--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <authfriend@...> wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@> wrote: > > > > But Judy, in just the last 2 days you've called me mentally > > disabled and also used the word psychopathology in reference > > to me and turq! Are you suggesting it's ok because you did > > not use a label like OCD or NPD?! > > Yes!?! It's the labels for specific diagnoses that are > the problem.
I never used clinical labels. You may identify them as such. I wasn't even aware that borderline IS a clinical label. I had explained and defined the way I saw it, in the private letter I just reposted. If you are talking of labels of the American Medical Society, I am not American. ________________________________ > > From: authfriend <authfriend@> > > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > > Sent: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 11:14 AM > > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Meditators > > > > > > > > Â > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, iranitea <no_reply@> wrote: > > (snip) > > > It is interesting, that I incidentally found parts of this > > > old correspondence in one of my mailboxes, because after the > > > split with Judy, I had deleted all posts of her, she had > > > sent to me privately. But incidentally - I found still my > > > answers, quoting her in my Sent-folder. > > > > > > I won't disclose what she said, even though that might be quite > > > surprising to some people. But I will quote what I said, and > > > SHE WILL KNOW that it's true! > > > > Just freaking hilarious. There's nothing in what I wrote to > > you that I'd mind anybody seeing, first of all; second, just > > in case I'd kept the correspondence (I did), I hardly think > > you'd be so stupid as to *misquote* what you had said. > > > > I have to wonder why Barry isn't calling you out as a > > Drama Queen. "...and SHE WILL KNOW that it's true!" > > > > (guffaw) > > > > > This is proof, that I don't have any 'ax to grind' with Robin. > > > That when I first encountered him, thinking, he is somehow > > > 'crazy', I didn't know who he was nor had any sense of his > > > history. I also told her, what exactly mean by a 'borderline > > > personality'. This wasn't a problem, as long as this was just > > > an email exchange with Judy. > > > > Right, as long as it was private. > > > > (snip) > > > Please not, how I had defined, what I had meant with borderline > > > personality, PRIOR to all online talk we had about this on FFL. > > > How I described it as a very mild form, as I said 'pointing in > > > the direction of psychosis'. And how I point out that they are > > > actually amongst the most creative persons. And that wasn't > > > meant sarcastically in any way, as it should be obvious. > > > > > > Up until this point, our email exchange was really friendly and > > > polite. > > > > > > The problem, she had with me, was, 1) when I sided with you > > > 2) went public with my opinion. > > > > The problem was 2, not 1. I've made my position clear on this > > sort of thing. I made it crystal clear to you in private, and > > I've spoken out about it publicly as well (as has Emily). The > > trend on this forum toward speculatively slapping psychiatric > > labels on people--especially in their presence--on this forum, > > by nonprofessionals yet, is unconscionable and disgraceful. > > It's also *ipso facto* hostile and insulting, whether it's NPD > > or BPD or, as zarzari also speculated about Robin (and does > > again below), "some schizophrenic disorder." > > > > I can't possibly feel friendly toward anyone who does that, > > *to anybody*. > > > > > And then I experienced a very different Judy, than previously > > > experienced. Soon I was called a LIAR, being obsessive myself, > > > and being prejudiced against Robin. > > > > > > I might have been prejudiced against Robin after reading CULT, > > > which was sort of hard to get through. But that was much later. > > > > You were obviously, documentably, prejudiced against Robin > > long before that, zazari, based on what you've said in your > > posts and in email to me. > > >
