Hi Rajesh sir, Thanks for your email.
I was introduced to my wife by my mother and sister as I wrote in the last paragraph of my piece. It means that they wanted me to marry the girl of their choice but rested the final decision on me. I found that the girl is good and will be happy with me, so I said yes. Had they chosen a blind girl, I would have talked to her also before taking a decision. Regarding love, eroticism or infatuation, I would unwillingly say that these feelings are very often confused with each other. Hi Binni, Thanks for subscribing to my views. Hi Lissy, Thanks for your encouragement. Hi Zoher, Your points are important. I am sure that many others besides me would have learnt from your logical and clear communication. Thank you. Regards Shadab PersonalityAndEnglish.blogspot.com On 1/2/12, Zoher Kheriwala <[email protected]> wrote: > Hello, > I have gone through all the mails on this issue, here I would like to > express my personal view. Today everything works on simple law of > market that is supplier will get the price for his product as per the > demand for the product and quality of the same. And marriage is not an > acception for this. Let me prove with an argument, many of us use a > mobile with talks suppose someone tells you to buy the mobile with its > defective display in a full price, will you buy it? Certainly not, > even it will not affect the usability of the product. Same is true for > the marriage, which parents will marry there sited child without any > other handicap to a VI person? This is possible only in 2 situation s. > first is when a sited person is in a true love with a blind person, as > said by lalit sir. And second condition is when blind person accept > the sited person on certain compromise. Such as education, divorce, or > other closes like taking care of spouses parents. ECT. > I don’t have any complain for the society. Just think from your own > point of view. And ask some question to yourself. > 1 if I would have been sited would have married to a blind person? > 2 will I carry a proposal of my sited son or daughter for arrange > marriage with a blind person? > 3 will I accept a decision taken by my sited children to marry a blind > person? > Still there are examples of sited marrying blind. I take them as > acceptions and hopes all of us should fall in that acception. What I > firmly believe there are many to sympathize few to empathize and rear > to accept us as life partner. I think that compromise has to be done > as far as the marriage of VI is concernd. One can creat ones own frame > work of compromise, that is what kind of compromise a VI can make to > make him accepted by other person with his or hir disability. I think > that if compromise is to be made then rather to marry to a person with > same handicap one should marry to a person with diferent handicap. So > they can substitute each other disebility. To go for such decisions > one should be practical rather then hypothatic. Afterall one should > buy that commodity which fits in ones budget. This is how market > works. ☺ > What I wrote is my personal openian and I can not write as nice as > shadab sir writes, thanking you to read my post. > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > [email protected] > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please > visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > -- Develop your personality and English at http://PersonalityAndEnglish.blogspot.com/ Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ To unsubscribe send a message to [email protected] with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in
