Mine too, except I might say "I/We am going to lunch at X, wanna come?" so it doesn't look planned.
----- Original Message ----- From: "Dana Tierney" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Tuesday, September 16, 2003 9:52 PM Subject: Re: Needs some dating advice > this would be my suggestion > > Dana > > Kevin Graeme writes: > > > The only other decent option is just to start out being friends with her > > first. She's a coworker, right? Just ask her if she wants to go to lunch > > some time. Don't make a date of it, just go to lunch with her. Talk about > > stuff. It doesn't have to be anything really meaningful, just be yourself. > > It can be casual work chat or it can be movies or music or hobbies or > > whatever. Heck, make it safe and take the pressure off and invite the mutual > > friend along. Anything to get comfortable being with her. Once you're > > comfortable and she thinks of you as someone other than "that guy in the > > office", then you'll have a better feel for how a date might go. > > > > -Kevin > > > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: "Phillip B" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > Sent: Tuesday, September 16, 2003 3:40 PM > > Subject: Re: Needs some dating advice > > > > > > > Man your smooth. That's exactly what I would like to do. Can I skip the > > > first part and go right to the flowers? Like daisies or something? I am > > such > > > the wuss getting started but after that I'm all romance. > > > > > > Phillip B. > > > > > > www.LoungeRoyale.com > > > www.FillWorks.com > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > > From: "Adam Churvis" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > > To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > > Sent: Tuesday, September 16, 2003 3:19 PM > > > Subject: Re: Needs some dating advice > > > > > > > > > > Straightforward sincerity works on the very highest quality women. > > > > > > > > Do what I did: ask if you could talk with her for a moment, tell her > > that > > > > you are very attracted to her, and say you wondered if you might take > > her > > > to > > > > dinner to get to know each other better. > > > > > > > > If she is currently seeing someone but you sense that he isn't seriously > > > in > > > > her heart, smile kindly and say "you really got to me--I just had to > > ask," > > > > leave her your card and ask her to call you if her situation changes, > > and > > > > then go home. As soon as you walk through the door, immediately send > > her > > > a > > > > hernia-busting bouquet of stargazer lillies with an attached card that > > > reads > > > > "Then how about lunch?" and has your first name and phone number on the > > > > back. > > > > > > > > On your first date, ask her all about herself and what her hopes and > > > dreams > > > > are in life, ask about her parents, ask about her childhood, ask about > > her > > > > goldfish. Ask about what's important to her. Always be a proper > > > gentleman, > > > > take her hand in yours and say goodnight, telling her how much you > > enjoyed > > > > taking her out and getting to know more about her. Call her the next > > day > > > > and ask for the privilege of a second date. > > > > > > > > This may seem about a thousand years old, but it worked so well for me > > > that > > > > I recently celebrated my tenth anniversary (twelve years together). > > Life > > > is > > > > very short and you don't want to waste any time on someone you wouldn't > > > want > > > > to marry. > > > > > > > > Best of luck, my friend. :) > > > > > > > > Respectfully, > > > > > > > > Adam Phillip Churvis > > > > Member of Team Macromedia > > > > > > > > Advanced Intensive ColdFusion MX Training > > > > ColdFusion MX Master Class: > > > > September 22 - 26, 2003 > > > > http://www.ColdFusionTraining.com > > > > > > > > Download CommerceBlocks V2.1 and LoRCAT from > > > > http://www.ProductivityEnhancement.com > > > > > > > > The ColdFusion MX Bible is in bookstores now! > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > > > From: "Phillip B" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > > > To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > > > Sent: Tuesday, September 16, 2003 2:39 PM > > > > Subject: Needs some dating advice > > > > > > > > > > > > > So there is this girl that works in the same building as me. I've met > > > her > > > > a > > > > > few times and shared some small talk. A woman I work with told her I > > had > > > a > > > > > thing for her when they had both been drinking. Ugh! Anyway, I really > > > want > > > > > to get to know her but I stink when it comes to asking women out. > > > > > > > > > > So does anyone have any suggestions as to how I could approach her? > > Did > > > I > > > > > mention that Ican be stupid shy? > > > > > > > > > > Phillip B. > > > > > > > > > > www.LoungeRoyale.com > > > > > www.FillWorks.com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm?link=i:5:89033 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm?link=t:5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm?link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 This list and all House of Fusion resources hosted by CFHosting.com. 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