Oh damn, typos got the best of me, Nabby. Take = taken. um...whole is a whole = hole is a hole. See, I got all hot and steamy writing about sex and this is not porn. Thanks.
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba <no_reply@...> wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008 <no_reply@> wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba <no_reply@> wrote: > > > > > > Nabby, > > > Talk to the hand. > > > A woman is not just a woman as in a hole to poke, to _uck, to penetrate, > > > which is not a place a man lives in but is born out of, a man who is > > > frustrated looking at pictures or films is about the same as how > > > frustrated people are to look at that nice new car, the new computer, > > > that prized political position giving power, that ipad you have been > > > waiting for...they are all the same- > > > Desire for what is not yours. > > > > Like I said; for natural reasons you have'nt the faithest idea how severe > > male sexual frustration can be. Ask some male friends of yours, most males > > will know that comparing the lust for a woman with the lust for a new > > computer or car is silly. > > > The line I left out in that statement is how those material things, "new > computer, or car," all lead back to woman, and the desire for what is not > yours, but trying to impress a woman. Of course there is frustration for > those who want to take from a woman and taking from women is not because of > porn, it is a reflection of cultural beliefs of what a woman is to a man. > Commercial advertising dictates (ha! dic-tates) this perception and that is > where the fancy cars and new computers brought to you by a curvy asset lead > one astray. "ohhh, I want that, and that, and that she is the ultimate want, > want, want." > If one must find fault in "porn, movies, books, pictures," the definition to > what puts that "fire," out is woman. Yes, Nabby, men desire women and women > desire men most of the time. The types of real "porn," are that of commercial > advertising the the degradation of what a woman is in society. She becomes an > object. Object can be porn. > > Another dysfunction in perceptional porn, like say in India, and other > places, if a woman is widowed, divorced, or known to have more than one mate, > ("hey, she did him, why should she turn me down," attitude.) she is > considered fair game to lust and take advantage of. That is the true meaning > of porn, those with no artistic merit, at least where that thought stems from. > > > How many men are taking Viagra over the counter in India? > How many men are taking Viagra anywhere? > Artificial stimulant to feel manly or good and that perpetual hard on. > That drug does not guarantee a female orifice. > The male sex drive alone, has nothing to do with raping a woman. It is a > power game of perception that he owns her. > > Young men and many older men, usually have that perpetual hard on, from my > experiences as a lover, wife, mother. To become those labels, one would think > I have viewed or at least experienced some of the male's conditions at > certain times of the day or night? > > You think I have been a virgin in a box as if there is no desire to feel I > need? > > Do you think woman do not have the same force to pro create? > > Look who was given the curvy bodies, Nabby. > > Why do you think gay men or some straight men dress in drag? > Because they desire what woman can do to GET sex? > Just a slight bend at the hip, a tilt forward on a desk with a low cut > blouse makes dudes blood rush to other seemingly important areas of the body > and that is quite natural? > > How does one explain gay rape, Nabby? > Is it programed in a person to penetrate a rectum only? > I am not dissing gay men, just saying that a whole is a whole. The sex drive > to expel that life force is not hurried up by porn to rape women. > > I know men who never have to pursue, the woman fling themselves at those > men. Those woman choose. That hunk still has to wait, temporarily, but he > still does not take it from her.. She gives, and that is NOT rape. These male > friends who get the women have actually admitted to me they take it for > granted and lose the practical aspect of finding a good life partner, because > it comes easy. (oh look, another possible pun in the last line.) > Man wants woman so bad, he impresses her with his material things and uses > those things to try to win her, and that frustration of sexual desire is > still based on his material success of what he can and cannot have and some > women are attracted to bigger toys and some are more simplistic and desire to > love a genuine partner. > Nabby, sweet man, I have not ever had to be frustrated, except for my desire > to choose the right man and express that energy at my choosing, and that > requires waiting and slapping off the leg humpers, if you know what I mean. ;) > > > >