I can imagine many scenarios as well and I'm as understanding as the next guy. But the key is that this person hasn't offered any sort of explanation. If this person came out and explained herself--"I have OCD" or "I've been depressed, I just haven't read much, and I'm sorry about the backlog"--I'd have no problem. But to discover that this person, who I offered one RABCK book originally, who responded by asking for many more than the one, promising to move them along, and to whom I trusted and sent a *box* of books, well, it bugs me, it disturbs me.
ed. ----- Original Message ----- From: Marko Bomyer <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> [snip] During the time I have been a member of this list a few regular posters have come out/requested support/just wanted to talk. We have always been supportive whether the condition has been cancer, depression, in one case alzheimers. So if someone doesn't forward your book don't immeadiately suspect the worst. Chances are that the person is a rat, but truth be told you are a little daft if you in truth expect to get the book back in the end. Instead, imagine the worst, what if that person is depressed at the moment 8 months is nothing (believe me from personal experience I can tell you depression can last 8 years and more). [snip] Imagine the person you are attacking is an obsesive compulsive that is fighting the condition... ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Make a clean sweep of pop-up ads. Yahoo! Companion Toolbar. Now with Pop-Up Blocker. Get it for free! http://us.click.yahoo.com/L5YrjA/eSIIAA/yQLSAA/wnIolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> Have you told a friend today? http://bookcrossing.com/tellafriend Archives and email list settings: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/BookCrossing Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/BookCrossing/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
