yeah yeah yeah... thought of you after I wrote that and left the house :)
Sorry if that offended you :)

Dana

John Stanley writes:

>  ....ahem......
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Dana Tierney
> To: CF-Community
> Sent: 8/6/03 5:14 PM
> Subject: Re: Yet another scumbag parent....
> 
> I think that everyone who has answered you considers themselves a
> Christian. My personal issue is this restrictive defininition of a
> perfectly serviceable word, ie if you to not attend Happy Days Baptist
> church in Shepherd Texas you are just not a Christian. I think this sort
> of
> thinking has its base in one group trying to ompete with another group,
> just like the catholic churche telling women not to use birth control...
> tey figured they would just out populate every one else.
> 
> In my view Catholics are Christians. Although a strict interpretation of
> my
> religion would require me to attempt to convert you to my particular
> denomination, I think that Protestants are Christians. I am using the
> term
> in it original sense of "believes that the Christ is the savior."
> 
> Matthew Small writes:
> 
> > What I really get out of this is that non-Christians want Christians
> to:
> > 1) Not look at them as non-Christians
> > 2) Believe they are going to Heaven right along with Christians
> > 3) Ignore the Scripture as it has been taught throughout the ages in
> favor
> > of a "feel-good, do what makes you happy" interpretation.
> > 
> > Gosh, if the above is true, then what is religion for?
> > 
> > "there are some (not all) sects of Christianity that believe that if
> you're
> > not in the
> >  same sect/franchise/denomination/whatever (never mind whether or not
> >  you're a Christian) you're going to hell. 'course we can't fault them
> >  for their beliefs I suppose...guess they found the section of the
> bible
> >  they wanted to uphold..."
> > 
> > So which parts of the Bible do you subscribe to that lets you go to
> Heaven
> > without believing in God?
> > 
> > Most of the world is religious to one extent or the other. Somebody
> > somewhere has a different religion than mine and therefore I will go
> to
> > their version of Hell when I die.  That's fine with me.  I'm not going
> to
> > make them accept Jesus (although I believe they should).  I'm not
> going to
> > tell them that they need to pick a leader who doesn't support their
> core
> > beliefs when that opportunity arises. I'm just going to practice my
> own
> > faith, as you should practice yours or lack of faith and let them be.
> > 
> > Like I said before, there is a distinct anti-Christian feel to this
> group,
> > it comes up often, but not from other members of religious
> organizations,
> > but from distictly non-religious people.
> > 
> > I don't have any problem with people believing what they want to
> believe.
> > Why do you?  I'll practice my religion, you... do whatever.
> > 
> > Matt Small
> > 
> > 
> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: "William H Bowen" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > Sent: Wednesday, August 06, 2003 3:41 PM
> > Subject: Re: Yet another scumbag parent....
> > 
> > 
> > > > Absolutely, it's the whole idea about Christanity - that if you're
> > > outside
> > >  > of the religion, you're going to Hell. I don't understand what
> the
> > > problem
> > >
> > > Oooo, and this brings up a personal favorite of mine...>
> > > ...nice...
> > >
> > > or how about those Christians that believe Catholics are going to
> hell,
> > > too? Aren't Catholics Christians as well?
> > >
> > > will
> > >
> > > Matthew Small wrote:
> > >
> > > >It's obvious you don't get it at all - wait a minute, maybe you do.
> > > >
> > > >Absolutely, it's the whole idea about Christanity - that if you're
> > outside
> > > >of the religion, you're going to Hell. I don't understand what the
> > problem
> > > >is with this.  Either you subscribe to the religion, or you don't.
> Those
> > > >that do subscribe are forgiven and go to Heaven.  Those that don't
> > subscribe
> > > >to the religion are not forgiven and go to Hell.  There is no two
> ways
> > about
> > > >it, there's no "forgiveness because he's a good person at heart",
> no
> > > >in-betweens, no exceptions.  Obviously, there are people within the
> > religion
> > > >who commit bad sins, heinous crimes, hold grudges, hate others.
> > Everybody
> > > >points the finger at others for their crimes and sins and ask for
> > > >retribution.  Fortunately, Christians know to also look at
> themselves and
> > > >ask for the forgiveness for their sins (including judgement of
> others)
> > that
> > > >Jesus Christ gave to us when He died on the cross, and we do try to
> live
> > the
> > > >right life.
> > > >
> > > >It appears to me that you're saying that the greatest fault with
> the
> > church
> > > >is the judgement of fellow man. It is a failing, but don't forget
> the
> > fact
> > > >that the ultimate judgement comes from God, and either you're with
> Him or
> > > >against Him.
> > > >
> > > >Matthew Small
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >----- Original Message -----
> > > >From: "Jerry Johnson" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > > >To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > > >Sent: Wednesday, August 06, 2003 1:56 PM
> > > >Subject: Re: Yet another scumbag parent....
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >>I have been to many, many churches. They are all about the same.
> Most
> > very
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >nice. But the gossip, backstabbing and petty hate has been an
> integral
> > part
> > > >of all the ones I've spent any time in to date. And it is always
> the
> > church
> > > >elders and "VIP"s that are the worst offenders. Note, however, it
> is
> > seldom
> > > >the priests (at least not in my hearing).
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >>I don't think that the people should be perfect. But if they point
> their
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >finger at me (or others) and say - You are not following the LAW,
> then
> > they
> > > >should be willing to look at themselves at the same time, and see
> how
