you have no way of knowing if it was the stress or him, but then only God knows 
that.  you can't in hindsight blame yourself for something you could not 
forsee.  i imagine that he was just warning you of the possibility.  it would 
be wrong of him not to.  that is why even tho it may cost more, i will just eat 
less and make more trips to town to make up for it, i use my regular vet.  i 
know his feelings about fiv and felv, we are on the same wavelength, and i 
trust him.  i have 2 felv kitties and he has spayed both.  they both came thru 
with no problems.  he is also a uscker like i am and takes care of street cats 
and finds home for them.  i have 2 of them.  so don't be hard on yourself.  you 
tried your best and your baby knows you loved her.  that is what is important.
---- LauraM <hingebacktorto...@yahoo.com> wrote: 
> It wasn't my regular vet  - it was the spay/neuter vet who comes to the 
> shelter where I work. He's altered many of my cats and they've all come 
> through fine. But this vet also thinks all cats with FeLV should be 
> euthanized. He's entitled to his opinion. But it was odd this morning when I 
> dropped her off - he said "You know, this can stress out a cat with leukemia 
> & bring on symptoms. I'm just letting you know so you don't blame me if 
> something happens." Well, yeah, we all know you need to keep these cats away 
> from stress. How many cats have I had spayed or neutered with FeLV & they've 
> been OK? Does this sound suspicious or what?
> 
> --- On Wed, 3/17/10, Elizabeth Malone <malon...@yahoo.com> wrote:
> 
> 
> From: Elizabeth Malone <malon...@yahoo.com>
> Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] Bridget is dead
> To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
> Date: Wednesday, March 17, 2010, 4:52 PM
> 
> 
> I am so sorry for you loss. You did not kill your cat. You were being
> responsible to have her spayed. Your vet knew her history--please do not
> beat yourself up. I wish there were more words to help. Please know you are
> not to blame yourself.
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org
> [mailto:felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org] On Behalf Of LauraM
> Sent: Wednesday, March 17, 2010 2:46 PM
> To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
> Subject: [Felvtalk] Bridget is dead
> 
> Bridget is dead. I had her spayed today and apparently she died very quickly
> under anesthesia. She was my baby. I would have done anything for her and
> now she's dead. It has been a miserable few weeks with Frosty Paws and then
> Baby Girl but this has broken my heart. She was doing so well. Could it have
> been the LTCI? I have to know whether I'm responsible for killing her.
> Please, if anyone knows whether the LTCI could have had something to do with
> it, maybe made her more sensitive to being put under, please let me know, I
> have to know whether I killed my cat.
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