in Buddha's teaching, there is no dogma, if your heart is pure, it does not matter where you live, you can be a monk. Buddha, said, to the monks, just because you live in monastery, wearing yellow robe, does not make you a monk. You have to study dharma, and have pure heart.
[email protected] wrote:
Are you saying that it is okay for a monk to live in a dorm? Glad our monks at our temple didn't use to live in a dorm before when they were in school.

Are you christian? If so, I understand. I rest my case.

~ Sent from my iPhone

On Jan 22, 2010, at 11:31 PM, rattanakiri <[email protected]> wrote:

The international student housing is like similar to apartment. everyone has her or his own room. How can you criticize someone whom you do not even know their circumstances. because he said something you do not like. grow up, dude. Are you gonna go their build a house just him to live? You know how expensive housing is in Hawaii?


thisbugone wrote:
Off campus housing is not the same as the dorm. What kind of pills are you taking while writing the email below? If one chose to be a monk one must follows by its religion. On Thu, Jan 21, 2010 at 8:55 PM, rattanakiri <[email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>> wrote:

    I went to college once. I know these co-ed international student
   dorms are like an apartment building. Everyone has his or her own
   room. This is far from what you have implied. Even if he decided
   to live off campus, it is the same setting. Each apartment complex
   is going to females and males residence. Where do you think he
   should stay? Freshmen dorm?

   Heng Sombat wrote:

       Hey Rattankiri,

       You miss the whole picture here.   Monks are subjected to be a
       pure person
       that we all respect and trust during his period of serving his
       monkship
       regardless young or old.  If you claim that it is fine for a
       monk to live in
       the same dorm with female(s), I must say that you have lost
       track and you do
       not have any believes in Buddhism.  Or you are pretending to
       be Buddhism. Or
       you are an idiot just like what "thisbugone" said.  Please
       check with your
       parents about Buddhism before you response.

       Sombat

       -----Original Message-----
       From: [email protected]
       <mailto:[email protected]>
       [mailto:[email protected]
       <mailto:[email protected]>] On Behalf
       Of thisbugone
       Sent: Saturday, January 16, 2010 11:23 AM
       To: [email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>
       Subject: Re: My Letter to the Phnom Penh Post

       Monk and women can stay together lol. You must be an idiot!

       On Saturday, January 16, 2010, rattanakiri
       <[email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>> wrote:

           Some people may not realize it but speak ill of someone
           including making a

       harsh and quick judgement unfairly on someone is unbecoming a
       buddisht.  Remember, Buddha teaching speak rightly only.

           In a poor country like Cambodia, monastery life is a way
           out of poverty

       and a chance for a proper education.  In fact, many celebrated
       Khmer leaders
       and scholars owed their career to their days in as a monk.  I
       think not any
       Cambodians would  be shocked if a monk rejoins his civilian
       life. Cambodian
       buddhists offer money, food to monks in order to receive good
       karma,
       blessing.  Should the monks refund the money, foods back if he
       returns to
       civilian life.  Would you expect the monk perform a return of
       good karma,
       blessing back to heaven from those people?  Give me a break.

           Savouth Chea wrote:


           Aloha,

           As a resident of Hawaii, which Sophan Seng claims he
           represents, I wanted

       to share my observations, thoughts, and also questions about
       his motives.
        Unfortunately, I didn't like what I saw of him, and I only
       foresee further
       disruption.

           Sophan Seng came to Hawaii to further his education back
           in 2006.  The

       first time he set foot in Hawaii, I introduced him to some
       Cambodian
       community members since he was a Khmer new  to the island.
        Some knew his
       background from the past and had their opinions (good but
       mostly bad), but I
       tried not to take people's word for it.  As months progressed,
       however, I
       came to see that the warnings I had heard were true.  First,
       he used the
       Buddhist religion to advance himself rather than becoming a
       monk selflessly
in dedication to Buddha. How do I know this? While attending the
       University of Hawaii, he lived in a co-educational dormitory.
        One may think
       this is not a big deal nowadays, but should a monk put himself
       in the
       company and living quarters of females?  Is this appropriate?
         He often
       flirted with young female members of our community and made
       inappropriate
       comments - causing some of our youth and their parents to
       become very upset!
        He was affiliated with a so-called ‘temple’ in Hawaii, and
       performed
       Buddhist ceremonies.  That was reasonable because he was a
       monk, right?  But
       in 2009, he visited Cambodia from Hawaii, ostensibly still a
       monk, but came
       back to the United States only a couple of months later with a
       wife!  Prior
       to his trip back to Cambodia, he told members of the community
       in Hawaii
       that he was going there to represent and gain support for the
       temple and the
Buddhist religion. The ‘temple committee’ gave him $400, and some
       individual people also gave him money, since he was a monk
       and/or student.
        Poor him, right?  When  he came back with a wife, people were
       shocked.  Did
       he care?  Apparently not.  He did not attempt to explain
       himself nor
       apologize for using the monies to go back to Cambodia to get
       married.  No,
       he used religion for personal gain.  Sad but true.

