--- jim_flanegin <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > > Agreed. I will say again that I thought it was a > brave thing for Tom > to openly post details of his childhood trauma. Such > an action can > sometimes be helpful for empowerment and to > destigmatize > victimizing event. > > However, instead of then taking a breath of fresh > air and getting on > with life, he squanders his equity by trashing > others. Aside from > finding it annoying and disruptive, it doesn't help > Tom in the > slightest. It is too bad. He's just caught-up in a repetition compulsion, evoking ire from people with his constant needling and then when they unload on him, like I did this morning, he claims he is totally innocent and is being unfairly victimized. Even his post regarding his abuse was completely inappropriate and used to, I guess, evoke sympathy for him. Notice how he paints people in a broad brush as villians who exploit him, the weak innocent victim. He does this over and over again and refuses any responsibility for these dysfunctional exchanges. > > > > > > ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor > --------------------~--> > Dying to be thin? Anorexia. Narrated by Julianne > Moore. > http://us.click.yahoo.com/AQDrNC/sbOLAA/d1hLAA/0NYolB/TM > --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> > > > To subscribe, send a message to: > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > Or go to: > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ > and click 'Join This Group!' > Yahoo! Groups Links > > > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Drugs Don't Discriminate. Get help for yourself or someone you know. http://us.click.yahoo.com/0I.OUB/ZbOLAA/d1hLAA/0NYolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
