Is it not possible the doctor looking at her computer is just like Glen 
listening to music without moving?    Focusing on the facts of the matter and 
not on distracting emotional signals? 

On 7/13/18, 9:03 AM, "Friam on behalf of ∄ uǝʃƃ" <friam-boun...@redfish.com on 
behalf of geprope...@gmail.com> wrote:

    For what it's worth, my Dr. thanked me after our 1st interaction.  He 
walked in with his laptop, sat down and started poking at it.  I then used my 
familiarity with electronic medical records (I was a product mgr at such a 
company at one point) to finagle his attention and demonstrate our mutual 
affinity for how computation can help him provide good healthcare.  I even 
explained how I'd looked him up online beforehand and knew all the schools he 
went to and that he had no active malpractice suits against him.  (Which was no 
small feat since he's an immigrant from India.)
    
    That interaction successfully grabbed his attention.  Perhaps, since you're 
also computer literate, you could use the same trick next time a Dr's attention 
is too focused on the computer?
    
    On 07/13/2018 07:48 AM, Marcus Daniels wrote:
    > It is a bigger problem that people are more concerned about `getting 
along’ than they are about maintaining a functional government.
    > As for doctors, I don’t want them to my friend.   I want them to take 
their limited time and focus their extensive training, to rationalize the 
symptoms I present.
    > 
    > From: Friam <friam-boun...@redfish.com> on behalf of Gillian Densmore 
<gil.densm...@gmail.com>
    > Reply-To: The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group 
<friam@redfish.com>
    > Date: Friday, July 13, 2018 at 8:39 AM
    > To: The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group <friam@redfish.com>
    > Subject: [FRIAM] Weird observation
    > 
    > While at doctor's office trying ask a nurse to politely express to a 
doctor that it comes off as rude when that doc is obssed with a computer gets a 
reaction like you've invented warp drive.
    > 
    > Is it really that unusual for people to try to actively be cordial these 
days? If so captian we got a problem!
    
    
    -- 
    ∄ uǝʃƃ
    
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