           To people that do not know him, Sophan Seng represents
           himself as a

       ‘community facilitator.’  To be a facilitator, ideally one has
       to be
       neutral, or at least try to maintain neutrality.  Instead,  he
       openly
       expresses his opinion about Cambodian politics.  In fact, even
       as a monk,
       whose studies are supposed to focus on learning and
       internalizing Buddhist
       principles and the path to peace, he chose to pursue a degree
       in /political
       science/.   Most if not all of the articles he has written to
       the Phnom Penh
       Post (PPP) discuss politics.  At the close of each of his
       articles, he
       signed "Sophan Seng, University Hawaii at Manoa, United
       States," or
       "Cambodian Students of Aloha" (the University's student
       organization).   This might indicate that his opinions echo
       those of other Khmer at the
       University of Hawaii.  They do not.   Again, he is not
       representing the
       university, Khmer in Hawaii, or the United States of America.
        He used these
       closures to make himself look good with outside parties.  Not
       all Khmer in
       Hawaii (or elsewhere in the United States) agree with him.

           In his previous correspondence, Sophan stated, “If you
           want to know me

       more, go to these links.”  The links he provided,
       http://www2.hawaii.edu/~csaloha/officers.html
       <http://www2.hawaii.edu/%7Ecsaloha/officers.html>
       <http://www2.hawaii.edu/%7Ecsaloha/officers.html> and
       http://www2.hawaii.edu/~sophan/
       <http://www2.hawaii.edu/%7Esophan/>
       <http://www2.hawaii.edu/%7Esophan/>, are
       links that were self-created  -- using the university- related
       resources
       (originally created for the use of the student group as a
       whole) for
       personal gain, again.  Was the information he put on the site
        approved by
the majority of the students in the organization? Has anyone else
       affiliated with the CSAloha used this site for personal
       boasting?  No.  Not
       even the founders, myself or Mr. Chanthoeun To, ever
       considered using this
       site to toot our own horns.  The purpose of CSAloha, ‘…does
       not represent
       any political or religious ideologies both on/off campus.’
        Yet he used the
       university-based name/group to send articles about politics to
       PPP and other
       media.  Like Mr. Heng Sombat mentioned in his email, ‘He just
       wanted his
       name to be read in Phnom Penh Post.’

           Most of the articles he wrote to the PPP from Hawaii
           attacked the current

       Cambodian government and sided with opposition political
       parties.  Hmmm . .
       . Sophan, when you were in Cambodia, did you write any
       articles to the PPP?
        Or did you simply enjoy yourself there and then come back to
       the safety of
       the U.S. to criticize Cambodia?  Why attack the government of
       your own
       country?  Do you just use your country for personal gain as
       well?  Samdech
       Hun Sen has been a Prime Minister for years.  He lives in
       Cambodia most of
       his life, unlike Mr. Sam Rainsy.  When problems arise in the
       country,
       Samdech Hun Sen is still there.  How about Mr. Sam Rainsy?  He
       leaves the
       country when problems come up.   Then, his students and his
       followers  pay
       the price since they can’t leave the country like him.  Now, I
       am not
       affiliated with any political party in Cambodia.  I am simply
       noting that
       you only support a given official or bureaucrat when it suits
       you.  Perhaps
       it is easier to get an American scholarship if you are
       attacking a socialist
       country leader rather than supporting him?  Sophan, why try to
       divide the
       country instead of uniting it?  Are you using your Canadian
       and US bases to
       get asylum to live abroad permanently??

           Your articles to the PPP do not help the current issues in
           Cambodia;

       instead, you are dividing the government and her people.
        Before you decide
       to sound off your opinion again, you should take a look at
       yourself in the
       mirror again and think about whether you are helping Cambodia
       with your
       words and actions, or, by pretending to be some sort of expert
       from the
       safety of your current North American address, making things
       worse for the
       people of our motherland.

           Savouth Chea

           Honolulu, Hawaii


              -----Message d'origine-----
              De : [email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>
           <mailto:[email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>>
              [mailto:[email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>
              <mailto:[email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>>] De la part
              de Heng Sombat
              Envoyé : samedi 9 janvier 2010 21:08
              À : [email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>
           <mailto:[email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>>
              Objet : RE: My Letter to the Phnom Penh Post

              Sophan,

              The CSALOHA website is very outdated
              (http://www2.hawaii.edu/~csaloha/officers.html
           <http://www2.hawaii.edu/%7Ecsaloha/officers.html>
              <http://www2.hawaii.edu/%7Ecsaloha/officers.html>).  I
           do not
              think any of the
              information on the site are correct. You need to update
           it or take
              the site
              down. False information via internet or posted on the
           internet is
              also a
              crime.