> > their
> > > >actions fall within their own rules.
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >>Most of these churches I have been to have a very active "other"
> > barrier.
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >They are very tolerant of those inside the barrier, but do not
> allow the
> > > >same kind of human foibles to those outside the barrier. The same
> action
> > > >from one within their group is treated as a forgivable sin, but if
> done
> > by
> > > >someone outside, "they're going to hell". Fortunately the barrier
> and
> > > >reasons for it move from group to group, so most people can find a
> group
> > > >just like them (as you say "personality is more like"). But the
> very
> > > >existence of that kind of thinking is at odds with the basic
> teachings of
> > > >all these churches, IMHO.
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >>You say this issue about the Bishop is not about hate. It is about
> hate.
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >Not everyone. Those who just disagree, even enthusiastically, are
> great.
> > > >Differences of opinion are great. That's why there is more than one
> > church.
> > > >People who think this guy is the worst thing to come along since
> the
> > > >Inquisition have every right to their opinion. Heck, even those
> people
> > who
> > > >are calling in the death threats have the right to their opinion.
> Just
> > not
> > > >to act on it.
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >>The coverage I have seen (TV, Radio, Internet) have shown that
> many of
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >those in the "against" camp are of the witch-burning variety. Many
> of
> > them
> > > >hold high positions in the Anglican Church. That is what I find sad
> and a
> > > >little bit funny. They don't see that their very actions are
> > diametrically
> > > >opposite of what they say they are fighting for. And they guy they
> are
> > > >fighting against seems to be better at what they say they are
> fighting
> > for
> > > >than they are. Funny.
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >>I do think most Christians (since they fall in the "most people"
> > category)
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >are selfish, self absorbed, and quite capable of not only hating,
> but
> > actual
> > > >being proud of hating.
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >>I also never said their (our) religion was invalid. I think its
> great.
> > And
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >I hope that someday they will _follow_ it a little more.
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >>Jerry Johnson
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>>>>[EMAIL PROTECTED] 08/06/03 12:32PM >>>
> > > >>>>>
> > > >>>>>
> > > >>I would say that your church is in the minority, and that you
> don't go
> > to
> > > >>church enough, and that you need to find a church where you feel
> that
> > your
> > > >>personality is more like those of the congregation.
> > > >>
> > > >>I love my church, I have a good time going, and I don't find most
> people
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >to
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >>be hypocrital, just human.  It sounds as though you expect all of
> your
> > > >>church goers to be practically perfect - that just isn't so.  If
> you
> > > >>subscribe to tolerance, don't be bothered by what others do, just
> live
> > the
> > > >>right life yourself.
> > > >>
> > > >>Take a minute and listen to what the bible-thumbers have to say in
> it's
> > > >>entirety, and you'll realize that it's not about hate at all, it's
> about
> > > >>different opinions than yours regarding some issues.  Not to say
> that
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >there
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >>is not hate, but it's mostly not.
> > > >>
> > > >>It sounds like your opinion of your church leads to you think that
> most
> > > >>Christians are people filled with hate and therefore their
> religion is
> > > >>invalid.  How's that for intolerance?  You're blaming an entire
> religion
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >for
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >>the problems that you have your your church.  I'm sure that you
> don't
> > know
> > > >>the people that I go to church with.  They are the nicest group of
> > people
> > > >>that I've ever had the chance to be affliated with.
> > > >>
> > > >>Matthew Small
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>----- Original Message -----
> > > >>From: "Jerry Johnson" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > > >>To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> > > >>Sent: Wednesday, August 06, 2003 12:01 PM
> > > >>Subject: Re: Yet another scumbag parent....
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>>First off, I am a Christian. Methodist to be precise.
> > > >>>
> > > >>>But I don't often go to Church.
> > > >>>
> > > >>>I find that the Church, and most of those who practice the
> Christian
> > > >>>
> > > >>>
> > > >>religions, somewhat hypocritical. (And I do know this is an
> insult.)
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>>They preach love and tolerance, but seldom practice it. And don't
> > really
> > > >>>
> > > >>>
> > > >>try too hard. Nor feel bad about it when they don't. They tend to
> be
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >really
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >>good haters. And if you don't toe the line exactly as they define
> it
> > (and
> > > >>there are hundreds of lines, all drawn in different places) you
> are a
> > bad,
> > > >>bad person, and deserve all you get.
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>>As for this guy, I truly don't care one way or another. If his
> > > >>>
> > > >>>
> > > >>congregation is for him, that's what matters to me.
> Intellectually. It
> > > >>doesn't really matter to me at all in the overall sense. But I do
> get
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >
> > > 
> > 
> 
> 
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