > > >>manner that our mind cannot really grasp it. Even if it can, it 
> > > > > > > >>is actually of no use. As you said, the mind needs it to 'feel' 
> > > > > > > >>secure.I never thought it as illusory though. Whatever we think 
> > > > > > > >>about it IS illusory.Siska
> > > > > > > >>
> > > > > > > >>________________________________
> > > > > > > >>
> > > > > > > >>From: "Bill!" <BillSmart@> 
> > > > > > > >>Sender: [email protected] 
> > > > > > > >>Date: Wed, 11 Jan 2012 02:19:25 -0000
> > > > > > > >>To: <[email protected]>
> > > > > > > >>ReplyTo: [email protected] 
> > > > > > > >>Subject: Re: [Zen] When you began learning about buddhism, How 
> > > > > > > >>did your friends family react?ÃÆ'‚  
> > > > > > > >>Siska,Yes, the concept of cause-and-effect is illusory.The 
> > > > > > > >>belief in cause-and-effect is an attempt by your discriminating 
> > > > > > > >>mind to 'understand' reality, to 'make sense'of experience 
> > > > > > > >>which is fundamentally chaotic. It is a process of breaking up 
> > > > > > > >>wholistic experience (Just THIS!) into pieces, and then to 
> > > > > > > >>categorize and even directly associating some pieces with 
> > > > > > > >>others by assigning a dependent cause-and-effect relationship 
> > > > > > > >>to these pairs or sets of pieces. The establishment of these 
> > > > > > > >>cause-and-effect relationships are done to fit your needs at 
> > > > > > > >>the time. They are not absolute, objective or real. They are 
> > > > > > > >>relational, subjective and illusory - this is because they are 
> > > > > > > >>dependent upon your dualistic concept of self/other. The 
> > > > > > > >>illusion of cause-and-effect helps you feel more comfortable 
> > > > > > > >>and gives you a certain sense of control of life.The concept of 
> > > > > > > >>karma is a spritualized version of cause-and-effect which is 
> > > > > > > >>usually thought of as purely a physical
> > > > > > > relationship.The letting go of this illusion is sometimes 
> > > > > > > referred to in zen stories as 'leaping into the abyss', or 
> > > > > > > 'taking a step off the 100-ft flagpole'. These are teachings 
> > > > > > > telling you that you must let go of your attachments (espcially 
> > > > > > > to logic and the belief in cause-and-effect), come out of your 
> > > > > > > fantasy comfort zone, throw away your illusory security blanket 
> > > > > > > and throw yourself completly into the stark unknown and 
> > > > > > > unknowable.There's no comforting assurance of cause-and-effect 
> > > > > > > there. Just THIS!...Bill! --- In [email protected], 
> > > > > > > siska_cen@ wrote:>> Hi Bill,> > > The killing is not the cause 
> > > > > > > and the dieing the effect.> Would you then say that cause and 
> > > > > > > effect is illusory?> > Siska> -----Original Message-----> From: 
> > > > > > > "Bill!" <BillSmart@>> Sender: [email protected]> Date: 
> > > > > > > Tue, 10 Jan 2012 08:18:32 > To: <[email protected]>> 
> > > > > > > Reply-To: [email protected]> Subject: Re: [Zen] When you 
> > > > > > > began learning about buddhism, How
> > > > > > > did your friends & family react?> > Anthony,> > When I said 
> > > > > > > 'outside agency' I meant 'outside of you' or 'other than you'. 
> > > > > > > When you say 'karma functions by itself' you are implying that 
> > > > > > > karma exists independently of you; like when you say 'not my will 
> > > > > > > but Yours (God's) be done' you are implying that God exists 
> > > > > > > independently of you. You are implying that 'karma' and 'God' are 
> > > > > > > 'outside agencies' - outside of and/or separate from you.> > I am 
> > > > > > > saying that both the concept of 'karma' and 'God' and all their 
> > > > > > > supposed attributes and associated powers/activites are NOT 
> > > > > > > separate from you. That are created by you - by your 
> > > > > > > discriminating mind. They are illusory.> > If you kill, there is 
> > > > > > > killing. If you are killed, you die. If you loot, there is 
> > > > > > > looting. If you are looted, you loose property. The killing is 
> > > > > > > not the cause and the dieing the effect. It is the same action 
> > > > > > > viewed or described from two perspectives. It is Just THIS!> > 
> > > > > > > This is my
> > > >  experience...Bill!>
> > > > > >
> > > > > > > --- In [email protected], Anthony Wu <wuasg@> wrote:> >> 
> > > > > > > > Bill,> > ÃÆ'Æ'‚ÃÆ'‚ > > The 
> > > > > > > difference is that karma does not rely on God or any other 