              Per my information with the East West Center, you are
           no longer a
              student
              there.  Plus you have sent many articles about
           Cambodian-Canadian's
              activities which only proof that you are currently
           residing in Canada.

              There is not much to read into your article.  Your
           intention is
              not to help
              Cambodia or her people.  Question: Have you even hold a
           job that
              produced
              normal income and paid income-tax since you live here,
           US or
              Canada?  If
              not, you have no idea what is democracy is.  So please
           do not preach
              democracy to others.  From your resume, you have been a
              professional student
              and monk most of your adult life.

              Per my conversation with my friend Sok in Hawaii, your
           short term
              in Hawaii
              during your monk hood was fulfill with sins. Let me
           relate (one
              issue) to
              you and to our audience that wish to know more about
           you,  since
              you wanted
              others to know about you as well.  Correct me if my
           information is
              incorrect, but I have no doubt about what I am about to
           share.

              During your study at University of Hawaii you were
           living in a co-ed
              University housing that was provided by East West
           Center (funded
              by American
              tax payers). This mean that you were sharing your
           domicile with young
              college girls.  This alone violated Buddhism practice
           already.
               Most of the
              young girls in these days covered their body with less
           and less
              garments,
              especially when they are in their domiciles. I will
           stop here on
              this issue
and let you and the audience of CAMDIS takes it from here.

              I have more to share, if you want me to go on!  Trust me.

              Here is my suggestion.  Stop attacking and putting down
           Cambodian
              people and
              her government via Phnom Penh Post. Posting article via
           Phnom Post
              will be
              read by mostly foreigners, in Phnom Penh and aboard,
           your article
              will only
              stack more mud on the Cambodian people.  This
           government is not
              perfect.  If
              you care, let's help Cambodian people by helping the
           government to
              improve
              their mean and way of doing government businesses.
           Let's start with
solidarity first. Solidarity is the most effective way to
              consolidate power
              and fight the enemy of all kinds; foreign and domestic.
              Keep in
              mind that
              democracy does not happen overnight.  It took US and
           Canada over
              200 years
              for their democracies and still not 100% perfect.  Do
           not forget
              that your
              well being here in US or Canada is the result of the
           current
              government
              policy.

              Here I go again......You must learn how to give back,
           not just
              take.  Or
              giving back is not what you believe in?  Stop taking
           from an
              little old lady
              like the one you did in Hawaii.  She gave you so much
           of what she
              had; she
had to collect cans and saved portion of her SS incomes to
              contribute to
              your Buddhism preach, because she trusted you as a true
           monk.

              I am going to stop here and hoping that you are able to
           start
              giving back
              with your heart.


              Heng Sombat
              Irvine, Ca

              -----Original Message-----
              From: [email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>
           <mailto:[email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>>
              [mailto:[email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>
              <mailto:[email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>>] On Behalf
              Of sophan
              Sent: Friday, January 08, 2010 4:59
              To: Cambodia Discussion (CAMDISC) - www.cambodia.org
           <http://www.cambodia.org>
              <http://www.cambodia.org>
              Subject: Re: My Letter to the Phnom Penh Post

              Hi Heng Sombat and Kangkaroo;

              Some info you claimed is correct, but major of them is
           wrong about me.
              If you want to know me more, go to these links.

              http://www2.hawaii.edu/~csaloha/officers.html
           <http://www2.hawaii.edu/%7Ecsaloha/officers.html>
              <http://www2.hawaii.edu/%7Ecsaloha/officers.html>
              or
              http://www2.hawaii.edu/~sophan/
           <http://www2.hawaii.edu/%7Esophan/>
           <http://www2.hawaii.edu/%7Esophan/>

              I am not affiliated with any political parties inside
           or outside of
              Cambodia. I am currently a student of UH, and community
           facilitator.
              My letter to the Phnom Penh Post has fairly articulated
           to bring
              benefits to
              all sides especially the collective interests of the
           nation.

              Please re-read my article again and again before you
           assume to
              reply this or
              that.

              PS: I am an individual of UH's student. I am not
           representing all
              students
              in this University including Cambodian students
           studying there,
              like many
other writers who revealed their places such as Phnom Penh,
              California or
              others, surely not represent everyone there.

              Regards,

              S.

