I think the first part is the key. Gotta get the dialog started. Otherwise, you'll just come off as creepy stalker guy.
^_^ will Phillip B wrote: >Man your smooth. That's exactly what I would like to do. Can I skip the >first part and go right to the flowers? Like daisies or something? I am such >the wuss getting started but after that I'm all romance. > >Phillip B. > >www.LoungeRoyale.com >www.FillWorks.com >----- Original Message ----- >From: "Adam Churvis" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >Sent: Tuesday, September 16, 2003 3:19 PM >Subject: Re: Needs some dating advice > > > > >>Straightforward sincerity works on the very highest quality women. >> >>Do what I did: ask if you could talk with her for a moment, tell her that >>you are very attracted to her, and say you wondered if you might take her >> >> >to > > >>dinner to get to know each other better. >> >>If she is currently seeing someone but you sense that he isn't seriously >> >> >in > > >>her heart, smile kindly and say "you really got to me--I just had to ask," >>leave her your card and ask her to call you if her situation changes, and >>then go home. As soon as you walk through the door, immediately send her >> >> >a > > >>hernia-busting bouquet of stargazer lillies with an attached card that >> >> >reads > > >>"Then how about lunch?" and has your first name and phone number on the >>back. >> >>On your first date, ask her all about herself and what her hopes and >> >> >dreams > > >>are in life, ask about her parents, ask about her childhood, ask about her >>goldfish. Ask about what's important to her. Always be a proper >> >> >gentleman, > > >>take her hand in yours and say goodnight, telling her how much you enjoyed >>taking her out and getting to know more about her. Call her the next day >>and ask for the privilege of a second date. >> >>This may seem about a thousand years old, but it worked so well for me >> >> >that > > >>I recently celebrated my tenth anniversary (twelve years together). Life >> >> >is > > >>very short and you don't want to waste any time on someone you wouldn't >> >> >want > > >>to marry. >> >>Best of luck, my friend. :) >> >>Respectfully, >> >>Adam Phillip Churvis >>Member of Team Macromedia >> >>Advanced Intensive ColdFusion MX Training >>ColdFusion MX Master Class: >>September 22 - 26, 2003 >>http://www.ColdFusionTraining.com >> >>Download CommerceBlocks V2.1 and LoRCAT from >>http://www.ProductivityEnhancement.com >> >>The ColdFusion MX Bible is in bookstores now! >>----- Original Message ----- >>From: "Phillip B" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >>To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >>Sent: Tuesday, September 16, 2003 2:39 PM >>Subject: Needs some dating advice >> >> >> >> >>>So there is this girl that works in the same building as me. I've met >>> >>> >her > > >>a >> >> >>>few times and shared some small talk. A woman I work with told her I had >>> >>> >a > > >>>thing for her when they had both been drinking. Ugh! Anyway, I really >>> >>> >want > > >>>to get to know her but I stink when it comes to asking women out. >>> >>>So does anyone have any suggestions as to how I could approach her? Did >>> >>> >I > > >>>mention that Ican be stupid shy? >>> >>>Phillip B. >>> >>>www.LoungeRoyale.com >>>www.FillWorks.com >>> >>> >>> >>> > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm?link=t:5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm?link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 Get the mailserver that powers this list at http://www.coolfusion.com