> > > > > > > 'outside agent'. It functions by itself. On the other hand, if 
> > > > > > > you deny karma, does that mean whatever you do, whether killing, 
> > > > > > > looting or burning, does not have any effects? You may say you 
> > > > > > > rely on law to take care of it. But that is part of karma, at the 
> > > > > > > human level. Nevertheless, it is more realistic than reliance on 
> > > > > > > God. if all are illusory, killing and looting will be out of 
> > > > > > > control. In that case, believing in God is better than believing 
> > > > > > > in nothing.> > ÃÆ'Æ'‚ÃÆ'‚ > > 
> > > > > > > Anthony> > > > > > ________________________________> > From: 
> > > > > > > Bill! <BillSmart@>> > To: [email protected] > > Sent: 
> > > > > > > Monday, 9 January 2012, 13:00> > Subject: Re: [Zen] When you 
> > > > > > > began learning about buddhism, How did your friends & family 
> > > > > > > react?> > > > > >
> > > >  ÃÆ'Æ'‚ÃÆ'‚  > > Anthony,> > > > How are
> > > > > they different concepts?> > > > Both
> > > > > > have to do with
> > > > > > > action/reaction (cause and effect), and both exist as a concept 
> > > > > > > in your mind.> > > > Labeling some actions/reactions or 
> > > > > > > cause/effect as good or bad (good deeds lead to reward or sin 
> > > > > > > leads to punishment; or accumulation of [bad] karma leads to 
> > > > > > > being re-born as a toad) is just packaging. Likewise attributng 
> > > > > > > the enforcement of actions/reactions or cause/effect to an 
> > > > > > > outside agency such as karma or God is also just packaging.> > > 
> > > > > > > > It all looks the same to me - illusory, dualistic packaging.> > 
> > > > > > > > > ...Bill! > > > > --- In [email protected], Anthony Wu 
> > > > > > > <wuasg@> wrote:> > >> > > Bill,> > > 
> > > > > > > ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'Æ'‚ÃÆ'‚ >
> > > > > > >  > > It is a different message you wrap in the same envelope.> > 
> > > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'Æ'‚ÃÆ'‚ >
> > > > > > >  > > Anthony> > > > > > > > > ________________________________> > 
> > > > > > > > From: Bill! <BillSmart@>> > > To:
> > > >  [email protected] > > > Sent: Monday, 9 January 2012, 9:15> > 
> > > > > Subject: Re: [Zen] When you began
> > > > > learning about buddhism, How did your friends &
> > > > > > family react?> > > > > >
> > > > > > > > > > ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'Æ'‚ÃÆ'‚ 
> > > > > > > > > >  > > > Anthony,> > > > > > You definition of karma is well 
> > > > > > > > > > stated, but why do you not think that definition could not 
> > > > > > > > > > also be applied to the Christian concept of sin/obedience 
> > > > > > > > > > and Hell/Heaven?> > > > > > For me it's the same message in 
> > > > > > > > > > a different envelope.> > > > > > ...Bill!> > > > > > --- In 
> > > > > > > > > > [email protected], Anthony Wu <wuasg@> wrote:> > > 
> > > > > > > > > > >> > > > That is not karma, but reward and punishment by 
> > > > > > > > > > God. Karma is action and reaction by yourself through your 
> > > > > > > > > > own mind (or Buddha nature).> > > > 
> > > > > > > > > > ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'¢ÃÆ'¢â€šÂ¬ÃÆ'…¡ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'Æ'‚ÃÆ'‚ >
> > > > > > > > > >  > > > Anthony> > > > > > > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > > > > ________________________________> > > > From: Bill! 
> > > > > > > > > > <BillSmart@>> > > > To: [email protected] > > > > 
> > > > > > > > > > Sent: Sunday, 8 January 2012,
> > > >  18:03> > > > Subject: Re: [Zen] When you began learning about 
> > > > buddhism, How did your friends & family react?> > > > > > > > > > > >
> > > > > ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'¢ÃÆ'¢â€šÂ¬ÃÆ'…¡ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'Æ'‚ÃÆ'‚ 
> > > > >  > > > > Christians beleive in 'karma'
> > > > > > also: if you're 'good' you go to Heaven and if you're
> > > > > > > 'bad' you go to Hell...Bill!> > > > > > > > --- In 
> > > > > > > [email protected], Anthony Wu <wuasg@> wrote:> > > > >> > 
> > > > > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > ItÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'‚¢ÃÆ'Æ'¢ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'‚¬ÃÆ'Æ'…ÃÆ'‚¡ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'¢ÃÆ'¢â€šÂ¬ÃÆ'…¡ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'Æ'‚ÃÆ'‚ is
> > > > > > >  not at all surprising that you got a funny reaction from people 
> > > > > > > surrounding you when you said you were interested in Buddhism. 