              On Jan 7, 10:33 pm, Heng Sombat <[email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>
              <mailto:[email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>>> wrote:
              > Hello Kararoo,
              >
              > Your points are very straight and very much
           appreciated.    The
              author
              > of this letter to Phnom Penh Post has no practical
           logic or merit
              > behind his article.  He just wanted his name to be
           read in Phnom
              Penh
              Post.
              >
              > Sam Rainsy's actions in the last 15 years are very
           questionable.  I
              > have the opportunity to meet Rainsy when he was the
           Minister of
              > Finance and after he got kicked out of the
           government.   He
              knows how
              > to use less fortunate people for his personal gain.
            Just like Koy
              > Pech in
              the 1971, Lon Nol Era.
              > Students died from his actions.
              >
              > Now let's look at this author character and purpose
           of his writing
              > this article, so we could analyst his intention.   I
           started out by
              > contacting my fellow friend (let's call him Sok) at
           Hawaii
              University
              > at Manoa Campus to verify who is this Sophan Seng
           really is.
              >
              > Here is what I found out.
              >
              > 1. Sophan was a student at UH and had moved back to
           Canada since
              2009.
> 2. He was a monk from Cambodia via Canada before moved to
              Hawaii.  On
              > top of it, he did served his monk hood properly.
              >
              > In the body of his article he expressed the wrong
           doing of the HS
              > government, but fail to understand the responsibility
           of the
              Rainsy as MP.
              > MP is just a law maker not a law enforcer.  What
           authority does
              MP has
              > to act as POLICE.   Rainsy's action only create
           division among our
              > people, but fail to promote solidarity.  His actions
           only make us
              > Khmer
              weak.
              >
              > If you talk about corruption, let's us ash how Rainsy
           live with
              his MP
              > salary.  Someone is paying for his living cost plus
           traveling in and
              > out of Cambodia whenever he wishes to travel.
              >
              > I suggest that Sophon think twice before he writes
           again about
              the HS
              > government.  HS is not perfect, but the best
           government we had
              in the
              > last 100 years.  We all able to get higher education
           and freedom to
              > express our opinion more than previous governments.
           Freedom of
              speech
              > has come a long way.  But please keep freedom of
           speech within
              limitation.
              >
              > Let's look at our previous government:  Sihanouk's
           government
              fail.......
              > Lon Nol's government fail...... Pol Pot's government
           fail to year
              > ZERO.  I guess Sophan wants to live year Zero again.
              >
              > One more note for Sophon,  if you are not with UH or
           speaking on
              > behalf of UH, please do not sign on behalf of UH,
           because your
              article
              > to Phnom Penh Post created concern for UH Cambodian
           Students in
> Hawaii. Not all students in UH approved your statement.
              >
              > Heng Sombat
              > Irvine, Ca
              >
              > -----Original Message-----
              > From: [email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>
           <mailto:[email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>>
              [mailto:[email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>
           <mailto:[email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>>] On
              > Behalf
              >
              > Of sopha
              > Sent: Thursday, January 07, 2010 5:56 AM
              > To: Cambodia Discussion (CAMDISC) -www.cambodia.org
           <http://www.cambodia.org>
              <http://www.cambodia.org>
              > Subject: Re: My Letter to the Phnom Penh Post
              >
              > On Jan 7, 2:28 am, kangaroo <[email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>
              <mailto:[email protected]
           <mailto:[email protected]>>> wrote:
              > > > Reading your article “Three more sought in
           removal of post
              at Svay
              > > > Rieng border” (January 4) broke my heart.
              >
              > > > The villagers should be congratulated and taken
           care of by the
              > > > government for their courage in publicly claiming
           their
              ownership
              > > > of the rice paddies and denouncing the violation
           of their
              > > > territory by Vietnamese authorities who have
           mismanaged the
              > > > process of demarcating the border. Instead, as
           unbelievable
              as it
              > > > may sound, these five farmers face a terrifying
           fate and the
              loss
              > > > of their status
              > as “good” citizens.
              >
              > > Look at their acts. They have done something on
           their own hands
              > > along with Sam Rainsy. Did they do the right thing?
              > > Look at it yourself. A small group of people
           disagree with border
              > > demarkation along with their leader, Sam Rainsy.
           They acted
              > > illegally whether you like it or not. They did a
           wrong thing.
              > > Actually, they did it to demonstarte their
           disagreement with the
              government.
              > > Be serious about it. Doing a wrong thing to correct
           a wrong thing
              > > would never work. Sam Rainsy and that small group
           of people
              did just
              > > that. Now they are facing their consequences.
              > > Oh ask those people this. They did it along with
           Sam Rainsy in
              that
              > > village. Now, they all are in trouble including Sam
           Rainsy.
              WHERE IS
              > > SAM RAINSY TODAY?
              > > How about those people in the group? Where are they
           today?
              >
              > It is good to hear from you. Why all Cambodian people
           have trouble?
              >
              > > > There have been different interpretations of this
           story
              within the
              > > > media, but at the end of the day, no one can deny
           the truth:
              > > > Cambodian people living along the borders with
           Thailand,
              Laos and
              > > > Vietnam no longer dare voice their concerns about
           neighbouring
              > > > countries encroaching on their territory and




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