Hello Oshiro, Well,as they say,"Great minds think alike!"LOL
We are all connected one way or another,as I can see from people around me or I have gotten to know on the Internet every day, no matter where we live or what we do as a living! Like the lyrics in a song 'the Boxer' by Simon and Garfunkel(?), 'After changes upon changes,we are more or less the same.';) I have been exchanging words with Mikhail(Misha) lately,and I told him that you are wiser,deeper and far more interesting than what I expected when I first joined eslpodcast last year!!!LOL You're full of surprises yourself,too! Your girlfriend is surely a lucky girl!LOL BTW,how's your preparation for the trip to Paris and Brussels getting on?;) If there's anything I can do to help,don't be a stranger,will you? Best, Pln On Aug 17, 6:59 am, Rafael Oshiro <[email protected]> wrote: > Hi Pln and all!! > > Yeah, Pln, when I was writing to you, I was thinking about that, waiting > children to get adult, get married and build their own families seem to be a > good way to see if they were brought up properly. Now I see that you think > the same way. :) > Thanks, Pln, you're very kind!! I really hope I can be a good father. When I > saw what my parents have done for me and my brother, I'm convinced they have > performed really well their 'roles'. I will take them as an example. > > I liked you last phrase!!! > > Have a nice Monday you all!!! > Oshiro > > > > On Sat, Aug 15, 2009 at 11:01 AM, pln471 <[email protected]> wrote: > > > Hello Oshiro Gail Hani Charles Ed Josney Hema Rose Redwolf and all the > > rest,:) > > > "I 'might' be a good mother."LOL > > Time will tell,won't it? > > I'll just have to wait for my sons to get married,build their own > > families,and have their own little ones... > > Then perhaps one day out of the blue,they will come and confide to me, > > "I love you,Mom!You're the best!"LOL > > Then,I can be sure that I'm a good mother.What do you reckon?LOL > > > Your side of interpretation is very nice!I'm convinced by your point > > again!:) > > The more I read your messages,the wiser you are to me!:) > > I know I'm not the only one who feels this way...Right,ladies and > > gentlemen here? > > > Oh,I nearly forget to say something before I post,I think you will be > > a good father,too,Oshiro! > > Do you want to know why? > > Anyone who constantly asks himself/herself if he/she makes a good > > parent can't be a bad one at all!LOL > > > Beautiful Sunday,everyone wherever you are! > > Pln > > > On Aug 14, 4:43 pm, Rafael Oshiro <[email protected]> wrote: > > > Hi everybody > > > > You are right, Pln, it's up to us turn bad things into good one. My > > > understanding of 'everythings happens for a reason' can be understood in > > > many ways. Certain things happen to us in order to get us sleeping on > > that > > > and take that as a lesson. > > > I believe that history won't reapeat itself too and I think you might be > > a > > > good mother :) > > > > It's hard to evaluate what a good mother/father is, isn't it? There are > > many > > > mothers and fathers in here and you all may have the same opinion as > > mine, > > > even though I'm not a father yet. :) > > > > Have a very nice friday you all!!! > > > Oshiro > > > > On Thu, Aug 13, 2009 at 8:05 AM, pln471 <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > > Hi Briana Charles Oshiro Anu and all, > > > > > What a cold-to-the-bone statement you gave, > > > > 'The closer we live,the more distant we become!' > > > > > Tell me what's the difference between 'attachment' and 'commitment' > > > > according to buddhism,Briana?;) > > > > > The statement,'Everything happens for a reason.' also creates some > > > > controversies,Oshiro.;) > > > > Some things in life don't happen for a reason,but it's up to us to > > > > turn the twists and turns for the better for our own good and for > > > > those who are dear to us... > > > > > I do believe in the theory of cause and effect instead. > > > > Whatever we say or do leads to a consequence,be it positive or > > > > negative. > > > > > Am I a good mother?LOL > > > > I have no idea what a good mother is... > > > > I only know that history can't repeat itself and that's why we are > > > > called human,isn't it?;) > > > > > Anu and Charles,one can't be wary of giving love to other humans > > > > because one is bound to be hurt or won't be loved back... > > > > All you need to do is to be out there to try and try again.No one can > > > > teach you the secret of love or life if you don't exercise it > > > > yourself! > > > > > Theories are just theories.Nothing teaches you better than doing it > > > > yourself.;) > > > > > Pleasant day to you and the rest! > > > > Pln > > > > > On Aug 13, 5:02 am, briana moore <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > > Hi Charles and all, > > > > > > Its a fact that no one gives birth to a child for the child's > > pleasure, > > > > but > > > > > the for one's own sake. My parents didn't do me a favour by giving me > > > > birth. > > > > > People have wives and children for their own benefit, happiness and > > > > > entertainment. > > > > > > So, parents must not expect too much from their children. Like > > parents, > > > > > children are independent humans too, who have their own lives and > > > > > aspirations. > > > > > > About daughters taking care of parents : Women are more caring, > > tender > > > > and > > > > > considerate. Also, daughters mostly live with their husbands, away > > from > > > > > their parents. This makes the bond between their parents and them > > > > stronger. > > > > > The closer you live, the distant you become. ;) > > > > > > "It is not a bad thing that children should occasionally, and > > politely, > > > > put > > > > > parents in their place." > > > > > -Colette > > > > > > "Where did we ever get the crazy idea that in order to make children > > do > > > > > better, first we have to make them feel worse? Think of the last time > > you > > > > > felt humiliated or treated unfairly. Did you feel like cooperating or > > > > doing > > > > > better?" > > > > > -Jane Nelson > > > > > > "Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters > > of > > > > > Life's longing for itself. They came through you but not from you and > > > > though > > > > > they are with you yet they belong not to you." > > > > > -Gibran > > > > > > Good day! > > > > > > briana- Hide quoted text - > > > > - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text - --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "English Learner's Cafe" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected] To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [email protected] For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/english_learners?hl=en -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
