Judy writes: Snip Not sure who "we" is here. And I'm not asking *you* to change, just for you to change your behavior. I can do that; is it something you've lost the ability to do?
Tom T writes: Judy you have an expectation that is out of touch with reality. The rest of us out here need to read your mind and be aware of what will push your buttons and then avoid doing that. We are not very good at reading minds and we are who we are. All expectations are nothing more than premeditated anger. You have an expectation that can not be matched and when that doesn't happen Judy gets angry, hurt or whatever feeling you feel is appropriate at that time. This is a no win, you can't change the world to match up with your expectations, give it up, get real and get healthy. Tom T To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
