"I did see a few people talk about cliques - I do not feel there are cliques, 
it is just people more engrossed with the club and are working towards a goal. 
If you feel there is a clique, go talk to them, maybe that clique has a place 
for you and you will see that it is not a clique but a task force that might 
need your help too."

Thanks Mr. Bonica.
The MSWE task force has openings, and always has. BTW, W1XQ's successful use of 
a Buddistick at MSWE in 2018, influenced subsequent Museum Ship activation 
antenna strategies.

73MarkK5MGJ

    On Wednesday, August 4, 2021, 03:53:25 PM CDT, Richard Bonica via BVARC 
<[email protected]> wrote:  
 
 To all,I hate to get tangled in this web, but I have to say this...
     I have been on an off with BVARC for over 10 years at different levels. I 
want to say I have NEVER felt like I was put off or out. As a matter of fact, I 
feel the opposite. As I back out of doing one thing/ interest, BVARC members 
have always pulled me back in and welcomed me. Everyone present and even some 
of our silent keys have welcomed me.
    This is why I am even bringing my son into the club. We need new blood in 
the club and everyone welcomed him during Field Day. Thanks to Jimmy 
especially, he has grown an interest in this hobby/ field. He has even started 
this week to check in to the net on his own before I even get there. He also 
relayed that I was in the area and made sure I was checked in.      As for my 
wanting to help because of members, during Field Day, I was more than happy to 
be there all three days and make sure I did my part as I feel everyone in the 
club tries to do what they can. No one intentionally is rude, we all have a 
part and sometimes we get wrapped up in what we feel is important. This is a 
fact of life and we need to accept others for who they are and for the little 
bumps in the road they may cause unintentionally. We are not perfect and 
everyone is different, let's accept that and integrate that into our team 
functions.
     I did see a few people talk about cliques - I do not feel there are 
cliques, it is just people more engrossed with the club and are working towards 
a goal. If you feel there is a clique, go talk to them, maybe that clique has a 
place for you and you will see that it is not a clique but a task force that 
might need your help too.
     But most of all, let's keep the spirit of Ham Radio up, and help each 
other.  My son was new and everyone he dealt with helped him and we now have 
one more member that will carry on our legacy. We should not only look at the 
way we function as a club, but how we function with the public side too. I was 
once told by Val Rose (Silent Key), that I should get my licence, join BVARC, 
and serve the community. I hope I am doing that and Robert Tarbet (Who I got my 
equipment from) used to serve the community as a Ham, ES, and Chaplin. I hope 
that I am doing what both those silent keys wanted.
Now -- I pose a question to you all   ---   Do you think what YOU are doing is 
what our past Silent Keys wanted??? Because that is what BVARC's Silent Keys 
gave us. A place to help those who can not help themselves, internally and 
externally. 
73 Richard Bonica (KG5YCU)

On Wed, Aug 4, 2021 at 3:03 PM Jeff Greer via BVARC <[email protected]> wrote:

Surprised and sorry to hear that some feel excluded...  My experience has been 
the exact opposite.  As a newbie ham who had never been on HF, I attended what 
must have been my 3rd or 4th BVARC meeting about 3 years ago, and they happened 
to be doing elections.  Nobody ran for Corresponding Secretary, so I walked up 
to N5VCX as things were winding down and volunteered to do it.  I've been 
knee-deep in BVARC business ever since.  I've never felt ostracized, but I 
guess I didn't wait around for a welcome committee, either...  Maybe that was 
the difference.  I've not seen anybody here intentionally exclude anyone else, 
but perhaps we should be more mindful about being explicitly welcoming.

From: BVARC <[email protected]> on behalf of Eddie Runner via BVARC 
<[email protected]>
Sent: Wednesday, August 4, 2021 1:53 PM
To: [email protected] <[email protected]>
Cc: Eddie Runner <[email protected]>; [email protected] 
<[email protected]>
Subject: Re: [BVARC] Net problems Thanks for posting this Ralph... I like the 
CLUB to see when this happens...
When the old guys clique, they do not even notice they are doing it.If they 
dont get complaints they may never notice....
as a life member,I hate it when the club is percieved that way..  And I 
probably do it as well sometimes..( i dont know?)
When I joined back in the 80s it was ALWAYS that way...  over the decades it 
hasgotten better...  
Join back up with us and help us to make it better!!!no body knows if you dont 
speak up  (and thanks for that)
Eddie (NU5K)


On Wednesday, August 4, 2021, 01:00:25 PM CDT, ke5hdf--- via BVARC 
<[email protected]> wrote:

The comments made about how the net control operator made people fell not 
welcome mirrors my experiences with BVARC on general over the years.  The club 
behavior. Has been .....Very strong cliques, if u are not a member we don't 
want your inputs, come to a meeting and stand quiet at the wall.I have tried to 
participate in activities, tried to invite BVARC to join my activities, 
attended meetings every few years only to be always ignored.
I dropped my membership years ago.I watch the reflector on case there is an 
activity I can do on my own.________________________________________________
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