I have found the argument of bhavani sir more realistic. Preety madam, if your aim is just to motivate us then your points are valid. I have 40 percent vision. And if I lose it no sighted person will even think to marry me even in dream unless he has social or economical problems. In that case a guy will marry me if he won’t get proper match rather any girl in able bodied world, Or if I can offer him lots of money if he is poor Or I have nice job and he has no earning capacity. Otherwise no sighted person will marry me just for the sake of charity. And I don’t have any bitter feeling for this belief. Because everyone has right to choose a life partner who is equal in all aspects I can’t marry with the guy who doesn’t have both arms and both legs. The same way I shouldn’t expect such charity from any able bodied man. And yes I won’t get promotion if I ask my boss to touch his clothes by saying: sir log kafi tariff kar rahe hai chalo mai bhi chhoo ke dekhu to tariff kar saku. I don’t have much experience but still I would like to advice all youngsters that please don’t do this. Don’t ask anyone that: sir ya madam mai apke kapde dekhna chahta hun ya chahti hun.
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Or if we are rejected by sighted person, it might not be > related to our blindness. > Let me have the courage to make the statement, Many of we blind people > have the habit to relate our rejection (not only in marriages but also > in jobs and other sectors) to our blindness, but I am sure that if we > are appealing to the required party then our blindness should not be > of great concern. Yes having some doubt about our work efficiency is > quite natural in the case of sighted partner, this may not be the case > if we are engaged with blind partner. This is the time when we have to > show our ability (not only through talking but also through working). > Marrying to a sighted person or vice versa cannot guaranty of > successful married life. It has very little to do with our blindness. > I have married to a blind girl, We have not accepted each other > because we are blind, blindness is just is a coincidence. Let me put > in other words, My life partner happends to be a person with > blindness. > When we are in a hunt of life partner, we cannot over estimate the > ability of sighted person and we should not under estimate the ability > of blind partner. > > > On 7/2/14, Shadab Husain <shadab...@gmail.com> wrote: >> Hey Bhawani bhai, nice quotes! The key point is that there has to be some >> "self-interest" for both the parties otherwise the friendship will end. A >> person with financial poverty and emotional richness can provide >> emotional >> support to the emotionally poor but financially rich one and thus can be >> equal in status. Can we apply it on a blind marrying a sighted? Disagree >> with it, but I won't - especially after seeing so many examples on Access >> India. >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On > Behalf >> Of bhawani shankar verma >> Sent: 02 July 2014 07:13 >> To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning >> the disabled. >> Subject: Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are >> normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners >> >> "Never make friends with people who are above or below you in status. >> Such >> friendships will never give you any happiness." >> - Chanakya >> >> "There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no >> friendship >> without self-interests. This is a bitter truth." >> - Chanakya >> >> both quotations should also be applied regarding partnership. marriage is > a >> social partnership between to parties where they have joined each other >> to >> satisfy their physical and emotional desires. >> >> ----- Original Message ----- >> From: "aditi shah" <shahaditi1...@gmail.com> >> To: "accessindia" <accessindia@accessindia.org.in> >> Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 6:24 PM >> Subject: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are >> normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners >> >> >>> Hi there everyone, >>> Have been reading this discussion since a few days, so felt like >>> expressing my views as well. >>> >>> We are all humans blind or not, and we have our own set of skills. >>> There might be areas we are extremely good at or there might be areas >>> we cannot do much, in case of us blind it may be because of our >>> disability whereas incase of sighted it might be due to other reasons. >>> According to me, a happy married life demands a set of some basic >>> skills, like understanding, cooking, up bringing of kids, earning, >>> socializing, etc. >>> Again, these basic requirements differ depending on what kind of a >>> lifestyle one has. >>> So, in my view, it does not really matter whether we are marrying a >>> sighted or a blind, what matters is whether our's and our partner's >>> skills can meet those basic requirements or not. >>> Considering this, I disagree from the belief that if a blind has to >>> marry a sighted, he has to make compromises like marrying someone >>> economically or intellectually weaker than us. >>> If a blind who is earning well or is from a well-to-do family or may >>> be is extremely qualified marries a sighted from a weaker economic >>> background or qualification, it is not a compromise as far as both >>> partners together possess the required skills. >>> Even if a blind is marrying a blind, and both of them can manage to do >>> the required things, may be in ways different than the normal world, >>> they can indeed have a successful married life. >>> >>> So, it is not about being blind or sighted, it is always about finding >>> that someone such that with understanding, you can both match up for >>> each other's shortcomings. >>> Life partners are like two pieces of a puzzle, one has to find the >>> other half that fits perfectly, lest we got to spend our entire life >>> filling the gaps. >>> >>> Regards, >>> aditi >>> >>> >>> >>> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >>> accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: >>> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_acc >>> essindia.org.in >>> >>> >>> Search for old postings at: >>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>> please visit the list home page at >>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org >>> .in >>> >>> >>> Disclaimer: >>> 1. 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