very true rajesh sir, compromise or rare. you summed up properly which i couldn't
On 7/2/14, Asudani, Rajesh <[email protected]> wrote: > Well said Ishita. > Motivation is ok, but marriages between blind and sighted, without > compromise are rare.. > > Please remember beggars are not choosers.... > > > > -----Original Message----- > From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf > Of ishita kapoor > Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 2:10 PM > To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning > the disabled. > Subject: Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are > normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners > > I have found the argument of bhavani sir more realistic. > Preety madam, if your aim is just to motivate us then your points are > valid. > I have 40 percent vision. > And if I lose it no sighted person will even think to marry me even in > dream unless he has social or economical problems. > In that case a guy will marry me if he won’t get proper match rather > any girl in able bodied world, > Or if I can offer him lots of money if he is poor > Or I have nice job and he has no earning capacity. > Otherwise no sighted person will marry me just for the sake of charity. > And I don’t have any bitter feeling for this belief. > Because everyone has right to choose a life partner who is equal in all > aspects > I can’t marry with the guy who doesn’t have both arms and both legs. > The same way I shouldn’t expect such charity from any able bodied man. > And yes I won’t get promotion if I ask my boss to touch his clothes by > saying: sir log kafi tariff kar rahe hai chalo mai bhi chhoo ke dekhu > to tariff kar saku. > I don’t have much experience but still I would like to advice all > youngsters that please don’t do this. > Don’t ask anyone that: sir ya madam mai apke kapde dekhna chahta hun > ya chahti hun. > > > On 7/2/14, Preeti Monga <[email protected]> wrote: >> You are very right! >> Preeti >> >> Preeti Monga >> Director >> >> >> >> Mobile: +91 9871701646 >> Landline: 011 22781446 >> E-mail: [email protected] >> Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org >> Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. 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Some of us might have rejected the proposal of >> sighted person not because of he or she is sighted but many reasons >> other vice. Or if we are rejected by sighted person, it might not be >> related to our blindness. >> Let me have the courage to make the statement, Many of we blind people >> have the habit to relate our rejection (not only in marriages but also >> in jobs and other sectors) to our blindness, but I am sure that if we >> are appealing to the required party then our blindness should not be >> of great concern. Yes having some doubt about our work efficiency is >> quite natural in the case of sighted partner, this may not be the case >> if we are engaged with blind partner. This is the time when we have to >> show our ability (not only through talking but also through working). >> Marrying to a sighted person or vice versa cannot guaranty of >> successful married life. It has very little to do with our blindness. >> I have married to a blind girl, We have not accepted each other >> because we are blind, blindness is just is a coincidence. Let me put >> in other words, My life partner happends to be a person with >> blindness. >> When we are in a hunt of life partner, we cannot over estimate the >> ability of sighted person and we should not under estimate the ability >> of blind partner. >> >> >> On 7/2/14, Shadab Husain <[email protected]> wrote: >>> Hey Bhawani bhai, nice quotes! The key point is that there has to be >>> some >>> "self-interest" for both the parties otherwise the friendship will end. >>> A >>> person with financial poverty and emotional richness can provide >>> emotional >>> support to the emotionally poor but financially rich one and thus can be >>> equal in status. Can we apply it on a blind marrying a sighted? Disagree >>> with it, but I won't - especially after seeing so many examples on >>> Access >>> India. >>> >>> -----Original Message----- >>> From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On >> Behalf >>> Of bhawani shankar verma >>> Sent: 02 July 2014 07:13 >>> To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and >>> issuesconcerning >>> the disabled. >>> Subject: Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are >>> normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners >>> >>> "Never make friends with people who are above or below you in status. >>> Such >>> friendships will never give you any happiness." >>> - Chanakya >>> >>> "There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no >>> friendship >>> without self-interests. This is a bitter truth." >>> - Chanakya >>> >>> both quotations should also be applied regarding partnership. marriage >>> is >> a >>> social partnership between to parties where they have joined each other >>> to >>> satisfy their physical and emotional desires. >>> >>> ----- Original Message ----- >>> From: "aditi shah" <[email protected]> >>> To: "accessindia" <[email protected]> >>> Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 6:24 PM >>> Subject: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are >>> normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners >>> >>> >>>> Hi there everyone, >>>> Have been reading this discussion since a few days, so felt like >>>> expressing my views as well. >>>> >>>> We are all humans blind or not, and we have our own set of skills. >>>> There might be areas we are extremely good at or there might be areas >>>> we cannot do much, in case of us blind it may be because of our >>>> disability whereas incase of sighted it might be due to other reasons. >>>> According to me, a happy married life demands a set of some basic >>>> skills, like understanding, cooking, up bringing of kids, earning, >>>> socializing, etc. >>>> Again, these basic requirements differ depending on what kind of a >>>> lifestyle one has. >>>> So, in my view, it does not really matter whether we are marrying a >>>> sighted or a blind, what matters is whether our's and our partner's >>>> skills can meet those basic requirements or not. >>>> Considering this, I disagree from the belief that if a blind has to >>>> marry a sighted, he has to make compromises like marrying someone >>>> economically or intellectually weaker than us. >>>> If a blind who is earning well or is from a well-to-do family or may >>>> be is extremely qualified marries a sighted from a weaker economic >>>> background or qualification, it is not a compromise as far as both >>>> partners together possess the required skills. >>>> Even if a blind is marrying a blind, and both of them can manage to do >>>> the required things, may be in ways different than the normal world, >>>> they can indeed have a successful married life. >>>> >>>> So, it is not about being blind or sighted, it is always about finding >>>> that someone such that with understanding, you can both match up for >>>> each other's shortcomings. >>>> Life partners are like two pieces of a puzzle, one has to find the >>>> other half that fits perfectly, lest we got to spend our entire life >>>> filling the gaps. >>>> >>>> Regards, >>>> aditi >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >>>> accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: >>>> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_acc >>>> essindia.org.in >>>> >>>> >>>> Search for old postings at: >>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >>>> >>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>> [email protected] >>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>> >>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>>> please visit the list home page at >>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org >>>> .in >>>> >>>> >>>> Disclaimer: >>>> 1. 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