I disagree completely.  If we consider you and your Dr colleagues who share the 
same objective, then when a colleague of mine interrupts me, I tend to have 
enough respect for them to assume they're interrupting me because they think I 
should be interrupted.  Similarly, if they seize control of the conversation, I 
assume it's because they've judged they should seize control.  And I'm saying 
this as a person who *hates* being interrupted.

Now, if a colleague abuses that privilege often enough, they get demoted and 
will no longer be a colleague.

Such interruptions from colleagues are not only helpful, but *necessary* for 
efficient and effective teamwork.

But to be honest, this is not a collegial relationship.  Your Dr is the vendor 
and you are the customer.  I still try to treat my vendors as if they're 
colleagues.  But under full reduction, they're not.

On 07/13/2018 08:34 AM, Marcus Daniels wrote:
> Glen writes:
> 
> "That interaction successfully grabbed his attention."
> 
> My observation is that it is not necessarily helpful to others' concentration 
> to interrupt them and to try to control the conversation.    I don't see 
> doctors as any different from any other specialist, in spite of the fact they 
> try to raise themselves above others through authoritarian signals like 
> wearing lab coats and having nurses on a humiliatingly-short leash.   As a 
> result, people have too high of expectations of them, and thus malpractice 
> insurance contributes to the high cost of medical care.   


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