Will said: "Jeff- going all Magritte on us now! To wit: 'This is not
a pipe' "

Hah! Yeah, I was thinking something along the lines of the zen koan
in which the monk says "not the wind, not the flag, but mind is
moving."

Seriously, you're right that MySpace "friends" can transition (in
either direction). If I have an objection to the whole concept of
online social networks, it's the way the metaphors are used so
casually and loosely.

What are friendship, respect and love without accountability and the
reciprocal obligation to _earn_ our place in the lives of others?
What will these concepts mean to a person who evolves without
sufficient understanding of that reciprocity?

My friendships require considerably more maintenance than an
occasional twitter, and I'm content with that. We've only recently
heard about the girl who committed suicide because she was "dissed"
online by somebody who didn't exist. I think that's one casualty we
should think about when we consider the implications of implementing
new social paradigms via technology.

Sorry, that's probably way off topic here! I do think it's
important to consider the social implications of these technologies,
though.


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