QSL Richard!!!😉

73, JP, K5JPP

>     On 08/04/2021 3:52 PM Richard Bonica via BVARC <[email protected]> wrote:
>      
>      
>     To all,
>     I hate to get tangled in this web, but I have to say this...
>      
>          I have been on an off with BVARC for over 10 years at different 
> levels. I want to say I have NEVER felt like I was put off or out. As a 
> matter of fact, I feel the opposite. As I back out of doing one thing/ 
> interest, BVARC members have always pulled me back in and welcomed me. 
> Everyone present and even some of our silent keys have welcomed me.
>      
>        This is why I am even bringing my son into the club. We need new blood 
> in the club and everyone welcomed him during Field Day. Thanks to Jimmy 
> especially, he has grown an interest in this hobby/ field. He has even 
> started this week to check in to the net on his own before I even get there. 
> He also relayed that I was in the area and made sure I was checked in. 
>      
>         As for my wanting to help because of members, during Field Day, I was 
> more than happy to be there all three days and make sure I did my part as I 
> feel everyone in the club tries to do what they can. No one intentionally is 
> rude, we all have a part and sometimes we get wrapped up in what we feel is 
> important. This is a fact of life and we need to accept others for who they 
> are and for the little bumps in the road they may cause unintentionally. We 
> are not perfect and everyone is different, let's accept that and integrate 
> that into our team functions.
>      
>          I did see a few people talk about cliques - I do not feel there are 
> cliques, it is just people more engrossed with the club and are working 
> towards a goal. If you feel there is a clique, go talk to them, maybe that 
> clique has a place for you and you will see that it is not a clique but a 
> task force that might need your help too.
>      
>          But most of all, let's keep the spirit of Ham Radio up, and help 
> each other.  My son was new and everyone he dealt with helped him and we now 
> have one more member that will carry on our legacy. We should not only look 
> at the way we function as a club, but how we function with the public side 
> too. I was once told by Val Rose (Silent Key), that I should get my licence, 
> join BVARC, and serve the community. I hope I am doing that and Robert Tarbet 
> (Who I got my equipment from) used to serve the community as a Ham, ES, and 
> Chaplin. I hope that I am doing what both those silent keys wanted.
>      
>     Now -- I pose a question to you all   ---   Do you think what YOU are 
> doing is what our past Silent Keys wanted??? Because that is what BVARC's 
> Silent Keys gave us. A place to help those who can not help themselves, 
> internally and externally. 
>      
>     73 Richard Bonica (KG5YCU)
>      
> 
>     On Wed, Aug 4, 2021 at 3:03 PM Jeff Greer via BVARC < [email protected] 
> mailto:[email protected] > wrote:
> 
>         > >         Surprised and sorry to hear that some feel excluded...  
> My experience has been the exact opposite.  As a newbie ham who had never 
> been on HF, I attended what must have been my 3rd or 4th BVARC meeting about 
> 3 years ago, and they happened to be doing elections.  Nobody ran for 
> Corresponding Secretary, so I walked up to N5VCX as things were winding down 
> and volunteered to do it.  I've been knee-deep in BVARC business ever since.  
> I've never felt ostracized, but I guess I didn't wait around for a welcome 
> committee, either...  Maybe that was the difference.  I've not seen anybody 
> here intentionally exclude anyone else, but perhaps we should be more mindful 
> about being explicitly welcoming.
> >          
> >          
> > 
> >         ---------------------------------------------
> >         From: BVARC <[email protected] mailto:[email protected] 
> > > on behalf of Eddie Runner via BVARC <[email protected] 
> > mailto:[email protected] >
> >         Sent: Wednesday, August 4, 2021 1:53 PM
> >         To: [email protected] mailto:[email protected] <[email protected] 
> > mailto:[email protected] >
> >         Cc: Eddie Runner <[email protected] 
> > mailto:[email protected] >; [email protected] 
> > mailto:[email protected] <[email protected] 
> > mailto:[email protected] >
> >         Subject: Re: [BVARC] Net problems
> >          
> >          
> >         Thanks for posting this Ralph... I like the CLUB to see when this 
> > happens...
> >          
> >         When the old guys clique, they do not even notice they are doing it.
> >         If they dont get complaints they may never notice....
> >          
> >         as a life member,
> >         I hate it when the club is percieved that way..  And I probably do 
> > it as well sometimes..( i dont know?)
> >          
> >         When I joined back in the 80s it was ALWAYS that way...  over the 
> > decades it has
> >         gotten better...  
> >          
> >         Join back up with us and help us to make it better!!!
> >         no body knows if you dont speak up  (and thanks for that)
> >          
> >         Eddie (NU5K)
> >          
> >          
> >          
> >         On Wednesday, August 4, 2021, 01:00:25 PM CDT, ke5hdf--- via BVARC 
> > < [email protected] mailto:[email protected] > wrote:
> >          
> >          
> >         The comments made about how the net control operator made people 
> > fell not welcome mirrors my experiences with BVARC on general over the 
> > years.  The club behavior. Has been .....Very strong cliques, if u are not 
> > a member we don't want your inputs, come to a meeting and stand quiet at 
> > the wall.
> >         I have tried to participate in activities, tried to invite BVARC to 
> > join my activities, attended meetings every few years only to be always 
> > ignored.
> >          
> >         I dropped my membership years ago.
> >         I watch the reflector on case there is an activity I can do on my 
> > own.
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