Hello Oshiro Gail Hani Charles Ed Josney Hema Rose Redwolf and all the rest,:)
"I 'might' be a good mother."LOL Time will tell,won't it? I'll just have to wait for my sons to get married,build their own families,and have their own little ones... Then perhaps one day out of the blue,they will come and confide to me, "I love you,Mom!You're the best!"LOL Then,I can be sure that I'm a good mother.What do you reckon?LOL Your side of interpretation is very nice!I'm convinced by your point again!:) The more I read your messages,the wiser you are to me!:) I know I'm not the only one who feels this way...Right,ladies and gentlemen here? Oh,I nearly forget to say something before I post,I think you will be a good father,too,Oshiro! Do you want to know why? Anyone who constantly asks himself/herself if he/she makes a good parent can't be a bad one at all!LOL Beautiful Sunday,everyone wherever you are! Pln On Aug 14, 4:43 pm, Rafael Oshiro <[email protected]> wrote: > Hi everybody > > You are right, Pln, it's up to us turn bad things into good one. My > understanding of 'everythings happens for a reason' can be understood in > many ways. Certain things happen to us in order to get us sleeping on that > and take that as a lesson. > I believe that history won't reapeat itself too and I think you might be a > good mother :) > > It's hard to evaluate what a good mother/father is, isn't it? There are many > mothers and fathers in here and you all may have the same opinion as mine, > even though I'm not a father yet. :) > > Have a very nice friday you all!!! > Oshiro > > > > On Thu, Aug 13, 2009 at 8:05 AM, pln471 <[email protected]> wrote: > > > Hi Briana Charles Oshiro Anu and all, > > > What a cold-to-the-bone statement you gave, > > 'The closer we live,the more distant we become!' > > > Tell me what's the difference between 'attachment' and 'commitment' > > according to buddhism,Briana?;) > > > The statement,'Everything happens for a reason.' also creates some > > controversies,Oshiro.;) > > Some things in life don't happen for a reason,but it's up to us to > > turn the twists and turns for the better for our own good and for > > those who are dear to us... > > > I do believe in the theory of cause and effect instead. > > Whatever we say or do leads to a consequence,be it positive or > > negative. > > > Am I a good mother?LOL > > I have no idea what a good mother is... > > I only know that history can't repeat itself and that's why we are > > called human,isn't it?;) > > > Anu and Charles,one can't be wary of giving love to other humans > > because one is bound to be hurt or won't be loved back... > > All you need to do is to be out there to try and try again.No one can > > teach you the secret of love or life if you don't exercise it > > yourself! > > > Theories are just theories.Nothing teaches you better than doing it > > yourself.;) > > > Pleasant day to you and the rest! > > Pln > > > On Aug 13, 5:02 am, briana moore <[email protected]> wrote: > > > Hi Charles and all, > > > > Its a fact that no one gives birth to a child for the child's pleasure, > > but > > > the for one's own sake. My parents didn't do me a favour by giving me > > birth. > > > People have wives and children for their own benefit, happiness and > > > entertainment. > > > > So, parents must not expect too much from their children. Like parents, > > > children are independent humans too, who have their own lives and > > > aspirations. > > > > About daughters taking care of parents : Women are more caring, tender > > and > > > considerate. Also, daughters mostly live with their husbands, away from > > > their parents. This makes the bond between their parents and them > > stronger. > > > The closer you live, the distant you become. ;) > > > > "It is not a bad thing that children should occasionally, and politely, > > put > > > parents in their place." > > > -Colette > > > > "Where did we ever get the crazy idea that in order to make children do > > > better, first we have to make them feel worse? Think of the last time you > > > felt humiliated or treated unfairly. Did you feel like cooperating or > > doing > > > better?" > > > -Jane Nelson > > > > "Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of > > > Life's longing for itself. They came through you but not from you and > > though > > > they are with you yet they belong not to you." > > > -Gibran > > > > Good day! > > > > briana- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text - --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "English Learner's Cafe" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected] To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [email protected] For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/english_learners?hl=en -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
