+ a zillion ....

and by the way - I am ALL FOR entrepreneurship ... if your mom-in-law wants
to go into business for herself I congratulate her for taking the first step
which is having the want.

She really really really needs to be educated however, on the "work" that is
involved.
You are doing her a better service to first sit down and help with a game
plan and a course of action.

Throwing a "website" at an idea is not the answer.

As many of you in IT know, throwing money at a server doesn't make it
behave. You can put all the RAM you want in a machine, but if the processes
that are running are bad, it's not going to make a bit of difference.

You need to know how it works, and the process involved in getting it to
work properly.


On Thu, Jul 31, 2008 at 10:27 AM, Justin Scott <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote:

>
> If you don't want to be involved, you can say "no" and be done with it.
>  One of the things that pains me is how often I see friends get dragged
> into things they don't want to do just because it's family (or even
> extended family) that's asking for the favors.  You do have a voice and
> a choice in the matter.  Saying there's "no getting out of it" is a
> cheap cop-out when you don't want to make a hard decision or to avoid
> some unpleasantry.
>
> Don't take it personally, as I don't know your situation with them, but
> in my experience people with this attitude just need a kick in the arse
> to realize that, YES, you DO have a say in the matter.
>
>


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