hi i completely agree with your argument.
----- Original Message -----
From: "Zoher Kheriwala" <zos...@gmail.com>
To: <accessindia@accessindia.org.in>
Sent: Monday, January 02, 2012 11:28 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] Of disclosing 'disability' before marriage
Hello,
I have gone through all the mails on this issue, here I would like to
express my personal view. Today everything works on simple law of
market that is supplier will get the price for his product as per the
demand for the product and quality of the same. And marriage is not an
acception for this. Let me prove with an argument, many of us use a
mobile with talks suppose someone tells you to buy the mobile with its
defective display in a full price, will you buy it? Certainly not,
even it will not affect the usability of the product. Same is true for
the marriage, which parents will marry there sited child without any
other handicap to a VI person? This is possible only in 2 situation s.
first is when a sited person is in a true love with a blind person, as
said by lalit sir. And second condition is when blind person accept
the sited person on certain compromise. Such as education, divorce, or
other closes like taking care of spouses parents. ECT.
I don’t have any complain for the society. Just think from your own
point of view. And ask some question to yourself.
1 if I would have been sited would have married to a blind person?
2 will I carry a proposal of my sited son or daughter for arrange
marriage with a blind person?
3 will I accept a decision taken by my sited children to marry a blind
person?
Still there are examples of sited marrying blind. I take them as
acceptions and hopes all of us should fall in that acception. What I
firmly believe there are many to sympathize few to empathize and rear
to accept us as life partner. I think that compromise has to be done
as far as the marriage of VI is concernd. One can creat ones own frame
work of compromise, that is what kind of compromise a VI can make to
make him accepted by other person with his or hir disability. I think
that if compromise is to be made then rather to marry to a person with
same handicap one should marry to a person with diferent handicap. So
they can substitute each other disebility. To go for such decisions
one should be practical rather then hypothatic. Afterall one should
buy that commodity which fits in ones budget. This is how market
works. ☺
What I wrote is my personal openian and I can not write as nice as
shadab sir writes, thanking you to read my post.
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