> > > > > > > Try doing the same thing with Moslems, and you get a funnier 
> > > > > > > response. Even in this forum, which is less hostile to Buddhism, 
> > > > > > > you find different views on it. > > > > >
> > > >  
> > > > ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'‚¢ÃÆ'Æ'¢ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'‚¬ÃÆ'Æ'…ÃÆ'‚¡ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'¢ÃÆ'¢â€šÂ¬ÃÆ'…¡ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'Æ'‚ÃÆ'‚ >
> > > >  > > > > The key point in Buddhism is karma. But Hinduism also agrees 
> > > > to karma. The difference between the two is the former insists that 
> > > > karma is your own business, nobody else
> > > > > can help you change it. However, in Hinduism, there are powerful 
> > > > > deities who respond to your requests and assist you. Don't forget we 
> > > > > are a zen forum, and there are a view I term chaotic
> > > > > > zen, which denies anything on karma, or any laws or rules. They say 
> > > > > > everything is in chaos. On
> > > > > > > the other hand, you will also hear all kinds of Buddhist views 
> > > > > > > here. I hope you have fun here. > > > > > 
> > > > > > > ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'‚¢ÃÆ'Æ'¢ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'‚¬ÃÆ'Æ'…ÃÆ'‚¡ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'¢ÃÆ'¢â€šÂ¬ÃÆ'…¡ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'Æ'‚ÃÆ'‚ >
> > > > > > >  > > > > Anthony> > > > > 
> > > > > > > ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'‚¢ÃÆ'Æ'¢ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'‚¬ÃÆ'Æ'…ÃÆ'‚¡ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'¢ÃÆ'¢â€šÂ¬ÃÆ'…¡ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'Æ'‚ÃÆ'‚ >
> > > > > > >  > > > >
> > > >  
> > > > ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'‚¢ÃÆ'Æ'¢ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'‚¬ÃÆ'Æ'…ÃÆ'‚¡ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'¢ÃÆ'¢â€šÂ¬ÃÆ'…¡ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'Æ'‚ÃÆ'‚ >
> > > >  > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ________________________________> > > > > 
> > > > From: dan_guzy <dan_guzy@>> > > > > To: [email protected] > > > 
> > > > > > Sent: Saturday, 7 January 2012, 16:08> > > > > Subject: [Zen] When 
> > > > you began learning about buddhism, How did your friends & family
> > > > > react?> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > 
> > > > > ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'‚¢ÃÆ'Æ'¢ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'‚¬ÃÆ'Æ'…ÃÆ'‚¡ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'†'ÃÆ'Æ'¢ÃÆ'¢â€šÂ¬ÃÆ'…¡ÃÆ'Æ'Æ'ÃÆ'¢â‚¬Å¡ÃÆ'Æ'‚ÃÆ'‚ 
> > > > >  > > > > > I seem to be having trouble with this. I'm new to 
> > > > > buddhism, just recently starting reading up on it the past several 
> > > > > months, although technically
> > > > > > I've been exposed to it for many years through a variety of tv 
> > > > > > shows, movies, etc. My favorite was Kung Fu: The Legend Continues. 
> > > > > > Don't know why, but the scenes with the shoalin temple
> > > > > > > and buddhist monks were always my favorite. > > > > > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > Although I haven't come right out and said to my family (except 
> > > > > > > for my sister) that I'm learning about Buddhism, they've seen the 
> > > > > > > books and notes I leave to myself pertaining to it. So far, it 
> > > > > > > has not been encouraging. They kind of give a disgusted look or a 
> > > > > > > groan when they see it that suggests that they are not happy 
> > > > > > > about it. They are catholics. I'm an atheist (which they've known 
> > > > > > > for years). When I finally told my sister that I'd like to visit 
> > > > > > > a temple in town, she got disqusted and said "why? You'll never 
> > > > > > > go with me to my church, but you'll go to a buddhist church?" I 
> > > > > > > didn't know what to say, so I told her the truth, that I didn't 
> > > > > > > feel anything for catholicism anymore, and that it didn't feel 
> > > > > > > like the right religion for me. She wasn't pleased.> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > > > > Then today I was having a chat with a co-worker and boss at 
> > > > > > > work. I get along great with both of them, known them for
> > > > > several
> > > > > > > years. My co-worker mentioned she and her husband were atheists, 
> > > > > > > so I told her I was too. We both got a kick out of it realizing 
> > > > > > > that we never knew that about each other. Then I mentioned to her 
> > > > > > > that I had been reading up on buddhism lately, and she gave the 
> > > > > > > same kind of groan I've been hearing from my family. My boss just 
> > > > > > > sort of gave a look of shock and disbelief, didn't say anything. 
> > > > > > > I couple of weeks or so before that, I was discussing various 
> > > > > > > books with another boss that we like to read, and I mentioned one 
> > > > > > > I'd been reading called the Peaceful Warrior. He asked what it 
> > > > > > > was about so I told him, and when I mentioned it has a buddhist 
> > > > > > > theme to it, he gave a funny look.> > > > > > > > > > What's 
> > > > > > > funny about all of this is that I've always figured buddhism to 
> > > > > > > be one of the most revered and highly respected forms of 
> > > > > > > philosophy and religion on earth. Even growing up I felt that 
> > > > > > > way. When I go online to Yahoo Answers R&S forum to ask a question
> > > > > pertaining
> > > > > > > to it, I haven't had any bad replies over a single question, and 
> > > > > > > if any of you have ever been on there, you know they can be harsh 
> > > > > > > sometimes in that section. So it really threw me for a loop 
> > > > > > > seeing all these crazy reactions from people I know.> > > > > > > 
> > > > > > > > > > Did any of you get these same reactions from the people you 
> > > > > > > knew when you were first learning about buddhism?> > > > >> > > 
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