Thanks Mel, i know what you mean about showing the confidence in front of her. Its just really hard sometimes to keep it together. They just wear you down so much!!
We had a better morning today, but there was another little boy at Lori's on Tuesday's that Katy really likes. I think he gets her mind of her tummy. We tried giving her some cherios before bed last night. Thinking that she is going too long between dinner and first food in the morning. Over 13 hours and that might be making her tummy feel yucky too. Who knows. I'll just keep plugging away. As long as I have some good days in with the bad I think I can handle it. I just hope we can get to the bottom of it. Today is my appointment with my psychologist and katy. Wish us luck!! Hopefully we will get some answers =-) have a great day! Sam -----Original Message----- From: Mel and Tim Golobar [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Monday, September 13, 2004 7:29 PM To: canada Subject: [canada] Re: Katy-I don't know what to do!!! "Don't give up"!!! The struggles and the rewards will even themselves out! You will get and want all the advice in the world and in the end things are going to work out just the way they work out! You sound like you are doing and trying everything, so therefore you are NOT helpless. I truly live by the modo one day at a time, even one moment! God gives you only what you can handle, and if he doesn't come to play in your life, than life will give you only what you can handle. Katy chose you for her mom and I'm sure she wouldn't have it any other way. I've been reading all these mails and my heart just goes out to you, it sounds like she is the center of your world! You sound like a wonderful mother to me, you are not being punished, Katy is just testing the waters and this is just her way of expressing herself ( by totally stressing you out!!!) I tell ya, I have days where I think what the helk I was thinking, I feel like "I don't want to be a mom today"! I can't do this, I suck at it!!! I look at my oldest daughter and all that comes to my mind is "oh my gosh", same sex parent is supposed to be the most important roll model in a childs life and you're stuck with me, I'm no rollmodel!!! And then there is days where there is no where else I would rather be! You win some and you lose some but in the end you are that childs parent and they are looking to you for the answers! You, I'm sure are a wonderful mother, and wife, you have to believe in yourself, don't let her see you doubt yourself, she needs to see confidence from you so she can feel self assured and secure! You are in my thoughts, Mel ----- Original Message ----- From: "Samantha Morris" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "canada" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Monday, September 13, 2004 3:54 PM Subject: [canada] Re: Katy-I don't know what to do!!! > Thanks Julia, > > Yes I agree we need to find a teenage babysitter so that dh and I can at > least go out together once in a while. > > I do really hope that we get control of this soon. I feel so helpless and > mean and I don't like the way it makes me feel. > > Sam > > > -----Original Message----- > From: Julia Dickinson [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent: Monday, September 13, 2004 1:28 PM > To: canada > Subject: [canada] Re: Katy-I don't know what to do!!! > > > > Does Katy act up if she goes to your mom's or if she's left with a > > sitter? No (not sure about the sitter cause she never has one > > other than family. > It might be interesting to see how she does getting a babysitter in. See how > she acts get some feedback from the sitter. Know any teenage girls you could > have over? > > Well it certainly sounds like you're doing your best for Katy. I hope that > things improve soon. Good luck! Julia > > > --- > You are currently subscribed to canada as: > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > To unsubscribe send a blank email to > %%email.unsub%% > > --- > You are currently subscribed to canada as: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > To unsubscribe send a blank email to %%email.unsub%% > --- You are currently subscribed to canada as: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To unsubscribe send a blank email to %%email.unsub%% --- You are currently subscribed to canada as: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To unsubscribe send a blank email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> $9.95 domain names from Yahoo!. Register anything. http://us.click.yahoo.com/J8kdrA/y20IAA/yQLSAA/BCfwlB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> <a href=http://English-12948197573.SpamPoison.com>Fight Spam! Click Here!</a> Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/kumpulan/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
