--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@...> wrote: > > But Judy, in just the last 2 days you've called me mentally > disabled and also used the word psychopathology in reference > to me and turq! Are you suggesting it's ok because you did > not use a label like OCD or NPD?!
Yes!?! It's the labels for specific diagnoses that are the problem. > ________________________________ > From: authfriend <authfriend@...> > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 11:14 AM > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Meditators > > > > Â > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, iranitea <no_reply@> wrote: > (snip) > > It is interesting, that I incidentally found parts of this > > old correspondence in one of my mailboxes, because after the > > split with Judy, I had deleted all posts of her, she had > > sent to me privately. But incidentally - I found still my > > answers, quoting her in my Sent-folder. > > > > I won't disclose what she said, even though that might be quite > > surprising to some people. But I will quote what I said, and > > SHE WILL KNOW that it's true! > > Just freaking hilarious. There's nothing in what I wrote to > you that I'd mind anybody seeing, first of all; second, just > in case I'd kept the correspondence (I did), I hardly think > you'd be so stupid as to *misquote* what you had said. > > I have to wonder why Barry isn't calling you out as a > Drama Queen. "...and SHE WILL KNOW that it's true!" > > (guffaw) > > > This is proof, that I don't have any 'ax to grind' with Robin. > > That when I first encountered him, thinking, he is somehow > > 'crazy', I didn't know who he was nor had any sense of his > > history. I also told her, what exactly mean by a 'borderline > > personality'. This wasn't a problem, as long as this was just > > an email exchange with Judy. > > Right, as long as it was private. > > (snip) > > Please not, how I had defined, what I had meant with borderline > > personality, PRIOR to all online talk we had about this on FFL. > > How I described it as a very mild form, as I said 'pointing in > > the direction of psychosis'. And how I point out that they are > > actually amongst the most creative persons. And that wasn't > > meant sarcastically in any way, as it should be obvious. > > > > Up until this point, our email exchange was really friendly and > > polite. > > > > The problem, she had with me, was, 1) when I sided with you > > 2) went public with my opinion. > > The problem was 2, not 1. I've made my position clear on this > sort of thing. I made it crystal clear to you in private, and > I've spoken out about it publicly as well (as has Emily). The > trend on this forum toward speculatively slapping psychiatric > labels on people--especially in their presence--on this forum, > by nonprofessionals yet, is unconscionable and disgraceful. > It's also *ipso facto* hostile and insulting, whether it's NPD > or BPD or, as zarzari also speculated about Robin (and does > again below), "some schizophrenic disorder." > > I can't possibly feel friendly toward anyone who does that, > *to anybody*. > > > And then I experienced a very different Judy, than previously > > experienced. Soon I was called a LIAR, being obsessive myself, > > and being prejudiced against Robin. > > > > I might have been prejudiced against Robin after reading CULT, > > which was sort of hard to get through. But that was much later. > > You were obviously, documentably, prejudiced against Robin > long before that, zazari, based on what you've said in your > posts and in email to me. >
