Jeff Axup said (with what I perceived as a touch of irony, and I think
not too seriously): "I really like this quote - 'people are, just,
well, bored of social networks.' As if humanity will ever be bored
of social networks, considering that we have been happily using them
for thousands of years."

Not like this. To compare this technological simulation to a true
social network is to say you've been skydiving because you watched a
video that was taped from the point of view of the guy who actually
did it. It has some value if viewed with sufficient empathy (we
supply that ourselves), but lacks the validation needed for a genuine
experience of society.

What do Facebook, MySpace, et al *not* have that traditional social
networking has? Things like body language, eye contact, genuine
social context, validation that you are in fact talking to another
16-year-old like yourself ... In short, they lack the element of
trust -- in part because participants have whatever degree of
anonymity they choose to have.

Whatever other metrics are applied to assess the decline of online
social networks, I think this lack of trust will be the bottom line.
We'll have heard one too many stories about people who pretended to
be something they aren't, and others getting hurt in some way
because of it.

I do think that online social networks can be a valuable way to
reinforce existing social interactions, but it seems unlikely to me
that they could ever stand alone. Nor should they. I can't imagine
calling any group a society when all their interactions are
superficial and transient. Anything that evaporates in a power outage
is not a society.

Thank you, Murli and everyone, for some very thought-provoking ideas.
I'm enjoying your comments very much, in spite of my uncertainty
about your existence in real time and space.


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